satandeterrible: Men must start setting standards for themselves. Or else very soon even the 29-year olds and 30+ ladies will start setting higher standards for men.
By then, BigBashiru will tell us to leave them and rather wife up 40+ years women. He'd tell us how it is difficult to find 30+ women for marriage, so men must go for 40+,as they must have matured.
29 or 30yo can't cos they are powerless....its the person that has power that sets standards....that's why teenage girls set standards and can even attract top politicians including Senate members! That's power right there
Men must change with the changing times. When a man holds himself up to high level, these young 20-something women will want to quickly get married to you - as should be.
Men must set standards for themselves. No sane man has any business committing to an old hag in the name of marriage.
And i dont like quoting ppl that hv odd names such as yours as I go dey feel uncomfortable to quote them so I no go quote you again...
Men must change with the changing times. When a man holds himself up to high level, these young 20-something women will want to quickly get married to you - as should be.
Men must set standards for themselves. No sane man has any business committing to an old hag in the name of marriage.
Your thoughts are good and noble but are idealistic.... unfortunately marriage has evolved and some of its noble values eroded...
When a woman can put a picture on instagram and get 1000 likes and 5000 followers in the span of 2-3 weeks you are telling that same woman to have a husband? Why should she have a husband when her ig inbox is filled with guys looking to give her money?
What standard do you want to hold them to - standard is set by society - I believe the partriachy is gone thats the reality.....stop trying to go back to the past...
satandeterrible: TO THE YOUNG MEN HERE, YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS COMMITTING TO A POST-WALL, RETIRED HOE. Absolutely none.
If you believe you are worth it, you'll have no problem finding young, and even chaste ladies for marriage - if you are so inclined.
Please never make the mistake of committing to a serial sperm depot.
Women never change their standards, they'll rather stay single than compromising.
But a supposed redpill individual is telling men to make the biggest (and most foolish) compromise by commiting to a washed up, post-wall, retired prostitute.
Again, men please do not commit to an old layer. I beg you in the name of God. For your own good.
Do lot allow these women to eat their cake in their young age and still have it in their post-wall phase - courtesy of your immense stupidity.
The mistake your are making is NAWALT....I am emphasizing to you that the young girls you are looking for for marriage the vast majority arent interested in marriage at a young age... the few that will agree wil be unstable in the marriage i.e. since they still get a lot of attention, they will always wonder if they had waited if they could hv potentially found a better guy....
Marry the 30 yo women but DO NOTT GIVE THEM YOUR MONEY OR SPEND YOUR HARD EARNED CASH ON THEM.... then while "married" hv as many hot young gfs as you want and blow all your money on them.... dont use and dump babes tho cos thats a sin - instead add them to your holy concubine.... its their fault cos its them that dont want to get married....
satandeterrible: Very intelligent post. Thank you for rebuffung those bluepilled vibes.
How can any same man think the best thing for him is to commit to used up, washed out cum depots? So as a man after struggling to make it, you then decide to settle down for an old hen who has hit the wall after crossing her hoe phase?
They are advising men to settle for less, because they can't find anything better. Or because they think they atr not worth anything better.
That why they are advising men to commit to 30+ women, because those women won't have much options at that moment. How ridiculous!!
I cannot believe that on a redpill thread, a supposedly redpill preacher is advising men to settle down with women who have hit the wall, because they no longer have options at that stage.
What is the difference then between a redpill guy and a bluepilled simp? Both ate committing to women who have been sexed severally by other men and have now retired. Quite shameful.
You dont understand what we are trying to say... Pls just listen... a few modern inventions like social media has made many young girls have an even unrealistic view of themselves...unlike before when there was no social media making most young girls unwilling to settle down.... combine this with hypergamy (see my immediate last post)...
