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GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, i think we Christians are heating up the polity with our hate speeches and unnecessary hatred towards Muslims cum Fulani tribe. Our irresponsible preachers like Oyedepo deserves to be arrested and tortured by the DSS for spreading fake news about islamization and encouraging self defense when the bible teaches us to love our neighbors as ourselves. Fiery preachers are mostly Christians and they are hell bent on tarnishing the image of Muslims and Fulanis. This is why i like organizations like MURIC working day and night to defend the interests of Muslims. I think we Christians are the problems in this country.

I dont even know what to say to you. Hopeless bloodsucking demo*n.

@Indimi,aka zahra buhari husband,u r such a stoopid dimwiiiit. Private citizen my foot. N to think you are so bold to open that stink** mouth of yours. I dont blame u,i blame Nigerians for not standing up to u pple. You all and ur generation gonna regret this and shed the same tears pple shed on a daily basis cos of ur unforgiving hearts. Haughty and proud rats

He said we are lazy abi. No wahala na so we go dey lazy to vote am back to power. After climbing on the backs of Nigerian youths to power,now he goads us. You guys smartup,no need being angry.

XML33:
Are you guys sure Miracle isn't an Air host rather than a pilot? I have met pilots before and one can easily tell from the way they speak that they are intelligent, even their behaviors and mannerism indicate that they are intelligent people. There is nothing about miracle that indicates intelligence. Even in the puzzle games which evaluate spatial intelligence, the kind that someone who is qualified to fly a plane should have since he is dealing with maps and complex coordinate systems, miracle performs woefully.

With the way these BBN housemates tell lies you can never know.

Hahahhahahaha,kikikiki,well u sorta ryt,Miracle is not the sharpest tool around. He's not a full pilot yet,he just completed his private pilot license meaning he can only fly himself for now. So go figure.

Billyonaire:
Today, I will write as a tribalist. Because I want to make a point. I am tired of reading about these killings even though I know it is part of nature's balancing effects, but what am I, if I do not make an observation and see if the collective mass consciousness can help turn the tides to the other side of the world.

The Problem of Nigeria can be solved by only two people.

Just Two People.

A Yoruba man and an Igbo man.

The Day a Yoruba man, and the Igbo man hugs each other in true friendship and love and trust each other maintain an oath never to be divided again, then their real enemy will show up and together they will build themselves a Paradise where all their children can finally come home and build and live at peace with their parents.

But today, the Hausa/Fulanis are implementing their 200yrs of Plan.

They are using herdsmen to chase you all away from your forests and farmlands, killing you and in some ten years from now, you will all be heading to Lagos to survive while your homes, villages and forests will be populated by the Fulanis and their cows, because they know that the Sahara Desert is encroaching, so they are doing all they can to control your currencies through BDCs, take over Presidency and control the entire military command, send foot soldiers to be Boko Haram so they can budget more money to continue their nefarious activities.

An average Yoruba and Igbo and even an average Southerner's dream is to go abroad. A moronic foresight, of not knowing they are programmed mentally to run away from their inheritance and spread away their bloodlines while someone else takes their lands.

May you all open your eyes and join politics and save yourselves and your next generations from being slaves.

Pls tell them,u see christains uniting with muslims and fighting fellow xtains. The yoroubas n middle beltans are d worst culprits,snitches d lot of them.

Such a sad story. May Allah help u Maryam sanda cos we weren't there and we don't know what really went down. N to that woman or women whose text messages triggered Dz chain of events,may karma chase n burn u eternally.

@MrAfriclegend,i didn't bother reading the whole piece but I will heap all the blames on the male folks. You all failed,its a well known fact daughters tilt,gravitate and look up to their father's a lot,the poor training,the abandonment of the home,their mothers for over bleached side chicks outside has caused them to think being a bimbo is all there is to life. You men have failed them. And the writer should realise not all women are like that,some of them still have very strong values and when you look at those homes,u see a father who has been quite disciplined and carried out his duties diligently. Failure of the girl child is is failure of all men out there.

Hello everyone,kindly drop your contact if you speak and can teach hausa fluently (individual should be able to speak the language wiithin one month). location FCT ABUJA. Please for serious minded people. Thanks. Pay is highly negotiable after two days of trial.

