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Sanchez01:
She married too early. That's the problem here. This is often a thing with those who get married early. She is bored, wants independence and suddenly wants to be alone to explore. I'd say it's pretty normal.

I know someone who got married at 21, has three kids and now wants to live just because she wants to live life and never had the chance to while she was younger.

What is she exploring?? After she finishes exploring the husband will not be waiting for her to return home.... she will probably have to remarry.... and if she doesn't get husband quality, she will become depressed.....because she once had husband quality.....

anyicash:
You just want to be free to have a taste of other dicks.. Just be plain.

Not at 33...she doesn't hv time..... 35 is expiry....

advanceDNA:
what you describe doesn't sound bad..its as if you are saying he doesn't have right to be angry or upset..

u even said he hardly gets angry, like maybe three times a year... u sound like u don't love or respect him anymore becos he's too nice....

yes....a man that gets angry only 3 times a year is obviously very quiet and too nice ....and from my experience you women don't like nice guys because nice guys don't take you on a roller coaster type of marriage


... I think you are just bored...u married too early, so midlife crisis hit you too early as well...whats worse you married a guy that's not keeping you on the edge of your seat...

U want some excitement in your life...
The mistake you are making is that instead of rekindling that excitement with your man, you are already looking outside...

this is witchcraft..


it will not end well......

She doesn't know she's old..... which kinda men will be interested?? It may also be that she never wanted to get married in the first place but are being forced by their parents.....

Ruwize1:
You are not serious at all. Seems someone some where is giving you green light abi?
Or do you think he doesn't have stuffs he is enduring from you?
You better get stuck there, because if you go in the direction your head is telling you, you will loose and later regret it. Endure it while you find the best way to work on him in that regards. We are all work in progress. You have such a man what else are you looking for? This life ehh people with good men pushing them away and those with bad ones no go let us hear.

Women and their wahala, carry them like this dem go say na like that dem want. God help us.

Anyways, are you interested and ready to study in the UK, Canada, Australia and travel with your family?
Need an SOP for that admission or visa or need visa processing?

Kindly send a DM details in my signature.

I like the bolded..

favour32:
One of the smartest psychoanalyst, Sigmund Freud said that;
"Over three decades of my career, I do not know what a woman really wants."

The man, your husband is a good man, then what do you want?

An unverified research showed that girls/women are easily tired of good guys or men!

Every rational man should not put all his eggs in one basket after marriage. The husband of this woman has built his life around her thinking he has a "wife".... he will be devastated if the woman leaves.... but if he had 5 other girls as back up, even after the wife leaves he will still be fine....

janejjjjj5000:
I am tired. I have a better view of marriage. He is not meeting up. My children are saying that the way he talks when upsets affects them. The children cry and he apologizes to all of us. I know I sound confused but I am just tired. I feel that my children will not be seeing this when we divorce. That is why I don't want the marriage anymore. I just want all round peace. I am tired.

Haha.... they are not only your children....they are his children too.......

sanpipita:
Bring your unbiased links or facts, you must receive sense by force, Russia and China don brainwash this one taya

https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2011/3/12/arab-states-seek-libya-no-fly-zone

I can see you have psychological or mental problems. The link you have posted has nothing on the origin of the war.... this includes the original france24 link you posted. Im done. Bye.

Rugaria:
I can't agree more with you. Very intelligent take there..
I also noticed something that seem to breed the feeling of inferiority amongst black people. That's the "lack of black big name inventors" and achievers/ground breakers... I think this, coupled with the fact that the quintessential history of "black civilization" is normally treated as non existent topic even within black communities and countries, helped to make lots of black folks give up, even before they start. Its as if we never existed before the contact with the white race.. If you take a cursory look at the number of black inventors in The US and Europe, who helped to invent some of the defining cultural tools used today, but who have been relegated to the background while their works are ascribed to non blacks, it's enermous. The "absence" of such figures and examples in the education of the black youth, makes it look like life defining inventions and technological developments are for other races while sports and entertainment are for blacks....

