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iknopro:
I woke up this morning to my mum crying.
I could hear her sobs from our room.

I pressed my phone's power button and there it was. The reason for the sobs.

I guess the pain never really goes away. Maybe we just learn to live with it and get used to it, but it never really goes away.

For my family, every 14th November has been a very sad one for us since the last three years.

The day holds and brings nothing but bad memories for and to us.

I have come to accept all that has happened, or so I think, and I hope that the rest of my family, mum especially does same too. Even though it is a bitter pill to swallow.

Two weeks to 14th November three years ago, my big sister had returned from school and had shown us all the engagement ring on her finger.

Apparently, her boyfriend of three years popped the big question, and she said yes.

It was a happy moment for all of us.

My big sister said they'd be coming for introduction in two weeks time, so our parents swung into action making necessary preparations.

The introduction was scheduled for the 17thbof November which happened to be a Saturday.

On the 14th, my sister asked me to accompany her to the city market to buy her dress for the introduction, and also to pick a few things for myself too as the bride's only sister.

We set out early in order to return he before the scorching sun would start unleashing its rage and venom on the inhabitants of the earth.

We combed the market going from a stall to another seeking for the things we needed.

Some stalls, we bought from after a little back and forth in bargaining, others we left without buying because the price didn't align, while others had us going and returning when we got worse prices elsewhere. Usual shopping behavior.

We were already leaving the market to the park when we realized we didn't buy body sprays and perfume.

My big sister told me to wait for her while she quickly rushed to get our usuals at the nearest stall.

No sooner had she left than I heard shouts of "ole! ole!! ole!!!".

I turned to see what happened, and there was my sister being dragged by a mob.

I was confused. I ran to where they were, but wasn't allowed access to her.

I cried, pleaded and wailed "my sister is not a thief, we came to the market to buy things". I was saying in a loud voice, but the angry mob looked like they'd kill me if I said anything else.

In tears, I quickly put a call to my dad who was home at the moment. Being that we lived not to far from the market, he arrived the scene in no time.

"This girl na tiff"
"fine girl like this dey tiff"
"make una burn am, so other people like her go learn".
"Chai, this fine girl".
"so na tiff you dey come this market dey tiff".
"make una bring tyre and fuel".

I heard several voices in the mob say.

My sister cried and begged to be spared.

It all just didn't make sense. Nobody was saying what happened, but they were all calling her a thief and suggesting that they lynch her.

By the time my dad arrived the scene, my sister was already up in blazes. She screamed loudly as the fire burnt her.

The smell of a burning human filled the air.

My dad stood transfixed to the spot he stood. My tears couldn't be controlled.

Our world came crumbling in milliseconds.

By the time we got home, the news had already reached him as people gathered in our house to sympathize with us.

My big sister was the calmest in our house. She never talked much she was very homely and accommodating, smiling was the only thing she did most times.

People on our street called her Adamma. She was so beautiful and down to earth. Her voice was angelic and soothing.

She didn't deserve to die that way, and no, she isn't a thief.

We still don't know what exactly happened and what went missing, and why my sister was nailed to the crime.

It's been three long years without her in this house, and her aura and presence is still felt around the house

Some people say it's village people, others say it's just bad fate. My family counts it as a terrible tragedy.

Three years today, and it hurts just as much as it hurts on that eventful day.

The pain really never goes away.


© Dera

princeeze1:
Wonderment! A woman who cheated on her husband with you, got caught and was divorced by her ex husband who incidentally was your then team mate. You get mind sign off you assets to her. Well, it can only be premium tears loading no two ways. Such a manipulative woman, such a SIMP!

pussyphilia:
Yes guys. I finally found the type of lady I want to marry. The boss lady herself. Not all this yeye weak ladies in naija.

I want to reverse what you guys consider as traditional African marriage where the man is seen as the head of the house while the woman is to be submissive to him. That type of marriage has failed humans. It is supposed to be the other way. That is the man is supposed to be the submissive partner while the wife is the dominant.

