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As for me, I think most sisters in church are too naïve. they practically make no effort and contribution to make a relationship grow stronger. I will only refer to 'some' (the bad ones) here bc some are actually very good dates and realistic.

1.Imagine! some are obviously not virgins bc they have dated several men b4 they became born-again, they still say no-to-sex b4 marriage, which is ok, but some refuse other forms of intimacy (romance, French-kissing, caressing, etc), they want to surprise u on wedding night with 'trash' when u cannot run away again.

2.Some do absolutely nothing for the guy apart from eat his food, waste his time on whatsapp chats, sending him long prayers, and invite him to one church program or the other.

3.Some refuse to cook and help clean a boyfriend’s house claiming they are not his wife yet. So how do u know if they can cook according to GO Ade...?

4.So imagine u have a girlfriend who claims to be a Christian– no sex, no romance, no cooking, no cleaning, no playing, no ‘wordly’ gists etc but she takes gifts. What does a man benefit?

5.I am sorry to say that some born-again ladies make very bad dates. You benefit absolutely nothing from them yet they tell lies a lot. Most things they claim to be turn out to be lies later.

6.Some won’t help when you have problems but claim they are praying for u and sometimes even arrogantly claim their prayers is behind any little success you make.

7.men hate all that “my pastor said” Craps! Every man has his territory. You cannot be loyal to two men same time.

If u want to get, what do you give back? If u only want to be praying for me, then I will only be singing for u too. That should be enough!

Bros, pardon my long epistle. Na so e carry dey my mind today.

Cutehector:
She has hiv...

No she doesn't ....the said girl that triggered the discussion was born in a very religious family and that affected and influenced her.

Great wise people of NL, I need you to weigh in on this on-going discussion. We were deadlocked yesterday on this topic and I need your input and info.

1. Will you marry a 40yr old virgin who never had a boyfriend before if she's a good woman and has a job?

2. What will be your worries about her (if any), the advantages and disadvantages of marrying such a person.?

well, whether you are a man or a woman watch out for signs during dating that someone will push you to lose your cool. If you see the signs, either end that relationship or avoid marrying that person. If you do, the marriage will end up with domestic violence, with someone's life either ruined, in jail or dead. Don't force things that don't match. some women are as violent as some men. A violent temperament needs someone very calm, slow to temper and docile as a partner. There are no bad people in marriage, there are only bad matches.

Excelente!!!!! The write-up just spoke my mind.....

Why we Africans hate anything Africa and embrace anything foreign baffles me. many bros and sis back home will tumble on one another to get visa to go and work for those circuses and costume companies abroad, even to wear them and stand on the road for 8hrs as advertisements.

If you criticize things happening in Nigeria, pseudo-nationalists who live in Nigeria and benefit from the rot will come for your head. There's practically nothing Nigerians can manage well. Work ethics is zero, we are proud and arrogant only on wrong and negative things - fraud, corruption, shameful materialism, etc. Look at even how our own style of blogging has killed professional journalism. Look at our lives!! Good!!!.....Abeg make una carry go jare.

UIA04:
I'm not disputing the fact that he might like kids. I'm only stating that this is clearly for popularity and publicity. He is a politician.

But I wonder which human acts are not for rewards - even those who claim they serve God do so either to be rewarded by eternal peace in heaven or prosperity on earth. The power suits, ties, tight skirts, long hair, big empty bags to match, makeups, etc are all about getting attention. What matters is getting positive attention and attracting positive reward not reprimands.

UIA04:
This is laughable. It then is a white kid. Maybe the child of the cleaner.
I didn't realize Obama could stoop this low to being an instagram president

You could have clicked on the source to see the other photos, you would have seen him with black kids too. Did you? Don't beef a good thing, dear. it' s a bad habit, rather commend good acts to make the world a better place for all.

brodalikeme:
Someone will come here and say it is because he doesn't have plenty problems.

This man has one of the most hectic jobs in the world if you consider how many hours he works in a day, how many meetings he has in a day, how many times he travels in a week, and how many opponents who envy him and want him out. he is just blessed with a supportive wife who is beautiful inside and outside. A true black princess - strong, intelligent, beautiful and reliable.

How many ladies in the house will like to marry a man like this?

For those people who feel they have a 'professional' job, wearing suit, feeling on top of the world, frowning their face to look serious, and claim they have no time for anybody, keep fooling yourself. This will make you feel ashamed of yourself.

Yes! This is the most powerful man in the world, yet he can play like a kid.

