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KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

(1) Just settle down and give yoir life truthfully to Christ Jesus and make Him yoir Lord and Saviour. Both you and your wife. Then live righteously. Pray together in love.


(2) Try and get that herbal drink called Jinja extracts for your wife and let her start taking it.

helinues:
It can't as the cultured part might not see it that way

helinues:
That's why you lots can't express yourself without throwing tantrums

Well I don't think calling anyone by their name be it real name/nick name/online name can be referred to be tantrums.....

helinues:
What looks like M to you, we might see it as W

That is why you are heli nues and co....

joachimnkenchor:
Yes
Especially those girls they pay flight for
Just for hook-up

A hook up girl who enjoys another paying her flight tickets is no longer a poor person given the economy.

helinues:
Are you saying what they are saying is not true because they are in government?

Tainted half truth is not truth.
When words are deliberately spoken with insincerity it becomes tainted.

Amarachieze:
Trump and Biden are not moral standards. My take is that Tinubu's administration cannot by any standard be able to fight corruption in Nigeria given the it's moral deficiency. Fight against corruption by this govt is mere smokescreen and at best a political witch-hunt

Well most corruption cases in Nigeria if not all are termed political witch hunts.
But nevertheless witch hunt or not let them sort themselves out and let the individual be given a clean bill by the Court legally and all this will be a past.

Babinski:
Forget about trying to whip up ethnic sentiments. The incidences happened at different locations and involved different airlines. One was in Abuja involving ValueJet while the other was in Lagos involving Ibom Air. One involved an unruly passenger who was already removed from the airplane trying to block flight take off. The other involved an unruly passenger assaulting airline staff and being forcibly removed from the plane.

Assaults generally get faster reaction, particularly from the person being assaulted, who would likely take the matter personally and follow it up quickly, than trying to block a plane which in actual sense you are the one in grave danger and no one is likely to take it personal.

And finally, it is the disposition or approach of the people involved in each case that matter. Due to Ms. Comfort Emmanson attacking a Police Officer or Security personnel directly, it is highly likely she would not go scot free at that point and that is what happened.

So the captain Kwam 1 poured some water/liquor on, it wasn't an assault?

Do you know what's an assault or can you tell me how the Nigerian law and constitution defines an assault?


I'm not a tribal bigot and don't play sentiments. None of those in the news are even my tribal people be it geographical location or State.

I only pity gullible Nigerians....

We were told he is seriously ill in the hospital abroad and after much a picture of him surfaced online. Now we are being showed presumably he is not walking like who is fit...
Since we like spot lights they will give us spotlights so we can be busy.......


Someone who is on recess.
Do we still have news of Natasha and Akpabio in the media again........ everyone has gone to rest.

helinues:
Is what Abike said about Emeka different from what Gov Soludo said?

They will keep airing such views because they are in government and place of power but when they are out and it becomes obvious that they won't be able to get back in such places, we would know what kind of stuff they are.....

Pythagoras001:
Both sides were wrong. airline security were completely unprofessional (by posting the woman nudes online and the way she was restrained). they need proper training on ways to properly restrain an unruly passenger. they should have been there before any person disembark from the plane and should have gone straight to her seat and have her cuffed behind her back.
The final power lies in the flight crew. if she was asked to switch off her phones she must obey that order disobeying that lawfull order is an offence. it is irrelavant if the phone is put on flight mode or not. if the order was your phone should be switched off or put on flight mode. then you could do any.

You're saying both sides ate wrong and you're saying they should have put hand cuffs on her?

What is the offense to put hand cuffs on her!!!!!

we are truly in the age of emotional sentiments where reasoning is thrown out.

Pythagoras001:
it is completely irrelavant now as there are envidence she disobeyed lawfull instruction from the flight crew and assualted/battered staff of the airline and airport.

What has made it to be irrelevant?
Imagine what you're saying?
Do you not know in a court that this witness statement is a very big jack hammer dent on the Ibom flight crew and also the airport security?

They felt passengers would not say anything online....

helinues:
This failed comic skit maker should go and sit down somewhere.

Ordinary your personal business, you couldn't run it without running on debt yet you want to be attacking those who are handling complicated matters

It's complicated when Emekas commits a crime in Europe and she pours all sorts of derogatory words and mocks them but when Adeolas commit same crime it become too complicated and they find a tissue paper to clean it.

helinues:
Keyamo should stop acting weak and do the necessary thing.

You don't need any shalaye

Maybe he can do the necessary thing when PBAT also do the necessary thing and without favour prosecute all those within and outside the APC whose corruption cases were swept under the carpet when they started to romance with the party....!!!!

I am talking of proper prosecution and not all these politically motivated witch hunts and media stunts trials and make beliefs trumped up cases.