The second factor that needs to be addressed, is the issue of the venerated symbols of the different major religions. This one is sensitive but very influential. While growing up, the pictures of God and Jesus Christ and all his saints that were shown to me in the bible both at home and at school, were that of Caucasian males! Mainly Italian males. While in the same bible, the pictorial portrayals of the evil devil and his equally evil lieutenants were that of the black man,with all the over racialized physical attributes. On the surface, this looked like a harmless reflection of historical realities but the fact is that it's not! Jesus was not European with flowing hairs and blue eyes. Neither his apostles. Again, none has seen the devil to be so sure he looks like a Bantu! When you raise kids in this way, basically starting from a very early stage in life to tell them that certain people look like The Gods, while others represent the Satan, you inadvertently prepare their minds to accept servitude to the "superior race" as adults..

My brother these are words on marble....pls reference me in ur future posts on this subject by typing my name. Do you permit me to forward this post to Lai Mohammed, President of Ghana and President of Senegal (current chairperson of the African Union) and some Prime Ministers in Africa?? Together we can heal the minds of our people.

SeriouslySense:
That's true, with respect to black inventors, there are talents already making machines, and gadget they should be recognized, even if their work is not new in the world, for repetitive inventions or creations they could earn the transitory or replicative inventors.

Religion is a sensitive topic I believe its a personal choice, but you are right, about the white image of Jesus, we see in paintings, that may cause some inferiority complex, but, it likely won't be an issue, if its explained well.

The super white complex, is also reinforced by adverts, soap opera, movies and arts. But its wont be an issue, if we made our own representations, for instance Nollywood, hardly inspires in their movie, to show, a black man who is creative, a problem solver, smart, and an inventive person and who can do what is impossible, but with time i am sure they would recognize the importance of inspiring the minds of the viewers.

Einstein and Faraday work aren't new.... they simply claimed it as new.

sanpipita:
Where did I say they voted favour? they refused to vote at all, if they cared they would have voted no and showed support at that level but they refused, there was no opposition to the resolution, I will educate you the more, war was already on before NATO moved into Libya, go and read what the UN resolution was about again.

Read statement from Arab league before the resolution went ahead

https://www.france24.com/en/20110302-arab-league-moussa-libya-catastrophic-rejects-foreign-military-intervention-cairo-gaddafi

Na so u mumu reach? France24 is French State media of course they will say France and its all lies are innocent....

Animegirl:
Put the microphone on speaker.

Men if you can't carry nine month old pregnancy or go through labour, you don't have any right to ask us what we bring to the table. T for thanks.

Labour or pregnancy is NOTHING. It is one off. It was punishment God gave the female folk.... no be man cause am. The child being born is hers too.

Women bring nothing to the table in marriage.

emmyclassic:
You are the useless fool who is still wallowing in stupidity about things that has happened in the past as a reason for your backwardness. Move on and hold your leaders and yourself accountable for your continuous retrogression. Are our leaders poor is that why they Keep plundering our collective resources for themselves. Am telling its greed that has made we humans over history to be nasty people. If we were not still primitive at that time the British invaded and colonise why didn’t we fight/tell them off.

@bigbashiru A quick example for you. If we civilised humans today discover another planet that has all the resources we need on earth what do you think we would do to it if we can explore to our benefit not minding the inhabitants of this Alien planet? I guess you’d be happy to plunder it and you’d be happier if one of the gasses there can repair our ozone layer. The punchline is humans will be perpetually greedy and nature permits survival of the fittest. Stop dwelling in the past move on and let’s develop ourselves cos nobody is coming to help us in Africa

Africans ain't backward. You were informed by the western European savages and their media and you MADE A CHOICE to believe them.....

We are already developed. You forget Egypt is part of Africa as is Morocco as is Nigeria (nothing wrong with Nigeria) even Botswana and Rwanda.... I hv a friend that recently went to Rwanda he says it's BEAUTIFUL.

Your mind, your choice bro....

