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DaveDGreat:


Italy? Some parts of Italy be like Mushin sha. But France, I nor know ooo

An Italian friend recently confided in me that Italy is a developing country (their income began to decline as soon as their African colonies ended). France too is poor as we speak and is facing economic and social crises - thats why macron is holding tight to their life support (Mali, Niger, Ghana etc)... Nigeria is better than both.....

DaveDGreat:
What about Bangladesh? I hear say their corruption dey another level. Na follow come.

Nigeria is actually better than a lot of white countries. One I am sure of is North Cyprus.

Nigeria is better than Italy and France

uniquetechng:
Nigeria is only better than Sudan and Libya, Morocco, Algeria and Tunisia are way way better than Nigeria.

Nigeria is better than Italy and France.

DroppingLiquid:
Just one. I'm writing an article on this

Nigeria is FAR better than Italy and France.

sliksusan:
Indonesia is very good country and nice l only spend 2 month in Jakarta before left there to Singapore but Singapore expensive l cant stay there just spend one week there and left Singapore to Philippine
Indonesia better pass Africa , food very cheaper in Indonesia about job l did not know about that because am not stay long there only two month spend there and left to Singapore

Sounds like u making this up and lying

pocohantas:
Oh well it always comes back to bite them. That is why my default response is “men are polygamous in nature”. Now the wife is at fault, but if the maid happened to be one of their gf’s, it would be yet another cry of “fear women”. Nothing about their thinking surprises me anymore. I have no love for them, their female family members can do that, not me.

Hey girlfriend been a while!

Suffocate me with ur bum bum

Jenniferchuma10:
A woman has taken to her social media to reveal how her husband of 10 years left her for the maid.

She shared her story in response to a tweet about heartbreak.

She wrote: “After 10years of marriage my ex hubby left me for the maid. my dear I almost died, I could even see the maid driving his Benz in town while I was taking my son to school on foot. With Time you gonna be okay.”


https://www.trendinghub.ng/husband-leaves-wife-for-their-maid-after-10-years-of-marriage/

The maid is YOUNG and ATTRACTIVE.... that's why this stuff happens.....

Winters23:
Nothing sweet pass being a rich and wealthy man in Lagos or any other part of Nigeria.

It's only poor people that denigrate this great country and they think going abroad is a sure escape route from poverty...

I basically own and control the police station in my locality, the OC debriefs me regularly on security situation in my area.

I have white people work for me from all around the globe and they get paid as at when due.

I can't even count how many duplexes and mansions that I own.

I travel to any country without visa because I have countless CBI passports.

I live like a king and general even as a fvcking civilian.

The only social media I use is nairaland and I am a ghost on other social networks.

I love my country Nigeria, I die here!

I love Nigeria and Africa too.... never basing abroad....

odinson1:
Women Basically want 3 things
1. the Power and Authority of a man
2. The Privileges of Being a Woman
3. The Accountability of A child.

I pity those ignorant, naive men who are fighting for Equality for women. Those idiots don't realize that they are being cheated,the woman you are fighting for,is trying to overthrow your power. She will expect you to man up and fight for her,or Provide when times are hard. But when times are good,they will drag equality with you. Take the Russian/Ukraine war as a case study. The women are allowed to leave,but the men are mandated to stay. Not a single feminist came out to say women were being Relegated (because they are weak,which is true).
You know why? It is because times are hard,it is war,so they don't have the luxury to be fighting for equality now.

About point 2, privileges come with responsibilities.... what do i get in return for providing as a husband?? They used to be youth and virginity but they have been taken away from the equation.

I cannot be providing for a used up retired olosho that has been used by various men prior to marriage....that's the problem.... this means the girls are eating their cake (hoeing around b4 marriage) and having it (marrying a rich man that provides)....

alexconddy072:
Any woman who believes she is equal in authority with her husband is actually challenging God. I will like the Op to read what God says in Genesis chapter 3 verse 16. I rest my case, but you may continue with your advocacy.

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staga:
How long have you been married? I have been in it more than 2 decades. Maybe your own wife married you for monetary gains. Mine did not. So stay clear of my pathway and don't use stupid words to reply me.

You are a bastion of stupidity. Let your money run dry and see if she won't start complaining.... as I said even if the security u offer her isn't financial it could be psychological..... they aren't loyal and "wife" is an idealistic judeo Christian construct. Foolish man.

Portiphars wife wasn't loyal and the nature of girls hasn't changed.

Dear men,

It is good to have a business or a job before you start dating or talking about marriage. Because a man without an income is more likely to propose to a woman he doesn't love, and spend the rest of his life existing instead of living. Go into marriage, not bondage. Be productive and work. Stop waiting for a woman to bail you out of your poverty circle.

You are a woman that's why you post as Nobody. It is women looking for men to bail her out of her poverty cycle.....that's why women marry - for financial security and emotional security e.g. "God fearing man."

