₦airaland Forum

Innoment:
In 2015, I supported GEJ, He lost.
In 2019, I supported ATIKU, He lost.
In 2023, I am Supporting TINUBU.

Because ur cursed spiritually that's why you are supporting Tinubu

fluffybaby:
So she can do as she wills then or you also expect her to treat you like the head of the family?

Being the head of the family is not tied to money. Being the head of the family means providing direction and overall leadership....What do you think?

bigcasava1:
Women mind dey back

Na who no know them. They are ruthless!

mmsen:
I'm in the environment. I hear the people cry about how they struggle and suffer. Meanwhile they make wildly irrational decisions and then cry about it.

I am aware that Europeans pushed their great unwashed onto other parts of the world but how does that excuse what Africans are doing now with better information and technology?

Also, China is going through a demographic collapse because they are not having many children.

You seem intent on defending African foollishness at all costs. Good luck

I dont think its foolishness - lets argue the facts on its merits.... heres the mindset...most parents have children in nigeria. If its a girl and they hv money, they will marry her off at a young age after secondary school so long as the husband will take her thru university- i dont see anything wrong with this....if its a guy, he is trained to cater for himself. Buhari became something with seconfdary school certificate.

Children that go into banditary is due to poor parenting not because those children were born; lets make that distinction. There are children born into poor homes that are decent. Hope this clarifies...

Dearlord:
That was the best practice that should never be abolished

I agree - it made marriage more organized...marriage today na hit and miss...

mmsen:
Making life hell for yourself isn't stupidity? Having children that you cannot feed has nothing to do with 'Eurocentric', that is universally foolish.

Is insecurity intelligent? Because that's all the modern African way leads to.

How can you argue that African over breeding is good when the last time this happened Africans resorted to selling their neighbors as chattel? The modern version of this is that they are going abroad to be used as cheap, abused labor with the consent (or at the behest) of their evil parents who just want somebody to send them FOREX. How is this intelligent? How can you talk about 'Eurocentric' when the entire African game plan seems to be to prop up the Eurocentric economic system with cheap labor?

Are you in the lives of each of these people to know they have children they cannot feed? Most have children they can feed... but circumstances of life eg job loss affect them. this happens everywhere oh ye white man worshipper. the same way nigerians and africans hv children is the same way chinese and indians have many children.....when africans hv children, its called "overbreeding" by you, but when british chinese and indians do its civilized. Let me tell you something you dont know. African counytries and Australia were invaded in the past in part due to overpopulation in Europe. Canada, Australia and New Zealand and US are all European countries founded to cater to an European population that could not contain in Europe....but when the Europeans do it you excuse it. Dont use africa as a scape goat please.

sprints1:
so why is that u people are always bleaching upandan with carowhite. Them envy black story for the gods.

The number that bleach is a very very very small minority....they envy us that's why they tried to erase our real history and to replace it with a false history and that's why they specialize in carrying camera and filming poor kids 24/7 like jobless ppl...African media houses would hv carried their camera go Europe to do the same but they ain't jobless and hv better things to do with their time.....

mmsen:
Nobody is saying that Africans have not done great things or are incapable of doing so.

The question is - why are Africans fixated on stupidity in the modern era? Why are so many Africans dedicated to making life unbearable for themselves and those around them?

Who told you the African way is stupidity? If you think it is then follow the European way no one is holding you. And who told you life is unbearable for them? These are all assumptions.....Africans hv been having lots of children and it has been working for us. Leave ppl with their culture and don't try to impose Eurocentric views on us....

MuslimMuslim:
Not 16 years older

Donald Trump used over 20 years to senior his wife...

But 20yo girl isn't ready for marriage the OP will regret his decision.....

The girl will later think maybe if she had waited if she could hv found someone better....

20 yos are girlfriends buy if you find one that is truly ready for marriage then you are extremely lucky....

uche393:
our leaders have a greater share in the cause of our problems in Africa. those pictures shows the bad and suffering Side of Africa, they should also show the beautiful side of Africa to the world

Una can like to blame leaders eh....u have been blaming leaders since 1960....what a lazy mindset....

uche393:
our leaders have a greater share in the cause of our problems in Africa. those pictures shows the bad and suffering Side of Africa, they should also show the beautiful side of Africa to the world

Not really and ur write up shows they have affected ur mind....if African media houses went to western Europe and constantly film bad areas 24/7, the world will see Europe in a negative light....this is called psychological warfare....

sonature1:
This is totally FALSE.

Walk around you and you will see how USAID, DFID and other foreign agencies are helping kids in this country. I have personally seen lots of projects they funded, including in my village

We should be worried about the kind of people we are than what someone else does with mere pictures. This country has no values and it's very disturbing. Go through the threads to see the kind of people you have in this country.

https://www.nairaland.com/5305630/man-raises-alarm-after-buying

https://www.nairaland.com/3864770/free-fruits-donated-saudi-arabia

https://www.nairaland.com/4148159/unicef-bags-meant-idps-sold

https://www.nairaland.com/3070258/food-meant-refugees-idp-camps

You mention DFID. Around 1876 Britain stole all land in Canada thru Indian Act a legislature. In 1914 they used Native Lands Act to steal all land in South Africa I.e. those who don't comply with the order to leave their homes and go to "reserves" are brutalized by police....they did same in Australia and Zimbabwe.... they should go and give the natives of all these places their land back then we will believe Dfid is in Nigeria to help. They are not here to help you but to help themselves and maintain colonial control over you aka "soft power". It is for this same reason that BBC has BBC News Igbo, Yoruba, Hausa and Pidgin....its all for CONTROL over the narrative in Nigeria..