Hmmm. What an eyesore,used to like his songs but these days all he does is croak like a frog. Chain smoker. This ain't enjoyment and it's certainly no way to live.

Marcofranz:
every one is bashing the man, no one is talking about the woman, some women can be trouble, she must have done something to warrant such. I'm not saying the man did right this is a one sided story

She must have done something to warrant such? R you for real?

Good day to all Abuja folks in the house. Please am hoping to enroll my kid soon, kindly need your assistance on reviews about costs, quality and location about good private schools at Abuja. Thanks

money121:
HUH?..I dont see anything wrong in asking who rocked it better...........Maybe I am wrong

Comparing like this is an Entertainment thingy and most entertainment websites all over the world do this...what/who you should be advising Omotola are those who cuss out on the Nigeria internet scene...The comments on other internationals websites compare with respect and are a delight to read.

Why should comparing outfit breed strife?huh

Source: http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2017/04/omotola-advices-against-posts-comparing.html?m=1

Omotola please shut it, what a piece of work you are. Of all the ills in the society,na this nonsense you dey talk about. If any of those women actually find it annoying to the extent of ruining thier relationships just for being compared then am sorry for thier very very low self esteem. Nigerians with thier hypocritical nature and shallow mindedness.

zionx:
This is so sad. There are so many soldiers that have spent two
years and above and still at the frontlines. My husband was an
example and unfortunately also lost his life there. Nigeria Army
doesn't rotate their officers on a regular basis unlike their
counterpart- Nigeria Air force. How will the morale of such people be high when there are still so many of their colleagues that is just enjoying in a peaceful place. It is just so unfortunate.

May your soul rest in peace Sir and may God comfort your family Sir. It is very sad and painful to lose such an active and devoted officer. It is not easy because I still miss my husband every moment. You are a true HERO.

Madam May God Comfort you and heal your scars. #fallenbutnotforgotten

This is so painful. RIP dear one. May God protect our Officers and Soldiers out there in the Northeast.

Joseid:

I wanted to leave the thread after reading the OP but for some reason, I read the comments and saw yours. I felt compelled to say something.
Take heed to what you say. If truly are a minister, you would understand that God places more importance on principles than facts.
You just spoke facts but not in accordance with principles. You may have read in scriptures somewhere where it was said that "the name of God is blasphemed among the gentiles because of you".
Did you also read that Aaron and Miriam criticized Moses? Were they right to do so based on facts? Of course! But God said they were wrong. And they were chastised because of it.
My point:
1. Ministers will always have serious faults. Expected, cos they are humans too.
2. Your primary responsibility is to pray for them rather than criticize.
3. By all means, never let unbelievers mock the body of Christ on account of your comments.
Matters of the church must be settled in the church and not outside.
The matter of the three ministers ashtray is bad. It should have been settled in the church. Even p Paul regards it as shameful.
If you are truly a minister as you said, you will understand what I wrote here.
A word is enough for the wise.
Peace.

God bless you richly for this.

dere5:
Any one can birth in the USA,whether you have relatives there or not. The important thing there is if you can afford it. If you are planning on embacking on this journey,i will strongly advice the you get a pen and jotter and start reading from part one,it will do you a whole lot of good.

Thanks a whole lot

Really nice thread. Please will really appreciate your answers. Someone that doesn't have relatives over there can she still birth there and if possible what are the procedures. Thanks a lot.

adadioranmah:
Kai... Whatever happened to Prime People? You just brought back memories......

Cute boys.

Old people,lool cos we don't know dz "popular prime people"

Toks2008:
I have seen many marriages break up and it seems there is a common ground for disintegration.Today I will be as real as usual and it will be in the best interest of any married lady or intending wife to take this piece seriously.

If you are a married lady reading this I want you to understand that these 3 facts are essential for you to experience a happy union.

1. Expect your hubby to cheat on you: I have heard many times that not all men cheat and I sincerely believe but nevertheless, to be on the safer side, expect that man to cheat on you.

By having this expectation, you will not be caught unaware and you would have developed a psychological shock absorber in the advent that he does but if he remains faithful to you then good for you. It is totally foolish for a lady to hinge her marital happiness on her husband's fidelity.