President Obama, my Hero and the most liked American President

More pictures:

http://howafrica.com/33-heart-melting-photos-that-shows-president-obamas-deep-and-uncontrollable-love-for-kids-view-photos/

Please my people this is not an affront to our obviously beautiful Nigerian women rather a request for guidance. May I humbly ask, if a friend or relative is trying to match-make you with a lady, the lady shows up for a first date wearing an imported weave (definitely not her hair), pencil-drawn eyebrow, fixed eye-lash, makeup foundation to make her face look radiant, sexy lipstick with a carefully drawn lip line with lip-liner, blush, wonder-bra to push out the ‘thing’ etc, all of which is not part of her natural attributes, how can you tell she is a beautiful woman at first sight?

Thanks

Truth be told, most men are naive and foolish too. Any lady especially (in her 30s+) who has broken off more than 3 relationships has a problem. You date someone by asking questions. A woman told u how she dumped 3 previous men or dumped by 3 previous men and you are still courting her? Once you get such information simply cut it there or proceed with caution. "A good product doesn't last on the shelf"...find out what's been keeping her at home.

God help you all...use ur brain.

What Signs Shows One Is Dating His/Her Soul Mate?

The way marriages break up these days is frightening. It’s even more shocking that some of these feuding couple announce their engagement with excitement and fanfare. They do wedding with lots of glamour and optimism, yet just few years down the line, they end up worst enemies fighting to kill each other. What happened? Please how can one tell that one has found one’s soul mate? What are the signs to tell one has met the right person, and what are the signs that one is simply dating the wrong person?

Common signs I have seen in couple are:

Positive:
If you meet someone and both of you often drift into very long discussions filled with humor, laughter lasting for hours; you always feel like talking to each other, never scared of sharing anything (even dirty secrets), he/she doesn’t judge you, your quarrels don’t last long because both of you forgive and forget any ill fillings done to each other easily and move along as best friends, obliviously this person is your soul mate.

Negative:
If both of you struggle to enjoy each other’s company; you disagree often, and often see yourselves moving on without each other, no talking to each other for weeks if not for months after a quarrel, please either call the relationship off or downgrade it to mere friendship. Both of you are not meant to be soul mates. If you get married the only thing that will happen smoothly between both of you is frequent se*x if at all it happens,

Please add your own suggestions based on experiences with couple around you.

Folks since I read this I have been thinking a lot about myself....

SCRIPT FOR MANIPULATION AND GETTING ANYTHING YOU WANT FROM SOMEONE


STEP 1: Put the person in a vulnerable position by exploiting his/her weakness (unemployment, poverty, lack of knowledge, lack of emotional support, materialism, love for money, etc) or meet him/her when he/she is vulnerable.

STEP 2: Win/ buy his/her loyalty using dubious compassion through pity, gifts, job, aids, money, fake friendship, and create the impression you care. Make bogus promises if you can.

STEP 3: Exert undue influence on the person such that he/she has absolute trust and belief on you by meeting some of his/her needs with a promise to do more if he/she remains loyal to you. This ensures he/she surrenders his/her self will, can no longer think for him/herself, becomes dependent on you, and cannot question your actions.

STEP 4: Show him/her the terrible things that will happen to his/her life if he/she ever stops being loyal to you. Once he/she becomes dependent, occasionally threaten to withdraw support. Sustain your message (threat) every time to keep him/her in constant fear, even by setting examples with a few actions to prove how serious you are.

STEP 5: Shut him/her off to any outside influence that may open his/her eyes. Tell him/her how dangerous such other differing thoughts can be. If possible keep him/her very occupied with work and activities denying him time to read, watch, listen, develop or associate with any differing thoughts. With time he/she will lose every other useful skill of survival except belief and faith in your system. He/she will also lack in knowledge except what you tell him/her.

STEP 6: Now that he/she is a tool in your hands, exploit him/her to the fullest before he/she opens his/her eyes and revolt.

If step 1 to 2 above didn’t work fine, don’t waste your time; he/she is probably smarter than you.

STEP 7: Either try and use those you already got to keep him/her distracted so he/she doesn’t become a strong competitor or discourage people from going close to him/her by labeling him/her ‘dangerous’. Keep him/her distracted so he/she can’t focus.

STEP 8: If none of this worked, he/she will probably overtake you one day– Try and remain nice and friendly with him/her for your own insurance…..LoL!

What does this script remind you?

(a): Your Boss/Job?
(b): Your Lover/Relationship?
(c): Your Pastor/ Religion
(d): Your Political Leaders/Government?
(e): Your Former Colonial Masters?

