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An average Nigerian woman always thinks 'gra-gra will show them they can't cheat me on d road because I'm a woman', she'd rather cause an accident than being 'chanced'. serzly there r more 'stubborn' female drivers than males in nigeria.

I once saw this woman making up while on d steering, she put her make-up kit on d dashboard, making up and checking herself out in mirror

Uhmm, pardon this ignorant me; isn't Perx the lady on sick bed some peeps went to visit in benin sometime ago? I hope she's not, but d name rings a bell

Lol Kay9 nice one, u make it sound like its 'comedy lifetime'

Mykjones I see ur point, but if u r abt to get on board, and you hear d last passengers of same (who jst landed 15mins ago) complaining of weird sounds and smoking from d engines, u might want to get curious, won't you?

Dyt Dyt dyt!! Let's nt draw attention darl, d best proposals r very private and when u least expect

pato405: give it your best shot, but if it doesnt work, simply call it QUITS!

If the idea of divorce appealed to me, getting married won't be dat scary. One can simply hop in and hop out. And I wnt rili care to learn ways to reduce problems in d marriage.
I'm a bit on d conservative style and admire d old idea of family wat a family shld be like.

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Pendo r u married?

Yeah beautiful!
Serzly I'm tired of cooking for one and eating the burnt food alone

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Conspiracy theory.

Sentiments against reasoning

They sure wld nt have forgotten cuba. But US learns, after d fatal error of driving NK back from SK and beyond d frontiers into NK behind enemy lines and china reinforced NK; in 1994 (I think) in Kuwait to drive out d iraqis, they wisely didn't go beyond but stopped at victory.

Sometimes, I wonder at their advisory

N.Korea is a willing pawn in d hands of d communist china and russia.

The war btw North and South Korea neva rili ended. After d korean war in early 1950s (and according to UN charter) UN soldiers (though a handful now) is still stationed to ward off ground offensives and remind china and russia of the aftermath of their hostilities.

I'll see its china dat wld have instigated such statement to keep UN on its toes. Both can only b at peace because china and US are at peace. And the 'war-lord' russia lurking

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Its only when d girl is a humble and calm type I'd only consider this question. its only then I can rack my brain for a way out wit d least hurt felt. I'll talk her out of the relationship, and take blames. But a stubborn dawta of lilithe from hell? I won't give d question a thot

Thot I was going to see Tyler Perry...well, enjoy ur choice

As a patriot of this Federal Republic, I duff my fed in salute. A good man you were.

I've always had this funny feeling abt yar' adua's death, same I had abt Abiola's.

Reduce d financial inputs, let d financial situation be clear to him. Dnt fit into his shoes by readily supplying him money. besides taking it for granted it may be hurting his ego and insecurity gets d grip on him. Cook up reasons for pay cut. Don't assume he is cheating on you becos he does not make love. It'll help psychologically and help the situation. Don't rush into impressing him by covering up his shame, do what u do cos ur sense of responsibility needs u to.

These might not solve anything, but maybe help him appreciate ur input more when you offer it.

And op (I assume u r married) whatever solutions u think up, be cautious with ur advice, actually it'd be better if u don't turn to her lecturer, dnt advice her directly. Be sly abt it, if u jump into bad mouthing men and/or submissive women, it may be to ur dismay after she eventually sorts things out with her husband. Tell her an old friend of yours had similar issues and did these..

Between husbands and wives, u never quite know enough.

NB: "For Your Eyes Only"

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Dyt? D last gini? Last ke?

Sometimes, english can really be a bore. Looking for a yoruba chick to teach me the language

I'd say 35 is ok. Overdue? Maybe 40, 45 is overdue

Lwkm @ churches in same building..pathetic!

Bt considering d provocation of an average naija man, d beer parlor on every street is permissible. lol

Returning to innocence is something I don't buy into. A conman is always one. Besides, with all assets confiscated and not much left of him, he has not many options than feign born-again.

Poetic justice

Bottle water is a sign of class

^ Was dat to me? lwkm
Yes ma'm. I'll note ur advice,tnx.

But Girlfriend, U shld also knw a whole lotta peeps here r slicker than ur average. Btw, ur last reply doesn't sound like d Op

Male chauvinists and feminists alike can begin to propound theories.

Op I think that a better description of his personality will aid better informed &unbiased opinions. It wont be fair to take his immediate and remote actions to be a picture of his entire 30yr old life.
What is "living in his mother's basement" supposed to represent?
Ur write up, by default, reads biased with subtle indications of what u expect to hear.