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Toktee: Nonesense,just run into moving train thats all you dont need to make people know ur intention mr devil will be glad to received you at the other end ok,is a choce dnt disturb people here with thiz insane issue.

Another eddiot born prematurely

GraceBestowed: [color=#CD3700] I'm in a similar position, a friend of mine's sister died recently, and I just didn't know the words to say. When it happens to someone else, I'm careful so as not to undermine their pain, grief, and hurt!

I have been fortunate enough not to lose anyone close to me, I thank God every day. My first port of call is to go to God, and ask for His comfort, that's also the advice I give to others in the hope that they do it earnestly.

He definitely gives comfort in trying times. [/color]

@OP
May God comfort that family and you in this time of loss
Amin

True that it is important for mums to bond with their young kids but I can't see the correlation to a sixteen year old who I believe is capable of communuicating her fears if not to her mum but at least to a counsellor

This is an intellectual thread unlike some people who don't want othere to benefit fter they were lucky to be there in the first place

Even if you are living in the states, your black heart is still black

a lot of advice has been posted

After all said and done

You are the one that is wearing the pinching shoe so deal with it

If you feel you can't live with all your wife's issues, your call

If you decide to, then live with it also

Fussbot: Shey we no go con go school again ni if den no give us medicine,accounting or law??(dey sae even lawyers dey husstle 4 dis naija)..bt I tink evwitin wasn't lik dis b4,I was told dey used 2 beg students with al dis courses bak in d days..watin con apen even with demoCRAZY?no enof universities,no jobs....na real wa 4 dis naija o...I mean,y did they put al dos courses in our system??even d govt gains nting 4rm dem so y??

this your moniker sha... reminds me of s.exbot

Hope49ja: A Recruiter's Perspective:

As an Nigerian International Recruiter, it saddens me to see our brothers and sisters wasting money to do a million and one degrees and certificates which will get them nowhere, especially in the UK.

1) For many people who made mistakes in their secondary school or university choices, it can be corrected. Think of internships or volunteering, even if it is for free. Work experience generally is given preference, especially for non-technical roles.
2) For those studying in the UK, think twice before spending thousands of pounds/dollars or millions of naira on further education. Many of you will be better of investing the money and reaping the benefit if you have business management and development skills.
3) For those planning to further their education abroad, please remember that lots of things have changed over the last 5-10 years. It is now extremely difficult to get a proper job in Europe and America (especially). You will be competing with natives with the law and background fully on their side.
4) For many courses, it is a lot more beneficial to have some experience before furthering your education. The more education and certification you get the more specialist and expensive you become. Ultimately, the less attractive you are for a graduate role.
5) For engineering/technically inclined high/secondary school students, consider studying a broad degree, then decide on a specialisation afterwards. For instance do a BSc in Electrical Engineering and later specialise in Computer Engineering, Energy-related degrees or anything else that you are interested in. It gives you four/five years to figure out what you really like, but also a platform to switch easily in the future.. This is particularly so as the economic and industrial situation of a country may change in your lifetime (or your country location) may change and you want to be in a position to switch to something else that is relevant and of interest to you in the future if needed.

All the best!!!

Sweet!

Yes too many fake huggies but there are some reputable people one can get good ones from

Alternatively you can try one of the pampers maxi and see how pikin react to am
If hin like am carry go

@mawuqueyan
Children are the next generation
Whether na hook or crook we will go and leave it to them

That's why I can't forgive a man that abandons his kid for any reason

Even if it does not work between you and your baby mama you have to be responsible to that kid

chimkaire: Let's call a spade a spade, for once! How do U expect a parent to feel on receiving this news? Knowing she died far away from .Ωђεяε the expected? All night party at a beach? Does that speak well of her? If U were a parent, I know quite well U won't have the guts to tell sympathizers who of course ask, the cause of death! Can we call evil evil for crying out loud! For us the living, ensure U are .Ωђεяε God will defend U, come what may. It is well.

