rushlife: I have this aunty of mine that I'm suspecting!. During my university undergraduate days, she was on money but so extravagant. I once adviced her then to buy land and build a house but it fell on deaf ears. She kept squandering money on frivolities, just imagine spending about millions sending her son on holiday to America?. Back then in the university, I was so broke but I refused to receive any money from her because I detested her flamboyant lifestyle, she was so wasteful!. Things turned around for her and she went so poor now, because she couldn't manage the wealth God gave her in the beginning. Well currently just because of family sake, I do try helping her and her child in my own trivial way. Let everyone carry their cross because she couldn't manage money well when God gave it to her. Let me just go straight to the reason why am suspecting she is up to something, she suddenly called me yesterday and started requesting that I should send her my N.I.N slip or any valid i.d card. She said that she registered a business in my name like GNLD and she needs my N.I.N. I don't trust her at all, I refused to send my N.I.N by telling her that I misplaced mine. She suddenly said I should get my N.I.N number from my phone and I lied once again by telling her that my main sim card got lost. I was pondering what she was up to, suddenly she got angry and started saying that she wanted to psyche me and I don't like helping people. She talked so angrily and switched off the phone on me. Please though this is a different account but I have been in nairaland since my Ss2, I have spent several years on this platform. I really want to enquire if anyone knows what she is up to, is she trying to use my valid i.d to borrow loans from this loan apps?. Since she is my aunty she might get my names, date of birth etc but am sure she doesn't have any of my valid i.d cards!. Is it possible to borrow money from all these loan apps with someone's valid i.d card without the person consent?. I'm confused, can anyone guess what she is up to?. I would try as much to distance myself from her, she should carry her cross because she was financially careless when she had the money!.
Owuamanamifechi: Hello everyone ,I met this girl just months ago ,we fell in love,we dating and going well ,but my pastor says she’s not the one for me ,and u have seen it in my dreams too ..we were walking separately and I called her and she didn’t answer ..but we cool In real life ..but i love this girl ,she’s all I need in a woman ..am In my late 20’s and she is in her middle 20’s..she’s all I need in a woman and I wish to marry her ..but that dream dey make me reason..what do I do ..advise me
Havilaah1: Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.
I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.
Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.
The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).
This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event. Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.
I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions. How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.
God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.
I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation. Moderator please help move to front page to get a wider view. Roctation farano Please help move to front page for wider view.
So he should forget about his siblings because of a stranger like u abi?
soundOsonic: I met a lady last year, we talked well and vibes well. Later on I would go to her shop to discuss and I would have this eye contact with her and I thought I felt something like a spark though. Even the Lady with her suspected we had a thing together but I just recently knew her. We both talked as if we know each otherfor like forever. She asked me for my number, I gave her. I never asked her for her number simply because I wanted to make sure that the signal we are getting from one another was purely romantic and not platonic and I wanted to take things slow. I felt that her asking for my number was that she needed to spend more time with me if I am not available physically. So we started chatting. The chats was going smoothly and to my surprise we do chat all through the day. Then I did what all single Hot guy will do, I asked her out. I was not after sex perse I just wanted enough closure bridging through the platonic platform to a more romantic setting. But she replied with exact same words "I am not ready for a relationship, I want to complete my schooling and be focus with my education." Well despite her reply killed my envisioned sun setting romantic bliss; I understood as she was a good girl, a virgin and someone very focus with academics. I know this because she tells me everything about her things happening each day, minutes and seconds. I was contented with the platonic relationship, I thought I would wait maybe 2 or 3 years as that's what she was indirectly telling me. A month later time from that time was December Christmas period. I took my sister out to a nice eatery and I asked her if she could come along as a friend. She obliged but told me she would be going some place after that I said ok. So after she left to her place of wherever. My sister told me she is worried, I asked her why, she said she went to her guy's place. I was shocked this is a lady that is not ready for relationship. This guy in question is a Yahoo guy by the appearance and all. The guy later broke her heart as that's the first time she is dating I think at 21. Another guy in the area too was like dating her as well after that guy, at the point of dating he got another girl pregnant and broke her heart. I thought why did she ever chose not to date me. If at all you were not physically attracted to me why didn't you just tell me instead of all these mumbo jumbo. I am actually an average looking guy. Maybe a 6 or even a 7 based on world standard. My question is why do girls always refuse to date me, I am not a good guy neither am I a bad guy. The one I am asking out says I am not in her level, that she is in a very low level for me to look at her. The next one said I am too low for her. The one I confessed my feelings for her heart isn't even with me but another. The girl who I don't even know that keeps greeting me Everytime but I keep ignoring her, I later went for her after a year she turned me down. I just tire o.
