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Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Greenback:
They should be ready for willy willy

Cokahot:
When u want to park,locate a filling station closest to the bank or an eatery. Tip the security 2h. Lock car and move. Don't ever park your car by the service lane or road side. If dem no break your mirror,dem go damage driver side bumper. It's been like 7 months b4 I got the code. Park in eatery,lounge,filling station or bank that has fenced premises. Park your car at road side,u get luck say no be corolla. U for hail. Its a easy fix. Look for sack or rice bag,cut some parts out. File out the part destroyed,sand paper it. After that place two layers of the rice sack,use gum to gum both front and back,then from there use body filler to cover it. Buy silver spray from super market 2k. Spray it and no one will notice. Or go to panel beater and get exploited. Tho rewire must chop inside headlight replacement money,if u wan form smart go whr dem dey sell am brand new,dem go chop u times 2. E no get how u wan fake am say u dey suffer,if u like dress haggard or wear faded clothes.
Your skin with face must expose your wealth. E sure die

otipoju:
I need an extra hand to help in the house with the kids. The attend day care from 8pm till 6pm.

I bin wan invite someone but fear dey catch me. When dem reach here dem go change am for person.

Nigerians are like cobra. When dem never get wetin dem want dem go humble call you Sir Sir Sir two million times a day. Once they achieve their target dem go turn to vampire.

I go manage. Na for a season ojare.

Ekweremadu is innocent. He clearly stated what he wanted to do in the visa application . That the boy was a donor for his sick daughter.

The issue is the age falsification allegation. But Boys BVN records and immigration records match.

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

sukkot:
yeah thats not me. i need freedom. money is freedom. if i wake up today and feel like being in bali i want to be able to be there. if i want to be n venezuela today i want to be able to do it. i need that freedom that excess money brings. the UK is a trap. no freedom. you are trapped in a hamster wheel cycle of work and bills, .THATS NEVER BEING FOR ME. i hate prison ( invisble prison walls )

Legendoo:
Man must submit to a higher purpose.

While I understand the skepticism with today's churches. If you dump a set of rules you will subscribe to another.

So ask yourselves, if I dump religion what is the higher purpose?

Dumping religion means you've accepted your true state , a godless state and have taken a scientific stance of being an animal.

If you are an animal , then there are no rules, without rules, chaos ensues.

Religion is the bedrock for all morality and the basis of law. You shouldn't kill in the Bible for example, and by law killing also has consequences.

I think religion is just for guidance and it's ability to restrict you when no one is looking. When people dump guidance what then do they follow?

My guess , wokeness, a state of lawlessness, perversion and chaos, where everything goes.

blingxx:
Females don't have a place in this thread it's either they survive through their parents , bf or sugardaddy , one was even taxing me yesterday she even get many bfs that I know of

chikachuks1:
Education they say is the key. It is the key that unlocks doors of the future. But then, as much as we pay much attention on education, we must also ensure we pay much premium on quality education. Quality education is what actually makes the difference. We have done a serious research to get the list of best secondary schools in Nigeria. Sadly, all (or better still majority) are private owned either by individuals or religious body. The Government secondary schools are performing, but not as private.

Therefore, in order to lay a good academic foundation for your child (ward), getting a school with high academic quality will go a long way to help shape your ward. Though, the truth remains that these schools are expensive and as such can only be afforded by the high class people. We have researched a big deal in arriving at this list of best secondary schools in Nigeria. We considered lots of factors like, standard of education, quality of teachers, ICT facilities, students’ performance, school reputation and lots more.

It is very important to know that most students that pass through these schools come out very bright. They make good grades in the examinations (both internal and external). Parents should ensure that they get a good secondary school for their children. Secondary schools are pivotal to the development of your child. It goes a long way in molding your child and in helping them make relevant choices as regards their careers.