Since I have been looking for my type of lady and I finally found her! Beautiful, intelligent, aggressive, dominant, bossy, strong etc. I get money before you think that I want that kind of lady because I'm broke. No no. I just want the kind of lady that will not take shit from me, straighten me up with some beatings and punishments if I fuk up. Who is sexually dominant and not cold in za oza room etc.

So, guys, you people should better look for that kind of ladies to marry. It will help to reduce problem in our society. If more men submit to the dominant ladies, vices will reduce in the country. True talk.

Make una prepare for my wedding! Red pillers keep off plzzzz. SIMPs like me are highly welcome to this thread and to our wedding!

Datboredberry:
Been ignoring on purpose... In two hours, it would be three days since we last chatted...

It's been the toughest period... I would wake up restless, immediately thinking of him... I'm definitely inlove!

I've tried to distract myself with Nairaland, been reading Lovecraftian horror stories... But he's always been on my mind...

Plus, I'm deliberately torturing myself with his pictures... I just wanna grab his perfect hair... kiss those lips... Let's have sex everywhere, fulfil our crazy fantasies...

But today, I couldn't ignore him anymore... I've been on Nairaland reading threads on interracial couples... so cute! And I just have to talk with my would-be boyfriend...

He's called several times since... He wrote that he knows I'm probably busy... He doesn't want to distract me from my studies... I shouldn't forget him... He loves me.

I feel all soft and fluffy on the inside like a cloud or teddy bear... But I'm also annoyed with myself for falling in love with him so soon... And worse of all, he's on a different continent!

I always fall in love first... I know he's sincere... But I don't want to be the only one truly, madly, carelessly invested in this relationship...

I think of a million things I wanna do with him... I want him to come to Nigeria, meet the people and love them! I want him to experience my culture and I want to experience his also... Travel to Colombia... And we'll travel everywhere else.

I would love to dance with him too... At night... I want him to sing a song with that deep, seductive voice...

I want to go to the places he grew up in... His old homes, school... Just silently share those memories...

We should be having sex too... God knows we both need and want it...

I'm going to reply his messages! But keep things subtle... I wanna surrender everything to my passion...

But I gotta keep these fiery instincts in check... Before they consume me...

The life of an Aries... I saw a picture recently...on what each zodiac's soul looks like... Aries was a bon fire...

So relatable... Maybe it's a good thing he's far away... I'm trying to take things slow... Let's both know each other...

I'll create a diary soon: the hopeless romantic.

Forlahh:
Happiness is your choice to make

sirjamesjnr:
. Everything is under control. I understand what you are saying.

Stephen2324:
At what point did you realize ‘‘oh! no this relationship won't work’’

ggood:
Please what is the cause of excessive Yawning I notice that my girl yawn alot what could be the cause , she eat well , she sleep well and she has time to rest to but she still yawn and it's terrible.

Grabezz:
Good NL please I will make this brief, pardon my typos and poor construction.

I decided to bring this here cos all I need it to get a wider coverage though its not the right section cos I want advice from the Bible and Christian perspective. straight to the point, it happened that we've been dating for say four months now but I observed that I battle with my conscience each time we had sex. it usually take me up to three to four days to get relieved anytime it happens because of guilt.

Two weeks ago, we met and initially we agreed she will be spending the night at my place on a Friday being the next day, but after meeting on Thursday I was left with my conscience and guilt and when she called to tell me she's coming the next day I asked her not to come which angered her and she said all sort of things to me but I wasn't concerned cos it between me and God and I decided within me that what is the benefit of doing something that fights daily with my conscience and decide to stop. Because when I don't do I have problem with her and when I do it is with my conscience and God.

she was angry with me already so one of the way I can stop the whole stuff is to distance myself from her, because once I see her, I will still be moved by pity or what I really cant place. So I tried not to go close to her again and she never called also and I was even happy cos I felt I have escaped these as believe me I have made up my mind not to involve in anything sex again nor relationship till I meet my wife.

Just yesterday she messaged me that she's pregnant, the issue now is I am not party to abortion and I can't marry her because these four months with her is not what I want to experience throughout my life. what do I do in this situation. please lets move to fp for more contribution thanks.

