₦airaland Forum

FalseProphet1:
I see 90% of Nairalanders having no idea of what this means.

This I have seen.

Where hav you been all this while....

Any news on who go win president

LegitBoyy:
Hi everyone,

I just wanted to share this trend I have noticed in my relationship life with you all and see if anyone can relate to it. I have just noticed recently that most girls I meet will suddenly want to “settle”.

You would wonder why this should be a problem right? Exactly. I am looking to getting into something serious myself so it should ordinarily not be a bad thing. However, I am seeing a pattern which is why I am worried.

I have met quite a few girls recently and many of them who are obviously still very active players on the ’street’ and as soon as we get talking, they suddenly want to exit the ‘street’ and want something serious with me.

For context, I will be 27years old in a few years, comfortably building a good career and a very calm person. It is not even about money or sort as many of them have met people with much more. I don’t know if any guy or lady out here actually understand my situation here?

I am looking to go into something serious but this pattern just doesn’t look all okay with me. Is it because of my calm nature? Maybe a calm guy is suitable for a husband kind of situation right?

For guys who have been in this situation, how did you dealt with it please?

27 years Old in some years to come...
I believe you are still young..
Why don't you focus on your career...
Don't think about settling down or marriage right now... make some good income for yourself then you can start considering finding a wife..

A lady that wants to tie you down hav seen some qualities inn you...
Probably your gentleman, husband material and prospective elevated career....

So just date and don't loose focus...
When the time comes... you will marry

We don't hav security sha

ednut1:
their passports are help my the immigration authorities. How do you run

Oh... never knew they had to drop passport...
Love the idea... no where to run

Kosoco:
the staff might hv been fired though.... Gringos no dey take rubbish

I don't know about that
But I'm telling you whites can be crazy sometimes

Arkhanmu:
Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.

Just ignore and continue with your life

1. He may purposely do not want to associate with you maybe because of your current status

2. He mat not remember you... for real.. some people memory are short... he may not recognise you until you give him more hint


Anyway just ignore... all this should be your success story...

When I go thorough shit in life...I jot them down in a journal... when I get to that great level... I will definitely write a book about it...

So be strong

Is not a mistake if the package is from the states..

Some people are crazy sometimes when they get into anytime of mood at a giving time...

They may do anything...
The dealer purposely sent the pixel 7... reason, only known tp him

BloomingDale:
Filled with foreigners. African men cannot manage a company, yet they want to manage a home. Wives, you better get a white man to manage you and your husband, if not the African men will run it to the ground. No wonder most women married to an African man are not fulfilled in their marriages. They are just managing the marriage. No wonder they also say marriage is hard work.

No foreign Investors will trust a Nigerian CEO to work with or set of a deal with...
They don't literally trust any single black man... most especially Nigerians..

So I don't cee why shouldn't hire an Expertise CEO to give your company good review...

Is not like Nigerians are dead brains... but you just hav to do what you hav to do... it's the only wey for company to grow internationally

ednut1:
this was during trump era. He was threatening fire and brimstone. Some took the chance and went to Canada. Some were approved but many were denied. Takes like 2 years for Canada to pass a verdict on asylum and another 2 years to get you deported if you fail. Some people don use that one hustle or marry lol

You mean they hav freedom while awaiting feedback from the immigration...
If that is the case...some would hav fled and won't even bother to come back for results because they already hav the idea what the response can bring...

Canada is fine but u may need more than $24,500 to secure ur documents and ur kids..

Goodluck

Greattestman:
Can somebody help give me a reasonable reason why I should return to Nigeria after I don test life in the First world country?

Honestly, the day I step my foot out of Nigeria (into the US) that would be my last day in Nigeria.


May God help us and bless everyone wey dey hustle to live naija.

I don't know about you
But the only reason I will return is if I get a call for an appointment in the Nigerian gov

Probably Governor or in the senate

1stGenAmerican:
Then, a denied claim means they’ll be sent back to Nigeria, not the US.

Obviously..

How's the appointment date... I need to invite my cousins

1stGenAmerican:
They ask and listen to others instead of learning policies firsthand.

It makes no sense...
It's better to be an alien in US than Canada...