And the moment you start seeing those cheating signs in him,rather that start threatening fire and brimstone which may worsen the situation, i will advice that you simply warn him to do it as far can from you because what you don't know can't hurt you and warn him to use a protection to avoid bringing home STDs.

Once you tell him this, just switch to indifferent mode as regards his sexual faithfulness to you and choose to be happy regardless. Hard I know but this is just how the cookie crumbles and this is one secret to having marital bliss even with a hopeless philanderer.

[b]This is one big secret i want every married lady reading this to know; Yes cheating must be discouraged and guys involved must understand that it is a sure way to hell but no matter how long you preach against it,men who want to cheat will still cheat on their wives but here is the secret...98% of men who cheat on their wives still love their wives so dearly but only want to take advantage of ladies who have willingly offered their-selves as side dishes...NEVER EVER GIVE UP YOUR MARRIAGE FOR A SIDE DISH TO TAKE OVER because that is what she wants you to do and even if you leave your marriage, there is no guaranty that your next man won't do worse. Believe it or not, most men always come back to their wives no matter how many side dishes they take advantage of and many men suffer from mid-life delusion crises where they believe it is their right to be with as any ladies as possible but relax, that euphoria and delusion will soon wear off and you will have your man 100% to yourself...This is one big secret i just revealed to you.[/b]

2. Make your own money: Do you know that if you are really busy with your life and very financially independent, you will care less about who your husband sees, where he goes and what he does outside the home or even what he has in his will? Do you know that men respect financially independent ladies?

What I want many married ladies to know is that once they are married and start having children, the most important thing in their life at that point is self development and that of the child(ren). When you spend time developing yourself, even your hubby will give you great respect. Please don't ever settle to be a full housewife..at worst get a shop around where you stay and do something.

3.Perform your marital duties: Men do not joke with bedroom and kitchen matters. Do you know how to cook your husband's favourite meals? do you know how to make him go crazy in the room?

Most men who cheat are lured by either good food or bed-magics of another lady. While you refuse to go down on him and give him those crazy moves, one lady out there is ready to do stuffs that will make him have an attention at work just by thinking about her.

Many married ladies keep nagging about their husband's infidelity while neglecting those virtues that will endear their husbands more to them..most times when a man is drawn away by another lady, there is usually something that lady is doing that you are lacking so focus first on becoming a great wife before you complain of your husband's infidelity.

And for the man, be communicative and let your wife knows what you want so that she can do her best to make the union a better one.
And if you are so hell bent on cheating on your wife please do it as far away as you can because one of the biggest ridicule and disrespect you can bring on your marriage is to cheat on her to her face.

I believe that if married ladies understand these three points, they will always remain happy in their marriages and infact grow old with their partners till death do them apart. You just understand that no one holds the key to your marital happiness except you.


I hope this makes sense

You a sick man. Yet you wonder why married women are cheating right left and centre these days making men like you raise kids that ain't yours.

Anenih-murderous thug
Ishan people-backstabbing and fighting themselves since 19AD.
Esan land- Since the day y'all literally swept your own blood out of that seat,you cursed yourselves.
Keep fighting each other,shameless so called trad rulers an elders.

johnson232:
Don't u think she took the guy's love for granted rather?

Assuming she did,dont you think 7years is too long a time to have abandoned a woman you truly love and her kids?

2good:
I witness a similar case in the the US. These couple were married for 16 years and the guy walked away leaving everything because he was not ready for emotional blackmail anymore from the woman. She begged and begged him to come back because they have 3 kids, but he refused. He did not even divorce her, he just left Texas for New York and it has been 7 years since he left. She did not file for official divorce neither did she change her name or the kids hoping that he will come back someday but he instead just cut off completely from her and the kids and the next thing she discovered on Facebook was that another Nigerian American girl had a baby boy for him. She is now a single mother in America with 3 children who have seen their dad in just 2 days out of the last 7 years and things are tough for her.

The man never loved her! Plain and simple'

Awwwww,so cute. Say what you want about the northerners. Thing about them is they have very strong family values,a trait they bring even to politics,always flooding everywhere with thier "people" when in power. About time we southerners copy such and do same religiously!

"Nigerian Police Force is an important institution . In the next 30 years , people will be complaining that there is no Inspector - General of Police of Igbo extraction . The foundations are what are laid today.

