tope2000:


is something suppose to jump out

Tope cover your eyes. dont let these folks corrupt you.

davidylan:

are you interested or not?

bigboyslim hands off onyinye2, we igbo men don't give away our women, slender or not.

and would you expect this from someone who can't keep his hands off Ruby Pearl.

Onyinye dont mind all the haterz. I love you just the way you are. but please you need to add an extra layer of booty.

a bit tacky. still i'd call him a hero

haven't done it before. but i could do it if i have my swagga on. But definitely not in naija. You can end up making the headlines of a local soft sell paper.

ibkaye why did you remove your lovely pictures

Most times, the keys to the heart are in the wallet. check your wallet first before complaining.

dudu-bobo:

You'll be better off getting a life

Wouldnt that be more expensive than getting the tattoo.

Fancier:

@ MFOLARIN
It is obvious in your case that you have realise your mistakes and you are ready to
retrace your step. Well all you need to do is talk to her heart in prayers, arrange a date (any how you know you can ahieve that just do it) make her understand you are sorry for all the pains you"ve caused her that you never ment to do that and if she eventually agrees, make sure you don't go back on your word ok. Don't do things things that will make her call it off between you guys ok. Goodluck

@BIGBOYSLIM
It is obvious you are eggocentric and not even sorry about what you've done
Maybe you think she will just sit and cross her legs all in the name of love waiting for when you will fall back in love with her and accept you. Well i pity You

firstly you didnt say how long you've dumped her. because this also really matters
As for your wondurios eye infection, you better sick for a fast treatment because it will lead you to a deadly point of no return one day.

You better go and seek for forgiveness yourself or you meet a close friend of her to help you or any of your family member to do that for you.(that is if you are serious about getting her back) [b]and if you are not, leave her alone and let her be somebody more responsible will fall in love with her ok Becos am sure your so called pretty that made you fall out of love with her has dumped you and you don't have any option now other than for you to retrance your steps[/b]
Nonsense

Are you sure you read my post thoroughly. Did i mention getting with any other girl?, talk less of getting dumped.

Abbygyal:

your mouth too sweet, prove it!

okay make i yarn true, na scope. i no fine at all.

I'm black as ugly as ever however I stay gucci down to the socks.

Abbygyal:

do u think i would believe that?? okay! prove it!

Last time i posted my pic on nairaland, i was banned.

Reason: too fine

Abbygyal:

are u serious
i dnt play with this kind of issues lol
me love. . . .cute guys lol

I'm so cute that in high school, i was asked to transfer to a boys only school cuz any class I enrolled in, all the ladies failed at the end of term.

Abbygyal:

your pic? what? huh? dnt think so
dnt tell u are that cute!

My mistake. after taking a closer look, i realize it's not me after all. I'm actually cuter than that.

Aiyetunje:

bbslim,

Who dash monkey banana? You dey claim my picture?! Dont u know Abby & I are an item , soon to be announced

Yea right. and talking about items. I thought Onyinye and I were an item. I guess she must have started cheating on me. If I catch that David boy,

Abbygal,, why do you have my pic in your profile?

See I used to be so shy
Stayed at home and fantasized
I aint wasting no more time
Cuz I got to make you mine

I'm gonna make you want to get with me tonight
I'm gonna put those naughty thoughts into your mind
I'm gonna show you clearly I can rock your world
You're gonna know for sure that I should be your girl

See I used to be afraid
But now baby I can't wait
I just got to have your love
And enough's enough's enough

tee baby you dont have to look too far. just go and look for any Mariah Carey song and copy the lyrics. your poem is ready. But make sure you don't copy the one featuring all those rappers oh, because then your boyfriend might begin to question your sanity.

Once again thanks to you guys. Particularly those that have taken their time to offer genuine advice. from most of the responses, it is obvious that some people are actually mistaking the tone of my message for desperation. I am not desperate. Its not like I will kill myself if it doesnt eventually work out. I just want to make sure that I give it my best shot after which I am willing to accept the resultant effect.

topup:

BigBoySlim, how long did it take you to realise that she was more special than you originally thought?
Also, did you completely cut off contact with her when you left her/ignore her/put her in past/forget about her?
How did come across your decision that she was better than you originally thought, was it through a bad relationship/experience, or your own conclusion?

Absolutely through my own conclusion. I didn't totally cut off contact after the incident. We still spoke though at relatively longer intervals of time. And as for how I came about my conclusion, I just gave it some careful thought. You know how they say you never know what you have until you lose it. it wasn't through no other relationship.

Thanks to everyone for your contributions. You guys have been really helpful. Ladies, May your boyfriends or husbands never dump you and Guys, May you never accidentally dump your girlfriends.

@ MissyB

I think you might be a GTBank. Just my personal thoughts.

It might be a little difficult if you plan to achieve your aim in that order. I would advise you to rearrange the list to make things easier for you.

Uche Jombo
Susan Peters
Ini Edo
Genevieve

In this order, by the time you get to genevieve, you would have already built a solid reputation as a player and her job would be made less stressful.

tope2000:

mature people don't dump their GF in the first place with xcuse of yours
she can't trust you because its like toying with her emotions

hello, its not like i dump her every forthnight. It just happened once, and i've realized and acknowledged my folly. I don't think that makes me very immature. After all, I could have done something worse like cheat on her, but I didn't.

spikedcylinder:


I'm glad you appreciate it but I didn't suggest anything because if I were in her shoes, I would not trust you either.
So good luck with your phone calls and stuff.

I still fail to understand this. Why won't you trust me. I just explained what I realized since calling it off. Shouldn't that be proof that i'm even a more mature person now than ever before.

"Censored"

tope2000:

my main point is bigboyslim is that you need to see this from her point of view
let her know what you did was wrong
plead and beg until whenever
let her know you still want her of course but this time like mad
don't bombard her with phone calls, give her space to clear her head
call her like you normally do

Thanks for your advice but unfortunately the words in bold do not exist in my dictionary. I can try the other steps though

spikedcylinder:

You must have hurt her when you left her the first time.
If she hasn't moved on, I foresee a very long and tiresome journey towards winning her back. And in the end you may not get her, so be prepared for that.

I appreciate your analysis but sadly you haven't suggested any possible solutions. how do I attempt to win her back, should I increase calls, lay off for a while, pretend that i'm doing her a favor by asking her back? Of course I hurt her when I called it off but then that happens whenever anybody calls off a relationship.

tope2000:

why do you want her back now??
is the real question and please don't tell me it because u love her
didnt u know that before?

And is there any crime in falling out of love and falling back in love

So What Is The Most Effective Strategy For Winning Her Back

All my strategies are failing. I want her back but she claims that because I called it off initially it will be difficult if not impossible for her to trust me again. We're still friends and all but she says she doesn't want me  back. Nairaland veterans what do you advise?

Has anyone noticed how if you are on facebook and trying to view pictures, the next and previous buttons do not allow you to scroll from one picture to the other. I have been noticing this for a while now with the Google Chrome browser.