When you "marry" a 30 yo woman, you are not being exclusive to her na, you still hv your young girlfriends... shey na dem no wan marry? Ehen you go have them as your girlfriends na.. the 30 yo were wan marry, make she hold change for hand meaning - she should have her own moni to use and take care of herself in the marriage - its at this point they start threatening guys with bible and quran - aswear girls are smart sha...
geedot: Then you keep searching till you find, it's as simple as that. Ladies don't care if the harsh economy is affecting men from being financially stable, they'd rather be single than marry broke men, so why should men be the only ones compromising.
If we are to follow what you are suggesting, we should allow them ho.e around till they are in their 30s before getting married to them because they must have been more matured now? Lol. Whatever rocks anyone's boat. Didn't know hoe.ing around and maturity in ladies works hand in hand sir.
My dear times hv changed... social media, feminism etc - has caused that young girls are no longer interested in marriage. The most important reason why girls are not interested in marriage is the expectation that they could potentially get a better guy coming.... I have interviewed my female friends in their early 20s and they all agree with this my position....
To have a stable marriage, the woman must believe she cannot get a better guy; and this typically happens when they start getting old...
However the oldies keep demanding the burdens of the partriarchy (provision) but by then she cant do anything if you dont meet those demands as she no longer has the looks (or if she does, its fast dwindling)...
My position is marry the oldies (and tell her to use her money to fend for herself in the marriage) and date the younggies and give your money to the younggies... and I mean no disrespect for the older females - because guys get old too...
joungblood: Nigerians, una no dey ever dey satisfied for una life, na una go complain say flight prices are too much this days, n complain say some airlines are useless and don't have good service, now a new airline comes along, trying to create awareness and get customers, they are giving free flight to some destinations at a period of time, una still dey here dey complain say it is too much, say th suppose do am 50% or 70% discount, smh, na u go tell them how to do am? Abi them tell u say them nova calculate the losses and gains and feel its worth it b4 them do am?
If na me be the airline sef I no go do any free flight, una to useless for this country.
Well said...just the same way they complain about "bad leaders" as if they themselves are not the problem....
Final point - its men's ego and religion that women use to extract money from guys.... they could threaten guys with bible or quranic verses as well to make them part with their cash - an example (and I am not saying the Holy Books are wrong - thats obviously blasphemy!) is "the man and woman have been joined and have become one flesh" - and so have to share the same bank account
JESHAL: My issue with him is thinking post wall women are humble and matured enough to accept or share masculine roles in relationships, doesn't he understand female nature, he needs to read preventive medicine.
Post wall women have no other choice but to take on financial responsibilities for themselves... unless they meet a beta simp that they can use....Post wall they are powerless and have no choice....
Zabiboy: Facts BUT would the ego of Naija men allow them? it's the reason i skip marriage discussions..
In this era of social media, even the blind would know that women want to flex their youth and dont want to be traditional. Even the ones that would welcome the idea are doing so solely for the resources. Still yet, still yet, men crave to be used. Or could there be a ( i dont even know the word to use tbh) huge surge of adrenaline that pumps in men when they FEEL (cos in reality they are not) in command while with a so called "submissive " woman?
Omor...make i drop pen here so i wont discourage anybody. Even the disgust on the face of men offline when i share my views about modern marriage has made to stop discussing it.... Very soon, very very soon, we'll have quality artificial virginity tools ( made by our fellow men ofc), until and even after then, we ( who the society call cowards because we dont want these kind of "responsibilities" ) would keep watching the game from the sidelines.
Nice discussion bro, i love your idea. Thats the best fit for modern day relationship.
The beauty is that at the age of 29/30/31, she no longer has power or her power is rapidly dwindling so at that age men are calling the shots - if the guy tells her she has to be fending for herself financially and she refuses what can she do? It is true that other guys will chase her but not many will agree to spend on her.
Guys spend money on YOUNG ATTRACTIVE WOMEN..... Unfortunately the young girls get misled thinking the monetary gifts will continue into their early 30s.....they miscalculate... as they enter 31 32 they notice guys are no longer dashing them money and gifts...
