₦airaland Forum

JESHAL:
You said you want a woman that is going to contribute her income with you in the home, you said that because she's post wall she will accept your terms

I said I want a woman that is going to make her own money and then use her own money to take care of herself. I put a roof over her head and give her basic food; then all other financial needs of hers she will take care of herself....I am not telling her to give me her money or "contribute"; I am simply saying she should use her money to take care of herself....

Her contributions will be when children come - children's school fees is 60% 40% because they are her children too.... minor children illnesses, I can cater to but major children illnesses requiring large sums of money, she will be expected to contribute to...

JESHAL:
Then why do you want to marry, better still marry a post wall woman when you know damn well you are a wallet to her, but you delude yourself to can negotiate the social contract and make her contribute 50/50, after all your understanding of Hypergamy specifically the beta bucking aspect.

Where did I ever say 50 - 50? Enter the social contract na who is holding you?

Africana1123:
This picture show the humility of president Muhammadu Buhari .

trying to copy Obi....

JESHAL:
Men seek long term commitment via marriage or relationship to have monopoly of a woman's body, that's the social contract.

You don't know what you are talking about (sorry to sound harsh)....

Most females these days already hv had many boyfriends prior to marriage....in fact many post pone marriage so they can have their fun with bad boy style players....you are committing to old declining body....like you marry her at 30, how will she look in just 5 years down the line....so it's not a good contract....

It's women who seek long term commitment via marriage....her body is in decline, her income is not enough to meet her taste, she also needs a man she can spend his money hence marriage...

JESHAL:
Bigbashiru needs to read this whether you marry a post wall woman or a woman in her prime you bear the cost of love, that's the reality, you can't negotiate this natural contract and expect to have a functional home

There's nothing like "love" and "cost of love"....but I won't argue if that's what you believe....

cococandy:
Stay mad boo

Pedophile apologist and a Christian?

@bold, I don’t remember ever asking you to. Or anyone else ask you to do that either. You just keep coming up with nonsense and made up scenarios that didn’t happen.

Just stop supporting pedophilia and calling it African culture. All the rest is unnecessary. That’s all you have to do

Lets kiss sweet coco....and that will resolve this argument...

Slynation:
Just like goods has diminishing marginal utility, machine experiences wears and tears (depreciation) humans as well experiences something of this nature.

Perhaps it's high time we start practicing contract marriage in Nigeria because this current for better for worst doesn't and will no longer work due to see finish.

Everybody wants to experience love again, both parties stopped doing what made them fell in love because they now belongs to eachother which becomes a very big problem. After marriage, tolerance and forced captivity sets in.

Since I removed marriage from my to do list, there is this internal happiness and hefty self pressured burden taken away from my shoulders.

You have made valid points...I think marriage should be flexible I.e. the part or living together should be flexible

marlow1962:
That’s their business.
When I go over that side again, any bleached modafvka that calls me monkey, I will knock the fvk outta him ( I no mind go jail, as long as say I beat shit commot from em body)

They are the monkeys....that's the truth

Hobbiton:
Why is this still happening?! I won't lie, I don't think Nigeria can ever get it right because all the citizens think of is house to get money, show off & live an ostentatious live style.

I don't know where we got this show off lifestyle from but I can boldly say that it's really doing a ton on us!


I'm personally trying my best to not have such ostentatious mentality & I believe every patriotic Nigerian should too.

Because everything all boils down to show lifestyle rather than survival & contentment.

You hit the nail on the head my brother....this show off mentality lifestyle is also responsible for rituals and co....

In addition, Nigeria isn't working today because the vast majority of Nigerians have a very poor attitude to work and if they are not the owner of a business, they never do the job well....and while on the job all they think about is how to make money fast.... no one ever does their job well unless they the owner this includes doctors and dentists

"Cheating" was a term invented by post wall females to limit the mating choices of her husband.... knowing that post wall, he can still find another younger competitor...

"Cheating" shouldn't be in any redpillers dictionary....

Clemostica:
Democrazy is a scam, a tool for oligarchy and imperialist control.

Every 8 years they attempt to bring in puppets.....

DollarBuddy:
Your choice, I respect it tho. As for me, once I get married it'll be only me and my wife.

I will only drink from my own cistern. No flirting. And I'll expect same from the lady I'm gonna get married to.

Good luck to u. I hv 700 wives and 500 girlfriends

CandyOps:
I think it's important to have such discussion with your spouse before marriage. Know her views on issues concerning infidelity and gauge her response.

But then it's high risk

there is nothing like "infidelity"...is the girl in question a virgin? What is her body count as of marriage day? if her body count is 11 at marriage and mine was 3, can me going after other girls rightly be called "infidelity"?

DollarBuddy:
Yes, exactly. Until you end up six feet under the ground. You'd better listen to words of wisdom and just stick to your wife.

What does a side kick, sorry, side chick have that your wife does not? Sometimes, we men court troubles for ourselves.

Bachelorhood for me, as I currently am, is better than get married and cheat on my wife.

The fear of the many problems in marriages as we read on social media, is part of the reasons some of us are still bachelors.

Although, I don finally decide to kill that fear and settle down next year. But not until I find the right homely girl.

I don tire for some of doz daughters of Jezebel hands. Most only want to feck and enjoy money.

I need someone wey go dey give me joy and me too go dey scatter her Dada

Until I find her, the hunt, sorry, search continues

No woman can control my mating choices because i didnt control hers in her prime....no woman owns me....hence i will only marry a female who doesnt want to control my mating choices....

donforeign:
No need for this video or proof.
Nigerians deserve whatever they get ..if u like vote goat n fowl or vote based on religion or tribalism. Na u go suffer.