Yes she was supposed to be in school but even bad things have happened to people who have been in the right place at the right time

The people on 911 went to work and were killed when the planes landed
Is it their fault

We don't own our lives
A little empathy never hurts no one

REALITY101: If there's anyone out here that needs kool-aid bro it gotta be you.

Ok.. If that rocks your boat
Ish

2jideofor: True -but you know the thing with emotions, it clouds your thinking.

If I didnt call myself to order, I would have had BP at an early age. For some weeks I had respiratory difficulties.

But God is a marvelous God because financially, I am far better than she left me or more than she could have ever imagine... I almost moving up the ladder of a million... Just a corper

That is what this man should have done, concentrate on making himself a better person. The truth is that, the wife did what she did for a reason she finds so difficult to tell her husband.

Na God get power

It is well bros..
So much anger in the system

You will go from grace to grace
Amin

Richiez: before we attempt this, let's see if we can find the derivative of x^x
if y=x^x
lny = lnx^x
lny = xlnx differentiate both sides wrt x the L.H.S using chain rule and the R.H.S using product rule
1/y(y') = x/x + lnx 1/y(y') = 1 + lnx
y' = y(1+lnx)
y' =x^x(1+lnx)...........(1)
now back to the question
y= x^x^x
let u = x^x comparing this with the soln at eqn(1) du/dx =x^x(1+lnx) now,
y = x^u
diff y wrt u
dy/du = x^ulnx dy/dx = dy/du * du/dx
=x^ulnx[x^x(1+lnx)]
but u=x^x dy/dx = x^x^xlnx[x^x(1+lnx)]

Wow

Lai wowe (without looking book)

Hmmm...

I think you should take a step back and let your sister take the decision

REALITY101: Tell me in one word what makes you different from whoever it is youre referring to right now? Pure hypocriticidiotic. Wishing someone dead and saying horrible things because he was stuupid enough to mock the dead. I hate people like you .

May she find peace. My thoughts goes to her family

Dude calm down
Where did you see me abusing anyone
I hope they find empathy in their time of need

That's all
Ish

Lilimax: Such an insensitive statements . She dosen't need your pity at this momment but it could have happen to anybody. Show some respect to the dead.

I tire for us o
Really I tire

Egba girl: I def agree that it's not just Nigerian students. I think it's the industry that sometimes determines what people study.


@topic, I initially wanted to study Econ because I did it for my A levels and I liked it a lot and so I came to college telling myself that I was going to be an Econ major. I took another Econ class and that was the end of it. I swore that I was done with Economics and I never took another Econ class again (although tbh, I think a lot of it had to do with the professors and the way they taught the classes). Anyway, I chose Conflict Studies/ Peace and Conflict Resolution and French as my majors and when I told my dad, he was upset! For about a year, he could not come to terms with the fact that I had chosen Conflict Studies. What was that anyway? Well unless I was going to follow it up with a masters or phd in Intl Relations or any degree of that nature but I really wanted to go into social work and what I kept on hearing and I still hear it today is that there is no money there. and that is the reality of it!

My friends are either in biochem or other sciences,econ and accounting and of late, I have been wondering if sticking to the Econ would have been a better option or forcing myself to do Bio or Biochem because of job prospects. I have friends writing certification exams like CFA and the IT ones too because they know that with these certifications, your chances of getting a job w a decent salary are higher.

Bottomline is that people study the "wrong" majors because that's about the safest way to ensure that you get a good job with a good salary.

True

jidegirl12: Lmao ma tan lantern , your hands are filthy ... Anyways @bolded which kain language be dat?

@MMtimo..... Your own don tire me... tell ęyę( bird) to get a JOB to take load off eeku's chest.

owo mi Mo bajebaje

Owo mi ma re fufu nene

[quote author=A.Mossley]By the power that made Jesus to walk on the sea without drowning,eniola,rise from the dead in Jesus name.#has she risen?#[/quote]izz it OK here

[quote author=lola.luv]I never thought I'd see some of the cruel comments I'm seeing here.
Since when did going to the beach become an anathema to be described as 'careless living and phucking'? Are Nigerians so used to suffering that the little pleasures of life now seem strange?

