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Nyamiri:
That punishment is for vehicles who pa's one-way. A one-way driver is a potential killer. In my opinion, he should be jailed in addition to his vehicle being sold.

Commit any traffic offence, na fine. Pass one way, bye bye to your motor.
Those rules are meant to prevent one-way drivers from killing your kids and family members while they are trying to cross the road.

100 likes. I have always said "one way is attempted murder"

aylagos:
Welcome development, let’s us learn to obey traffic rules and registrations. If we must develop as a nation we must be responsible for so many things. Everyone want to Japa to US, Canada or UK �� but we don’t want to obey traffic rules here.

as in eh... they lack self respect....

Klass99:
@ Militant1, I don't think you are crazy and I don't think your expectations are unreasonable. Like you, I don't function well with sleep deprivation. Poor or insufficient sleep leads to stress and stress is a silent killer.

While you are busting your ass off to provide for your family, the associated stress from home will silently do you in.This BS needs to stop, you are not asking for too much! Considering the fact that you've provided every necessary tool to make family life easy.

I don't know if you've seen Game of Thrones but one of my favourite scenes is where Tywin Lannister said to Cersei, I don't distrust you because you're a woman, I distrust you because you're not as smart as you think you are. You've allowed that boy to ride roughshod over you and everyone else in this city.

Na so e dey take start ooo. Allowing very young children do as they please, giving into them, not instilling discipline or enforcing house rules can lead to embarrassing consequences. If she can't take charge of two young kids and her home as the matriarch at this stage, when she wan start?

I'm not in support of a help at this point either, a help will make more sense when she starts her new job. Your wife seems like the sort of woman even helps love to deal with, because of a lazy and overly dependent attitude on them. You know the type of helps that skoin skoin use to worry, they'll pack their bags on Sunday evening or Monday morning and tell you they're leaving your house, the workload is three much.

You need to start acting like your username, until you get the results you want.

With all this stuff isnt marriage scary

frozen70:
I will like to be blunt with my suggestions so that you will get the message right

You have done well by providing all she needed to run her home

But the truth is that she is lazy

If at two kids, a seat at home mother, she can't cope, how will she cope when she starts working

Well, you can wake the kids up by the time you wake up, bath them and let her take it up from there while you prepare for work

Another suggestion is bring her mother to stay with you guys since she normally reports to her so that those things she didn't put her through properly, she will see things herself

Stop begging her, you are making her to feel she needs to be appeased

When she is tired of cooking late, she will seat up when she starts working

I don't want to suggest a house help, it will worsen her case

She needs to seat up and face her challenges

Assuming you are a lazy man that can't fully provide that means both of you will be incompetent to run your home

Let her face it and it will build her for a greater task

House help erodes the validity of the marital contract.... a house help helps the woman with house work but who helps the man wiith bank job?? And eventually na both househelp and wife go dey chop husband moni as a right....

Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful

Dont you know that women dont like stress and that the vast majority of them have an exploitative nature? Even if she follows the schedule you have set up for a couple of weeks, after that she will stop following the schedule.

bepositive11:
The killer is the cause of it all. Why give the woman money in the first place? Pathetic! If you can't give without expecting a favour in return, don't give.

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INDOMIE9090:
Another beautiful soul has just been wasted by a scumbag
Man and jealousy are 5&6
He should rot in jail

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[quote author=Softmirror post=116587120][/quote]Cnn denied it.... wheres ur evidence ??

halima83:
Fintiri ,the current adamawa governor

I keep saying it, na small small mistake dey destroy Nigeria and no one will get fired for this error presumably because boss and the peeson dat made the error are from the same state.

TonyBby:
I swear big time G, when I was a kid of 5 the same theme song NTA uses then is still the same they are using now.
[b]Shame and woe unto them, poor graphics even a secondary School student will create a better resolution for em, bad camera's since 90's.
Punk motherfuckers, they can't spend on National TV but they can rob the national funds. Bunch of jive sissies.[/b]

Who are the "them"? Its run by Nigerians! For decades....

BeanmanX:
NTA is still the same for more than 20 years now,,,bad audio quality,,,poor visuals

Like what someone said earlier,,NTA is the reflection of the shithole called Nigeria..

Zero improvement whatsoever....when China buys it now it will start working....shame on Nigerians

LikeAking:
Nice one from d priest...