My question to men is why are you providing for a fully grown 30 year old woman? Who said you should? Religious dogma? Be aware that mens provision in the past were also tied to benefits they received from the woman which were:
1. Ownership - they owned the woman - 31 year old woman has already been owned by so many different guys na before e reach your turn under the guise of some silly marriage... 2. Motherhood - provision is a reward for taking care of and bringing up our kids... 3. Good sex - most 32 year old babes dont cause hard erections that a 22 year old babe would - most of these marriages are just average sex with lots of arguments that kill the mood....
Bear in mind research shows as soon as mans finances dwindle or as soon as she starts out earning the man, she starts to complain....
So why exactly will I be giving the so called wife money?? The best I can do is put a roof over her head as the wife and feed her.... every other thing financial she has to cater for herself....
JESHAL: Don't be decieved by 29 yrs old they too want to have fun and ball but because their sexual market value is perishing, their beauty is fading, they are aging, they then start to prioritize beta bucks out of necessity, if they can still exercise their options and have fun without any societal stigma they would, they only show men fake submission and maturity because they want to lock them down,they are already with emotional baggages from past relationships with exes, they are poor bets for happy and stable long term relationships.
But that's a man's dilemma - what's a man to do?? I think the solution is to increase one's approach volume to about 300 new girls a month...that's the only way to find a young one dat wants to settle down....me I no sabi again oh
monerozi5590: How can you say it is impossible to marry young girl? Which country are you? Here in Nigeria young girls are getting married
The ones who do get married young are unstable in the marriage, they hv their eyes outside the marriage because they are wondering "what if I find a better man"....they keep wondering this until they hit their decline...
What I recommend to guys is marry the 29 yo but don't play patriarchy i.e she has to fend for herself financially in the marriage....then be with ur younger hotter girlfriends....
satandeterrible: The earlier you change this mentality the better for you. Lol.. My man wants to wife up a used up hoe. Good luck.
If you marry 21yo you are in trouble because 98% want to explore and hv their fun....at that age they want to enjoy the attention they are receiving....
Precedent shows that post wall thots when wifed up can commit the most atrocious murders to maintain exclusive access to their beta bucks
You are right.... but it depends on the definition of the "wife"....its impossible to marry young girls today.... only 29/30 are available for marriage.... define the relationship before you enter....tell her she has to be bringing money and you take no financial responsibility....
JESHAL: Men are the prize only when they are looking for long term commitment post wall during the epiphany phase, why? societal stigma and shame for ladies being single, they need a life long beta bucking slave blinded by romantic idealism which will serve them the remaining parts of their lives till death and reward him with deplorable duty "I don't want to be barren" sex when she was engaging in the most outrageous sexual activities with her past alphas and exes,they won't settle down in their prime years when they are most attractive but will rather LovePeddler it up till they become leftovers and seek a gullible brother to commit to thrash that's why they flock religious gatherings post wall.
pro-marriage redpillers won't fall for their gimmicks, our eyes is opened, no matter the sexual scarcity one experience, bachelorhood is far better than commiting to leftovers.
Blinded by both romantic idealism and religion. Excellent post....
I will marry a left over but won't be committed and she should use her own moni to take care of herself .... that should be your game plan too!
Nazgul: A whole CMD still killing people for rituals, many doctors pay huge sums of money just to get to that position, and this one got there and is still doing rituals. Honestly something is wrong with the black man.
Pls stop that something is wrong with the black man nonsense... Such things also happen in Europe....
Anything worthwhile in life is going to be hard. A quality woman. A great career. An useful higher education degree.
If it is easy to obtain, it is likely worthless.
Finding a quality Christian woman in our corrupt world today is going to be hard. That is what makes her worthwhile.
This means you will need a 3-pronged approach to your search: local churches; local Christian-focused charities; online. You will need to do some legwork here.
