₦airaland Forum

seanwilliam:
between going there and staying back , which is better??

Overall i think Nigeria offers a better quality of life but if one doesnt hv something good doing in Nigeria then migrate to an African country... or to Asia....

inoki247:
lol outside world using people for mordern day slavery....


Work more nd pay more tax to the country is a win win for the country

they are rejoicing they dont know whatsup....

nlfpmod:
https://twitter.com/TundeTASH/status/1578385669134684166?t=M4I1N45i9AF0lj5GaNLMog&s=08



https://www.cicnews.com/2022/10/breaking-canada-to-allow-international-students-to-work-off-campus-over-20-hours-per-week-1031301.html#gs.ewqtq9

They are looking for tax money.... they are not doing this to help you.....

bobazuka:
Lol. I asked you extremely simple questions, you couldn't answer, instead you're claiming indoctrination. I rest my case. I don't even know which one is this 'savages script' that you say you came across on your 'travels'. And since you say we 'invented stone' ( as in 'invented' stone), I don't have anything more to say.

The savages script:
1. Africa was completely dark, in complete and utter darkness.
2. Africans were living in mud huts and highly uncivilized.
3. Explorers (code name for colonialists) came and civilized the savages, taught them how to read and write, helped them see and extract the minerals beneath the earths surface.
4. Showed them light overall....

Thats the savages script - it was used on Australia natives, New Zealand natives, Canada natives and USA natives...

The colonialists rename towns and cities to names like Forcados (Delta State),Victoria Island (after queen of england), lagos, East London (South Africa) - so that subsequent generations will not know those places had a history prior to being renamed... New York in America is an english colony...named after York in England...

bobazuka:
Okay, in that case what of in high elevation areas like the the Guinean Highlands in Guinea & portions of Sierria Leone & Liberia, the Mambilla Plateau in Taraba, the Jos Plateau in Jos, the So-Called White Highlands of Kenya where stone is plentiful and the wealther is cold, how come even they built using mud?

I'm not arguing with you that portions of SS Africa ( primarily Muslim West Africa: the Hausa States, the Mali/Songhay Empires, the Swahili Coast, etc) were relatively advanced, but let's not romanticize them into 'Wakanda'. Compared to the Asian, European, and even Native South American States (Inca Empire to use one example) of the time, they were not very impressive

You are one of those that have been far indoctrinated and in that case, I cannot help you...

The final point is that the western european savages cannot give what they dont hv. Limestone is found in Africa not in western europe... so we invented stone....

But I cannot help you since you are far gone. Believe what you want to believe but dont infect the rest of us....

I hv given you a great revelation that the mud hut/ savages script was used across north american natives - thats a huge revelation I received becos I have travelled to those places.... despite this great piece of evidence, you still choose to believe lies... I cant help you.

Nairaland is not a place for convincing those who dont know their history.... and there are african philosophers greater than Plato and Aristotle (topic for another day), but it takes an open mind to receive....

bobazuka:
Okay, name a single part of Sub Saharan Africa apart from Zanzibar, the Swahili Coast, the Sukur Settlements in Notheastern Adamawa, and Great Zimbabwe where prior to the 19th century (pre 1800), native houses incorporated stone walls and slate or non-thatched roofs. Go ahead, I'm listening.

I don't want to enter a long argument with you as no one wins those arguments....I forwarded our conversation to a friend well versed in African history and she said:

"Great job of educating this person; hopefully, he is not too far indoctrinated that he can't receive."

I hope so for you too....

In coastal regions ppl build with bamboo (you enjoy the breeze too) no need for stone....with stone you experience more unnecessary heat.... bamboo and mud suits our climate....in fact cement of today is a derivative of mud. Europeans use dry wall to build and very little cement as it suits their climate more.....

bobazuka:
Savages? Guy, while their own ancestors were building Cathedrals and Magnificent Monuments as early as the 13th century, our own ancestors were living in thatched houses with mud walls.

That is history according to the colonialists.... teaching a false history is all part of their colonial strategy... who taught you what you just typed?? It's an educational system installed by the British in Nigeria as well as western media.....when the British went to colonize Canada around 1870, the first Canadian English prime Minister Mr Mcdonald declared the natives (metis, inuit and Algonquin, Mohawks etc) - "savages"....who needed to be civilized - I won't go into detail as it will be too long to type....unfortunately the natives didn't survive their history was erased and they were exterminated that's why you hardly hear about these tribes anymore....

Then they came down to Africa to run the same script.... they declared the native Nigerians and Africans "savages" living in "mud huts".... and in Congo they killed 20million in an attempt to exterminate them similar to Namibia where millions were exterminated.... fortunately the Nigerians and Africans hv survived it temporarily....

Colonization has three parts: genocide, erase history by telling false histories like you hv just told and renaming cities then final part is bring in white settlers.