We must break d chains of colonialism.

"The western european is a savage in need of native american and african civilization" - unknown author.

LienwaltAbel:
Doesn't change the fact that you're a racist. I just wanted you to know that dear.

"The western european is a savage in need of native american and african civilization." -- Unknown author.

They were in their huts in europe, hungry and eating themselves (cannibalism); it was when they came to africa and fought colonial wars that in the process they met africans who civilized them...why do you think they packed thousands of benin art works back to britain? Because they were savages who had never seen anything like it before.....

Afterwards they turned the story and history around and said it was us they came to civilize haha.

Call me whatever name you want to call me - it doesnt change the truth.....

LienwaltAbel:
Wetin we go call this one now? Black supremacist? Oga, you're a fucking racist.

My dear most africans have inferiority complex due to:
1. colonial education system still in force in Nigeria.
2. western media psychological warfare (e.g. always showing pictures of poor Africans, calling africa "3rd world etc.". You were not taught in school that Britain ruled Nigeria for 150 years since around an initial invasion of Sokoto around 1804, another invasion of the south in 1856 via military - they ruled Nigeria for 150 years - so why could they not make it "first world"? Those guys are savages and liars and follow after their father - the father of lies....

Faber:
Go sleep, UK is gone. Scotland will soon leave. Australia is planning to become a republic like US.

The Commonwealth will crumble

Most people are unaware what the Commonwealth really is.

Facts
1. Britain and Western Europe are poor countries - poverty was the motivation for colonization by Britain and France.
2. Imperial (means colonization) College London means colonization college - it was a school closely tied to the British Government where colonial strategies were studied - which buttresses point 1.)
3. After genocides, killings, animalization (e.g. calling american and african natives monkeys) and conquering foreign lands, they now say the wealth of those countries is both for those countries and the UK - not for those countries alone. Thats what Commonwealth means....

essentialone:
Partnership was a scammer.
Cashcraft was a scammer.
Adonai was a scammer.

Mind you, they were once among the best stockbrokers in Nigeria.

And there are many present scammers still pretending and masquerading as stockbrokers.

Nothing is believed until it becomes headline news

How is cashcraft a scammer?

My cousin is getting a new car for herself....but she is a humble person, wants to keep a low profile, does not want to attract attention when travelling.....is there a way to make the car look older??

Ive thought of just leaving dust/dirt on it and not wash it....

Any other ideas

vicdonis:
All of you saying using the Racial card always, if he was White, would they have shot?
Why shot a Black and arrest a White for same crime.

Antecedent has always been against the black race, both commit same crime but you arrest one and shot or kill the other.

Justice and Fairness
Whatever is bad for the gooze, is bad for the gander

Because blacks are superior so they launched psychological warfare in order to make you feel less about yourself.....

emorse:
You did condemn the shooting but is there a way you can unlink it from his race? Would he have been shot at if he was white?

I know Africans hate to take responsibility for their actions but this story is not an example of such a time.

Well said!! But your statement should read: i know "many Africans" because there are many others that love to take responsibility for their actions....

lezz:
in Nairaland those who rush to comment first usually leave their senses behind!

First, the car wasn't unregistered. It simply wasn't registered to him!

Second what offense did the article say Mr Chris Kaba committed again? I didn't read one.

3. Since when does running from the police amount to shooting especially when there's no danger to life involving the police?

Please go back and edit your silly, attention-jostling post.

The racism in the uk is subtle....i dislike those ppl....plus they feel as if they are God on earth whereas in actual fact they are actually genocidal savages....

crux84:
The problem is that the bridgs are FAR in between. I stay in Ikate just beside Lekki Phase one. there is no pedestrian bridge near the bus stops.After lekki phase one roundabout, the next bridge is at Jakande. It's like having one bridge at law school bus top and the next at Lekki Phase one round about. I think they are under the assumption that everyone living around that area own cars. The government has to build more bridges, especially between lekki phase one and Jakande and one at Agungi Bus stop. I spend an average of 15 minutes to cross that road on my way back from work.

Id say the government should make the traffic light junctions also zebra crossings....