Can someone decode this statement and advise how to go about it:

Scenario: You went to buy grocery leaving your wife at home, you came back and the door was slightly open so you entered unnoticed with absolutely nothing in your mind and start unloading the groceries into the freezer downstairs. Your wife didn't realize you were back and was upstairs in the room talking loud on the phone with someone (apparently her friend or colleague), you were hearing her clearly downstairs. Though you didn't know what their discussion was about because you're neither there when it started nor hearing the other person...all she was saying was "yeah...eeeeeh..hmmm...ok....really? , etc" Suddenly you heard her say:

"...Nooo..but the man doesn't even know how to F***ck at all....so I don't know why she's crazy about him...."

Then she realized you're back, cut the phone and came down. You asked her what she was doing upstairs, but she only wanted to know when you came back. What would you do afterwards? You have never had any reason to suspect her before and never monitors her, she goes to church, prays regularly and really the shy, introvert type. So if you confront her she may withdraw into her 'shell' forever. Does this mean the man in question has f***cked her before?

aspirebig:
I hate fake life.

#BeYourSelfAlways.

I dont know what some people gain by lieing and living fake lifestyle, just to impress. For what?

This is becoming very serious. 'Lies' is another term for 'luv' in Nigeria. Sometime i wonder why people don't figure out that most 'packaging' are lies. you date and marry a 'package' without real love for the content and expect a lasting happy marriage? . I know a lady who has turned down 3 eligible men in Nigeria but will confess she's so madly in love with a man she met on FB she's never met before in person simply bc he lives abroad. She talks abt him like they slept together yesterday - both are seriously lying to each other. She's in nigeria forming a 'saint', while the man is abroad forming a 'millionaire' . Tomorrow she'll come to NL to form a 'victim'

pet4ril:
There are more to what the ordinary eyes can see in the marriage of these days and it's only God Almighty that can see us through

When people are not real, every step they take (even when intended for good) goes to the wrong direction. Your enemy will always describe your laughter of joy as mocking her, and start a fight.

The rate at which people are taking to NL and social media to lament their pains and failures in relationships is baffling. If marriage and relationships are that horrifying why are people still in a mad rush to get in. Thank God I see people in real life who enjoy their marriages and give good testimonies. One thing I noticed is that we only here one side of the story on NL. For the people we know in real life we know that some of their actions or inaction contributed to their woes. In my little analogy most people who end up with very sad tales of relationships horrifying marriages played a part somehow:

1. All Was Based On Lies Right From Beginning: Look at the background of most relationships that failed. They were based on lies, faking, manipulation, packaging, and deception. The woman was either faking her looks and true character, while the man was faking his finances. When all truth is laid bare, war begins – the real woman behind the mask appears, and the real heavily indebted man driving a luxury SUV owns up.

2. Comfort and Enjoyment Were The Motivations: These set of people don’t believe in friendship. The women friend-zoned nice and friendly men, some of the men dumped good girls they believed were not sexy enough. Most of them based their marriage decisions on good jobs, nice dressing, great looks, expensive furniture, and money.

3. They Have No Competitive Advantage: Sometime all I hear from most ladies is “Marry me because I am religious, I am a virgin, I’m from your tribe, I an beautiful” etc. Some of these ladies can only offer s.exx in a relationship. What else? On the part of the men all I hear is “Marry me because I am rich, have a good job, tall and handsome”, while most of them are very arrogant, controlling and chauvinistic. Smart people detect these deficits on time and take a walk. You may feel dumped all you want, but the question is what advantage do you have over the other lady/man? If none, then why complain? Somebody won the competition.

4. They Play Smart And Felt They Won’t Be Caught: Most of them are not being honest to themselves. In most cases their body is in one relationship while their minds are elsewhere. They try to play safe, they claim they are spreading their risks, they don’t want to put their eggs in one basket, etc. These are men who even when they are in a relationship they continue to hide around with other girls in their office and church until busted. These are creepy ladies who despite being in a relationship are always chatting with four other men on FB and Whatsapp blowing kisses, hugging, sharing emotions and pictures. They forget that with technology it’s very easy to get busted. You leave a trail.

5. They Are Paying Back For their Sins (Karma): Hmmm! We all know what we did in the past. Nothing goes unpunished. The ladies know how many marriages they broke up by dating sugar daddies. The men know how many young ladies they swindled and dumped in the cold. Cultists who killed innocent people to show valor, people who stole employer’s money, defrauded clients and ‘mugus’ to get married, etc. There is payback time, people.

