Abdul05:
Nepotism is the order of the day .Buhari is fast losing his credibility.

You can't lose what you never had.

jumper524:

all this your preaching when you dey always preach ehhn.
if I no see you for heaven on judgement day, we go get serious problem.

Being born again is 100% guarantee you will make heaven. So I hope on your end you are in. And there is no judgement day for a child of God, but the white throne for reward.

chatinent:
This Emeka Ike hasn't still learned how to dress.


He still wore sweater, then suit inside the pull over.


Check his sleeves.


Secondly, he used black celotape to hold the hinges of his sunglasses.

Thirdly, there is sth different in the hips of his wife in both pictures. One is doing Chinua Achebe.


Lastly, wife doesn't have a little finger on her right hand.

You are joking, look again. You might need to change your phone screen.

Haywiz1122:
Nonsense

So many 15-16 years old in University nowadays and it’s not that they are genius, just for rushing sake.
Nigeria no try at all.

At all, at all. It's so annoying to see babies going to university cos they pass jamb, yet they are not emotionally mature. When you tell their parents, they will think it's bad belle.

lemon10:
Please Kindly Share Any Form Of Racism You Have Faced As An African Abroad

It's not all bed of roses studying overseas for Africans, especially Nigerians. We face different forms of racism in one way or the other. Nigerian students studying overseas lets please feel free to share the various forms of racism we have faced.

I am based in China and on so many occasions, some Chinese would rather prefer to stand than to sit next to an African on a public bus. The most annoying thing is that they worship Europeans and Americans.

Is it Africans or all blacks, cos you might just have a British or American accent?

Ciscogod:


Please get more information about your claim,

IPNX or Fiberone can give you such service between 10 to 15k Monthly

Ipnx only operates in Lekki.

contigiency:


If it's between 10 to 15k monthly, then no need because DSTV will eventually be cheaper with this their new prices.

But you also buy internet for your gadgets?

Ciscogod:


Please get more information about your claim,

IPNX or Fiberone can give you such service between 10 to 15k Monthly

But ipnx is only in Lekki.

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Is cobranet good, cos I use smile?

pyyxxaro:
So Agbor people nor be Igbo again


This Country is just complicated

Are you Agbor?

SpecialAdviser:
Abi? How can he be Aare Ona Kankafo and only Igboho had the courage to challenge Fulani Herdsmen after years of Fulani brutality on their host communities according to the story we have been hearing?

Even Tinubu and all other political leaders parading themselves should resign. Only Sunday Igboho stands out now.

Many times during the struggle you are rugged and ready to die, especially when there is no money. But the moment govt begins to negotiate with you in exchange for money and position, you no longer want to die cos you are now comfortable.
Go and ask festus keyamo.

ObiOfOnistha:
Impossicant, how will Chioma survive without davido, how will she maintain her celebrity lifestyle, I know her family will started talking senses into her brain

She isn’t his first baby mama!

missimelda01:
When a guy lacks content

Dear men, in 2021 please learn how to be creative with some questions you ask ladies.

E.g When can we see?





Also check my signature. Thank you

Can we do lunch?

helinues:
Hope Trump would be happy to read this.

Selfish and egocentric man

Still America's best, after Lincoln.

Mjshexy:
A little boy like this for goodness' sake, some women are destructive and shameless, a big disgrace to womanhood

In the first place he has no business being on such social platforms, he is too young. The mum should warn herself also. None are justified.

Romanoff:
This marriage matter.

A lot of people build their marriage on the wrong foundation.

Money, sex, looks, loneliness, desperation and some other mundane reasons.

The best foundation to build a marriage is on friendship and that's why you'll hear marriage counsellors say "marry your friend".

Take away sex from most relationships there will be nothing left, you'll discover the sex isn't even enough to keep it going. Sex that should be the icing on the cake has become the entire cake.

Money that should add spice to the marriage has become the entire food. He must have money, he must have a good car, she must be working and earning her own money etc. Once the money is not there anymore, water done pass garri.

Don't get me started on the Looks part, you'll marry because she has big bumbum and boobs, or because he is tall dark or fair and handsome with a six inch rod. A time will come that all these things won't do it for you anymore.