Kingpele:
RIP young blood..I think this forum need total cleansing, alot of ignoramus are just everywhere..do u people who are criticising the victim family understand the rule of engagement between armed officers and criminals? it is only when it's established that the victim has a firearm and refuse to throw it away with intention of using it against the officers he could be shot to preserve the lives of police officers..remember before he could even be shot ,he most be warned seriously to let go of his firearm..but in this case he posed no threat to officers and he was shot dead,there's no way this could have happened to a white man..so u guys defending this nonsense is a slave of the western world .continue to worship them until it becomes your turn to be shot and no one will call for justice on your behalf...

The colonial education system the British installed in the 1800s as well as BBCs psychological warfare on African minds caused this....

jaxxy:
Blacks feel that way because of other incidents that have happened and shouldn't have ended the way it did with blacks. This case might not be a clear example bt there have been many other cases.

Exactly !

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Look how they made the whole thing about black..the usual victim card..why do blacks always think everyone hates or is after their life..?

Look at his offence and why he got shot(which is very wrong of not self defence)..are we also gonna skip the fact that his vehicle was linked to firearm? vehicle not registered..why the f**k was he running from the cops?you had no weapon and you took them on a pursuit?..of course he had none on him..
So we have to wait till they conclude their investigation before we jump into emotional conclusion..

Your brainwashing is complete....you need help.... Africans civilized the western European British island savages but the problem is they erased ur history and told you a different false history about africa when u were growing up.....

kunleiky:
I honestly think you need to reduce the way you asslick the white.
You remind me of the book, The Blinkard.
They shot your fellow Black, his family is mourning and asking for justice, you're saying they are crying victims. They should be praising the killer?

His/her brainwashing is complete....

FERNANDEZISBACK:
It's part of their emotional bullshit nonsense.. so sick.. blacks feel they are being hunted or something...I don't get it but it's sick..

You dont know what u talking about. The british island savages i.e. whites derive joy in belittling Africans....

Deathtk:
https://mobile.twitter.com/adamugarba/status/1567981649195077633

This is what happens when those that do not know history are put in power....mschew!

gare:
So the way forward is to continue wailing, and having so much bitterness in us that will eventually destroy us

What bitterness? We are not bitter towards anyone... I'm not bitter towards anyone just stating the facts....

We are already on the path of the way forward. Lagos akwa ibom anambra all have good governments.... hopefully the next federal government will be better.... then we need to stop the brain drain.....we are already on the right path....

amaridigital:
Are we the only country ever colonized? Why do we always point fingers at others and blame them for our problems without searching inward to reflect on our mistakes and find a way forward? I'm not supporting the British monarchy but we have our faults. The British left over 60 years ago. Rwanda fought a brutal civil war but today the nation is experiencing rapid development. Igbo people have elected representatives in government since 1999 collecting huge monthly federal allocations each month with nothing to show for it but they find it convenient to blame the British. Is this what we are going to tell our unborn generations that the reason we fail to develop in the year 2100 was because some people colonized us in the 1800's? Almost every nation on earth fought a civil war before even in America.

I agree with you. But the issue is the colonizers still have their eyes on Africa....they are poor without Africa and hence will never leave Africa. It's not like they left voluntarily....as Mugabe said the british are still in Nigeria and Africa indirectly today through various Civil Service Organizations e.g. Amnesty International (allegedly).

Today we talk of neo-colonialism.... hence we must always speak of it...

Finally no country is ever perfect there's always one problem or another.

Let it be on record that Nigeria is more developed than the United States of America for those who really examine the facts and not base their analysis on media reports.

gare:
You are right, but moving forward we cant continue to dwell in the past, I believe the countries you mentioned above do allocate more resources to the future rather than cry over the past on what may have gone wrong, they have all had their fair share hardship.

Well if you say Africa was more civilized before Europeans, I am beginning to wonder what happened, why did we stop to grow even after they left us.

Jesus died for our sins... that happened 2000 years ago, yet we continue to dwell on that past today...and that past gives us a hope and guides our future....

Same thing, we need a big picture view of where we are in history (in 2022, Nigeria is still coming out of colonialism after at least 150 years of British misrule and psychological subjugation).

Nigeria has been growing rapidly. I prefer living in Nigeria to living in UK. French colonies (not former cos the colonial treaties are still in place) are not doing so well because the colonial era treaties France forced on them are still in place.... central african republic just broke free.

Problem is western media projects a false image of Africa