SL cost depends on who is getting it for you, and it is known that SL cost varies. Your sponsor must be one who's resident in Germany. No close relationship is required.

caketake3:


Thank you for the response.
Please pardon me, do you have an idea of how much the SL will disclose. I need to start hustling for a sponsor. Must there be established close relationship? Like family members?

Congratulations on your admission. Getting a fee waiver is different from getting a scholarship. In a case of scholarship, you won't need a blocked account. If the fee is waived, it could mean you pay little as you have rightly said or you don't get to pay at all. If you're not on scholarship, then you need SL or BA to get a visa.

caketake3:
Good afternoon my good people
Please I already have an admission to a school in Munich for my postgraduate studies. I had an interview last week for a fee waiver and I am very optimistic of getting a substantial cut.

Now here are my enquires:
I went through the site just to have an overview and realised there are emphasis on Blocked Account. That may be very difficult to achieve. Getting 10k Euros is mad with this economy. The question is whether I can rather make use of a sponsorship letter from a sponsor. That is very much easier to get.

I already have the admission. When is it advised I apply for the visa

I'm scheduled to resume in October

Purpose determines whether or not to use any.

A clear case of Possession and Belonging.

1st Post in a While.

Season Greetings...

Don't mind them. You're still very young. Perhaps at age 39, you should think of marriage. Lol

SatisfyOG:
This is becoming irritating, for crying out loud.

When I go visiting a family or old neighbours. They'll be asking questions like:

Why are you not married yet?

You are getting old oo!

Time is going, do fast!

And many other words like these...

I mean, will they be there to feed my family when I'm into the marriage? I don't know why Africa is so obsessed with marriage of a thing.

For crying out loud, I'll be just 29.

The numbers of married men disturbing me for financial assistance daily ehn. That's a turn off to get married soon.

Your opinion please.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions but this should remind us to always put all trust in God and not Man. Also single mothers could sometimes be as a result of vast circumstances beyond them or they are just unlucky to be unsettled. Before we Judge, lets look at the individual scenario on a case by case basis.

plat0:

https://techcrunch.com/2020/10/15/stripe-acquires-nigerias-paystack-for-200m-to-expand-into-the-african-continent/

Bravo

What's bad is bad but nonetheless, the accused has not admitted to committing the crime leveled against him. In all fairness, it's good we hear his account as well.

In the next 2 weeks, its gonna to look like a protest never happened and its gonna be business as usual.

Emir8:


I have master degree and want to start my PhD next year. The university told me that I can't start PhD until I work for them for 3 years. That is another thing I'm considering. The secondary school will allow me to go for PhD

Pls stay with the Secondary school, it has more prospects, better pay plus housing, flexibility and also a chance to do your PhD.

With your PhD, you ll get better offers in time and working in the Secondary school which allows you run your PhD will save you time. As for your Gf, I know she means well for you but honestly, better offers are coming.

virtuouswoman77:
Pls how do I handle this problem of hubby that does not have self control when it comes to alcohol?

He drinks too much and sometimes messes the bed up with urine.

I have talked to him still no change pls I need practice solutions that will make him stop because he is the type that doesn't take things serious unless it gets to him and this his behavior is making me regret my marriage to him.

This is bad, there must be moderation in all.

Kosiso12:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1274209486255947&id=100010007227700

looks good

Am sure we paid for that despite the hardship we are facing. It's really a shame

Saifulah:
Beautiful, ain't it?

Looks nice sha

ogoo98:
Available size 39-45
Price 3800
Minimum order 6 pairs

I laff

Carchoice:
Nothing can be done bro.


She took your senses with her. You can’t forget about her. I’m sorry.

007inc:
If u wanna fund ur block account, I have 1000€ @ 505.
pm ASAP !
Dankeschön!

I like to buy.. if still available, pls send me a message.

Some people have to understand the difference between Priority and Alternative. When they do, they can decide which one they wanna be.

The journey of life is Long.

Lifedonor:
I will have to go straight to the point.

The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and I bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early May, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone. We would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting.

Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When I got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.

The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.

Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.

Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day.

No big deal. Teach her or she teach herself online as well.

Usman16:
Hi guys. Please I need your advice on this. I have been dating this lady for over 2-years now and we are planning to get married. Ever since she has been cooking for me, the soups she cooks are always stew. Stew this, stew that. Few times where she cooks vegetable she uses tomatos as well, to the point of even frying it. Can you imagine frying vegetables! I told her recently to cook igbo kind of egusi soup for me, she told me yorubas have their own type of egusi soup. That was the first time I ate such egusi soup, and I vowed never to repeat it. She even said that was the way she was trained.

Am tired of eating stews guys. What should I do? Thanks.

Just say its upbringing. Nothing more.

Great News

Kylekent59:
No!

I would rather use the money and sponsor my mother by adding more goods to her business, use part of it to buy machine for my sister so that she can start tailoring.

The purpose of this is that when i fall or wreck, I have people to sponsor/lift me up back.

Girlfriend would never lift you up when you are wrecked and broke. Don't let grammar confuse you; fiancee and girlfriend are likewise the same, only when the deal is sealed off it becomes marriage, there you have a wife.

Priorities First, I agree with you on the Charity Begins At Home but it should not stop there.

Revolva:
dont try it in Nigeria mr man are you her father? that is why most guys end up in bad mood becuase these stewpid set of gals have ripped you...its a risky thing dont do that if you must sponsor her get married to her so that you can use that against her to hold her down if she de misbahave
but if you guys aint married legally ....forget it she can do you bad

or better still get her pregnant to hold her down

The issue is that some people offers help without a true heart. If you helping someone, help without expecting anything in Return. If anything come out of it, fine. Depression only comes when you get disappointed after you expected some favor in return.

So as a guy, the only person you must help is a lady with hopes of marrying her? So you can't help anyone else, Male, Female, Young, Old without expecting someone from them in return??

Oh, so sad. May God Comfort their families and friends.

This is two ways. Some rich ladies also marries guys. My take is simple, we should help each other grow. Tables can turn, the poor person you married can later become richer than you. Bottom line, lets help each other if the resources is available.

I can sponsor anyone if God enables me, I ll do it without thinking twice and without expecting anything in Return.

Of coz, the more God expands my coast, the more I ll give.

Well, Devil takes several appearances and I must commend you for being a really strong man at it all. Character is Character with or without money but circumstances sometimes makes you see the real colors in People. I wish you both well all the same but stay strong as its not easy going through your experiences.

tunmiluabi:
My story is quite long, please run through with patience.

I married my wife about 11 years ago. By the way I am 46 years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I had a small graphic design business after trying many times to find a good job. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife's support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At lest we survived on the low...

As time went on, I got a job in one international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. During the times before I got my job, we had accumulated debt and my new job provided us an opportunity to pay them up.

We decided we were going to save part of her salary every month for servicing the debt and save the rest for a rainy day. I was supposed to pay the rent and all other domestic bills, light, kids school fees etc.. Some time she helped with food/groceries. After sometime, she advised we move to a bigger apartment. We still had a daughter by then. I obliged and we did.

To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope things will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got. One day out of curiosity I asked my wife if it would be nice to have another child and she advised it was not the best time. I understood and agreed. I then advised my wife if we could start a business and with some savings we had, maybe I could use it to enhance my former business, maybe things might be better this time. She did not show any interest. This time I discovered changes in my wife.

One day she asked me if she could use part of them money to do a course, honestly I was shocked but asked why she did not oblige to my own request. She said "its my money I can use it for whatever I want". My wife however did the course.

To cut the story short, 3 years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I became like "shit in her eyes". I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay a home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising.

Fortunately for us, my wife got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but can't explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.

After about 3 years of trying to get something to do, I finally got a place on the island sometime in February 2018, where I would be paid a stipend of 50,000. In addition, I would use my free time to design, print and sell business cards to small companies. The overall income was small but enough for some immediate obligations at home. But to be fair, that was the best I could get since I have not had money in a long time. Unfortunately my wages were not consistent due to challenges the company was facing. But I used the Business card printing to augment wherever possible.