I've lived around the world and I can tell u eurooe is only more developed infrastructurally.... in all other areas, we are better.....

sanpipita:
You were forming you know it all and suddenly you have no answers? you were there bragging Russia and China protects Africa through security council which is all lies, when resolution on Libya came up in UN, Russia and China couldn't even bother to vote and the resolution was adopted, China and Russia are always targeting simple minds like you cos they know you know next to nothing, help yourself and try find out what caused Libya war, find out at what point did NATO enter Libya then you will stop lying to yourself

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Nations_Security_Council_Resolution_1973

Russia and China did not vote in favor of the illegal lybian invasion. If you say otherwise bring ur proof. You know nothing about the lybian war and are just arguing not for education but solely for the protection of your ego.

emmyclassic:
It’s greed and the knowledge to explore not poverty. We that have the resources in abundance did we know what to use it for or even how to mine it? Mind you Britain had oil and gas too(Google is your friend) they shutdown theirs cos they are aware of the environmental damage and hazard. Resources they don’t have in abundance they go out to look for it. And they met a lot of countries today still primitive they invaded and colonise and it was the norm in those days ( most of the world was still a jungle)

Google "Timbuktu manuscripts" and you will see centuries of pioneering African knowledge in science, physics, astronomy, maths etc... knowledge which was used by the Africans to mine minerals.... all this knowledge predates European arrival around 1850.... Africa had been mining way before the Europeans invaded the continent and poisoned ur mind with their false educational curriculum....

Quintopia @Quintopia pls note above to use it in educating other ignorant folks u come across.

The colonialists really dealt with the MIND of the black man just the same way they dealt with the mind of the native Americans by calling them "savages" and seeking to erase them from the earth.

sanpipita:
Let me ask you this one question, what caused the war in Libya?

Answer the question you are asking me.

emmyclassic:
It’s greed and the knowledge to explore not poverty. We that have the resources in abundance did we know what to use it for or even how to mine it? Mind you Britain had oil and gas too(Google is your friend) they shutdown theirs cos they are aware of the environmental damage and hazard. Resources they don’t have in abundance they go out to look for it. And they met a lot of countries today still primitive they invaded and colonise and it was the norm in those days ( most of the world was still a jungle)

You are brainwashed....because they call themselves "explorers" instead of colonialists just the same way they call themselves "expatriates" instead of immigrants today.

It's poverty and overpopulation that causes colonization. German South West Africa was created due to overpopulation and food shortage in Germany. May God save ur soul from colonial brainwashing.

sanpipita:
Lol these guys don't understand what they are talking about, entire Europe especially eastern Europe are scared of Russia, Russia shares same skin color with these people o, in Asia Japan, South Korea, even India no dey use ear hear China but they think as black people they have a better chance with Russia and China

Africa needs super power support. Russia and China has shown thru their actions at the United Nations security council that they are friendly countries. This does not mean they don't hv their own interests; the only difference is they don't commit genocide to get it...

Mali had an empire.... they didn't resort to genocide or trying to strip ppl of their language and culture. Even Oyo had an empire. Russia had an empire but it wasn't expanded thru genocide.

But look at the record of Britain - multiple genocides and "residential schools"(where natives are forbidden from speaking their language and stripped of their culture) same as France and Germany (80000+ Namibian killed)....

At the end of the day no country loves u more than u love yourself be it Russia or China.... but the African partnership with Russia and China is more fruitful than that with western europe....

The records speak for themselves.

sanpipita:
Lol I can see you are high on Russian propaganda, you don't even know how and what caused war in Libya, only thing I tell people like you when I meet them is you will learn the hard way, shebi na Russia and China? you will learn

I presented you with facts but you just type up generic propaganda. War in lybia was waged by the west under the pretence of "human rights abuses" just as they did in Iraq. Learn what the hard way?? Go and review UN meetings they are available online....

Masterito:
I stopped reading your trash when you said there is no for China and Russia to build vast empire.

I don't understand your response.... China had a small empire same as Russia but they never divided up a continent for themselves nor committed genocide against natives nor expoused racial superiority theories like the western European savages love doing etc

sanpipita:
Lol you know Russia was an empire even China was an empire and you are still arguing, go and read how Ukraine was forced in USSR union and several genocides Russia committed against them, at some point they banned Ukrainian language.

You people are desperate to dine with the devil because you want to prove a point to the West, China made a whole billionaire disappear for months, that's who you think you have a better chance with.

As I said earlier u can tell who has good intentions for Africa from whats happening at the UN Security Council. All evil resolutions against Africa are always coming from the 6 poverty stricken imperialists of western europe while Russia and China consistently blocks such resolutions.