Africa had a long prosperous history....u quote 13tg century.... mali was already more prosperous than the entire western europe combined as of the 12th century....

davodyguy:
Good development.

London Heathrow
London Gatwick

Ikeja Airport
Lekki Airport

Must you always compare Nigeria with the uncivilized British Island savages

Righteousness2:
When you don't read and obey the word of GOD, Disaster and Calamities will not be in short supply on you.
Be not wise in your own eyes. Fear GOD and Depart from evil so it will be well with you, here on Earth and in Eternity.

Shut up there....Solomon is much more God fearing than you.

N3TRAL:
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European savages go away!! And tell France to get its dirty hands off African countries while at it!

Poor western countries playing big brother to the Africans that civilized them...

Today many Nigerians look up to the Western Europeans....why? Because they ERASED our pre-colonial history....just the same way they erased the history of the native americans and native Canadians and exterminated them.

Wetin concern EU concern our presidential candidates??

Dalil8:
No one in Oxford will vote for during the election.

Better come home.

If i were him i'll focus more on the North and reach out to religious leaders there. They are the key.

I agree with you on the last sentence...I think peter obi has become carried away by the popularity...its not by giving speeches....

luvinhubby:
Nigeria will be restored back to the right track of development with Peter Obi as president, international investors & world leaders already have confidence in him


So much hope exhudes from him

By world leaders you mean the British island savages and their cohorts....

ebenezary:
Africa mentality

African mentality is more advanced than the mentality of the British Island savages...

hisexcellency34:
In abroad, no need for fighting or towing vehicles. All they need is to get your car number. But here in Nigeria, especially Lagos and Abuja...

We are not Britain or an extension of Britain....

LordviccoDaGuru:
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Trying to copy Obi

yemi1504:
Abi o. Some ladies' inordinate desire for "comfort" is why they are passed around and single in their 30s. No man will take a lady serious who is just there for the money. Biko!

There's one I know who is 30 and who is not bulging....she's still waiting for a rich man.....

mirinder:
Why cheat. The older the wine, the sweeter in bed

There's nothing like "cheating".... its a silly term...what is "cheating" define it.... a guy can be attracted to more than one person....

Sagamite:
Just passing by o. Lol

Just highlighting that I am a Prophet!

Oga Sagamite it's been like 3 - 5 years you still dey this forum? Post more!

bluefilm:
Jesus!

Who knows the type of pressure this lady, and so many other ladies out there in a similar situation, is under now due to marriage wahala?

Unfortunately for them ladies, I don't pity any of them who are in this wahala.

In fact, I rejoice over such issues.

I actually enjoy TORMENTING them.

You wanna know why?

Listen, any lady who failed to use her time when she was in her prime to catch a nigga, assuming she is not a lesbian or something of that nature, is to be blamed for not playing her game well.

These ladies sit back and watch what happened to other ladies and yet they still feel like it won't be their own portion... until it eventually happens to them.

Now they want us to start pitying them and considering them for marriage after they have wasted all their good years chasing fun.

That's absolute nonsense.

Lady, you made your bed.

And you MUST lie on it.

The other group of overaged ladies I may not torment are the ones who are naturally UGLY.

Their case is quite understandable and there is no more reason to worsen their situation.

The 30 and above evening newspapers can be married but:

1. She can't control which other girls I talk to and can't prevent me from dating other girls....

2. I will give her a roof over her head and food....anything else financial she has to fend for herself financially....

CaptainFM1:
Many that were approached by serious guys were vetting the men that came forward.
I've heard many ladies say "I can't marry a guy that doesn't have a car", "I can't marry a guy that's living in a face-me-I-blow-you, or a room and parlour", So when the clock now ticked to 30'o clock they turn all the excuse to men.

Eventually, na one Agbero or small yahoo boy go come dey service them dey give them small change at 30! Abeg, make them go sit down.

dem dey vet who dem wan make him carry their financial load.... talk about being spoilt....mschew

Candidlady:
Can a wolf behave like a sheep


They are all animals

Ego won't even let em breathe

They would rather drown than admit the truth

I agree with the bolded....

Piptocoin:
[color=indigo]Look at guys forming judges over the decisions and mistakes many girls made in their twenties. Michelle70 is right about many girls being the victims of circumstances but self-appointed judges think otherwise that they should be condemned for living. Bunch of hypocrites. As if you are any better than the girls.

Guess who we find in the news for cultism, armed robbery, arson, love scam, money rituals, 419, drug deals, touting, political assassination, and the likes.....yeah, your guess is right — men.
Men deceive innocent girls, break their hearts and justify their evil by promoting the notion that men are polygamous in nature and still have the effrontery to ridicule them for not being married before their 30s. Evil generation. Bunch of snakes. Keep blaming girls for your woes. Their God will not leave them unfulfilled because you are not their Creator. Nonsense.