Unfortunately the parasitic nature of SOME (not all) females has been exposed

stagger:
There is nothing like Gender equality in marriage. What we are supposed to have as created by God in marriage is GENDER COMPLEMENTATION. [b]My wife's strengths are to cover my weaknesses and my strengths cover her weaknesses. [/b]That is what makes us a solid unit which according to the bible, can put 10,000 to flight where one person can only put 1000 to flight.

Anyone preaching gender equality in marriage is just a modern-day mumu.

@bolded is idealistic Christian nonsense. The truth is women marry for security once there's no monetary or psychological security, she becomes problematic....

aklion:
How can you be equal to a man in marriage for heaven sake. I swear down I hate this topic eh. Bible talk am. Man the head not man and woman equal. Woman submit and man love your wife. Woman being equality my foot. Even if u get money pass the man. Omo marriage don too scatter because of this nonsense.

Leave the bible out of it and use your common sense first and foremost then apply bible after wards. Don't follow the bible blindly.... spirituality and logic are in sync and not opposite

dalass:
Superior in what way?

This society is damned already if the males in it don't realize that continuous repression and harassment of the women is killing themselves!

In civilized world, women are President, Queen and Prime minister and things are working beautifully...

But our dear barbaric cavemen will prefer to be under a male who knows not his left from his right simply due to mischief of 'man is superior'..... Probably to an ape!

I agree with ur viewppint. Men also excuse their crimes under "Men are superior" mentality.

koolaid87:
I love gender equality and so should all Men out there.

Men have been dealing with a lot of responsibilities from birth.

Thanks to the feminist movement because a lot of those loads will be shared equally.

Dumb people want equality and when you ask what they're bringing to the table, they get annoyed lol

My own is my wife must be bringing significant amounts of money to run the house with..... I ain't accepting no liability

tollyboy5:
I'm not also a fan of marriage. I don't want submission.
What I want is respect is reciprocal. That's how me and my elder sis grew up.
I'm not going to feed any lazy ass woman.

Many ladies are broke with Ego at the same time

Preach it loud and clear. I don't want any parasite... the relationship must be symbiotic

Olowosaudi:
Hmmm, what have observed over the years is that a man will willingly marry a woman he loves that does not have a dime and invest in her to make her strong financially in future. Let the table turn, and the man loses his job and means of being the bread winner of the family, and the woman takes over and weeks after taking care of the family responsibilities, she will begin to grumble and tell the whole world that she is the bread winner and her husband does nothing but watches television. Women by nature are wired to take instruction from the men. That is how nature deems it to be. Anything contrary to this, will cause chaos as we are currently observing in Nigeria.

Not only are they wired to take instruction from men but the vast majority are lazy and don't want any kind of stress....that's why they all aim for rich men

Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

Nigeria is more civilised than your so called "civilised climes"...
Civilization started in africa

blazingblender:
Where condom
You say no
Now you have brought this little angel into the world
To suffer a crime he didn't commit
Please don't get pregnant if you can't afford to take care of the child
Now how will this young dude feel if he later grows up to be told he was found in an uncompleted building

Women don't care about that.... they only care about themselves

Hassanmaye:
You say 35 is expiry? Some women in 40 still get boyfriends

Even women in their 50s hv boyfriends too.... there will always be demand for sex.....

But they are not preferred....only guys without younger options go for such....

But I won't argue with u.... if u want 40s and 50s u free....

sanpipita:
You know the situation involved Arab spring yet you are still blame West.

Only if you know Russia blocked the UN resolution in Mali because it would have exposed them, the Russian mercenaries they sent there were accused of massacre along with Malian military, you can google Wagner group, haha you think Russia blocked it because they like Mali they were only protecting themselves, when I say you will learn hard way you think I'm joking

https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2022/03/09/mali-russia-wagner/

https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2022/4/5/mali-military-foreign-fighters-summarily-execute-300-people-hrw

First of all I like your discussion approach... we are not arguing to "defeat" each other in the chat....we discussing to learn....

NATO was formed during the war between us and allies and ussr....it was formed by the west to defeat ussr.... so what is happening in lybia does not concern them.... its akin to African union standby force intervening in an European matter that doesn't concern it.

You hv seen that those that voted FOR at the UN are thr western European savages (that's what I call them).... Arab Spring are not permanent members of the UN....

NATO has no business in lybia.... as I said they use democracy and human rights abuses to carry out their illegal invasions.... if Russia was lybia in this Ukraine war they would hv attacked Russia too but they won't try it....