As more and more schools gain more competitive advantages over others, we will keep updating this list. For now, here is the list of the 10 best secondary schools in Nigeria.
best secondary schools in Nigeria

LOYOLA JESUIT COLLEGE

Loyola Jesuit College (LJC) tops our list of best secondary schools in Nigeria. Loyola Jesuit College is a co-educational boarding secondary school in the Jesuit tradition. The college opened with JSS-1 in 1996, and now has over 600 students in JSS-1 to SSS-3. It is a full boarding school, with teaching and supervision from members of the Society of Jesus (Jesuits) in collaboration with the Sisters of the Holy Child Jesus and dedicated lay teachers and staff.

The school is located in Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory of Nigeria in Africa. The school provides an atmosphere conducive to focused learning. Spacious athletic fields, a stream that runs alongside the property, and creatively designed buildings that complement the natural beauty of the landscape help to make Loyola Jesuit College a beautiful and effective educational learning environment.

For more information, visit the school website at https://www.loyolajesuit.org

PRINCESS SHEKINAH INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL

Although Princess shekinah International School is not as old as the other schools on this list, yet we decided to rank it number 2 among the list of 10 best secondary schools in Nigeria. To know why, this article provides full detailsTo know why, this article provides full details. Princess Shekinah International School is a full boarding co- educational Christian Secondary School that is positioned to offer quality international education in a purpose-built, beautiful, serene campus with state-of-the-arts facility. At Princess Shekinah, it is believed that educating the heart of a champion is as important as building physical strength. Guided by a staff of highly qualified coaches, students hone athletic skill through healthy competition while also learning the value of hard work, discipline, teamwork, and sportsmanship as they strive for victory on and off of the playing field.

Princess Shekinah International School is a Full Boarding school co-educational christian secondary school located at Km 1, Ihiagwa Nkaramoche Road at the outskirts of Owerri, the capital city of Imo State in the south east part of Nigeria.

For more information, visit the school website at https://psis.com.ng

KINGS COLLEGE LAGOS

Kings College Lagos is a foremost Nigerian College, promoting unity in diversity and nurturing globally competitive and chivalrous gentlemen, worthy in character and learning. It is a boys-only Secondary School that was established in 1909. It was established to produce students of profound character and academic distinction – men who would build an independent Nigeria.

In the words of the colonialists, the College was established To provide for the youth of the Colony a higher general education than that supplied by the existing schools, to prepare them for the Matriculation Examination of the University of London, and to give a useful course of study to those who intend to qualify for professional life or to enter Government or Mercantile Service.

In 1914, Sir Lord Fredrick Lugard, the Governor-General of Nigeria, described King’s College, Lagos, in a White Paper as “the leading school in the Colony as well as the Premier School”.

For more information, visit the school website here https://kingscollegelagos.com

CHRIST THE KINGS COLLEGE

Irish missionaries founded Christ the King College Onistsha, Nigeria in Febuary 1933. It is an academic institution dedicated to intellectual and personal growth of male youths within the context of well-rounded liberal arts education in a catholic environment. The college provides equal educational opportunity for all qualified students without regard to race, religion, creed, color, age, and physical disability, natural or ethical origin.

Christ the king college seeks to be a learning community, offering its students a well-rounded, world class, International education. The college offers a broad education interweaving academic study and co-curricular activity within a framework of pastoral care in which each part is an essential component, just as every strand of a tapestry brings essential value to a total work of Art and Science.

CKC seeks to develop the whole person. The college fosters the scholastic, spiritual, creative, physical, personal and social growth of the students. The college strives to guide, motivate and awaken the minds and hearts of its students and staff to realize their full human potential.

For more information, visit the school website here www.ckconitsha.com

DEEPER LIFE HIGH SCHOOL

Deeper Life High School (DLHS), a mission co-educational boarding school, is committed to an all-round and qualitative education with emphasis on academic and moral excellence. The School has invested massively in modern learning technology and has put in place an entirely e-learning environment. It provides cutting edge facilities for laboratory and research experience, competent and committed teaching and administrative personnel, as well as a conducive environment.