Michelle70, don't waste your breath on people who are set in their deluded ways. Imagine grown men thinking the opposite sex is their problem in this life...except most of these commenters are toddlers with the privilege of keyboard and the internet.[/color]

The bolded while true has no relevance to the topic at hand....

For every action and decision there are consequences... no matter what led to her being single at 30, its fine - just that:
1. She cannot control who I date besides her.
2. She needs to be fending for herself financially in the marriage i.e. no partriachy... I will put a roof over her head and feed her; all her other expenses will be born by her - why stress myself over an old hag with numerous exes and high body count - in fact im sure some of her hospital bills will be from previous relationships and I will be the one paying for it....

Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

I have also read a story of how a man died, 2weeks to his marriage, would u blame the woman?

Some women prepare for marriage, and on wedding day, husband was nowhere to be found, ring sef dem no see.

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.

You are not correct. Nature has designed it that women will receive massive attention from 16 - 24 - any woman who doesnt find within that window - its her fault.... most postpone it...

ogododo:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/10/nigerias-future-heavily-dependent-on-education-buhari/

Because Peter Obi told you so....

HonNL:
SOURCE


UPDATED:


SOURCE

SOURCE

Panya Khamrab is his name.

American and British influence....

chikasnight:
I understand your point but I believe any young girl who chooses you will want to get married to you regardless of her age, where the problem lies mostly is in maybe arranged marriages or referrals or maybe cold approaching and convincing them into the marriage. Yes I’ve seen situations where when they get older they feel they were cheated but it’s always when the marriage was as a result of one of the reasons i wrote above.
Being chosen reduces that risk to the minimum...

Women marry for security... if she "chooses you" - its for both psychological and financial security....moreover, if a better option presents even after they have chosen you, they will still explore....

CaveAdullam:
The thought pattern is just wack! Neither redpill nor sensible.

Even lower animals like chimpanzees and gorillas go for fresh babes. But right here a mature man is paranoid about a chaste and nubile woman in her prime.

What you are not realizing as I keep saying is the fresh babes are not ready for commitment....u desiring and going for them is fine them commiting to you at a young age(marriage) is next to impossible....the best they can give is girlfriend not wife until they are "ready".... only experience will convince you....

CaveAdullam:
1. Oga what are you even saying? Oh, my gosh!

I am convinced that this is another brand of "pill" probably the "brown pill"...please, it is high time you throw away whatever you have been "smoking".

Write what you posted here on a wall in your room, read it, and find out if it is sensible. The post is not even plausible, just wack!

2. More like saying:

"Since accidents happen on all roads, I will travel around with bad vehicles and just use my good cars to cruise around my neighborhood".

" Death is death, I will prefer to die by a cancerous disease than die in my sleep".

"Women tend to cheat, it is better I befriend, date, or marry a retired h0e than marry a chaste woman".

3. Quite alright, the dating market is deregulated and filled with damaged women and emasculated weak men. It is advisable one stay back and not get involved with mates that will multiply their pains and sorrows (until they are sure of something better).

However, this doesn't eradicate the fact that sexual relationship is an important core of the human psyche and nothing can even destroy it whether good or bad.

4. The ones that are willing to enter the mating game must know all the pros and cons before playing, and this is where the red pill becomes important because it helps men to know the type of women they should only deal with and women, the type of men that have the qualities of a good leader.

5. You all are just paranoid about a young woman in her prime, bro, they are the BEST ANYTIME OR ANYDAY in both short and long-term relationships as far as men are concerned; your opposition and those of others don't count. Don't get it, twisted man.

6. What needs to be done is to lay down structures that can make a relationship work, and reward only good partners. But because "we cherish the little benefits of the decline" we rather feign ignorance or come up with nonsensical rationalizations.

You are more like saying "coming back alive from war is not guaranteed, it is better I go with primitive tools than the sophisticated ones".

7. Both men and women are at this table. Women must be held accountable for all of their actions, but we must not wait for women when we already know that they suffer waves of emotional instability. Therefore, if men say they are the head, in charge of authority and the prize, they must force women to act right or lay down structures that will make women act right. A wise shepherd keeps wandering dogs in a cage and restless cattle on a ranch.

8. It is fine and well If you don't want to play the game because it is deregulated. However, no matter how much you harangue your sermon from now till the end of the world, men desire women and women desire men. You can't remove the need for sex and genetic propagation from their psyche, one way or the other, they will still find themselves cuddling and fvcking.

9. You hate the game doesn't mean that the game will avoid you, you will still feel the effect either directly or indirectly. You will be affected by the wins and losses of the alphas and betas playing the game; you don't like it but it will never stop coming to you.

Nothing is set in stone when it comes to sexual relationship, but it better to deal with the best and fail than accept failure by dealing with the worse.