Marakajaakkli:
Young minds, I am using this medium to warn you to keep Off sex on your mind. Because you see lots of the glamour model and Slay Queens you see everywhere is to promote the subject in your mind.


Keep it off and stay healthy. How do I know, I have been there folks, after sex with the girls, or with the boys what next


That's why many can't keep marriage. Yes it's difficult and you got to have lots of character to be able to stay together in love and faithful to your vow.

After sex, what's the discussion on the table?? Or you just got ditch.... you got laid... Keep sex off your mind folks.


Think of future. Think of mercy, and of peace and love. Which is the greatest.

fineboynl:
i did it raw multiple times. what can i do? that feeling of doing it raw. I have been using condom on her but today she resisted it and grab my thing into her like that and it felt good anyway. now she is more attached to me like never before. during the cause of the sex she said I should promise her to be her besty which I never did. i just told her we are friends already what besty she is talking about. and my main concern now is that she is a seeing other guys and I haven't take her serious like that of which she knows.

that thought of her seeing other guys is what is making me sacred now.

Amarabae:
No time for long epistle.
It baffles me that despite the high level of awareness of Stds ,some are still going raw in pre marital sex!
How much is condom?
Why risking your life and future?
Do you know that a #100 gold circle would have prevented some curable and incurable diseases in some people?
HIV, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, etc no de show for face, that handsome guy or beautiful girl may be having it,

You got to be very careful!
Don't allow konji to take away your senses.
Always use condom.
Don't allow him to enter you without condom.
For me, abstinence remains the best till you are married and remain faithful to each other.
Oriaku loves you all

LatestgistTv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2KOIJMA_z0c

aktem:
Let me do a little introduction,i am a 400l student of a popular state university,afonja to be precise.For the past few days,i have been coming across topics on Hiv/aids and my heart do skip whenever i hear any topic related to such.I had a lot of pussy gift during the past 3-4months months mostly from ladies who happen to be my friends..fwb sturvs# all in the name of musical intruments teaching or lecture,so one thing do lead to the other&gbam..we are on bed..may God forgive me#,instrumentalists can relate.After reading about Emmanuel eboues's case,i started feeling unsettled,perplexed and worried because the last gurl i banged was a "raw operation" because condom has finished.I started suspecting the lady because she is an expert in cowgirl/reverse cowgirl style,a good rider.I started thinking that..."this cowgirl expert lady must definitely have quite a number of sexual partner".Immediately i started feeling joint and muscle pain&headache..i checked early symptoms of hiv and joint pain/headache were included..&i was lyk...i don die,this girl don kee me.i couldn't sleep well that night.The next day,i headed for a nearby state hospital.When i got to the lab i told the lab attendant that i wanna do hiv test,immediately..all the staffs and patient started looking@me with evil eye&i looked back @them wit "i dont care" expression.My blood sample was taken and i was told to wait for like 30mins.I found a place to sit down and hot sweat was oozing out of my body despite the cold weather,i opened nairaland to calm down the tension but i couldn't comprehend a single word...i started seeing the whole world as a very small object infront of me..different confilcting thoughts
After like 10mins,i heard a loud scream and a moderate volumed wail accompanied it,i turned to where the sound is coming from and i saw a very beautiful light skinned lady.Although she managed to control herself but tears was still dripping from her cheeks..immediately i knew she was "positive".I froze in shock and i started feeling "hot shit" running towards my anus despite the fact that i went to the toilet before i left for the hospital.After a couple of minutes,i was called into the lab and i saw a young man holding my test result..i was said to masef- shey death don cum ni?he smiled and ushered me into a empty room,then he started telling "hiv is not a death sentence and related shits"
I froze and now,i was really soaked with sweat after fews second,he handed me my result slip and.....i was Hiv negative.I wanted so scream but i composed myself,i was so happy.The man told me that 3 ladies has been confirmed positve dat morning&i was shocked..i was opportuned to see two of them and they are pretty gurls..

We shld all be careful,hiv no dey show for face
If u cant avoid having sex,use quality condoms.
Dont trust ur bf or gf in the aspect of raw sex .See his/her test result before you shld agree to go on "raw operation".
As for me,i have vowed never to engagee in unprotected sex again until after my wedding and that's only with my wife,so i have stocked quality condoms in my wardrope because there might be "impromtu match".
And lastly,let all endeavour to know our Hiv status.

