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PoliticsRe: Asiwaju Jagaban Bola Tinubu GCFR Wins Kaduna Landslide by bjreal67(m): 9:17pm On Feb 25, 2023
Fake news
PoliticsRe: Result From Egor Local Government, Benin City, Edo State. Ward 10, Code 070 by bjreal67(m): 9:14pm On Feb 25, 2023
Nice one let's keep shocking them
PoliticsRe: 2023 Elections: Abuja Results by bjreal67(m): 8:57pm On Feb 25, 2023
I hope this is legit. Even if na lie a new Naija is POssible.
PoliticsRe: Bayelsa: INEC Reschedules Voting to tomorrow In 141 Polling Units by bjreal67(m): 5:55pm On Feb 25, 2023
PoliticsRe: Owo Catholic Church Attack: We'll Hunt Assailants & Make Them Pay - Akeredolu by bjreal67(m): 4:02pm On Jun 05, 2022
From killing of innocent Christian under guise of blasphemy to entering church now. You can't travel safely to some place in this country without fear of the unknown. Hmm let us vote wisely o. God help us as we help ourselves
FamilyRe: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by bjreal67(m): 10:36pm On Feb 25, 2022
Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all
Bro my own advice is not to leave her. If you truly feel she is into a cult from your consultations, serious prayers are needed.
But you see as a matter of fact you both are into the cult because you are both connected. No assurance for a better life even if you leave her because the spiritual controls the physical.
Note, you might even be the problem of yourself.

What to do:-
1. You both need to give your life genuinely to Christ. And be a serious minded Christian. Flee from any appearance of evil and live a holy life

2. Look for a Bible believing church and worship with them. Stop going about looking for visions and prophecy about your life or wife

3. Pray without ceasing. (Day & Night)

4. You both should go for counseling and deliverance in a real church

5. Fight your life battles together don't do anything outside your wife. Communicate matters with her it will lessen your burden.

I hope and pray you can go through with all this things I outlined. You will thank GOD with testimonies if you can.
Godbless
HealthRe: Please Help: Is She Truly Pregnant? (PICTURES ATTACHED) by bjreal67(m): 10:13pm On Feb 25, 2022
Op calm down just try the test again with another kit from another chemist. I think the one you use is expired.


Nonetheless. Prepare your mind pampers is now N650 (2-4packs weekly for like 2years depending on how she Sabi manage)
CrimeRe: Edo Bank Robbers Abandoned The Cash & Cars After Youths Blocked Exit Road by bjreal67(m): 9:39pm On Feb 25, 2022
Youth stop robbers with sophisticated weapons... hmmm..
FamilyRe: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by bjreal67(m): 1:54pm On Nov 19, 2021
Bros get a JOB (even if it's teaching) then you get a life (urgently). Becos without a job sir, you are not a man. Forget glory days o and press to secure a source of income. IF NOT you never see anything

Note:- In some cases if she earns more than you, you are in some trouble (you won't hear word again) . If she is the only one working, you are FINISHED.

Pls help yourself before you loose you HEADSHIP
BusinessRe: Kubwa Village Market On Fire, 5 Persons Dead by bjreal67(m): 9:34pm On Nov 05, 2021
Not again huh lives and properties being lost. O'Lord put an end to this upanda losses. Badnews must stop
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Npower: Payroll Sub Menu Appears On Dashboard by bjreal67(m): 9:22pm On Nov 05, 2021
They sent the payroll alert information to Nasims focal persons in each states and LGAs. Just to tell you, you are sighted and ready for pay any moment from now

Jobs/VacanciesRe: NPOWER: Physical Verication Center And Date by bjreal67(m): 7:29pm On Sep 09, 2021
This Post need to be moved to front page. Mod pls
Jobs/VacanciesRe: List Of N-Power Batch C Focal Officers by bjreal67(m): 7:30pm On Aug 30, 2021
djblue007:
Please can we choose any PPA we like other than the ones listed on the portal?
Yes. That is after you might have posted your rejected letter to the NASIMS portal.
Then you go collect an acceptance letter from your PPA of choice and now upload it. After 24/48hours they might approve it
Jobs/VacanciesRe: List Of N-Power Batch C Focal Officers by bjreal67(m): 9:48am On Aug 30, 2021
vickodedon:
No.. And I want to redeploy.. Don't know how to go about it now
Download PPA letter first. Print two copies, take one to the PPA and tell them to reject you base on any excuse. Take the other one to the place you like and pray they take you.

THEN

You will login, click on request for redeployment (which is available)and upload the two letters in there different places.....
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Has Anyone Downloaded The Acceptance Letter On N-Power Portal by bjreal67(m): 9:38am On Aug 30, 2021
Let's all calm down. Since we know how our system of things are in our country, let us hold on.
No need to worry over what concerns/involves MANY.
We have been posted so no shaking anytime PPA letter show that's when we will download and take it to the PPA
FamilyRe: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by bjreal67(m): 12:06pm On Apr 30, 2021
My Brother all will be well. You are becoming a man. Don't think of leaving, you have entered this one nobody forced you. Instead gather courage and hustle more to become financially bouyant.

Be a man by caring for her don't show her you are weak to carry your responsibilities.

Before 9months complete make sure you are stronger and better because things will get more tensed if you cannot get her needs and baby needs. You will buy lots of Pampers my brother because she might not agree to use the old school wrapper method because of condition o.