Please shape your life up and experience less dramas.

Ginaz:
having a good man is by prayer and wisdom, what makes you think that the other man would have been better for her?

you can suffer and die with a guy with little money but end up living a horrible life. what makes a man is PRINCIPLE! its not and never is the financial background of the guy.

your friend married a man with no principles, I believed the man was good at some aspect of their marriage. money should not be generalized as a means of knowing a man's character or personality.

your friend ended with a wrong man, what has money got to do with it? or are all poor men good? are all rich men bad? the answer is no!

leave your friend alone and focus on yourself, you are a bad friend belittling her self worth. what would people think? won't they think it was cos of money she made the choice? if I were her, I would skin you alive. things like this makes me hate friends. APROKO house wife! over sabi! bad friend! go and marry let's see, you think its easy?

Nawa o. But in a bid to criticize the OP I really haven't seen any difference between you and all the things you criticized the OP for. If what the OP wrote ignited you like this, I will assume if we need two men to watch out on the OP, I bet we need 12 strong men to watch out on you too... . Bottom line is mots of you Naija babes are explosions waiting to happen...May God help by-standers!

Is it me, my glasses or what? Reading through comments above and seeing how the debate is drawn sharply into two groups. One group easily stand out in all their contributions on NL - stoutly defending ills that ladies do in relationships, violently opposing any suggestions that preaches marriage should be based on love and not money and always justifying waywardness in relationships. Some Nigerian girls are very pathetic. NL is a good place to carry out background search before marrying a Nigeria lady. from their posts, you shall know them.

KanwuliaJara:
AAAAAAALLLLLLL OF THE ABOVE!!!!!
Blame MATERIAL and SPIRITUAL POVERTY!!!!!

Na you talk ooooo . when they come after you, no call me oo

ronald4lif:
6 and 7 are damn right.

Single parent-hood should be endorsed and encouraged. This way everyone still maintains their inalienable rights to freedom and liberty and same time upholding their parenting responsibilities to their wards.

The overly religious ones? You mean the type that can't brainstorm on broad of issues without setting barricades and reminding you on what one holy book said, as if your life depends on it. No thanks.

no be me talk o. Na quote I quote.

1.

“Majority of Nigerian men will choose a girl with bad character who has a sexy shape and dresses well, over a girl with a good character who doesn’t dress well, as a girlfriend. Therefore most of them invest in their own future relationship failures.”

2.

“Majority of Nigerian women will dump a caring, loving poor man and ‘die’ for a rich cheat as a boyfriend. Money is their biggest single consideration in relationships. The ones we call bad girls only do it aggressively and openly, while the ones we call ‘good girls ’ do it passively and modestly. Therefore, don’t pity most of them who come on blogs to cry river over a cheating husband.”

3.

“In relationships in Nigeria, the definition of ‘kind and caring’ is someone who can easily be fooled, and used. When a person is frugal with his/her finances and uses his/her brain in making decisions he/she is described as ‘stingy’, and ‘proud' ”

4.

“Most Nigerian ladies, who are above 30yrs, never married before, single and have not much accomplishment to show for it (apart from those who were either widowed, divorced, studying for their PhD, or built a career to management positions), have issues of greed, attitude problems, character flaws, poor value systems. If she’s a ‘good product’ she wouldn’t last long on the shelve because in a country of over 160million people somebody must have noticed her”. Therefore, marry them at your own risk.

5.

“A lady above 30 and still single, stands a better chance marrying outside her community, tribe or even outside the country. The reason is that most ladies above 30 have left too many bad trails that haunt her. Therefore, she’s better off with strangers who either care less, or have no access to information about her pasts.”

6.

“Nigeria should respect and recognize single parent-hood by choice especially, where the 2 people involved are willing to support the child equally both in custody and financial support, like most advanced countries do. It’s obvious most people are better off without marriages but will make great parents. It’ll also give several women nearing 45yrs without husbands the opportunity to experience motherhood, and stop destroying people’s marriages out of desperation.”

7.

“Religion is only a big cover-up in Nigeria. Keep your eyes more open, and do thorough background checks on anyone who either puts religion first, or preaches too often on social media. They are mostly ‘Bad Markets’.

I see a trend in most marriages that most people who have never married before are not aware of. From the ‘wish-list’ I read on NL and hear many young people have a very unrealistic expectation about marriage as means to be comfortable, happy, have unlimited s*ex, build financial empires, enjoy, etc. However, they don’t look at millions of marred people out there to know why they are either divorcing or cheating round.

