₦airaland Forum

membranus:
Tufiakwa! We reject it.

udomonday:
that is not suicide,it is murder,the father is the prime suspect.the police should be thorough.

Kobojunkie:
My realist, so if your brother's wife or son's wife were cheating on him, you would equally advice him to.... ...equally remain in the marriage but adopt the following attitude towards her
● Ignore the cheating wife
● Never confront her, give her space, and concentrate on his children and himself
● Dress himself well and take good care of himself
● No longer give his wife money
● Give his wife the silent treatment
● Take himself out on dates
● never cheat on her

Kobojunkie:
But OP has been the one dealing with the consequences of her husband's cheating for the past 6 years? Why are you so unmoved by any of what she has revealed here? It doesn't seem to concern you at all that the one who has been languishing in mental anguish has been OP over what her husband has been doing to her in marriage.

If OP was your son or brother, would you equally be here dishing out the very same advice, complete with the many shackles you desperately wish for OP to continue to wear on her?

Kobojunkie:
Of course it can't make sense to you because your obvious goal is to ensure she remains shackled even with all she has had to deal with. That seems to be the default programming of the average Nigerian, particularly towards awomenfolk.

Kobojunkie:
OP is already in depression as a result of her husband's roaming dick. She has probably been in depression for the last 6 years of his roaming. So why make it seem as though depression will only come to her now if she chooses to act in her own interest after all this time enduring mental abuse from another?

What an untamed man in terms of infidelity can do? What the fk does that mean and why should that be OP's concern at this point for Pete's sake?

3. OP has been in depression for all this while because I of her husband's cheating. What in the world are you on about?

4. Two wrongs don't make a right but one wrong does? Abegi! Stop desperately trying to put chains in OP because you cannot help but have her in a controlled state. For the umpteenth time, the woman is depressed as is and for no fault of hers in marriage. So why are you trying to add chains to her predicament?

Kobojunkie:
You impose God as if a shackle --- restrictions --- on the woman all while knowing the man roams free? You want her to pray for what exactly at this point in time? WOW..

OP,many people do not wish for you to be free because you are in their eyes a married woman and required to wear at least religious chains for the rest of you because of it. They wouldn't impose the same on the man though because somehow their religious god does not hold men to the same standards. Please know that you are the one who should determine how free you ought to be in your life same as your husband who wickedly chose to disrespect you in marriage. No other humans opinion should matter.

Pootle:
the first shall be the last

Jennyclay:
iPhone or nothing

If you gift me this nonsense phone I will not just smash it on floor I will also rain curses on you

frankyychiji:
I agree with you 💯.

BTW, it's "shoot at sight". Meaning to kill without question or hesitation.

The narrator said a plane was hovering above them, it could be the terrorists enablers monitoring their boys closely as they carry out their assignment.

frankyychiji:
I agree with you 💯.

BTW, it's "shoot at sight". Meaning to kill without question or hesitation.

The narrator said a plane was hovering above them, it could be the terrorists enablers monitoring their boys closely as they carry out their assignment.

Domainer1999:
Ftc