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OhBritannia:
American actor Will Smith says he can’t fulfil his wife, Jada Pinkett’s sexual desires.

In a recent interview with Oprah Winfrey, the renowned actor said he could “die trying” if he attempts to keep up with Mrs Pinkett’s sex drive.

He talked about how exciting their sex life used to be at the beginning of their relationship and how he is unable to keep up with the initial drive.

Speaking with Ms Winfrey, Will said he and Jada “drank every day, and had sex multiple times every day, for four straight months.”

The actor said he started to wonder if the back-to-back sex was a competition.

“As far as I was concerned, there were only two possibilities. I was going to satisfy this woman sexually, or I was going to die trying,” Will said.

He commended their “spectacular” relationship over the years, and how they communicate a lot. “To this day, if we start talking, it’s four hours. It’s four hours if we exchange a sentence.

“And it’s like, it’s the center of why we’ve been able to sustain and why we’re still together, not choking the life out of each other. It’s like the ability to work through issues.

Source: https://gazettengr.com/i-dont-have-strength-to-satisfy-jadas-sexual-desires-will-smith/
Cc lalasticlala Dominique mynd44

NovesaTillie:
Good morning

Sometime ago I made a thread about this new guy I just started dating. He has a good sex stamina, from a good background and highly intelligent but since he came to visit me about two weeks ago he has refused to go.
He has a job but works remotely.
When I left for work last week Monday he said he would be gone by the time I got back from work he truly left only to call me by 11pm that he's at the estate gate, from then till yesterday he has refused to go back to his own house. I need my space back
It was supposed to be a weekend stuff only but now he is gradually becoming a permanent resident. What made me create this thread is that this morning when I opened my wardrobe I saw a big bag filled with his clothes

How do I get to make him leave without sounding rude or hurting this relationship

BegAt40:
SIMP!
You don't know that Nigerian girls are baboon?

NwekeUG:
https://igberetvnews.com/1405974/woman-10-children-10-different-men-buried-penis-like-casket-photos-video/

Lalasticlala

Bettingmorinho:
Now straight to the topic, I've known my girl for years, i've been using condoms when having sex with her. Now recently, we decided to be having RAW sex since we've known each other for years now and we trust each other and we're clean. After sex, we use Postinor 2 contraceptive. Now my Question is, Postinor 2 Is Just 2 tablets, she takes the 2 tablets after sex. Should she take the postinor 2 two tablets after sex or like dosage, two times a day or what? Cos she takes it after sex and that's all. Hope she won't get pregnant. I'm confused please help! Girls in the house please help

Smartiegurl:
Is funny though............i have been going to the stadium every saturday just to keep fit, but today was kinda funny. I went with ma bro today and we exercised for some hours before he proceeded to play football with his friends, as i sat down to rest, i caught a glimse at a handsome dude jogging towards ma direction(he was really cute and i loved his out fit), i liked him instantly....lolz, i began to ponder in ma heart "handsome you really got to say hi to me" but alas!! He jogged pass me without saying a word. Ouch!! I felt bad.........but he jogged pass the second time and said "hello pretty" awww!! I smiled but said nothing. Seeing much crowd i shifted to a corner and began jogging on ma own and later i sat down at a corner and he came towards me again pretending to be exercising, (i giggled) then began to do press up and all order types of exercises, i kept admiring him secretly. He became tired i guess and sat down. Few mins later, he looked at me smiled and said "how ar you?" i said fine and we began to talk abt sports cuz i was on Arsenal jersey, he told me his name which i did'nt really get, i told him mine too, we talked abt our state of origin and all that.......according to him, he came to play football with his club friends but decided to do a liitle exercise, seeing his friends he decided to go......he asked for ma contact number, buh suprisenly, i told him no that i ain't giving him.....he shrugged and left.....came back the second time, i still said NO.....this time i jogged away leaving him confused.....lolzz is funny that someone i admired asked for ma contact but i declined. Have you experienced such?