A S*exless Marrriage

A Sexless marriage is very common. – The two couple are still madly in love with each other but practically live as ‘brother’ and ‘sister’ with no practical intimacy. This is more common in older marriages, where there are kids, and among most pastors and religious people and their wives (as I heard). The man probably is no longer sexually aroused by his wife after making love to the same body more than 700 times over a period of 5yrs of more. Another cause may be sickness on one party, a full house of children or job stress that either kills se*x drive or takes attention away from practical intimacy.

A Loveless Marriage........

A loveless marriage happens more in newer marriages, especially couple who married for wrong reasons. Eg A man who married a lady because of her shape, height, job, complexion, beauty etc; a woman who married a man because of his money, looks, green-card, travel, connections, just to answer Mrs, pregnancy, peer-pressure, etc. The result is they find out too early after the marriage that they never really loved each other and were no true friends for companionship. There’s nothing do share in common except s.ex. The man doesn’t care about the woman’s feelings. Once he get’s turned on, he throws her on the bed and bang her, take a shower, drop her monthly allowance and zoom off to hang out with friends or to business trip.

Many marriages out there fall between this two. Forget about what you read out there. There are also very rewarding marriages with both love and s*ex plentiful after 10 years. But honestly, quite few.

Negatives----------

If he/she has really come of age (Above 30 for ladies, Above 35 for men) but single, no steady career (if any all), no friends, yet with a university degree - abeg thread softly!! An adage says a "good market sells fast". There is a reason for the lull usually attitude problems. One can't possibly be lagging in every aspect of life (career, relationships, finances, social network, etc, something must be going great in one's life even if one area failed)...hmmmmmm!

- if he or she uses bible quotation or religion to justify every mistake he makes (not taking responsibility for anything), sure sign of laziness and someone who points fingers. be ready to take care of him/her 80% - 90%

- if he or she won't show excitement and say "thank you" genuinely at little gestures or gifts u give except you remind him or her---sign of an ungrateful person.

- if he or she is one week one trouble, one month one drama, one year one issue, abeg run 4X40! ....you can't change her. You will argue and fight till infinity if you marry him/ her

Positive.......

- Even if he/she doesn't have a good job or career however, he or she actively engages in sound intellectual discussions and comes up with good ideas, he or she may just need a little 'push' in career. he will do well in a conducive environment.

- If she cries easily when other people are hurt or when she hears stories of other people she doesn't even know getting maltreated --that's a kind heart right there.... a possible 'people's princess'

dinachi:
What many of you homosexuals fail to understand is that you do not make sense anymore! You are happily married. Who asked you? Guilty consience! Yes Africa has many problems. Agreed but we do not want to add homosexuality to them. When we finish tackling the life threathning problems first then we will decide whether we want to widen our arseholes to please you and your western homosexual partners. As for being judgemental and hateful,that is the very first attack lines of homosexuals. Iam also very sure that you will become judgemental and hateful if you adult son starts sleeping with your adult daughter and demanding that you support them to get married!

Someone just emailed me that I am giving you an undue pleasure by giving you attention even when your argument is quite childish and lacks logic, because if you are as courageous as you try to claim on a blog you will be writing your opinions on news sites with your real name, and real people will reply you. I have condescended already and started responded to your name-calling (the trademark of people who lack intellectually sound argument). save your beer-parlor arguments for your neighbor's wife.

You derailed the topic which was addressing the hypocrisy of people who judge others and made it about s..ex, which usually is the only thing that runs in the mind of lazy, vision-less people.

dinachi:
Wetin be your own? Imagine the Op trying to play on our intelligence. Which one is worse? The fact that the three mentioned vices are there shows that all are evil!
So simple, none should be supported. It is like saying between stealing and robbery which is worse? Then if we say robbery then you now advocate that we should support stealing as the lesser evil.

You intelligent?...Hahahahahaha . Please check the dictionary meaning of intelligence, bro...first of all intelligent people carefully understand an issue before they start running their mouth like pipe. The fact that in your post above you mentioned all the problems that are plaguing Africa and we as a continent cannot come up with sustainable solutions to any indicts your argument...A continent that preys on their weak, defenseless, and poor in the name of religion. Well, how many aged people with Alzheimer disease have you and your self-righteous group burned alive this year as witches and wizards because they are weak, look different, defenseless and cannot speak up for themselves and you expect God's blessings and prosperity? The best you can do is to educate and enlighten yourself and know that you are the cause of your problems, nobody is and until you take that responsibility more horror may be added to your listed plights. Go to the US or any Foreign country embassy in Nigeria (including Indonesia and Malaysia for Christ's sake) and see how many Nigerians want to disappear from the country and travel to the countries of the 'Sinners' to have peace and success. I am sure you too have been 'sowing seeds' to be granted visa out so the 'Sinners' can give you peace and new life....LoL! What an Irony!!!!