The School is committed to providing the highest academic standards, cultivating sound leadership skills and vision, as well as enriching lives through spiritual development. Small class size concept is adopted with its main benefits, including individualized attention and care, in addition to teacher accessibility. The aim of all these is to produce critical thinking and Christ-honouring students who will positively and profoundly impact the larger society.

The school operates a uniform curricular and co-curricular programme which focuses on cognitive, affective and psychomotor domains of the learner. The uniqueness of the school stems from its series of leadership studies which form one of the core coursework for all students. This aims at raising upright future leaders through the ideals and values of practical Christianity. Consequently, the school has zero tolerance for any act of indiscipline. Deeper Life High School is a single school with campuses spread across more than fifteen states of the Federation with more coming up soon.

It has a focus to cover not only all the states of Nigeria, but also all the countries of Africa and beyond. Admission into the school is open to all interested members of the public who buy into the vision and mission of the school. The School has invested massively in modern learning technology and has put in place an entirely e-learning environment with small class size concept that enables direct teacher-student interaction during and after class studies.

For more information, visit the school website at www.deeperlifehighschool.org

CORONA SECONDARY SCHOOL

Corona secondary school is a world class standard secondary school with state of the art learning facilities. Corona Schools’ focuses on the development of world-class schools. World class in all facets of our operations – curriculum, teaching methodologies, staff quality, libraries, technology, buildings, and so on. In order to sustain our mission to deliver world- class education to children. It has campuses in different parts of the country and you can be sure that your child will benefit the most when sent to corona school.

For more information, visit the school website at https://coronaschools.org

ATLANTIC HALL

It was established in 1989 by the Atlantic Hall Educational Trust Council. Atlantic Hall is a co-educational full-boarding secondary school committed to providing a well-rounded education, guided by a committed faculty and outstanding pastoral care. Atlantic Hall has a dual curriculum pathway to teach both the Nigerian and International (IGCSE) programmes. This approach to secondary school education is enabling, for the possible migration of graduates to alternative international education systems and wider enrichment.

The school has 650 students and a staff-student ratio of 9:1, creating an optimum learning environment and the nurture of each student to develop inherent talents, mental agility, self-belief, strength of character and the ability to live and work well with others.

Atlantic Hall student graduates as a leader and erudite scholar, cultured and fully equipped to excel in life, higher education and leadership positions across top professions globally.

For more information, visit the school website here https://atlantic-hall.net

LUMEN CHRISTI INTERNATIONAL HIGH SCHOOL

Lumen Christi International School was founded in 1986 and it is located in the heart of Esanland-Arue, Uromi in Esan North-East L.G.A of Edo State and owned by Catholic diocese of Uromi. A school with a population of 630 with 99 staff, made up of both academic and non-academic staff. It operates a full boarding school for boys. Lumen Christi strives to form the whole person, hence the all–embracing programme of the school.

It is an institution that emphasizes moral value and spiritual developing along academic excellence. In the past 26 years, Lumen Christi has maintained a track record of excellence. It has maintained 100% in WAEC results for the past 22 years.
For more information, visit the school website here www.lumenchristischool-uromi.org

NIGERIAN TURKISH INTERNATIONAL COLLEGE

NTIC is science oriented schools which focuses on building knowledge based on core moral values which our modern society is in dire need of. It has a total number of 16 educational institutions located in Abuja, Kano, Lagos, Kaduna, Yobe and Ogun states with staff strength of over 1000 academic and non-academic personnel. Today, NTIC has a total of 4025 students in which 17 percent of them are on scholarship.

NTIC has been awarded as the best and top school by National Mathematical Centre (NMC) and the Ministry of Education in Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry, Biology and Information Communication Technology (ICT). It empowers students through provision of broad, appropriate and adequate curricula offerings, using state of the art technology to provide qualitative and functional science to all present and prospective students irrespective of nationality, religion or tribe.