Ammishaddai:
This man is an ex-simp who loves misleading his followers. Was that how you wooed your current wife? Mtchwww...hypocrite

Daniel7543:
Good day nairalanders.
I'll be brief. Please pardon my typo errors, I'm not a good writer.

I live in a 2 bedroom flat apartment here in Benin city. I live alone, I'm a very neat guy inside out. Infact you can eat comfortably in my toilet . I wash my toilet almost everyday.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. She's from Uromi, Edo state. She's so kind, caring and beautiful. Infact, I want my unborn kids to look exactly like her. She also live here in Benin city with her parents and they're well to do. Most times we spend the weekend together.

But the issue I'm having with her is that whenever she make use of the toilet (especially poo) she don't flush, there's always water running in my flat 24/7. I have talked to her severally but she will always say..."she's sorry, that she forgot". Since we've been dating for almost 2 years now I have flushed 90% of her poo, she's not willing to change. The last time we quarreled seriously about this issue was last month, Infact I ended up apologizing just because I tried to correct her.

She came over to my house after her grandfather's funeral, same thing happened again and i was like..."is this how you went to disgrace yourself at your family's house in Uromi?“... She got angry and started yelling at me. I just have to apologize.

What happened today really got me angry. Please note. I don't really make use of the visitor's toilet because the master's room has it own toilet/bathroom which is my room. But i do wash the visitor's toilet once in a while even when nobody is using it.

So my friends came over to my house, we were all drinking, gisting and watching a football match, one of my friend wanted to urinate in the visitors toilet, the moment he entered the toilet, he came out immediately shouting...."Danny na wa for you o, u nor Sabi flush".... When I saw it mehn.. It was irritating. I knew my girlfriend did it when she came over last weekend. I was so ashamed. I just had to lie it was my little cousins that must have mess up the toilet when they came to visit during the week.

Please nairalanders, how can I talk to her to stop this habit??. I'm really down and I've tried but my best is not enough. I love this girl so much. Please help.

Lala

sirjamesjnr:
. I didn't even lift a finger, it was a normal thing to do. The lady feels she has a lot of her friends backing her so she can bully my girl. It's something I hate so much.

sirjamesjnr:
Speaking from experience, whether as a child or an adult, all bullies are the same: arrogant, cold-hearted, selfish, and downright mean-spirited. They don’t think twice about backstabbing you and double-crossing you when:1) they haven't gotten their own way; and/or 2) they intend to sabotage you/your reputation. They are nasty, insecure, and attention-craving babies. I've learned not to get all twisted up by their antics. Yes, it's really, really hard, but why stoop to their level? Well, sometimes you have to put a bully where he/she belong.


So my girl beckons on me to take her to the trade fair. we needed to spend a few hours there because I have other engagements. please guys never fellow a girl to market/ shopping mall etc unless you have nothing doing at that moment or you want to make her happy. It doesn't always end well. She will remember everything she needs... I can give you the amount you need but leading you to the market is one hell of a task, I don't have that patience. Also, I don't like bodies contact. I prefer Mall to market.No offense, please, just my kind of person


She shops for herself and her siblings. Then it was time to shop for her co-staffs( she promise them some gifts). We went to a stand and there were a lot of people. Please note we were there before and the salespersons told us we wouldn't be needing a number so we went shopping for other things and we return to the stand. I have to keep a distance and allow my girl to do the shopping.


She approaches the manager so as to get her tally but ladies in the roll won't hear from her or allow her to talk with the man. Two of the ladies then drag her out of the line. I have to talk to her to keep her cool. I was boiling when I saw what they did to her. I went to the manager, after a bit of intro. He gave me a tally to give to her. These ladies didn't let it slide, they vow my lady can't buy anything there until they are done with theirs. The Policeman talk to them and they were willing to allow her but I won't let it go away.


I went to the head of security requested to speak with the person in charge. I met some CTU guys and some Police. I make a complaint, then I told them I need them to tell me the nearest police station because I need to teach someone how to be civilized. Two policewomen followed me to order the lady to their post.