Amarachieze:
Whatever interpretation, it is a moral baggage and even the infamous system glitch that brought this administration to power is a dent on the legitimacy of this government. I don't even want to mention that there are key members of this administration that had and are still having corruption cases swept under the carpet. Imagine somebody like Ganduje and Akpabio fighting corruption

All this talk and nobody said same on the legitimacy of Trump becoming President, all fellow blacks said was that the Biden administration was doing witch-hunts.
Apologies but I don't do double standards.

Amarachieze:
I didn't ask Tinubu to resign or be impeached:The Supreme Court says he won an election which both local and international observers described as below minimum standard. So legally he is the President of Nigerian with legal authority to fight corruption but morally he doesn't have what it takes to fight corruption. For the fact that we cannot prove that the human skull in the hand of a murderer is not that of a monkey does not justified the crime of murder.Though the murderer might be acquited for lack of proof but he is no less a murderer.
Forfeiting such huge amount of money in a drug case smacks of acceptance and this is a baggage too heavy for any president that will fight corruption. In fact what is "funny and worrisome" is that anybody should believe that Tinubu government can and or is fighting corruption. It is a mission impossible. A house divided against itself will not stand

As regards the bolded I don't even think those (The US) who prosecuted him back then could ever give that assertion because it would have been in the report sent to POBJ when he was investigating Tinubu back then.

It can be likened to when aggrieved parties go for out of court settlement.

Amarachieze:
Well Tinubu is not the first to use efcc to bully opposition but the trend is assuming a very dangerous dimension under him. In fact he has almost institutionalized it.
By the way, on what moral ground is Tinubu' administration fighting corruption? Someone whose drug case is a subject of controversy. Election that brought this government into power is tainted with corruption, rigging, and bribery and so on.

Is it not funny and even worrisome that anyone still complains about PBAT drug case in the USA that led to forfeiture of funds...!!!!!

Did POBJ and a prominent lawyer not did all they can when Tinubu was still a State governor to ensure he could be impeached or removed from office but the courts from HC/AC/SC vindicated him.

As much as it's widely accepted that the presidential elections was rigged, but it has to be proven in the Nigerian courts and those who went to court couldn't show any tangible documented proof. Its just like when people say the former VP has corruption cases, but no court has found him guilty. Was it not because of corruption cases many accused AA of fearful of entering the USA and Saraki had to put him on a diplomatic status and they all attended some function in the first tenure of Trump.

The legal system and the courts deals on proofs and not on emotions.
If it were to be emotions then we do know that many politicians would be in prison and rot there.

cr7lomo:
After asking her ti switch off her phone which is standard procedure....she refused, it was even another passenger that dragged the phone off her due to her unruly behavior and switched it off... she went into a rant with the air hostess and then attacked her with slaps. .... as the flight was in the air... they tried to restrain her, but she kept on making trouble all through the flight... the air hostess I formed the pilot and the pilot radioed control room and te incident and. Demanded for security to pick her up once they landed ... when they landed , other passengers were allowed to leave and they prevented her from leaving, to enforce the arrest , that's where te video started, the air hostess prevented her from leaving tye aircraft ... then when security officials arrived the aircraft , she refused to leave an took out the fire extinguisher to attack them , they disarmed her and dragged her out ...during the process , she held on to the curtain resisting arrest ... the airhostess tried to drag the curtain from her as she held on to it as they were dragging her out of the plane , that's why her top pulled out and her jugs were exposed ... so what wrong did the air hostess do ?? Why can't some Nigerians follow rules??

The air hostess has no right to block the passenger from leaving the plane. Since you said they had called the airport security, they would have just allowed her to alight from thr plane while the airport security pick her up on the ground while she's still walking into the terminal sections

cr7lomo:
Were u not the same person that opened threads attacking kwam1 for going against the rules.... now cos say na woman , u don change mouth .... why is no one talking about the assault on the air hostess... we all saw the gutter display and disregard of authorities by this same woman...we saw when she poked her finger into the face of the air hostess... we saw her physically attack and assault 2 or 3 of the official on ground ... are u guys 4kin insane in Nigeria... why do u support nonsense.... she will be placed on life ban and sent to jail if she tried this abroad... use the same energy u all used to attack k1 on this girl... Will she act like this in a foreign flight?? Or attack foreign officials or slap foreign air hostess ??

The different portions of the video makes that air hostess of commiting a crime and just like the aviation minister said, he will have to get the rule book and see if the conduct of the flight crew towards the passenger was in line with legal protocols.

Nevertheless from the various version in the media space, the scuffle started before the plane took flight and this conflict emerged when it landed at it's destination and all other passengers alighted and it occurred.

The flight crew should have radioed airport security on ground for them to handle the issue rather than the air hostess who took it upon herself to restrict the lady from leaving the plane.......that is an offence too much.
I heard the lady shouting in one of the videos that they wanted to steal her phone....... Please under what authority is any member of the flight crew taking her phone from her?