For more information visit their website here https://ntic.edu.ng

GRANGE SCHOOL

Grange School is an all through 4 to 16 day and residential School in which pupils, teachers and parents, work and learn together.

Grange operates as a not-for-profit, co-educational, English National Curriculum, independent, day school set on beautiful grounds within the Government Reservation Area (GRA), Ikeja, on the mainland part of Lagos in Nigeria. An off-campus “House” has been included to provide a boarding service to parents and pupils. Grange School was founded in 1958 by a group of well-meaning British expatriates, to provide education of equivalent standard to that which obtains in the UK.

As part of the 40th anniversary in September 1998, the Board felt it was time to add a secondary school for continuity and stability in the education of the pupils.

The School Policy maintains a class size of 18. The aim of this policy is to ensure that a family ethos is maintained in the school and that at Grange every child is known as an individual. We take pride in our enduring legacy for the provision of a child oriented atmosphere and our aim is to promote matured self-discipline citizens.

Grange encourages every student to discover their own strengths, whether they are academic, sporting, musical or creative. Academic standards are a priority, but it is believed that by educating the whole child the best can be brought out in each and every individual. The school is one of only three in Nigeria to be accredited by the Uk’s Independent Association of Preparatory Schools (IAPS). The school’s Patron is the Deputy British High Commissioner to Nigeria.

For more information, visit the school website here https://grangeschool.com

We have done a good research in providing this list of best secondary schools in Nigeria. We have also provided the website of all the schools listed above. Feel free to dig deeper by visiting their website so more information. If you think there are other schools that should be listed in this list of best secondary schools in Nigeria,

Abujafood:
Looking to send your ward to a great secondary school in Abuja? We’ll advise you to do a little background check on these schools as well to inform your decision on which schools to pick. Here are some of the top Secondary Schools in Abuja in case you’re searching for where to start;

American International School of Abuja

They’re the best and most expensive Secondary School in Abuja. Running an American based Education system this is a school patronized by the high and mighty of Abuja including Governors, ministers and diplomats and of course members of the local expatriate community. They have a very effective management team in place and your wards are in safe hands not forgetting their high academic standards.

Lead British International School – Boarding and Day (Gwarinpa)

This is another high class secondary situated in Gwarinpa. They have all the facilities in place that any standard 21st century school should own. Although they run a British style academic curriculum the school is wholly Nigerian – owned and managed by Nigerians.

Regent School – Boarding and Day (Maitama, Abuja)

This is a British run secondary school with very high academic standards. They employ only British trained teachers with Nigerian assistants. They have an effective school system in place that will ensure all round training for your child.

Loyola Jesuit College - Boarding

This is a Catholic owned Secondary school located in Gidan Mangoro along karu-Karshi road on the outskirts of the city. The school is wholly a boarding school using centuries old strictly catholic inspired curriculum and they’re stiff with upholding their principles nevertheless the school is up to date with modern trends in all round child Education.

Nigerian Turkish International School (Day School)

Another of the big schools patronized by the high and mighty of Abuja, this school has one slight disadvantage though which is that it’s location is within a commercial hub (Monrovia street in Wuse 2) in the city center possibly a bit of distraction to the pupils but in terms of having sound facilities and management in place, it’s one of Abuja’s best.

International Community School, Jabi

Targeting mostly the expatriate community in Abuja the ICS now at the more serene Jabi district from their previous location at Wuse 2, the ICS is a school that provides an enabling environment for world class qualitative learning.

Olumawu College, Wuse 2

A bit on the middle ground, Olumawu is relatively more affordable than the other schools on this list, but also of high standard. Founded in 1993 by one of Nigeria’s leading Educationists Margaret Olumawu, the school has lived up to its reputation of providing qualitative secondary schooling to Nigerians.

http://www.abujafood.info/2013/10/7-of-best-secondary-schools-in-abuja.html

kennethfranc:
Make I hear.... some of their men are very toxic and dangerous when they are not with their suit, bag and umbrella. I had one as a neighbor yrs back, his wife avoids anything that might stir up argument cuz it always ends with a slap. But once they step out for outreach they become an enviable couple.