The british are thieves and should be kicked out of Nigeria....sophisticated subtle criminals..

xcodedc:
Reality isn't always palatable, statistics have it that above 50% of African population are within the poverty line,
The average African child isn't always the direct recipient of the stereotype and degradation; but the elites who are in direct contact with the international community.
The African child understands his position in scheme of life and its why he is willing to take the most inhumane treatment just to survive.

Those are western funded statistics....

xcodedc:
Reality isn't always palatable, statistics have it that above 50% of African population are within the poverty line,
The average African child isn't always the direct recipient of the stereotype and degradation; but the elites who are in direct contact with the international community.
The African child understands his position in scheme of life and its why he is willing to take the most inhumane treatment just to survive.

Those statistics you quote are western funded....western statistics eg those from United Nations....western statistics never say anything good about Africa.

Hezzyluv:
Black is beautiful. Even the oyibo's, I'm sure deep down, they envy us. That's why they don't want Africa to grow.

Deep down they do! Those guys are the poverty capital of the world....they also envy us because we have bigger land mass and better weather....

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

20 yo girls are girlfriends not wives...the reason is the plenty attention they receive and the expectation that someone better than you is on the horizon....wen last did you see a 20yo girl get married?? Be warned....but you might be lucky sha and it might just work out....

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fluffybaby:
I thought you men said submission is the biggest thing man ever wants from his wife? She has that to offer.

For me I want someone that makes money and uses her own money to take care of herself....I don't care about submission....I can submit to myself....

Highways:
Iswap....

APC have really messed with our security

Sai Baba till 2027
BAT till 2027

Many still want them in power so you guys get what you deserve....

Hier:
What were you expecting her to say before, that she will be the breadwinner or sth , some guys sha

I did not expect her to say that she will be breadwinner; but I did expect her to say that she will make her own money and use her own money to take care of herself in the marriage....

casualobserver:
You don’t sound like someone who gives a man peace of mind. Even if your assessment of yourself is sincere, there is a difference between how you see yourself and how men really see you.

Men do not let go of good women, if men keep letting go of you, it means the problem is you!! Either you keep attracting the wrong men or men do not like what they see. The fact that Canada is a criteria in your requirements already shows you are a woman good men will avoid!!!

She even put "and must not be on student visa" - which translated means - I do not want a struggling man. And I can bet the babe don pass per prime. She no find man in Nigeria to support....

pansophist:
You too man.

I see it always. Women behaviour is like they are playing game of cards. They have different cards for different scenarios. If it's time to cry, she will cry. Of it's time to lie, she will lie. Time to be a victim, she will act like one.

Time to discard you after you've outlived your usefulness is the last card. And in the West, I feel sorry for that man. At that moment, you get an epiphany and a crash course of the woman you married. Most men never recover from that.

Should I continue? I don study those creature well

I really learned a lot from this post.....thanks a lot boss....

Jeweltz:
Those of you asking what am I bringing. I give him peace of mind and be his support

"Be his support" - oldest trick in the books of the females....ur "support" only exists as long as there is money....ur a parasite....may you never get what you desire....go date an average Christian guy in Nigeria...

Adewale626:
#BAT23

Seems ur cursed spiritually which is why BAT is a good candidate to you...that's how all of you were shouting Sai BaBa till 2023.... same way you have started shouting BAT23.... I don't pity Nigerians at all.

Jestin:
May the lord keep you safe Padre. Nigeria is in a critical situation right now and it will only get worse if Tinubu is voted as the next boss president

The Nigerians will vote Tinubu as the next President. Stop pitying them....they deserve everything they get.....

TastyFriedPussy:
I pray it later ends up getting destroyed by a very terrible fire outbreak and also claiming the lives of the CEO some workers and students... Rubbish, They want to be making money while I'm here struggling.

You will die before the end of the year....

DSC7:
We warned Nigerians 2015...

We are advising them Again...

Avoid Apc and BAT, they have nothing good to offer Nigerians...


Vote Wisely!!!

Will they heed? They love suffering...

essentialone:
AIICO dividend just received...

Which year?

Nosa111:
Been gay it’s his right. Sexualism cut across boundaries. It might surprise you to know we have lots of gays and lesbians in Africa than those countries.

Nobody Dey worship Oyinbo, they have a better system, a working government, and opportunities, that is why Nigerians do well when they get to Oyinbo land than they do in Nigeria.

I agree with your second paragraph but I disagree that it's only "oyibo" - white man....Chinese and Brazilian and UAE have the same good systems so its not limited to just oyinbo....

Nosa111:
You must be joking, better get your mind enlighten. Our politicians and other big men who have a lot of money still send their families abroad to live because they know better. The only thing I can believe what ever you are saying is if you show me your private history and I see for myself how many countries you don visit, then I might consider taking your opinion

Nigeria is better indeed. Do you know numerous plans canada and US have for sick or retired people who are citizens? Do you know what it means to be a citizen of Canada ? Lol joker.

Being a citizen of canada means nothing. those plans they have for retired people is putting them in elderly homes....thats all... and thats only because people no longer hv families in Canada...

Munamoqel:
good up bring .is a illusion with this oyinbo gays and lesbians life style . individualism .you might putting your kids at huge risk . Doyin okupe taught he was given his kids the best . now the boy is Gay .una no dey use una head at all . Always worshipping oyinbo .

Read my comment just after urs

Nosa111:
If you are not travelling for yourself, do it for your kids. Good upbringing, better educational system and citizenship are worth it and will definitely make an impact for them in a long run

Nigeria has better upbringing (there's respect for elders, no racismat such a young age etc), better education system (there are many private universities)....US Canadian citizenship doesn't hv many benefits trust me...visa free travel is just convenient....