The police doesn't even have that power without your consent or that of your lawyer depending on the gravity of the crime is any.....!!!!

ARISHEM:
Punishing kwam 2 and allowing kwam 1 to go scot free after committing similar assault is unfair.
Kwam 1 was high on alcohol while kwam 2 was high on phone addiction. If kwam 1 had been punished, kwam 2 would have behaved herself.

I even read on instagram from another passenger account on same plane saying the reason she assaulted the crew was because she was not allowed to leave the plane for refusing to switch off her phone after she was advised and warned.

Restricting her from not leaving the plane when it has landed is an offence. This whole thing is just one funny mess and Ibom air crew/staff should just hope and pray the lady doesn't get to have an activist lawyer that would show them shege and the Nigerian aviation authority and Nigerian government will get a blow too.

aribisala0:
Were you on this aircraft?

Quote me when you find a sensible question

You never did have a sensible response.

aribisala0:
It was handled extremely and admirably professionally

It can be used to train others in how to handle such situations

If she did that on an Israeli aircraft she would have been shot
There are so many countries that do not tolerate unruly behaviour on aircraft
It is not about thinking you are right but compliance

So you have boarded an Israeli aircraft where a passenger did something like that and thr person was shot by the security staffs on board?

AgreatMan:
But who told the illiterate staff that she needs SWITCH OFF her phone?

She can put it on airplane mode without switching off.

The idea that a phone use will disrupt communication generally no longer holds true today.

I no support the slap sha.

The matter wasn't handled professionally by the flight crews and security staffs.

If anyone is told to put off their phone, they can easily put in on silent if they won't pick an incoming call or better put it on flight mode. Nobody supervises anyone when they are told to switch off their phones except if it's a security meeting then all phones are dropped outside.
I'm wondering if that was the lady's first time in entering an air plane...

joachimnkenchor:
The law is for the poor
The law is for the poor
The poor

Do we still have poor people travelling by air?

femi4:
So why are you using the Internet? That's different life...Jesus didn't use Internet in his time

nairalandkachy1:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DNMVmKcsDRr/?igsh=ZGJscXNhNXlvMHZx

Let the travel ban as spoken by the Aviation Minister stand. If the FG sees it good to let him go then they should as a matter of fact let go of the lady who caused at stir at the Ibom air ......

Maxymilliano:
https://punchng.com/just-in-passenger-who-assaulted-ibom-air-staff-remanded-in-kirikiri/?fbclid=IwQ0xDSwMG5A1jbGNrAwbkDWV4dG4DYWVtAjExAAEekKGCMZ4BajQ7G53A95LgJwh3kgtPs_1IIro26hhzWb9JQ9nPN68PiVjluGw_aem_EPh945WPY8zprg-fOHGtwQ

They did nothing to Kwam 1 and they are very fast in remanding her in prison.......Well maybe she is not a friend of the President like Kwam 1......

Mariangeles:
You should be asking your brothers that.



GOD will decide that.

I am not a tribal bigot. I have brothers in all the tribes in Nigeria.



One thing I've learnt in my years as a believing and practicing born again Christian is that "whatever the Lord says to any man or a people" there's a part the man/people must play for such to come to play. It not just physical but also spiritual.

But with the Lord ,one is certain there will be peace and rest.

OLADD:
https://dailypost.ng/2025/08/11/without-electoral-reforms-igbo-presidency-will-be-impossible-ohanaeze/

No be only electoral reforms. Imagine the entire east can't get the support of other regions except if they go there to populate those regions !!!!

Anyways maybe the Igbos should also do a cultural reform and put an end to the osu caste system they have been practicing then maybe they would be some progress for them in the presidential elections.....

Mrexcell:
I didn't even took my time to zoom in to see what the wife is wearing what do you have to say about the tight jeans the wife is wearing here?

I asked you a question, you refused to respond. You brought another topic telling me of Pst Oyedepo Jnr.....and you claimed he wore a much shorter shorts than Pst. Eze, I uploaded the pix and you are now saying the wife wore tight jeans?

Did you look at the picture very well?
Have you answered my question or you need binoculars to zoom in properly?

Or you just like unnecessary controversy!!!!!

Are you still standing on your word that Pst. Oyedepo Jnr. shorts is shorter than that of Pst. Eze?


One person is standing up and see the length of the shorts..... assuming he is sitting down as the person in second picture what will be the length then?

Mrexcell:
Will u still be arguing if pastor eze is a white man? I saw pictures of pastor oyedepo jr wearing same shorts in this forum yesterday but didn't see u or anyone condemning it the shorts was even shorter than the one pastor eze was wearing.

Are you referring to this or another picture of him where the short is shorter than pastor eze's own ?

Mariangeles:
Who is he that saith, and it cometh to pass, when the LORD commandeth it not?
WHO DARES?

I wonder why all these challenge...

The Lord has also not said that PO would be president, has He?