The french/UK/Canadian USA invasion of lybia did not hv Russian and Chinese and UN backing.... yet they invaded anyway because they felt threatened by Ghaddaffis plans for Africa.

Putin is a Christian. Ukrainian witches tried to bring him down but each time they attacked him they saw he was protected. Google "ukrainian witches putin".... can same be said of Boris Johnson lol

sanpipita:
All these long talks doesn't change fact China and Russia are imperialist states, go and ask eastern Europe and Hong Kong, Uighur Muslim how far, Russia and China will repeat what they have done elsewhere in Africa if they get a chance.

Russia and China are not imperialists. The imperialists are the 6 poverty stricken countries of western europe....UK France Belgium Italy Spain Germany

pquaver:
Just look at the people some Nairaland urchin want to take the place of USA and west. Have u ever heard of China and Russia offering asylum to any country in crisis. I think Nigeria has made some people to love suffer head. They now tend to gravitate towards suffering and everything that has to do with suffering... Abeg when are those ones on Nairaland with hate for West relocating to China and Russia?

Asylum is typically offered to neighbours and close by countries.....

I'm sure there are Pakistani refugees in china

I'd love to live in China. I've been once... beautiful country with fine sexy Chinese gals....

sanpipita:
Lol imperialism doesn't have to be Africa, why do you think Russia are attacking Ukraine, why is China warning everyone off Taiwan and holding down Hong Kong, China and Russia are imperialist states, their imperialism just never touched Africa.

And funny you think giving positive news is what will change reality, you people learn the hard way, you want to shake hands with Russia and China I dey laugh.

My dear when it comes to Ukraine, the imperialists there are US/UK/EU since 1994 NATO has been expanding Eastward with the ultimate goal of encircling Russia so Russia has risen to defend itself.

Hong Kong was a British colony.

You have not submitted any evidence that Russia and China are imperialists..... though I know Russia once had an empire though...

sanpipita:
If Chinese and Russia couldn't stand crimes against blacks why do they treat blacks worse even today, saying China and Russia are not imperialists is funny, they just couldn't make it to Africa, anyway some of you usually learn the hard way

The Foreign Policy of China and Russia are neither imperial nor racist. However between 1700 and 2000s the foreign policy of the western European savages were both. Around 1908, after Germany murdered around 80000 Namibians they took human remains back to Germany to conduct experiments to see if Namibians were monkeys

Though the Russian and Chinese foreign policy are neither imperial nor racist, however many Russians and Chinese are racist due to constant denigration of blacks by Western media.

As I speak I can confirm that Russian State media has plans to set up a hub in Kenya to give positive news about Africa (contrast this with bbc racist reporting policy).

Finally Belaraus buys military vehicles from Nigeria (not that they can't buy from russia). What does western europe buy from nigeria except raw materials?

IGBOSON1:
Think of all the revolutionary Africans that were trying to emancipate us from mental slavery...like Thomas Sankara, Patrice Lumumba, and the sitsuations that could have freed us from the shackles of European neo-colonialism....like the Biafra war, which the British fought against by proxy......all these and more show how Europe and the West have fought against the complete detachment of black Africa from their socio-economic stranglehold! They, as well as the Chinese, are still milking Africa till today....only difference is the Chinese are more upfront and honest about theirs!

Let me tell you something you don't know. Over the past 24 months, France, supported by UK have tried to pass many UN Security Council resolutions against Mali... each and every time, such resolutions were blocked by Russia backed by China. If not for Russia and China many African countries will still be slaves to western europe....

It ultimately boils down to who has higher military capability.... the power in the world is dictated by who has more military capability....

Africa will need to build up its military but in the mean time we need support from Russia and China.

Western Europe will never agree for Africa to be detached from them because they will become poor.

I feel that China has no motivation to colonize because they hv resources and land mass which the western European savages don't.

musicwriter:
I don't even know what to say right now because my hands are literally shaking on the magnitude of European crimes buried without our knowledge. Please check www.africason.com within a week or less. I promise you that I'll do justice to the revelation of European crimes in Africa during slavery and colonialism.

I will support your blog in any way I can and will also show your blog to the African Union for funding. Colonialism hasn't ended tho France still has 5000 troops in the sahel who refuse to leave and who forment terror, murder of civilians, regime change, etc.