Once more, I have no malice towards you and may God forgive your ignorance. I am a happily married man. The difference between you and i is that I don't believe that I am better than the next man and judge him/her for whom he/she is. I leave that judgement to God. I am not God's police. Since you chose to be God's police, live above board. Period! That's my argument. If you live in a glass house don't throw stones

dinachi:
On the other hand your post have convinced me that you are indeed a homosexual promoter! Known homosexuals and promoters are quick to call others judgemental and haters. We are not fazed one bit. You are a homosexual promoter and try as hard as you can, you can't hide it. I saw your deception from afar! We know your type.

I suggest you try first to fix your messed up life and be a better human being who can take care of your family and make meaningful contribution to your community and country. You are using 'We' as if you are anybody in a known group. Whoever the 'we' are don't even know or can identify you in a crowed. Millions of people in your 'We' club are working in the companies owned by the same people you try be prove you are superior to, yet you don't quit to set up a 'We' company...they pay you, without them you can't even feed yourself or your family yet you are here ranting like a 'Pastor wee, I am better than they are'

I live and work in a sane society where diversity is respected. Sane people protested on the streets when people like you prevented women from voting because they saw them as inferior, sane people protested when Africans in the US were used as salves and prevented from voting by people like you who saw them as inferior, sane people protested when people with your mindset segregated South Africa and put black Africans on servitude.

I am not gay but I will not live like a hypocrite who wallows in adulterous life in mansions built by looted (stolen) wealth behind closed doors but encourage people to mob petty thieves and born them alive because stealing is a 'sin' against 'God'.

Come up with a legitimate literary argument I will read but please, please,please people like you make mockery of Christianity. don't quote one more verse from the Bible to encourage hate! This thread is what it is. It is not about promoting any lifestyle, it is about exposing hypocrites.

dinachi:
@Op it is very clear that the purpose of this thread is to promote homosexuality. That aside, there is a difference between committing and act and justifying it. I have never hears any sane Nigerian woman tell you that abortion or adultery is good or should be encouraged. That is a far cry from homosexuals like you who spend all your energy trying to convince the rest of us that your perversion is normal and should be encouraged ! Most women who indulge in abortion and adultery regrets the action and even the BIBLE says " a broken and contrite spirit God will not overlook"
Now Homosexuality is a total abomination and a negation of nature. Now people like you who promote it and seek to entrench it as the new normal commit the greatest treachery. Homosexuality will always be a perversion.

Read the bolded and see the hate in u yet down the paragraph u started quoting the bible...deceitful hypocrite!! So because I asked a question that kicked off a healthy dialogue on a controversial issue in your prejudiced 'holy' mind I am promoting a lifestyle?

"A pervert mind is a mind that wakes up one morning and begins to feel I am better than others while making no useful contribution to knowledge and mankind - it is a wasted mind". The environment we live in attest to our closeness to God not our words, because where there is God there is love, peace, and progress.- Do u have that in ur environment or did God take a sabbatical leave there?

I should have paid attention to ur post if u didn't try to use the bible to justify ur hate for individuals just like some people somewhere use a 'holy book' to justify the rape of innocent young girls & beheading of people they deem 'unbelievers' - to them also they are holy and doing 'God's word'. A mind that has no love should not be preaching about God's love.

I created this post to expose the deceit and hypocrisy in many Nigerians and not to promote any lifestyle- you just proved my point- Thank You!!

Ngokafor:
....I know you are trolling but i will still spare you some words..

...Luckily,God is a fair supreme being...so as he is 'dropping a deadly stone' on the Nigerian lady guilty of the first two the Nigerian male accomplice will receive his own thunder strikes too,abi no be so?? ....

..or do you think that commandments in the bible are meant for women alone?..(thou shall not commit adultery,fornication and so on)..

Yeah! If many hands are soiled like this then why do we judge others?......looks like many are guilty of more serious 'sins' afterall...

From comments so far, looks like people really think the first two are bad. Assuming God decides to drop a deadly 'hot stone' on any Nigerian lady who has done the first 2 above. How many ladies do you think will remain alive? Why don't law-makers pass a law against Adultery in Nigeria?.. .