Just understand what's going on.... US and West use "democracy" and "human rights abuses" to carry out their illegal invasions around the world.... they wanted to do that in mali too as we speak...... in mali, Russia is helping Mali drive out France..... just as Russia helped Nigeria drive out Britain and helped South Africa drive out Britain

sanpipita:
Lol which international law?

iTs nOt bAcKeD bY uN

https://www.nytimes.com/2011/10/28/world/middleeast/security-council-ends-libya-intervention-mandate.html

https://news.un.org/en/story/2011/10/393242-libya-security-council-ends-mandate-international-military-operations

I will injure you with facts since you have refused to have sense, funny enough on day the mandate was voted to end intervention it was unanimous, sit down and learn stop listening to propaganda and saying things you don't know

We are saying the same thing. The text below is straight from the UN website and not from any news source:

"The Security Council today effectively authorized the use of force in Libya to protect civilians from attack, specifically in the eastern city of Benghazi, which Colonel Muammar Al-Qadhafi has reportedly said he will storm tonight to end a revolt against his regime.

Acting under Chapter VII of the UN Charter, which provides for the use of force if needed, the Council adopted a resolution by 10 votes to zero, with five abstentions, authorizing Member States “to take all necessary measures… to protect civilians and civilian populated areas under threat of attack in the Libyan Arab Jamhariya, including Benghazi, while excluding an occupation force.”

The abstentions included China and Russia, which have the power of veto, as well as Brazil, Germany and India."

As I said earlier, China and Russia did not vote in favor. They did directly vote against because the situation was complex involving Arab Spring.

Compare that with the case of Mali where both Russia and China have been vetoing

jmoore:
Below is the list of what most states in USA charge for a candidate that wants to partake in primaries.

Governor: $5,000.
U.S. Senate: $5,000.
U.S. House: $2,500.
State Senate: $1,000.
State House: $500.
Judicial offices: $500.
Countywide elected offices: $100.
County Commission or Constable: $25.

Let's compare one state in USA and a country called Nigeria.

GDP of Texas 2021: 2.0 Trillion dollars
Budget of Texas 2021: 261.5 billion dollars.
Presidential aspirants in Texas pay a $5,000 filing fee.

GDP of Nigeria 2021: 446.9 billion dollars
Budget of Nigeria 2021: 23.3 billion US dollars (13.6 trillion naira)
APC presidential form: 170,940 US dollars (100 million naira)

Compare that to a poor country called Nigeria. APC decided to set the price of governorship at $85,470 (50 million naira). That is 16 times more than what is paid in USA. While that of president set at 170,940 US dollars (100 million naira) is 34 times more than what is paid in USA.

Until INEC sets a REASONABLE limit on how much political parties can charge, this ridiculous trend will continue.

Are our destinies tied to APC and PDP?
Many are complaining that these top two parties are disenfranchising young candidates with their prices. We have more younger people than old people. If only many Nigerians think like me, APC and PDP would have been abandoned for a long time. But most of the electorates love 'abusive relationship'.

If in other countries, a young person can win an election with a unpopular party, why can't it happen in Nigeria?

It is not a good idea for a young person to win elections becos they won't know history and will therefore give Nigeria into the hands of its enemies.... there's nothing like democracy. The position of president is too delicate to be randomly given to anybody.....

Tinubu or another oldie is the next president

CSNg:
95% of Nigerian parents who started having kids from the early year 2000 till date are total failures!

Their children are more powerful than they are.

This is the reason why there is moral decadence amongst youngsters of nowadays unlike what was obtainable in the 70's and 80's.
This one asking for braces na even small thing.

Let me recount my firsthand experiences...

There is this single mother who lives in my street with 3 sons aged about 9, 7 and 4 respectively. These little boys in her presence were speaking "cult slangs" and instead of reprimanding them, she was grinning like a goat and even joined them.

Another encounter was where 2 girls of about 11-12 were singing Naira Marley's "Opor" and when they got to the part where he said, "Body fine...t*to sweet", they sang it with reckless abandon and then started arguing about whose t*to will be sweeter.
One told the other that her friend's own is yet to develop hair while hers has started and that guys will see her matured than her friend. The mother of the one who said hers is "hairy" was there picking beans and didn't even bat an eyelid and told her daughter to go and get her water from inside the house and stop talking rúbbish in a very casual and calm manner as if the girls were her age mates and they were arguing about the price of weavon in the market.

We are all in trouble with the kind of children being bred in this generation!;

Human sexuality is not a bad thing.... discussing t*to sweetness ain't bad.... they should be discussing about how it will be with their future husbands not with random boyfriends.... parents are a failure because they subscribe to the boyfriend system instead of bethrothing their daughter off wen they come of age

sanpipita:
More dense propaganda, exact reason Chinese will be flogging you people, an adult can't even comprehend what he posted himself, the source you posted doesn't collerate anything you say, you make it up as you go, you thought NATO woke up and invaded Libya without knowing it was an intervention backed by UN and serveral Arab states.

It was not backed by UN.... only western European savages countries of the un came up with the resolution and passed it against international law....