Who here has not gone on some little adventure or the other? Who here has not attended a bash or a youth gathering? Some have even travelled miles to visit a lover while in school.

Let him without sin cast the first stone. Or is it because during your time, no evil befell you that you can now act in this cold manner?
Please, have a rethink.

RIP to the departed.[/quote]Its tragic really
These are things that are done normally and no one sees anything wrong with it

Our poverty mentality has so warped our senses that we condemn any and everything

In the west festivals like Burning Man, Woodstock are highly anticipated and are successful tourist attractions yet people are safe and secure

It is Nigeria that let this young lady down

Kayusfity: DELETE THIS POO U JUST SPEWED THE FACT REMAINS THAT THE BI.TCH IS GONNA ROT IN HELL

who says you will not get there before her

2jideofor: Tell them... Tell them bro.

You wonder why men kill their girlfriend/wife, pour acid on them, behead them? That is the hight of anger and disaster cheating or heartbreak can have on a man.
Looking at it more critically, someone would have still kicked the bucket, either the brother or the wife. And that is if the man had not taken his own life. At that point in time, that man was more dangerous than Osama Bin Laden...

Irrespective of how bad it looks, NO ONE, I repeat NO ONE MALE OR FEMALE deserves to be murdered because of infidelity or to take his or her life

Why don't you leave it to God to judge as we all have sinned and should not judge

Once again, may the departed rest in peace

..

Baba O she wipe e tun para de amustadam

E lo gba agbo jedi ni awon coffee shoopu yen

Sugbon awon omo yapa ni beyen

Bi a she de ibi ina pupa yen, obinyin ya fo
Mo ni kileleyi o eja osan


Eyin baba yin e dagbo gan ni o

didicold: Its a public beach i think, so no life guard, d best we could have hoped for is the coastguard which is virtually non-existent in lag, d only thing dey pay attention to are ships

Nother tragedy here the fees we pay to enter the beach should be used to set up a lifeguard system and a place where near drowning incidents can be stabilised before they are sent to the hospital

Also the beach should be well lit

In other parts of the world, people go to beach parties at night so it's not unnormal for people to groove at night


Ever heard of skinny dipping

[quote author=omo_to_dun]RIP to the dead.


Nigerians sha! Yes what that poster wrote was insensitive, but must you also wish ill on him(or her). Ignoring such post is the best action.[/quote]I'm not wishing anyone evil just saying that what comes around goes around

There is a lack of empathy prevalent these days just to show you are knowlegeable or smart or god knows what

honey86: I'm yoruba and I am aware of this part of our. culture, but this is EXTREME. because you call your sister in-law aunty doesn't mean that you allow yourself to be disrespected. in my opinion, the girl is taking advantage of her ignorance. Tell your friend to stop asking her what she wants to eat, and she should start giving her instructions to do some house chores. In short, she should take charge of her house before they all turned her to a slave.

I agree with this
Respect should be reciprocal
Also tinu should not be referred to by name but rather sisi wa (our beauty) or iya dami (if she has a child)

jidegirl12: Pants on fire Pftttttt

Ify so is Ada = Bahamian Igbo or

MMtimo yawa

Emi opuro
O badi e lemeji sef

Shuo na so una go implicate persin wey the person sef no go know

#myHandsareClean (Father please Forgive me daily )

[quote author=@kenyattaMoore]You have a baby? I don't even know all these things [/quote]I love babies more than gold
LOL

CFCfan: So so sad. My thoughts and prayers go to her family.

@ItsModella: A lifeguard would have prevented such a tragedy.

A tragedy sir, may she rest in perfect peace

And for the person screaming over indulgence, karma will meet you
I wonder the kind of people we have today no iota of empathy

Laughing at people mauled by dogs, dancing on peoples graves who have been hit by suicide or calling those who were hit at the running marathon phools for running for pleasure.

You will all get yours
I hope you find that empathy you playfully or maliciously deny others

davidylan: Yep. Canada was much smarter. Their immigration system is geared towards picking highly educated folks who can contribute to the society. In the US all we get are floods of uneducated mexicans.

LOL