When she was brought in, I noticed she is pregnant, the demon in me weak. I told those policemen that she should say sorry to my girl and walk away and I won't do anything to her due to her condition.
She and her friends vow not to say sorry that she is a graduate like my babe. I make a phone call because I wanted to take them out of that area, they are cells for pregnant women lol. When the CTU guys heard my phone conversation one whisper to her. I saw her melt and tell my girl SORRY.

I told my friend over the phone that the case has been handled. I let her walk away because I have weaknesses for pregnant women, kids, and elderly people. I consider them WEAK. If it were to be a guy as in man to man( aren't getting any time with a lady), I will have taught him how to treat a lady in a civilized way.
I dislike bullies. How did you handle someone who bully the one you love?

Truvelisback:
Is that all? Abi Fuel don finish?

Niece:
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babyboo4life:
They're dating. He helped her to gain admission into federal Uni, lend her some money for few school payments. Supported her throughout the period of mourning her deceased dad both with attention and money. From the first day she entered school, her attitude towards him changed; slow response to phone calls,sms and chatting.Her reason been that she has not settled. That they'll continue their usual way. Abeg o who can relate, this one pass me.

Datboredberry:
I've noticed how black men love to pull black women down...

Last night, I was reading ilamina's topics cause I was bored and I think most were funny.

I came across the comments of two men, on a particular thread, who were dissing Nigerian women. They went on about the few white women they've had sex with... How perfect white women therefore are... And how Nigerian girls are so unhygienic... And so forth...

To me, it all reeks of self-hate... And ignorance.

Most black men are deliberately blind to racism...they prefer to ignore the fact that on the social ladder, they come last...

They have zero knowledge of the past... Before the Europeans came to Africa, during the trans-atlantic slave trade and colonialism... And even now... Black women have stood supportive of black men while they were beaten, lynched, stripped off every iota of self-pride... At your very worse, no matter where you are, every black man knows he has a home in a community of black women...

So why the hate towards the only people who've fought by you since the very beginning and who would probably never stop because of their love, loyalty and respect... Even to those undeserving of them...

I've always hated to see black men come out to saw the most awful things about black women...

Black men do everything wrong... The most despicable which is when they insult the good-looks of black women.

Men with broad noses, high foreheads, full lips, type 4 hair... Look at a mirror image of themselves and call it ugly... It's cringe...

There's nothing wrong with dating someone of a different race... But if you do it because you think black women don't compare, then you have a chronic case of mental slavery...

If you think the women who you birthed you, you grew up and played with, you had your first kiss with... Are somehow inferior to women of a different race... Then you have no respect for yourself...

Personally, I've dated men of different races... But I could never think of stooping so low to even write a single bad think of black men...

Yet black men date one white woman and they are all over judging and criticizing black women.

The worse comes from black men who haven't even said a word to a white person in their entire lives!!!

They watch a lot of blacked porn, listen to loads of biased opinions from their mates then instantly take up the role of head-slave... Berating black women and their blackness...

If you date white women, it's great... I date white men... And many other black women do...

But while dating white women, there's no need for you to grovel... To shame your race, culture or ethnicity just to please your white partner... It's absolutely unnecessary for you to make your interracial relationship somehow still revolve around black women... You're not hurting anyone, just making a fool of yourself...

Most black men...

1Alex:
If you have ever lost someone, it won't be scary to you anymore. When you enter a mortuary especially the one in a government hospital, you will know how far.

bigpriik:
I brought up this topic two years ago, it was about a girl i loved so much we were good friends, but she is Just into a kinda flashy lifestyle funded by runs. She always posts twerk videos on her Instagram and whatssap status and of course she is very beautiful and the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Hoestly I don't know why I love her, it's just crazy. Last year I deleted her number and pictures from my phone, because we had a fight over the tatoo she drew on her upper arm so I avoided her..

But yesterday I saw her in my street, meeen this girl don fine scatter and she is looking so fresh like those men are really paying her well. She called me and I answered we talked and believe me all the nuts in my head was loose because I talked to her.. ,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.

Is it sensible iI take her in, i am 29 now and rounding up for marriage and she is the only one i see but i am afraid because i feel runs girls don't really retire even after marriage..

Elders please i need your help..
I need

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.