This is not a deliverance case my brother. You will enjoy your woman if you take good care of her. Nothing like *"she should understand with me"*. No woman likes to suffer. Do the needful FAST

*No home is without an issue, everyone always look for ways to patch and make the home better, your case is not the first you are still young so this is the starting. Even the rich couples have there own big issues when all of us go out we pretend all is well but for mind you know what you are facing.*

*Advise to the Singles*
Don't go into marriage if you are not matured (Physically, Spiritually, Financially, Emotionally.....)
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by bjreal67(m): 8:37am On Jun 11, 2020
Desmond0007:
With all this, are you sure that I will get married? undecided
Just has you made a path for yourself to make your life meaningful and better that is what marriage too should be.

Or imagine when you are growing up and your parent who have seen life just decide to go drop you in the river because they are scared that the toll of life will finish you before you get to anywhere.

What you have not even tried you scare of it because you see and hear..

CAN'T YOU MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
By the grace of God I got married at 28 and still happy after 3years because I determine my marriage will work
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by bjreal67(m): 8:15am On Jun 11, 2020
Why are so many people emphasising on marriage being a thing of favour to ladies??

You are single and see different episodes in marriages even that lifestyle of some celeb and you just console yourself that marriage is a thing of favour so you won't marry. undecided... Check your mental, physical and spiritual health you need help

Real men who are responsible get married. Life itself has issues marriage not left out.

@confusedgirl869.. the truth is your man as watched so many episodes and has resolved to have baby mama, this you don't want to be.
A failed relationship I see my sister move on you don't need to cajole or beg him to marry you, someone somewhere will take you up and blow you mind more than your expectations.

Conquer that voice in your head telling you "you can't get a better than him elsewhere"
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Still Pay Your Tithes And Offerings? by bjreal67(m): 9:55am On May 10, 2020
There will be more NO than YES..
because negative words will be used against those who say yes so some will just pass and not say anything because tithing is between you and your God.

You come online express yourself anyhow against the church and it ministers no fear of God nawa o


Simple Question, require simple answer
Christianity EtcRe: 6 Rules For New Christians by bjreal67(m): 9:25am On May 10, 2020
Wonderful piece.
Some "old Christian's" too can take note too some have forgotten the essenciality of Christianity.
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Still Pay Your Tithes And Offerings? by bjreal67(m): 9:16am On May 10, 2020
Yes I pay my tithes as I get any money. The Pandemic does not mean I should forget my obligations as a Christian moreover some persons that work in the church apart from the pastor get salary from the church income.
Thanks
RomanceRe: Am Not Coronavirus But I Can Put You On Lockdown - Big Breasted Girl by bjreal67(m): 11:08pm On Apr 30, 2020
Look at her face, so innocent like a Pastors daughter that has chosen to go DARK..

*#YOU NEED DELIVERANCE
RomanceRe: “I Wish To Get Married Immediately After My WAEC-16 Year Old Girl by bjreal67(m): 10:51pm On Apr 30, 2020
From her look you can see desperation. If you play your game well you get married and continue school later.
But if you fall into wrong man's hand, you will hawk gala and Coke for the rest of your life.


Exposure to online stuff has made teenagers of this day have urges for boy/sex.. just imagine omo 16 years undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Anglican Church Shares Food Items Worth N30m In Onitsha Diocese- Pictures by bjreal67(m): 1:17pm On Apr 22, 2020
Best idea so far not by giving it to the government at any level.

Government should give palliative to religious bodies if they want it to go far, and if religious bodies can adopt this same methods of sharing things to the people NIGERIAN will be OK to some level
HealthRe: Can I Ever Be Happy again? by bjreal67(m): 9:39am On Apr 07, 2020
You need serious DELIVERANCE ASAP. The thought of suicide is the powers of the wasters raging against you.

There are prayers to tackle all your problems. First is to come to Jesus.

Deliverance is FREE
HealthRe: BREAKING: Confirmed Cases Of Coronavirus Hit 190 In Nigeria by bjreal67(m): 12:56pm On Apr 03, 2020
Going to do something better than counting when I'm not in football house..

When CORONA tire e go waka

Where better breeze dey for this compound jare
HealthRe: South Africa's Ruthlessly Efficient Fight Against Coronavirus by bjreal67(m): 12:52pm On Apr 03, 2020
This article should be published after Corona ends. Not many people can read this long article this period...

This is a COUNTRY
HealthRe: Best Anti Aging Food And Fruit. by bjreal67(m): 12:39pm On Apr 03, 2020
After lock down I will watch the video
HealthRe: . by bjreal67(m): 12:37pm On Apr 03, 2020
Bad, Badest, Baddo... Rain storm destroyed poles
HealthRe: Coronavirus: Share Your Experience Staying At Home by bjreal67(m): 3:06pm On Mar 29, 2020
I don't know I was this good and fast in changing Pampers and bathing my boy.
Have changed & washed him three times this afternoon..

#Stayathome
RomanceRe: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by bjreal67(m): 2:47pm On Mar 29, 2020
My advise: Since you have talked to her and she gave you her response end of chapter the rest of your efforts will be cajoling her which is wrong. Move on cos what you see may not be what you will get

#Too clean.. LOL
SportsRe: I Want To Coach Chelsea – Mikel Obi by bjreal67(m): 4:04pm On Oct 12, 2019
Na otondo United

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