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Amelian: Why women no go vex, when some in laws behave like they are doing the. Woman a huge Favour by marrying their sons..when it's even the wife, they should adore and respect cause she is the one who will give birth to so many generations to come...but cruel mindset of some In laws will not make them see reason... No in law will disrespect me or belittle me, sha..I will be good to them , but I won't step beyond my boundaries ,likewise them too.. Respect is reciprocal.

Because rightly or wrongly, culturally in the past women were seen as a means to an end
The end is the children and thus the focus

Nice legs, ID but all i don dey see since for your posts na shoes
Other threads need the badosky touch

I like the old school shoes from papi.. classy and cute

Well here goes

I agree truth and fact are synonyms but facts have always been known to be strongly affected by perception or knowledge you know at the point in time

To limit the discussion i used your scenario but i use a xtian allegory

FACT: I am ill now
FACT: I am having 39 deg C fever
FACT: I feel abandoned
FACT: I have not been promoted for like 7 years now

TRUTH: God is by my side

Two weeks down the line, a double promotion, healing and a fruitful relationship is materialising
does it change the facts YES!
does it change the truth NOPE

God has always been by the side

what do you think

true (tr)
adj. tru·er, tru·est
1.
a. Consistent with fact or reality; not false or erroneous. See Synonyms at real1. See Usage Note at fact.
b. Truthful.
2. Real; genuine. See Synonyms at authentic.
3. Reliable; accurate: a true prophecy.
4. Faithful, as to a friend, vow, or cause; loyal. See Synonyms at faithful.
5. Sincerely felt or expressed; unfeigned: true grief.
6. Fundamental; essential: his true motive.
7. Rightful; legitimate: the true heir.
8. Exactly conforming to a rule, standard, or pattern: trying to sing true B.
9. Accurately shaped or fitted: a true wheel.
10. Accurately placed, delivered, or thrown.
11. Quick and exact in sensing and responding.
12. Determined with reference to the earth's axis, not the magnetic poles: true north.
13. Conforming to the definitive criteria of a natural group; typical: The horseshoe crab is not a true crab.
14. Narrowly particularized; highly specific: spoke of probity in the truest sense of the word.
15. Computer Science Indicating one of two possible values taken by a variable in Boolean logic or a binary device.

laylow001: THIS IS A TOUCHING STORY.
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A boy saw a puppy and touched it, he touched it again, he kept on touching it. Like I said, dis is a touching story!"..

laylow u no well, touchie touchie story


@OP Precursor to menage tinz

FX King please i think ajos has been punished enough
please stay the sword as CC has been apologised to and ajos is or has made efforts to modify his erroneous posts

byvan: This is for those comparing who hurts more when cheated on.Infidelity breaks women to pieces too.

Really unfortunate news and hope the children achieve their destiny

I still beleive suicide is not a good way to die and leaves people in the lurch but i dont believe insenstivity to show strength or bravado is the way to go

May she rest in peace

This however does not remove the fact on ground

whether due to society or brainwashing or whatever
Cheating by men is easily more condoned anywhere in the world than by women

ish

Requoted again

THE SEVEN LAWS THEY LIVE BY

1. Thou shalt have all the power in your relationships at all times even to your old age


2. No consequence is too much to maintain this control


3. Thou shalt justify all other acts of your kindred womenfolk who do same


4. Thou shalt not tolerate a manfolk talking back to you


5. Thou shalt not tolerate polygamy. This is the cardinal sin and it is punishable by death


6. Thou shalt not tolerate any form of violence against thee or thine kindred women


7. Thou shalt continually seek to subjugate menfolk by ALL MEANS NECESSARY

ayobase: U think I don't get ur point!
Or do u think I'm supporting a man of such!

NEVER!

You are simply not getting the point we guys have been raising here, or rather u just wouldn't wanna succumb!

Its simple....put the two on the scale, and see which is heavier!

How can they comprehend when they live and breathe the laws of feminism

Conviently they have kept silent on the amount of cheating being carried out by female folk themselves and resort to name calling in defiance of cool logic

kulyie: biola how na

i dey inside cloth eh...
Good morning

Sleep well?

bukatyne: Sorry, I couldn't reply last night.