10. I don't know what you and zabiboy are smoking but one thing I know for sure is that both of you and your likes are not smoking the right thing; it is expedient you change your dealer.

Thanks.

If you can shorten your wrote ups it will help.... you appear to hv a Magic wand for detecting chaste vs pretender.... only strict parents can make a woman chaste.... or religion... in every chaste girl is a naughty side ....its nature....

Abeg dey make ur comments brief where possible/feasible

AnambraPeople:
https://anambrapeople.com.ng/four-anambra-brands-that-will-take-over-nigeria-soon/

these are still mostly imported products and nothing to be particularly proud about.

The North remains the best - factories everywhere but we dont make noise.

Zabiboy:
Summary of events:

Men : society doesnt give a fvck about men. men are only used and not loved.
zabiboy : then dont get married.
Men : NO.. We have to pass our genes. we also dont want to distroy the family system. People like you avoiding your burden of responsibilities are cowards.
zabiboy : ok then, go with bashiru's idea. he might term it "marriage" but in reality, he wants his children to grow in a family system without him being used. as such, almost everything is 50/50. look for those( most likely 29+) who are open to this idea and go ahead with it.
Men : You are low value to be insecure about younger girls.
zabiboy : but they dont want to settle down at that age unless for the resources, meaning you are just being used.
Men : Keep searching, you'll find one
zabiboy : Why waste that time when loyalty and faithfulness is still not guaranteed?
Men : better than going for those 29+ . if we cant find one, we remain single.
zabiboy : but my initial advice was to skip the whole process. Why do all these when the possibilities of coming back to phase 1 is 99.99%??

Very well summarized my brother - thumbs up and kudos!

Smartb0y:
Where are you getting your redpill from, I'm really curious .

16 is underage,we don't encourage pedophilia here. 18 is the acceptable norm.

A woman can only be termed "the prize " if her mind and body are in order.

If the body is good but the mind is bad... She's not "the prize" because she will cause unrest in a man's space.

If her body is bad but her mind is good..... she's not the "the prize" because she's damaged.

To be the prize , you (woman) must stand out,be unique ,be different,be rare.
What is common has little or no value hence worthless.

I hope you have an understanding of what it entails for a woman to be the prize now.

She can be 23 and have 5000 notches,does that in any sense make her worthy of a high value man like your self?.
All your suffer just to go and bag a 23 year old with 10000 body count,aha who do you

You have some major unlearning to do my man.

Some of una don read Rational Male and are just going by what is in the book without injecting ur own rational thought....

I am no pedo either but I argue strictly based on rational thought..yes 16yo are minors based on existing laws but the fact is they start receiving attention from that age. That's a statement of fact.

Young women are the prize at the onset i.e. from that 16 and up based solely on their glowing bodies....its nature and easy to prove.

Gather twenty 18 year old girls in a room and gather twenty 24-30 year olds men in the same room.... its the twenty men that will be trying to sleep with the women not the other way round so they the prize at that age which is why they want to maximize it... even senate president will fall for 18-20 to due to the sex appeal.

But when those 18 yo reach 23/24 they stop being the prize.... this is called THE POWER FLIP....
The above is on a COLLECTIVE LEVEL I.e. group of men and group of women.

But on an individual level yes any man that develops himself well and is his best self on an individual level is the prize regardless of the age of both the man and the woman....

The problem you guys hv is you read red pill books and lose your own individual thought/analysis of the subject matter or simply regurgitate and spew consensus without ur own individual input.

satandeterrible:
Yes, of course.
Men do not have power. Everything we've been saying here and even what GidRedpiller has been saying about men developing power, pride and mystery is difficult for you to swallow.

Perhaps because you are insecure, low-value, not good looking, lacking in self confidence, not eloquent and have no GAME?

Like I said, very soon, due to the abundance of your type, the 29-year olds will gain "power".
Then you and your ilk will start hunting 40 year old ladies for marriage. "Because they are powerless". Also, while at it you and your fellow low-value men will "blow" all their money on younger women in order to get them have sex with you.

Such a wise man you are.
I wish you good luck.

Please let nobody take this guy and his words here serious. His way is the way of the simp. The way of the defeated, manipulated man.

What we are doing here is to make men
the conqueror. To give power, pride and mystery to men. To make men realise that "THEY ARE THE PRIZE". To teach men GAME. To make men realise that it utmost stupidity to commit to an old, damaged, retired hoe. To teach men that GAME is what they need to get laid, not "blowing" all their money on women.

Time will teach you bro...good luck with your search....

In general Women are the prize 16 - 23....men become the prize when women pass 23....

As I said I wont argue....good luck with ur search....

It's not a crime to blow your cash on a woman if you want......so long as it's not your primary attraction mechanism....my point there was don't blow ur cash on the old wife instead spend it on the young girlfriends and let the old wife fend for herself financially