Frank2021: Do u know what am going through in my relationship now I love her so so much and committed to her but she treats me like a fool She shout at me And always rebuke in public people thought we are married I senior her but she is taking control over me She suddenly stop allowing me to touch her If I touch her she gets angry Today I went to her chat and saw a guy she save with obim I was so heartbroken I saw how she expressed her feelings to him Something she never say to me
Idris5050: Good evening nairalanders My Pregnant wife don't want us to have sex, she is always saying she is tired and weak. She is 8 months pregnant now..and I remembered the doctor said I should be dropping the liquid twice a week...pls any Advice �
Omo u get mind I Ontop 8months belle ,god punish you
Lovelink1991: A road Marshall who proved to be very stubborn has met his water shallow when a woman in conjunction with other women gave him the beat of his life.
It was the help of his colleague that help him from the situation even as one of the women was very much ready to bring down the heaven on him.
Olam09: If you found an iPhone on the street, what would you do? We did. 6 months ago. We’d stopped off to do some shopping, and my other half found it lying on the ground under one of the trolleys. When he looked inside the case, there were bank cards and a driving licence too. The owner was a middle aged chap with an Italian name. Fortunately it wasn’t locked so my other half phoned one of the contacts, explained we’d found the phone and where we were. The contact said she would call the chaps wife and let her know. 5 minutes later the phone rang. It was the owner. He hadn’t realised he’d dropped his phone! We told him we’d wait where we were. 10 minutes later a very relieved chap turned up. He was SO grateful that we had been honest and returned his things. He chatted with us as we walked round getting our shopping, and when we got to the tills, insisted on paying. We tried to refuse, but he said that replacing his phone, his bank cards and his driving licence would have cost far more than our few things, not only just in money, but in time and inconvenience. We then gratefully accepted, and we parted ways.
KanoFirstSon: It’s the price they have to pay for allowing lawlessness strive in their region. Businesses are shutting down,most youths are out of work because of that. So why won’t they start abusing drugs due to frustration caused by the tactless Ipob terrorists. Ipob Pls more sit at homes. Biafra will be a cool kontry
In that thread, I wrote about how I dropped resignation letter but the company kept mum until I left without making plans for handing over. I said that their 5k was left with me which they didn't say anything about and that my pension was never remitted. Now I don't care about the pension but I think they are trying to set me up.
Their 5k was initially left with me but they still sent the following month estacode to me, after I had left the company. I contacted the accountant that their 5k was left with me and they still sent a new month estacode of 10k to me. I asked him to provide the company's account number and I sent the money to the account which the company confirmed. They said nothing about pension but I don't care because I worked with them for just about 3 years.
After this, my phone was stolen and lost all contacts and details saved on my phone. Just two days ago, I checked my online accounts and email with someone's phone and I saw credit alert of November estacode from the company again. Now if I want to refund the money, what's in my account is no longer up to 10k because the account is on RED. I no longer live in that city and will need to connect with coworkers on Facebook to get accountant's phone number. I live from hand to mouth now and will need enough time to gather money to refund the money upon getting accountant's number.
This company may be trying to set me up... Should I report to the police before they will use same police to harass me? Should it be police PCRU or police in my current town?
Please, I will read replies later because it's not my phone I used to log in. Thanks!
Juliusmomoh: I don't even know the right section to post this..
I lost my uncle some days ago and we put him into the mortuary. Our plan to buried him by january...
What brought about thread is that the mortuary attendant called us to take our corpse on the ground that he fight with the other corpse there.
We went there early morning yesterday to comfirm ourselves. What our eye see mouth no fit talk... E shock us.
He fought other corpse there. He even hang some on the window Attendant don beat him tire, they will still wake up in the morning and see other corpse scatterd and only him enjoying the room.
We where told maybe he's a cultist or he's in some spritual stuff before he died..
They ask us to take him away but we don't want to bury him now due to some family issues. You know.
Please exprience nairalanders, what do you suggest to do now to him?
Solofresh2: Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work. Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working. She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.
So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.
There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally
DeejaywonDJ1: There is this online loan company (Quickcheck) that I used to borrow money from around 2019 when my salary was not stable and I used to pay back in time. So around August my phone screen broken and started malfunctioning, so I wanted to order for the replacement on Jumia, since I have jumia account I wanted to deposit the money into the account to order for the screen replacement. I managed to login to the jumiapay account with the same phone since I can auto deposit into the account quickly because my debit card details is with them.
When I wanted to proceed with the transaction the phone immediately started to malfunction again and I off it because if I did it'll work for few minutes before it start to malfunction again. When I switched it on I saw an alert of 20k from quickcheck, immediately I sent a mail to them using my small phone and transfer the money back to the provided account. But they still go ahead to deduct the interest and the accrued late fees of 35 days because they have my debit card details.
So on the day of delivery I checked my balance and 7k is gone in my account and I decided to check what happened on jumiapay with the same phone, on clicking on the Quickcredit loan icon button same thing happened all over again unintentionally because I didn't get any message afterwards, so I paid for the delivery and fixed the screen immediately.
Then I decided to check my balance on uba app and see that I still have 12k excess which shouldn't be. I decided to check jumiapay to know what happened it was the same thing all over again, I sent the 12k to them with explanation like four times on different platforms. But they still go ahead to deduct the money from my account.
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