Later in 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my mind to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, I told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult. We finally started having sex but I had little to offer her. I would pretend and even have to watch Indecency to be able to have sex with her. I was dead inside. At least my wife was still with me. That was my solace. I guess trust was broken. She however continued with her escapades. The quarrels increased and got worse. There and then name calling became our breakfast and dinner. She advised that since I would never look at her the same and bringing little or nothing to the table that I was free to go. The quarrels went on for quite some time, my wife will go very violent on me some of the times. I am marshal artist with black belt and I have great restraint - for me, fighting and going violent on her was never on the table. One day I thought there was a need to move out and I did indicated to her that I was not comfortable living with her anymore.. That wherever I am, I will see how I can take care of the kids.

She did not care and things became difficult for me. I felt maybe I could stay for sometime, It might be a difficult condition but still not impossible. This became my Achilles heels. There and then I knew my relationship had broken and irreparable. I accepted there was nothing I could, but to be patient and tried to convince myself about our situations and believed our situation was bad, but God’s willing we would overcome. The fight even got worse and became very violent and physical, I would normally just take the beating or hold her hands to avoid any injuries.

The quarrels was beginning to be in the glare of my Kids and since it was not abating, there was little I could do to change the situation. I finally made up my mind on the 19th of May 2019 to move out, but actually moved out on the 30th of May, 2019. Before then on the 26th of May, 2019, I discovered my wife was again engaging in the illicit affair. She would claim she was going to church only to be found at a different location. Honestly I can’t blame her, I blame myself and the situation that caused the demise of our once cherished marriage. At this point in time I realised I had lost and had no fight in me anymore. My kids are still very young. Everyday quarrels, lack of sincere engagement, denials upon denials and her fear of facing her “DEMON” with little chance of her understanding the consequence of her actions - I was left with no choice but to stop FIGHTING. I had no fight left in me. The ultimate decision was to leave. I did not inform her parent about the issue because I had indicated to her I did not want them to look at her differently.

God so good, I got a 500,000 Naira job through a friend in an oil company with a 3bedroon in Lekki fully paid up for 3years by the company. By the way, I am Data Analyst but never practiced for a long time. I studied Computer engineering but for a long time grace did not smile on me. I take care of my kid and I really don't hate her and I am at peace with everything. She still has her job and doing well.

Please note that she did not tell me to leave, I left on my own volition. I could not share the same bed with my wife anymore she apparently could not muster enough strength to stop all iniquities for a conversation that will help see things through. Rather she is turning to blame it on me. We have however resolved to part on a friendly note for the sake of our child.

My reason for posting this is because most us sit behind the desk and computers and do not understood the demons everyone is battling. On a bad day, the best husbands are MONSTER, while the best wives are DEVILS. When we make judgment as males or female. We should not forget about our female child/children, same goes for the male child. I don't know what my wife tells people about what happened but I really don't care and I have made up my mind never to defend myself.

Thanks for reading.

Tunmi

bolaayenimo:
As seen In Lagos today.

Very responsible behaviour but the hand sanitizer na die.

Looks like sniper.

the most funny thing on the internet today.. hahahaha

One day, the animal race might be no more and we ll be left with going to the Museums to see bones of animals, animals skins, hooves and horns.

ProjectNaija:
This Forrest buffalo was felled earlier today on a hunting expedition and it's not an endangered species in case some hypocrites who "don't eat" meat want to make noise about killing a so called endangered animal again here.

LOL, coz they know mismanagement is the order of the day since independence

Paperwhite:

 

http://saharareporters.com/2020/05/04/it’s-insulting-united-states-give-conditions-how-nigeria-should-spend-abacha-loot-—sagay

Bribes has become a norm in our society. So this is no news.

Apart from them showing Certs and Test Results, they should be isolated by the Government for 20 max. The problem of self isolation is that some don't self isolate but rather keep moving from place to place.