This is especially of you want/need one who is at least a 5 physically and not obese or seriously lacking in any physical beauty. Keep in mind, you can compromise that 5+ in the appearance requirement down somewhat, but remember that any relationship where the man and woman are more than 2 points apart in appearance is NOT stable and is at high risk for divorce, etc.
If you are a 7 man and you negotiate yourself down (“negotiated attraction” = danger!) to accept a 4 woman because she is a wonderful Christian person, I commend you. But you also need to know that there will be trouble, no matter what you do, especially as she ages after 30. Either other more attractive women will tempt you OR she will (eventually) become jealous of you around other women. Stay within 2 points of each other in appearance (this means both need stay fit, dress ok, hygiene, etc) and it will be stable. �
Oh yeah and take it from a man who was married in his early 20s well into his late 30s: she will age, and even the ones who age gracefully and stay in shape will lose their youthful beauty in time. That is human nature and it is Biblical concept. “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised”. Proverbs 31:30
Just to keep it in perspective, folks. We need to keep it real and go into marriage and the courtship of a quality Christian woman with realistic expectations and eyes wide open. That is the Red Pill lifestyle: you have to keep it real and keep it honest with yourself, have realistic expectations, and expect hard work to succeed.
#copied
Most 30 yo girls will pretend to be "mature", and "good Christian"
Corridon: Failed country. After initially blaming God for his failures in the beginning of his inglorious administration Buhari is now relying on same God to do his work for him. Buhari really destroyed Nigeria.
Nigerians hv destroyed Nigeria with a largely poor work ethic..
OgaDeyVex: A Young Woman from Benue State identified as Pauline Ogbeche, was killed in a road accident in Ajah area of Lagos, Reports.
Her Brother, Ogbeche Michael said the accident occurred in the early hours of Tuesday, September 27, 2022, when some yet-to-be identified guys were engaged in car racing.
According to Michael, one of the drivers rammed his car into a coaster bus conveying his sister, some actors and crew members to their hotel.
The Bus somersaulted. Pauline, who was asleep, was thrown from the vehicle. She landed on the road and died.
"On a sad note we lost Pauline (my sister) in the early hours of Tuesday. Some evil guys doing a race on the side of the road to Ajah, one of their cars flew to the the lane where the coaster bus was and hit it bad causing the bus carrying crew and actors to their hotel to somersaulted in the process," he wrote.
"Pauline was sleeping. She was thrown out of the bus through the glass window and only God knows how and where she landed.
"5 female sisters,,, now left with 2. God will keep them for me. Posting can't solve anything. Only prayer and mourn with us.
"And by the special grace of God we the family of Late Miss Paulina Ogbeche will follow her corps down to her father's house Benue state as early as possible on Friday after wake keeping on Thursday evening for final interment.
"I really appreciate the calls and messages I've been receiving from lovers since the incident."
Men and their wahala..if they are not raping, they are killing, if they are not killing, they are kidnapping and if they are not kidnapping, they are causing accidents on the road.... men are the problem of this world.... sorry to bruise your ego but take heart...
Natural2Heal: It must have been debts or bank loans that frustrated him to commit suicide. Most fast foods restaurants in Nigeria are making huge losses. Few are profitable.
I suspect debts/ bank loan....followed by marital money issues....
These govenors are messing up the psyche of Nigerians - anytime you take delivery from Italy, Spain, Germany etc, you are reinforcing colonial mentality in Nigerians... Thats why Nigerians will come here all call shitholes like Italy, Spain and UK "developed countries". Governors should do business with countries outside of western europe such as Brazil, Malaysia etc...
Anything worthwhile in life is going to be hard. A quality woman. A great career. An useful higher education degree.
If it is easy to obtain, it is likely worthless.
Finding a quality Christian woman in our corrupt world today is going to be hard. That is what makes her worthwhile.
This means you will need a 3-pronged approach to your search: local churches; local Christian-focused charities; online. You will need to do some legwork here.