Fact:/fakt/
Noun
1.A thing that is indisputably the case.
2.Information used as evidence or as part of a report or news article.

Truth:/tro͞oTH/
Noun
1.The quality or state of being true: "the truth of her accusation".
2.That which is true or in accordance with fact or reality: "tell me the truth".

Using the OP's story,

The fact is that his friend killed himself

The truth is that we may never know what really made him commit suicide; it might have been shame, anger, pain, last of trust, feeling of betrayal etc.

Truth and Fact are synonyms.

Love this post but I don't agree with your conclusion on them being synonyms

Truth is usually an interpretation of facts as we know them or have them ahe point

Using your scenario

Until more facts emerge on why he killed himself we can't know the truth of the unfortunate event

But I respect your points

This thread suddenly became boring

Miaouuwww


If woman wan get pikin for old age I understand that is her choice since she knows all the risks but that is strange as I thought that is mostly a paternal feeling.

surprised women in menopause will want children considering there will be family, church, marriage engagements that will disrupt time with that pseudo last born

Not to talk of downs

Missblanche how are you doing
How far with your diary naaa
Some of us actually read it o

If you see everything as a argument good for you

This os a forum and people will always disagree to agree

That's what mature discussion is all about

You prefer a man who does not GO AT ALL to any bar fair enough - your call.

Some ladies don't mind fair enough to them their call

We can't see life in the same way

jeffizy: Women dey vex o.

Na soooo

Waco again

May the families of the lost be comforted and the departed RIP

Just like the arowolo case, I hope justice is swfitly dispensed

This is a beautiful woman that her life has been cut short

May she rest in peace

Adieu..Endurance

No gender has a monopoly of violence
Humans are wicked

stefan lover: Elena and Katherine are two different people. Katherine is both Stefan and Damon past ex that turn them into vampires.
Logan is funny. I luv the scene between he and Damon. Saltzman is one of the best character, keep watching it gets better with every episode.

TX....

Just saw this again,..... Men are in trouble

They have statistics regarding paternity fraud. Note that the statistics were concerning men that suspected that they are not the father [size=28pt] and therefore sought testing.[/size]

Parentage Testing Program Unit - 1999 study by the American Association of Blood Banks that found that in 30 percent of 280,000 blood tests performed to determine paternity, the man tested was not the biological father.

http://www.australianpaternityfraud.org/statistics.htm


WHAT ABOUT MEN THAT DONT KNOW, CANT AFFORD DNA OR DIED UNTIMELY ?
MAY GOD HELP US ALL

Interesting stats of the AABB

Parentage Testing Program Unit - 1999 study by the American Association of Blood Banks that found that in 30 percent of 280,000 blood tests performed to determine paternity, the man tested was not the biological father.

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Jeanette Papp of the University of California at Los Angeles, California, U.S.A. feels that 15 per cent is rate of paternity fraud for the Western world, even if there is no hard evidence. "It's hard to do studies on these things for ethical reasons," says Dr. Papp, director of genotyping and sequencing in UCLA's department of human genetics. "I mean, how do you tell people what you're really looking for?"

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Research show that 40% of women and 60% of men in a committed relationship will be unfaithful at some point.

http://www.australianpaternityfraud.org/statistics.htm

But 15pc high sha and im sure say e go high for we side

may God help us all

pleep: Nigeria specific false paternity crisis:

http://www.ediong.org/2012/09/three-of-10-men-are-not-fathers-of.html?utm_source

Differences in mating strategies in the different sexes

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/group/busslab/pdffiles/evolution_of_human_mating_2007.pdf

"Mating is close to the engine of the evolutionary process—differential reproductive success. As descendants of
reproductively successful ancestors, modern humans have inherited the mating strategies that led to our ancestor’s
success. These strategies include long-term committed mating (e.g., marriage), short-term mating (e.g., a brief
sexual encounter), extra-pair mating (e.g., infidelity), mate poaching (luring another person’s mate), and mate
guarding (effort devoted to keeping a mate). Since men and women historically confronted different adaptive
problems in the mating domain, the sexes differ profoundly in evolved psychology of mating solutions. These
psychological sex differences include possessing distinct mate preferences, dissimilar desires for short-term
mating, and distinct triggers that evoke sexual jealousy. This article reviews empirical evidence supporting
evolution-based hypotheses about these mating strategies. The study of human mating is one of the true “success
stories” of evolutionary psychology."