Marry your friend. That person that comes to your mind when you want to have deep discussions about your dreams, your bad day, your plans, your failures. That person that you will forget about time and keep talking with cause conversation and laughter and joys and tears just comes real.

That is what brings intimacy. The attraction, sex, money, looks all those ones na jara.

My opinion o. So before you mention me and insult me, take note of the fact that it's my opinion, make Thunder no fire you this morning.

Very well said! Are you married?

Damian457:
You don’t know what you are saying

Brainless statement in 2021. Well-done, Wiseman.

diamondedu:
And that's my fear. I don't want to have anything to do with her again but she refuses..

Tell her to cancel the wedding, ASAP, it won't work. A man you already disdain will end up frustrated and eventually beat her, cos he will think she is cheating and he isn't wrong.

If she is still young, tell her to be patient. And you bro, up your game if you truly love her.

Damian457:
Good morning, This is a counter thread to this topic:

https://www.nairaland.com/6354106/why-nigerian-dentists-always-suggest

There are basically 3 reasons why Nigerian Dentists will rather do extraction than a root canal treatment and they include;

1. Cost: The average cost of an anterior teeth root canal is 22k + 35k for crowning and 28k + 35k for posterior teeth in a GOVERNMENT HOSPITAL, Private clinics should be x2 or x3 of the quoted price. For those that don’t know the meaning of crowning it’s a procedure to reenforce the tooth structure after a root canal procedure.
So the question is how many persons can afford to part with over 57k to treat only one tooth when the minimum wage is 33k?? No Government Health Insurance for citizens, The so called NHIS is in shambles, the last time I checked some HMOs in NHIS don’t cover RCT. Payment for Dental care is out of pocket.
Sometimes when you tell patients about the whole root canal procedure they are excited till it gets to money part, some will even be like 57k for just one tooth? Please just remove it.


2. Deteriorated Condition: The first source of help for Nigerian Dental Patients anytime they feel pain is the “Chemist” , some even go to extent of getting dental formulas, powders and concoctions (Mama Agness Dental Formula) to alleviate their pain. Pain is a symptom not a pathology, when you apply those formulas and concoction, the pain may subside but the disease process will continue. Sometimes patient delay in seeking treatment and when they eventually come the tooth is already grossly compromised and are even Retained Roots.


3. Availability of Equipments: We all know healthcare is not a priority in Nigeria. Our hospitals are in shambles and in bad conditions. I will say this without any apology, the only way to get quality medical treatment in Nigeria is via private hospitals if you can afford their fees. Government hospitals are Jokes.
How many governments hospitals have OPG machines? Digital Xray machines or Even functioning dental chairs? How many Nigerians can afford to pay 90-114k per tooth in a Private Clinic to get quality dental care?

The question should be directed to the Government who have kept the citizens in perpetual poverty, with no health care insurance and has made it impossible for them to afford basic life needs.

Let me know If you think otherwise.

Not completely true, as it depends on the doctor you see. The doctor I met in a govt hospital, advised against extraction for cosmetic reasons, and I agree, even though it's more expensive.

In terms of cost, private hospitals aren't necessarily more expensive than govt. Hospitals; I speak from experience when it comes to dental care. Infact, if I had known, I would have gone to a private hospital, cos it was way cheaper and more professional.

For crowning, it isn't compulsory if they do a good job on you.
It's actually expensive too.

Beckysexy:
I disagree!
If that's the case I'm pretty sure her mother will probably remain single till date!
Just because you have the opportunity to be rich doesn't give you the right to criticize or condemn others for not having. There are a lot of hardworking ladies that don't even have up to 500k, but they still pay their bills.
Nonsense and Ingredients.

Why are you feeling bad? Is that not what men go through and nobody gives a hoot about them. If she was talking about men now, many of you would have agreed, yet like you said, these men are paying their rents. Life no balance.

DamZik:
You mean Abuja ladies doing real estate?

Yeah!

HappenStone:
I am currently experiencing the same thing with Zenith Bank. Mine was an inflow since November.

It's made me realize how terrible their customer service is. You see, they don't even bother to pick their calls when you call them on their official line. They just hang up when it's your turn on the queue.

Then there's my account officer who blatantly hangs up and even refuses to pick my calls.

And they NEVER reply to emails.