When you are nonchalant to the recruitment process, how would you think of an IGP when you are outnumbered from the beginning ?"

I couldn't have said it any better!

I blame our stup**id politicians who take our money there,develop thier economy,and encourage and fund thier prostitutes. Why am I not surprised the SA men are treating us this way? Sad because the innocent ones are paying for the sins of our filthy politicians.

5minsmadness:
Indeed it is the age of equality. We hear it everyday on this family section how a woman should stand up to her husband and refuse to be oppressed (even if there was no oppression intended in the first place). Such talks make it look like marriage is a battlefield and there is no peace between the sexes. Some people even begin to wonder why they should get married at all when marriage apparently looks so miserable.


Well, I am here to say that marriage is only miserable to you as a woman if you want it to be! Men are natural born fighters , you can't start fighting your man as well in his own house. No man worth his salt will take it. Men were built to dominate. If you start wanting to dominate him in his own house that he paid rent for or built, insisting that he washes the plates or washes the clothes or sweeps the house or take care of the kids while u sleep all in the name of equality, you will make him set up a wall against you. He may outrightly defy you or he may sulk and do what you have ordered but be sure he is bitter about it and wondering when you became the man of the house. Soon enough if he cannot be a man indoors, he will start to look for how he can be one outside.

Having said that, a woman is a human being as well and not a workhorse or slave. She needs help as well and men have an excessive amount of muscle to spare to help around the house , especially if you cannot afford a maid. So how do you as a woman seek help from your husband without sounding like a nagging frustrated loveless feminist?

Simple. Use the gift that God gave you. Use the things that attracted your man to marry you in the first place. Use your womanliness, your feminine charms and grace! Use sweet words garnished with love and not commanding and off-putting tone that bristles with scorn. Esther was able to play with the crown of the most dangerous man in Babylon, not because she felt entitled, neither because she felt the man was equal to her. No! Her feminine charms made him as meek as a lamb in her hands.


Use your charm to handle your man and not your sharp tongue. Use your sweetness, quick wit,love and unsolicited kisses to get what you want from your king instead of declaring your rights like a country looking for every opportunity to secede. I assure you, you will get a lot more done by being a lady instead of a nag.

Peace.

Marriage advicers,una well done. This only works for men wey thier head dey up there. "He seeks to dominate outside" while d woman seeks to be loved up without all the drama outside. Dey dea dey fool yourself. Each and every marriage is perculiar please stop brainwashing pple.

richiejaggs:
Hello, any uniben medicine and surgery alumni please I'll love you to come to my aid..... Very urgently.

Yup so how can we be of help?

Na wa oh,Naija which way? This one of the finest senior fighter pilots,bold,brave and fearless at that the Airforce has,and see how the system is treating him. So much for been @ the wrong place at the wrong time. This is just wrong walahi!

coolcharm:
Is Aisha's first issue 32 years old? Like oga like boi boi... Olodo

If he must know, Aisha was born in 1971, and she got married in 1989 at the age of 18.

The same age KANU Nawnkwo's wife was when she got married

Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aisha_Buhari

They should please come up with another attack. This one no follow.

The same age my mum was when she got married too. N btw she ain't a northerner. Now that been said. Madam Aisha nor try,she's supposed to have more class than that. Even if she doesn't handle the account,sensitive tweets like this must have been to her knowledge. So for that she nor try,exposing herself and PMB to unnecessary iranu.

Lol. Common denominator here- both men cheated. Guess modern day women are beginning to stand up for themselves unlike thier mama's back in the day. Note to married men,stay contented and faithful in marriage,stop causing divorces upandan!

Imagine dz sponsored evil touts. Thier states get so much allocation what have they done with them? Ibori had a refinery @ SA dat was later siezed. Thier own blood (so called governors) have cheated them and now they transferring the aggression on everyone. For those of you supporting them y'all stupi*d. The bitter truth remains those ND pple r daft,wicked n selfish. GEJ ur own led the most corrupt govt ever and we never heard of u riffraf*fs.

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

You have a father my dear and brothers am sure. So please hate is too strong a word to use on men. Just please be patient pray to God and open your eyes while searching for your future spouse cos a good man can make you feel like heaven on earth everyday.