Other Important Points

1. Mungo Park did not "discover" River Niger. This is legal doctrine of discovery/terra nullius (which is latin for "no mans land" which was used to steal native lands in North America and Africa.
2. Nigerian and African scientists should be introduced into the curriculum asap in addition to Faraday and Einstein etc so that our kids do not grow up with inferiority complex... Google just digitized Timbuktu (Mali) manuscripts which contains 400-600 yrs of African scientific works across chemistry, geography, maths, etc prior to European arrival on the continent but these are never taught to our children.
3. Some Igbo people say "Bekee bu agbala" which translated means - "white man is god"; which is said out of ignorance about their own capabilities and the brainwashing....

IGBOSON1:
Good points! See what they did with the Oba of Benin and his subjects that were murdered in the punitive expedition by Queen Victorias' forces!

But that pic is so traumatising...could you remove it?

1. Mungo Park did not "discover" River Niger. This is legal doctrine of discovery/terra nullius (which is latin for "no mans land" which was used to steal native lands in North America and Africa.
2. Nigerian and African scientists should be introduced into the curriculum asap in addition to Faraday and Einstein etc so that our kids do not grow up with inferiority complex... Google just digitized Timbuktu (Mali) manuscripts which contains 400-600 yrs of African scientific works across chemistry, geography, maths, etc prior to European arrival on the continent but these are never taught to our children.
3. Some Igbo people say "Bekee bu agbala" which translated means - "white man is god"; which is said out of ignorance about their own capabilities and the brainwashing....

Litmus:
Nigeria has approximately 200 million native black people of all types, other West and central African types add no value. Even if Chinese people lived in numbers in Nigeria and just lazed about doing nothing they would still add value to Nigeria in the form of curio and variety.

Lol I appreciate your opinion but I don't agree... Nigerians are just as capable as Chinese et al.

musicwriter:
You have no idea of the magnitude of crime committed by Britain, France, etc in Africa during colonialism. Europeans killed in mass!! They were genocide in Algeria, Sudan, Congo, Namibia. Britain and France literally committed genocide in every African tribe- now called tribes.

The reason Russia and china stayed away during colonialism was exactly because they couldn't stand such extreme crime against black people.

China hasn't overthrown the Rwandan government yet, but Britain would first overthrow your king, send him on exile or bury him alive, then enslave you plus brainwash you. Finally, he would make you worship him and thank him for doing all that to you.

You've given me an idea of what to blog this coming week. I'll respond to you fully on my blog cause I don't have time to respond in details right now. Check www.africason.com in a week or less for my full response.

We've been enslaved, colonized, miseducated, brainwashed.

The hands of these children were cut off because they couldn't pick a certain daily quantity of cotton and latex required by a European king.

Everybody visit www.africason.com in a week or less for much much more.

You are spot on bro.... the crimes of the western European savages must be exposed. I will visit your blog. We urgently need Africa mind decolonization bloggers to expedite the process of decolonization of the African mind and expose the lies and atrocities of the western European savages.....

Thanks sir/ma il visit ur blog.

You can also apply for funding from the African Union....

babasolution:
The summary of the whole saga is majority of black people are dumb slaves,especially blackmen,black men are docile patient slaves to the races,it's only their women they get power for

You are right.... this slavery begins in the mind and with the current educational curriculum which glorifies the white man....we must change our educational curriculum and media to glorify the black man.....

IGBOSON1:
These African countries (specifically subsahara African) are ready to dine with the devil in the name of FDI! They fck up their country with greed, corruption, nepotism, ethnicity and wars, then sell their souls to China for 'investments' and 'cheap loans'! The so called railway infrastructure they're building in Nigeria for instance....it's antiquated technology and the terms and conditions for giving the loans left Nigeria holding the short end of the stick!

I agree that some deals with China may not hv been negotiated with the best terms but trust md Chinese loans are better than Western European loans....

I'm happy for Nigeria to borrow from all countries in the world except western europe...

SeriouslySense:
regardless of any partnerships, we ought to have the mindset that its temporary, and more importantly that we are not going to depend on anyone.

Partnerships are not guarantees, this is not the first partnership on earth to crumble as usual.

You are right but it's a successful partnership as far as infrastructure goes....