Plus, I've been to two of their branches severally. And they've confirmed the inflow, yet releasing the funds is a Herculean task. Mine has been with them for a month now.

Here's what I am going to do:

On Tuesday, I am going to send an email to the fraudulent bank and cc CBN fraud unit. I'll let them know that I have cc in the email.

In there, I am going to accuse them of fraudulent misappropriation of funds.

It seems no one is really regulating these fraudulent banks as they ought to be regulated. Hence, the impunity with which they disregard customers.

I mean, they don't even respond to their social media pages most of the time.

The present CBN gov was before now the CEO of zenith. Hope he won't do wayo with you.

kurupt1:
Abuja has the highest number of runs gals in nigeria.90% of the chicks in Abuja are prostitutes and I'm not joking

I know some doing legit hustle, like real estate.

illicit:
I will still date this babe....

Life is turn by turn. Just be patient.

Heartbrokengirl:


Nairalanders and insults. How exactly am I the side hoe here? Someone clearly looked me in the face and lied to me many times and I am the hoe?

Are you always like this or you are faking it?

I don’t need your advice, I advised myself and left him for his wife and family.

Sorry bout your experience. But you did the right thing. You will heal.

Gayatri:
I do not know how to start this but i will write as it comes... I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in march this year.. I was so commited in it like naturally when im dating, i DO NOT notice other guys and i DO NOT ask my boyfriend for financial assistance because i feel im not his responsibility,, what i do appreciate mostly were little things like, chatting, kindness, hugs, opening and closing of doors for me,, just little things, coz i adore them so much.. But anyway it ended.. And i vowed never to date again come what may.. During the break up process, all my friends (guys, hardly have a girlfriend) were there to help me pull through.. Calls and texts constantly because, according to them, they knew my type, thus the help.. Funny enough, i never got attracted to any of them (even the ones that initially asked me out when my friendship with them was fresh) and im not the sex sex type to just fall for any to satisfy my desire.. Though i got advice from neighbours to find someone else than staying alone, i said no especially as i am a loner but a happy loner.. I keep myself busy with work or any stuff that makes me happy.

Fine, two months later (june), some guy reached out to me even as he knew he's got a girlfriend, whixh according to him later, they were in an open relationship.. He stays in oshogbo, his girl stays in kaduna while im in sagamu..Before then, he reached out online by first stalking me on facebook (even though we did same online business), after a while he got talking with me.. At first, i was harsh, very harsh to him but he never minded.. At a point i stopped talking to him.. A month later he reached out again, asking if we were still friends.. I was like yeah, not nice to him at all but he was patient with me..

From mid-july we started talking well as friends, he was very open as i was to him. We flowed well that things were happening to us coincidentally.. Whenever he yawns, i do at my place, if im having a scratch, he does too.. There was just plenty of this connection that we never got tired of each other.. In the procesa of our been honest, he told me about his girl and how she was still keeping her ex and all whatnots... I didnt feel any iota of jealousy because i had not feelings for him yet.. I asked to talk things through with his girl and he says well if she gave the chance.. So laters, by august, september,october, feelings grew.. He got so fond of me... According to him, he has not seen my type before.. Fine! During my birthday, he wanted to do something for me, i said no, then two weeks to his birthday in nov, he asked that i visit him at their family house, that i did..

What struck me most was how the elder brother (married) took care of me... I was not allowed to do nothing.. The brother even cooked for me.. God, it made me fall more for the family.. The kind gestures i have never experienced in my life.. There are kindnesses but there is kindness, the real one.. I felt it.. Every thing that i want in a man, those little things, this guy has them all.. According to him, it baffles him that with the little he shows me, i do not take for granted even before he told me he's having a girl..

When i returned home, we continued our normal talks and he then said, that his girlfriend would be visiting during his birthday.. At that point i went silent.. (Meanwhile he met his girl this year but before me, also during her break up).. He was unhappy that i displayed this little jealousy.. So he says he has not broken up with his girl to start a new relationship and he is hurting that he is hurting me.. He's got feelings for me but he loves his girl.. So i said i was going walk, even though i never meant it, twas hard to even say that but i had to and he says no... That he's become so attached to me even his family thinks he's dating me.. That he controls his feelings for me, could i do same and i said no.. I could not be friends with him when i know that feelings are involved.. Finally, we came to terms to just flow with things since he was not engaged or married to her.. Even so, this guy just lost his job and he says unlike his girl, im the one pushing him to have something doing, he says i help him alot but i wouldnt know.. So we continued to let the whole feelings to flow until last week, when with my help, he was called for an interview in lagos..