If they fail the asylum application...they won't be able to even sweep the floor for a dollar? Nobody will give out a job without a document in Canada.... just like Australia... the immigration is very strict

I don't understand why people will leave the US to smuggle themselves to canada

They think it's easy to just get Canada asylum

Muslim Muslim Ticket?

Anyway her choice
I pray she find the best husband soon

Try your luck girl

lasisi69:
so, girlfriends or hookers don't hinder destinies ??

Hookers may, no doubt about it... but if you hav to do this to pour out ur sexual urge... not sure it's a bad thing

Gf on the other hand,, thing can be a good thing and can also be negative... depends the kind of gal you dating...

PumpumPrince:
really? notin special about lightskin women? have u ever dated one b4? dosent sound like it.
u live in a country were u have 175million white ladies? whers that? east london? bro that dont mean u can date them sir
therrris a reason why beYANSI is special & kelly rowland aint..i lie?..do the maths bro!!(no oofeinse)

I I'm not dating a light skin woman...
I'm engaged to a white Caucasian Lady so I understand the interest you hav in light skin...

Do we hav 175m white women in East London?
Whats population of all UK self...

You goan enjoy ur neighbour wife.. but dont come here to tell us how the guy get you arrested...

PumpumPrince:
sir who cares about her husband sir, i aint gay.am in love wit the wife, not the husband sir. U dont like lightskin halfcasst loookin women?i fall in love at least 3 times in almost every two week so why should i so on stressin my self when married women are the best sir. if i meet beyansi, truss me, Jay Z is movin out!!! (REAL TALK)

Are you catching cruise here...
Anyway if na joke... just let ham remain joke

But if u serious... rethink oh...

There is nothing special about light skin halfcast...
I live in a country were we have 175million white ladies... it means nothing...

You will nack back to back... na ur body go feel ham

PumpumPrince:
huh? brother how can u advise me to sleep with hoooker insted of clean lightskin halfcast lookin married woman & then u sayin devil should tempt me to sleeep with more hoooker?......what kinda rapankarramusphic advise is this sir??. u dont like women?(no oofeinse)

Ur story up there sounds like you have difficulty getting a permanent gf... because if you don't... somebody wife will npt be entering your eyes...

That's why i said get a hooker on a temporary basis...
That will ease your urge...

There's danger sleeping with another man wife...
If the husband suspects... he will never approach... rather he will set a trap on his wife body which if u enter... it's final for u...

We hav 20billions single ladies out dere... pls stay faraway from anything "married woman"

Snakedoctor1:
My son in primary 2 at Abuja school knows the American past presidents and all the details of American Revolutionary War.
When asked about the Nigerian president, he mentioned only 'Buhari' but couldn't remember Muhammadu and, neither could he mention any past president or any significant historical event in Nigeria.

Is this how they teach our children now in Nigeria or is it school or the boy?

History in Nigeria schools is not active like 3 decades ago...
I'm not sure what the gov are hiding from upcoming kids ...

Anyway.. no knowledge is lost... let him keep learning American history and gain more interest with it...

That information oneday may earn him a Mayor position in one of the US states

PumpumPrince:


I juss moved to a new expensive flat in pekam last week and saw my neighbours wife in the lift when they were both going to work.her husband is fat thou. ..i dint say helo but i knew she was the one & my one & only......shes lightskin & looks halfcast fine in a way. the sad thing is her husband dyamm ugly & always carryin breif case. who carrrrys brief case in 2022?.
. am in love again coz i fall in love every 2 weeks, please help, help advise urgently needed!(no oofeinse)

You hav a future ahead of you... one mistake can send you a decade back... don't let the devil dine in your house...

Get a gf or hooker... I'm pretty sure you will forget abt her

Goodluck

Above your pay grade

Hymns

squash47:
If u have slept with her, she is ur girlfriend whether she likes it or not. If you have not slept with her, you're her brother whether you like it or not.

PhD in Relationships affairs..

I greet una

Love my Naina celeb

May God rest his soul

Kobojunkie:
I am also having a hard time buying this story of yours since it is hard to given the reality of things

It's just a theory.. I based outside and I know Unmarried couple go separate ways just to get docs... some come back to dere primary lover while some don't...

I once saw a teleportation ( still hav the memory) sharp and clear

I saw Un identify Flying Object multiple times flying far far away from a clear sky at late night ( they look just like a rounded fly shuttle with multiple light) they disappear 20sec after I sight them