Read the bolded, and grow the hell up you yeye women.

bookmarked!

byvan: About the sports car,don't you have a sense of humour??Based on the long distance marriage,didn't you read my conversations with Staicey??No,you don't read and comprehend wella,you just start commenting.Put all your mental faculties at work while reading don't just read like you are reading a poem.

i dont know why you women are so quick to abuse once a contrary point is raised
I read the discussion you had with staicey and she believed that men are entitled to some personal space. you dont agree fair enough

I do have a sense of humor and you could have said you were jesting on the sports car part because that will be the rational explanation. anything else na wash
I have friends whose fathers dey 24/7. so i need to tell them to get their fathers a sports car soonest



I asked the significance of long distance marriage and a woman cheating

byvan: Most women that root for long distance marriages probably have plans of their own,plans to paint the town red with their ex bfs and E buddies.

Also you say guys that hang out to drink do not have good conflict resolution methods as they will run to the beer parlour when there are issues in the home
That is also stereotyping men

But no wahala... ish

pleep: absolutely. I will post the world wide stats as well as Nigeria specific articles when i get on my computer.

Nice one brah


Virginity was desired by male folk because men became sure they were the owners of the pikin that came at out the firstborn at least

Until women understand this it's all about the seed and legacy

pleep: ^ You dumbass. According to the studies almost 1 out of 3 children born worldwide is not the child of the man who thinks he is the father. 3 out of 15 in the united states, imaging how much worse it is in Nigeria were people dont even understand contracpetives?

Any man who takes back a cheating partner is a fuckin evolutionary failure...

Almost ONE OUT OF THREE... would women tolerate that?

I know that there are such incidents out there but can you poSt stats supporting this 30 pc or are you just doing rule of thumb

I can only make an analysis based on what you post here

Long distance marriage for some is a result of them wanting a better life for their kids, better opportunities, security etc but you coloured it with women having a cheating mindset

Then you say because a man does not come home, he will suffer when his kid does not buy him a sports car

I read and comprehend wella

#JezSaying

Interesting seems alaric is a hunter but this his ring I no know

davidylan: Not true. Silicon valley is the largest lobby group for expanding the H1B visa class. If they had abundant US talent to fill these positions why would they care about going to Asia to hire workers?

Thanks bros

Let's hear what the man has to say for himself

Entrapment in this time and age
If the woman is all you want forget that preganncy ish and start your life

Just started watching it
S1 e 10 so far

Like the interplay btw damon and stefan

I did not like the way damon set up Lexy but this elena is so boring and broody

I prefered when she was katherine - more fun and laughed a while

This logan guy is so creepy


This saltzmann guy is so creepy
What's his story

byvan: Most women that root for long distance marriages probably have plans of their own,plans to paint the town red with their ex bfs and E buddies.Ofcourse,no wise woman will stop her man from chilling with his buddies once its not late.My dear I really do consider myself lucky because I can't handle the typical Naija kind of marriage.

it seems you like certain generalisations and believe most if not all men are cheats and this has coloured how you perceive others
it all about cheating cheating

byvan: Don't mind them,at old age they ll start complaining that their kids give them only dry gin instead of buying them a porshe carreri GT.It is paying the men that understands this bonding,I know how my kids keep inquiring about their dad when he is off to work.its so heart warming when your kids really feel your absence.

So fathers who work offshore or far from their homes will get dry gin and cannot raise dutiful children .. stereotypes!!
Does this mean fathers who stayed with their kids 24/7 will get porsche cars
so what will orphans do

kulyie: tell am say kulyie say make she no wahala baba and mama biola o

LOL... i love babies sha

Richiez: hahahaha hw u dey bro

fine sir