As usual we talked and i wished him well.. I always pray for him.. In lagos, we talked well until the third day, our communication changed and before it did, my heart was literally aching, so i knew something was wrong.. I called to know why but he was telling me that he'd let me in when he got back to oshogbo, which he did.. He said his girlfriend who was having something to do with her ex, called him and wanted to settle things with him.. But the truth is, because this lady already had his facebook password when they were together in kadauna, she 3 days before her birthday on the 8th of this month wanted to know why her boyfriend was no longer perturbed over her behaviour, so she saw my chats with the guy and decided to do something,,, this now pushed to talk things out with the bf and apologise to him.. Then she asked him if anything was going on between is and he said no.. That we just friends,close friends.. He lied to her but opens up to me.. He says he doesnt want the girl to ask him to cut me off totally.. So the whole thing got him confused.. He says he's never double dated and he isnt happy that he's hurting me and im taking it... I asked him again if i should walk and he says no.. He does not want to lose me and i do not want to lose him either but i want to prove my love for him so that he one day sees that the girl, probably loves him but she's got no integrity.. And i purely love him.. But because i respect his relationship, i CAN NOT TELL HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HER but wanting him to see things himself but the question is for how long.. He says they are working things out now but he doesnt want to lose me esp as a friend... Difficult.. Out of God knows what, we agreed to let things flow since i will respect his relationship, like whenever his girl is around, i should make him believe that i will be fine.. Now, he isnt happy because he said if he hadnt met the gf, he'd have gone ahead to date me.. For me, i cannot sleep, ive been typing this since God knows when and this is 3:36am.. Since he is confused now, please people, friends, family, can i use love to make him see the difference between his girl and me.. He loves his girl, he is controlling his feelings for me and afraid to let it grow because he knows we'd bond, while my feelings toward him is real.. Money has not been involved in this.. We are 6months now.. I believe in true love and that it does not come easy.. Talk to me Y'll because i have no parents to talk to,, i would have talked to my mum now but she isnt here... I want to win with true love.. I turned 27 this past november and he turned 30 same november.. Thank You and God bless..

Dangerous heart game here, cos you are already into him. But ask him straight who and what he wants, (cos from what I'm reading, he hasn't even suggested to you he wants to leave his babe). From his body language, you will tell who he really wants. You know humans are naturally selfish, they want to eat their cake and have it.
So do yourself a favor, and remove your heart from this equation. If he is serious, he will come hard after you when you cut off!

LucyB24:
@redpanthar

I can't pay him surprise visits because I don't know exactly where he stays. I've never visited him before. He lives in Lagos and I live in Abuja. All I know is that he stays somewhere in Lekki.

He isn't responding to any of my calls and texts.

I tried telling my boss that I had an engagement on Saturday but he refused because I had already taken two days off a week before due to ill health, and the project required my specialty. No one else at the office had the skill set to handle the project like I could and there was a deadline.

Have you ever discussed you kinda work with him? If yes, then he shouldn't behave this way.
Above all, take this behaviour as a red flag, in case he comes back in the future. But know what, you have done your best, leave it, don't force it.

Possiblegee:
Wait why everybody day spray this guy money

If you ask me??

IamD18:
I see no difference between people you meet on social media and people you meet offline.

They are all the same, but I prefer meeting you offline and not from social media.

I'm actually scared of opposite genders that are social media freaks, they are too exposed to nonesense.

I agree. But you must be the possessive type though?!

We need a new political party, abeg. APC don tire me.

Ishilove:
That's the sacrifice we make to have your children. Flat belly or kids. Make your choice

Story. My sis has a number of kids, and even her kids admire her shape. It's body type and not same for everyone.

siraj1402:
Good.
Why are we making life so unbearable for ourselves? I bought a bag of rice at Owode-Idiroko at N13,500.
Anything coming from the north will be so cheap there while costly when it comes to the south and anything produced here is always costly as well.

How can I get boss?