Plain and simple....

Saifullah01:
Slavery 2.0.
They are no longer forcing us across the sea to work on their plantations. They entice us through rag tag offers designed to perpetuate your slavery to their schemes

This is the glaring truth called neocolonialism...Canada is a British colony... dats why all these western countries keep endlessly designing visa schemes....

phemmyfour:
Canada...here I come, UK is self centered

Canada is a UK colony...an extension of UK...u will find out after you live there for a while

Rozross:
Then get ready to accept whatever the outcome is.

When she was having her fun did I control her? Now dat I want to hv my fun I can't be controlled....

Rozross:
A second wife recently poisoned her husband,first wife and all her kids while she sent her own kids to her parents house to prevent them from eating the poisonous food,she killed seven people in total out of jealousy that her husband loves the first wife and her kids more. The evil second wife use to be friends with the first wife and the unfaithful man sneaked behind his wife to impregnate the wife's friend(second wife) and he begged his wife to allow him marry her since she was already pregnant and the first wife cluelessly agreed and that was how it later ended in disaster for the once loving family.This is a true life story that happened in kogi state this very last week,my friend is a cousin to the deceased first wife. So think deep before you jump into things.

The so called "jealousy" is not out of agape love but to protect beta bucks (money)...this so called jealous wife did she not hv her fun b4 getting married?? No woman can prevent me from being with whoever I want to be with....

CandyOps:
House is a no no.

You don't bring a side piece to your home. Too risky! Just rent mini flat elsewhere sir for maximum enjoyment

Any ideas on how to protect your phone so she doesn't go thru the phone?

CandyOps:
House is a no no.

You don't bring a side piece to your home. Too risky! Just rent mini flat elsewhere sir for maximum enjoyment

Great idea!

For those of us who believe in polygamy....I really don't want to be taking my side chicks to hotels all the time....the wife is at home and no kids yet....what is the best way to bring the side chick home??

I think the best way is if I hv 2 houses... I could tell the wife I went on a business trip or to do a project for 2 weeks...

Any other ideas that are tested and works??

siofra:
Kai!!

I love the way I'm peppering these nairaland men with just my existence on this forum.

Una go wail tire. Your tears is sweet

Wicked, useless redpillers everywhere.

I'd like to kiss yr sweet lips in the pic....

herkeem:
They do fact checks on many issues

Nope they do mind conquering and denigrating fact checks in an attempt to conquer ur mind...

HedwigesMaduro:
Comprehension is not their strongest fort. Wait a while. You'll see one that'll post that BBC is an afonja station. Point to him that it has its headquarters in the UK and that many white journalists are working there. He will retort "no white man is working there. They're all albinos". These people are just memes by now. Their "reasoning" is warped.

The aim of BBC is to talk Africa down and denigrate Africa becos their colonization mission in Africa is incomplete....

herkeem:
https://www.bbc.com/news/live/world-africa-62845567?ns_mchannel=social&ns_source=twitter&ns_campaign=bbc_live&ns_linkname=63403dfbe5f7325d62a0314e%26Rumours%20about%20Tinubu%27s%20viral%20bike%20video%20dispelled%262022-10-07T15:54:46.505Z&ns_fee=0&pinned_post_locator=urn:asset:e3c0d8bd-3f32-409b-b8e9-a9d656cc1d10&pinned_post_asset_id=63403dfbe5f7325d62a0314e&pinned_post_type=share

What is the business of British State media in the internal affairs of Nigeria?

timesupreloaded:
Slave ship. Any Nigerian living in America and Canada are slaves. Going to school in both slave ships doesn't guarantee anything. All the professors in Harvard, MIT, Stanford, Oxford etc are all dumb fvcks. A palm wine tapper in Osun state is more educated than those dumb professors

Well said!

floret23:
https://www.facebook.com/1153952567961789/posts/pfbid0dxw1Ep9tZjwcQukT5rjJkurJdgkb9wpzZs99s9jxty8JqhM8quM7p4jM1QDQnepUl/?app=fbl

Lest we forget...Britain is a colonial power...they stole Zimbabwean land and South African land...

adecz:




For say na Hausa people dey in
charge of this Dangote cement, the
company for don fold up tey, tey. Them
hi dey use company money to marry
4 wives and build duplex for each one
& maintain 24 children in private
secondary schools and universities❗️❗️


Oyibo MD go tell you upfront that his
monthly salary must be $20k, minus
allowances. Outside this, he will not
take a single kobo from your company✔️✔️☑️

White man worship helps no one.... the western European is a savage in need of native american and African civilization....

Ekpekus:
Are you serious SMH

It's difficult for you to accept that Nigerians are the problem bah...ur expecting blame to be heaped on the government....

Arysexy:
What quality of life are you talking about?

Your nonsense hospitals that misdiagnose ailments? Your death trap roads? Your educational institution in comatose? The high food inflation unprecedented in the history of Nigeria? The insecurity all over?

Your nonsense hospitals that misdiagnose ailments?
>> This is due to the evil nature of Nigerians who are doctors....

Your death trap roads?
>> The roads are not death traps...Nigerians fail to drive according to road conditions and blame the roads....

Your educational institution in comatose?
>> Because the lecturers refuse to do their jobs....or offer marks for sex.

The high food inflation unprecedented in the history of Nigeria
>> There is increased inflation all across the world not just in Nigeria

The insecurity all over?
>> Nigerian cities are safer than most US cities...

CheapHomes1:
Which one did nigerian govt give it's graduates?

Many - Nigerian government is giving N75k or thereabouts to undergraduates... the problem is Nigerians have already written off their country...