This is especially of you want/need one who is at least a 5 physically and not obese or seriously lacking in any physical beauty. Keep in mind, you can compromise that 5+ in the appearance requirement down somewhat, but remember that any relationship where the man and woman are more than 2 points apart in appearance is NOT stable and is at high risk for divorce, etc.
If you are a 7 man and you negotiate yourself down (“negotiated attraction” = danger!) to accept a 4 woman because she is a wonderful Christian person, I commend you. But you also need to know that there will be trouble, no matter what you do, especially as she ages after 30. Either other more attractive women will tempt you OR she will (eventually) become jealous of you around other women. Stay within 2 points of each other in appearance (this means both need stay fit, dress ok, hygiene, etc) and it will be stable. �
Oh yeah and take it from a man who was married in his early 20s well into his late 30s: she will age, and even the ones who age gracefully and stay in shape will lose their youthful beauty in time. That is human nature and it is Biblical concept. “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised”. Proverbs 31:30
Just to keep it in perspective, folks. We need to keep it real and go into marriage and the courtship of a quality Christian woman with realistic expectations and eyes wide open. That is the Red Pill lifestyle: you have to keep it real and keep it honest with yourself, have realistic expectations, and expect hard work to succeed.
#copied
Today, in my opinion its easier to find a chaste/good muslim woman than find her christian counterpart....also bear in mind that MANY previous oloshos pretend to be "good christian woman" lurking in churches seeking whom they may devour....
The problem I have with CBN and all these their silly language... banks help no one actually... yet they are always talking of silly I & E window and "mopping up liquidity" - whatever that means...
Masterito: Africans can't learn. So British told African politicians to steal money meanrt for thier citizens? Guy get sense. You know absolutely nothing about Mali. Mali brought rubbish on themselves. They have started romancing with Russia just like France and will soon blame Russia for thier woes tommorow. Guy you absolutely nothing. Africans put themselves in this mess.
the problem you hv is that you did not learn African history in school - if you did you will not be speaking like this - ever heard of foreign interference or indian residential schools? About stealing, the British also steal money from their country and send it to US or Europe. But I agree with you theres room to curb corruption.
On Mali, again you dont know african history, if you did you will know Russia had been working with Mali for a long time and France still doesnt want to leave African countries alone - but Mali + Russia + China have kicked out France from Mali....
Masterito: Keep blaming other than your self. Lol, West told your leaders to steal money. No wonder we ain't growing. See mentality.
Do you know that the British island savages have come to meet all our presidential candidates already - google is your friend. Dont be suprised if they hv all been threatened.... If you know nothing just keep quiet; they are not being blamed but they hv a hand in it... see french activity in africa for example in rwanda in 1994 and in Mali as we speak.....
Masterito: Lol, you are funny walahi! Free yourself from the more than 50 years of corruption from the Nigerian leaders first. Stop blaming others for the problems you caused.
Much of that corruption is because those leaders are under duress from the West.
gambojimeta: That's because Nigeria's economy is complex and regulations is lax plus the corruption in the system.
In the obodo Oyinbo, when interest rate is increased, business and people will reduce their spending as they also need that money to service their debts obligations (remember lending and borrowing are very popular in those countries), so there are less money chasing few products. This helps slow down demand and also brings about a fall in prices of commodities; hence, reducing inflation.
In the US, Canada and other advanced countries. The economy is overheated i.e. plenty of jobs, people have lots of money to spend, economies opening up too fast, so there are more money chasing fewer goods since there was supply chain issues because of covid.
But we don't have the same in Nigeria, unemployment is extremely high, people don't have lots of money, Nigerian economy is not opening up because of covid (we weren't affected that much), Nigerian economy is not heating up, but the CBN is increasing interest rate anyway. The only reason I could think of is because of the exchange rate. Dollar is getting higher so it's being done to make buying the dollars less attractive. Perhaps, this will only apply to a few people in Nigeria as not many people in Nigeria buy dollars anyway aside those that school abroad or business men dealing with foreign export and import.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by BigBashiru: 11:35am On Oct 05, 2022