Sanchez01:
Exploration is not in any way tied to greed. It is a human thing and depending on our personality, it is loud or reserved. Most explorers often understand life better as they have experienced different perspectives.

In human relations, exploring means learning, experiencing and becoming a better judge of character. However, like every human decision, exploring might come with regrets which we definitely tuck away as "pasts". Exploration is not just about sex and I don't agree that it is sex an no compatibility. Demisexuals like myself will always disagree about this.

I disagree with the choice paradox assertion. It is not tied to age and is not responsible for people marrying late. One is likely the consequences of choice if one suffers from indecision.

I personally wouldn't consider anyone under the age bracket of 26 downwards as ripe for marriage. The might have aged but sometimes, the consciousness and epiphany of marriage hasn't hit home. Some would speak "marriagy", sound smart and seem ready but their subconscious, more often than not is still very much open to roaming, adventuring and living life. If you take those things away in marriage as a man. Ten years or so is all they have to wake up and realise that they want more and want away.

Women explore until they see they have started aging then rush into marriage and then divorce...it's all tied to greed ...

Klass99:
I agree, but men are not pressured or emotionally blackmailed into early marriages, the same way women are, with the biological clock narrative.

Additionally, when these early marriages happen a man is mostly established already, with a good income source via business or salaried employment, he has a career of his own, a more exposed life and mind (again, not from sex but having experienced life on his terms) it feels like women are more short changed in this regard.

In the event of early marriages, it is also women who give up more for the sake of their marriages and children. You can find couples who are 6 or 10 years in marriage and in that time a man would have completed his Masters, possibly changed jobs for a better one or received a promotion at work, because he self developed.

While a woman may have remained the same way she entered that marriage, because the responsibilities of marriage/children, would have taken over her hopes and dreams to be more, besides a wife and mother. It takes really strong and determined women to still forge ahead and achieve their personal goals beyond marriage.

This is utter nonsense and u speak as a foolish woman. Age and time eventually catches up with us all.... both men and women....

Work is punishment God gave Adam in the garden of eden if that's what you call personal goals....

Men give up more in marriage and marriage favors women..... when a man marries he signs up to financial servitude to a woman.... even the girls that say they will work, wen work stres comes 70% of them ditch work....

Biological clockis preached to favor girls.... guys are attracted to young girls while young girls are attracted to guys with money and personality and status (these can be likened to be men's biological clock).... it's therefore in a woman's best interest to settle down early..mm iys all said in love not how bitter nairaland guys say it....

sanpipita:
Always knew it will come to this, the last paragraph got me laughing e say na golden dinar.

Read what you posted kai, intervention in response to first Libyan civil war Libyans were already fighting and at war then intervention came from NATO, NATO didn't start any war in Libya or did they invade them.

Russia have roasted your brain with propaganda, nothing remain, you posted me same source I showed you some parts before kai, this is why Chinese will be flogging una, too densed

I can't stop laughing. Have you heard of "asymmetric war" and "divide and conquer".... that's exactly what the nato led block did in 2011.... the first Civil War in lybia was also formented by the west....

Sanchez01:
That's the point. She's 33 now, got married 14 yes ago. This means she got married at 19. She skipped the part of life where she is supposed to explore and enjoy life as an unmarried woman but she's coming back all over to wanting and craving that. Unfortunately, the longer she remains in the marriage, the more frustrated she'll be since she is already drifting from her spouse. She wants to leave the marriage and wants to experience love through the eyes of another based on her "Papa and Mama" kind of love and that's all you need to see the picture.

Well, you know what they say about not knowing the value of what you love until you lose it?

At your last sentence, I agree....

The concept of exploring has no basis in biology and instead is based on greed.... most "explorers" eventually regret it.... all ppl get from Exploration is sex but not compatibility....

Even if she didn't explore, she will still be a victim of "choice paradox"....(Google it) which will still lead to her getting married at 30....

Bretton Woods and IMF and World Bank are institutions aimed at maintaining Western power over the whole world....

I don't even know why emefiele is listening to them....

sanpipita:
Dumbo what's origin of the war? surprise me by putting your brain to good use, you don't even know its the no fly zone authorisation that lead to NATO's intervention in Libya, you dont even know Libya was already at war reason Arab league and co were calling for no fly zone, Russia and China have feasted on your brain nothing remains again.

On 19 March 2011, a multi-state NATO-led coalition began a military intervention in Libya, to implement United Nations Security Council Resolution 1973, in response to events during the First Libyan Civil War.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2011_military_intervention_in_Libya#:~:text=On%2019%20March%202011%2C%20a,the%20First%20Libyan%20Civil%20War.

It says NATO led. What is NATO doing in Lybia? Protection of its oil and gas interests and preventing Lybia from rising - and thwarting ghadaffis plans to introduce a currency called Golden Dinar that will make lybia powerful. This is my last comment. Bye.