Lilipo:
Interesting!

I disagree with your bolded statement. Its always best to compare like for like instead of making sweeping statements. In my opinion, state schools in UK are way better than public schools in Nigeria. Some state schools in UK may be comparable to some private schools in Nigeria (but not the top private ones).

Thanks for the info. Please any idea on how much the public schools cost?

Note the definitions below
British definition of State school - A school that is funded and controlled by the state and no fees are charged
British definition of Public school - A school, in England and Wales (not Scotland) that is fee charging and is paid for by parents.

What we term 'public' in Nigeria is called 'state' in United Kingdom and what we term 'private' in Nigeria is termed 'public' in England and Wales (not sure of what it is called in Scotland). Context here is SCHOOLS.

Not all state schools in UK are as bad as you have described. There is a reason for OFSTED ratings but I agree that some schools may be below the expected standard. These are due to many reasons eg if you live in an economically deprived area or perhaps where most parents are on benefits among many other reasons.

My advise would be, if you are immigrating with children, consider areas that have good state schools. If you can afford public school, it is well worth the fees.

Brendaniel:
How poverty and terrorism is bred, see a lawmaker that should be thinking of how to make laws for population control is busy teaching his constituent how to give birth without caution, then one mallam that can't feed himself 3 times a day will now see this worthy of emulation...

Then tomorrow the government will be borrowing 3 billion dollars to fight terrorism that could be avoided with less than 10 thousand naira...

Jirehrealestate:
Fury is a beast.
Wilder is wild but the hunger to 'kill instantly' made him lose focus.

Fury went down twice. Kept leaning on Wilder and equally dodging those hard hooks.

His trick worked. Wilder gassed out and Fury went for the kill.

Fury used both hands. Wilder kept looking for the Left.

My verdict, nobody knows Fury's 'code' yet. He's a con-man.

Gratefulheart1:
Imagine! The horror of discrimination.
Sad tale of two young bloods who should have enjoyed the better part of their lives together, when they were still young and bouncing, but their sweet bond of love was severed by the color of their skins.
What benefit are they to one another, now that their lives are almost expired?
Although son of men say, half cake is better than non. But some half cake can make you shed tears, when you know what the full cake could have looked like. Can we even call this half cake or one quarter cake?
When I scrolled up again to compare the pictures, when they were both young, fresh and looking all smart to now when they're aged, it's such a sad sight, I must say.

Back then, no sane white parents would approve their white daughter dating a Negro. No!
Funny enough this black guy is redbone, not black as such, could be mistaken for white. Yet back then, Black is Black; as long as you're not White, you're Black.

Peak of discrimination and racism.
Black race has come a long way. Gone through a lot of shiit to be where it is today.
Days when you'll have to wait and bow for White to pass on the road before you pass. Days when as a Black, you can't enter the same Bar with Whites.

When I remember the sacrifices of people like Martin Luther Jr., Malcom X, Vivien Thomas, Carl Brashear etc. how they used their lives as ransom for Black freedom, I shake my head for what Blacks are today.

Shame on Blacks. You see these Black Americans with no sense or any memory left, of where they've come from in history.

All they do is lazy around, steal, loot shops, go to gym, eat, smoke, sag, put tattoo on their bodies, wear big chains, rings and oversize cloths; flaunt dollar and expensive possessions, showoff, intimidate others, play all day, speak wrong English, go to party, do gangsterism, listen to hip hop music and above it all sex, sex and sex. No Iota of sense. Black will always be black, whether African or Black American.

jaxxy:
Very good question with a simple answer. Our Politicians.

Our politicians are the best criminals and thought these misguided youths the benefits of corruption. Our compromised security systems approved it as legal and permissible.