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"Let me see that thong!", yelled Sisqo in his seminal hit, "thong song". But it doesn't mean you should forget that in Naija culture, you are loose if your dressing is. Am I wrong? |
The truth is that some guys will appreciate a loosely dressed girl for what they can "see" and possibly, "get". However, the guys that don't mind dating such girls will definitely not marry them because face it, if you can't her home to mama, you can't take her home. Dressing to impress shoud not be mistaken with dressing to shock or seduce. What do you think? |
Move on girl. Don't go over there. There are reasons why you both broke up and you know them. But there are no reasons why you should get together again other than your feelings and this time, they're not enough. Get over your feelings, if he wants you, let him express his feelings to you. Don't forget why and how you both broke up. |
Attached is the Maybach Exelero. Hope you all appreciate it.
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Layi, you know Seun is right. "Copying and pasting" is bad enough, the least you could have done was at least credit the source so other people could look it up and share in any other piece of knowledge available. Calling Seun "Lil Bro" wasn't polite and unnecesary. I'm sure you are a much more civil person. Just say something nice. PS. And credit the source of the article you "copied and pasted". |
This is what mine looks like. Not the actual picture but a similar one since it's the exact model I drive. It's a Mercedes Benz 190E. It's the 1992 model, the last set of 190 made before the C-class was introduced. It is popularly refered to as "american spec", i.e. american specification. It's got features that don't come with the older 190 models. The extra features were meant for the incoming C-class model and were added on to the 190E to test them out. That's why the few 1992 model of 190E were marketed as fast cars. Imagine a 2.3 litre engine with 16v topping at 260 km/h! It goes from zero to 100 km in 7.7 seconds. It is 4 cylinder and 130 hp with low fuel consumption so you know I'm feeling that factory fitted a/c. It also has cruise control and 5 speed manual transmission so travelling on express ways is a joy. The regular 190E only goes to 220 km/h. Any 190E owners out there? |
Sorry, ETB and Access don't employ HNd holders. I hope you are already considering direct entry to a university because some other banks in addition to these two wont employ you at all if they see HND on your cv. Examples include First Atlantic, Platinum, even First bank has stopped recruiting HND holders. |
peu, I feel you sister. Just ignore those feelings and stick with your boyfriend until you meet someone else who can give you a more fulfilling relationship. And if your present boyfriend is just not it, dump him. Never manage second best or settle for less. |
whiteroses, your "tipsyness" is forgiven. And the "pics" on my profile are not of me. Please go back to the profile to view another picture. I hope that makes you feel good about yourself. Cheerio. |
You are most welcome anytime. |
Retribution simply put, means the act, art or process of revenge. Karma is a Sanskrit word and is usually used in reference to the "law of karma" which simply states that every thing we do in life has a consequence, sort of saying every cause has an effect. If we sow goodness, we will reap goodness; if we sow evil, we will reap evil. |
My dear sister, if you are registered with yahoo mail, you can block his yahoo id from sending you mail by going to "preferences" in yahoomail and specifying his yahoo id. The same thing goes for yahoo messenger. Just click on "ignore" on the task bar and click on his name. Problem solved. The procedure is almost the same for most e-mail service providers. You can also do the same here on nairaland.com. Just go to "profile" on the top left hand corner of the home page when you're logged in, click and then got to "personal message options", enter his user name in the "ignore list" box and remove this nuisance from your life. |
He that is down needs fear no fall. A man swallowed his pride and reached out to his fellow men in his moment of darkness, seeking support and encouragement. All we needed to do was lift him up or hold our peace. Who are we to laugh at his language inadequacies? If some of us were privileged by birth or wealth to enjoy the advantage of a good education, some others were not so fortunate. God who allowed Emeray to enter an Institution of Higher Education knew the guy's limitations. The rest of us should know our personal limitations and respect ourselves. If you have nothing good to offer, offer nothing. |
Thanx Grizzly and Z4M4eva for the welcome, I appreciate it. whiteroses, you seem to have issues. If I "yabbed" you "on a thread", what's that got to do with "sharing nice experiences with new people" as you put it? I recall saying I'm looking forward to meeting interesting people and experiencing new things, there was no mention of "hating around' and I'm not sure what "you don't be unice to people" means. Is this English? Well, I do expect niceness such as I recieved from Grizzly and Z4M4eva. They seem great. Anyway, thanx for wishing me "lotsa love". I hope somebody, somewhere wishes you the same. Ciao. Ps. Two people don't "looks cute" but look cute. Didn't you know? |
Tell your friend about two words. Retribution and karma. |
If this "uncle" gave you a green light, would you really begin to date him? No doubt, he's aware of your relationship with his nephew/cousin and this "coded talk" thing between you two is plain wrong. However, a little flirting never hurt anyone, it's when we let our emotions get the better of our rational thoughts that "wahala go shele" ( there'll be trouble). Check yourself before you wreck more than yourself. |
Hi, obviously you have slept with him. That's a shame for two reasons. First, that for someone this young, you have been taken advantage of by a sexual predator and second, that your 28 year old sexual partner, (I can't call him lover, sex with a minor is not love!) has sexually abused you even if you consented to it. His age has placed a responsibility on him that demands he respect your maturity or, in this case, immaturity, and wait for you to blossom. Even if you both as a couple, have a long and fulfilling relationship in time to come, it doesn't excuse the fact that it was founded on wrongdoing, that is, statutory rape, sex with a minor and sleeping with an under-age person. Legally, it is wrong, morally, it is perverse. Watch your step with a man who cannot respect your age and body. |
A word of advice. Go your to profile and select his online ID as one you want to forever ignore. He has proven to be a liar and note that lies and love, in whatever form don't mix. |
Reallly shameful and despicable. I hope he has moved across the country! |
Sometimes we get caught up in these situations where the "timing" is right and we feel "justified by prevailing conditions". However, it is cowardly for a man to sleep with another man's wife. If he wasn't a coward, he would wait for the couple to be separated and not spiritually and legaly joined. Have you ever seen a guy walk boldly into a married man's bedroom when the husband's home to "do" the wife? Same goes for girls who sleep with married men. The fact that the man has a wife somewhere but disrespects his marital vows and his wife is an indication that he also doesn't respect you. Face it, you will always only be a means to achieve an orgasm. I'm not a prude or some deeply religious person. I'm just a human being who believes in the dignity of man. It is what seperates us from dogs. |
It's unfortunate what has transpired. Although you shouldn't have engaged in activity that would jeopardize your participation in the examination, I believe there should be a formal opportunity such as a disciplinary hearing or exam malpractice board where you can have a chance to defend yourself and your actions. Has this taken place? Were you suspended or rusticated? Anyway, take heart and continue to try to seek redress. Life is full of obstacles which we overcome in order to be full of life. |
Hello every one. I am Blackbuddy and I just discovered this forum which I find interesting. I'm looking forward to meeting interesting people and experiencing new things. Feel free to write me and let's all take advantage of the universal right to freedom of expression. |
Rihanna is ok from the point of view of a younger demographic. Beyonce however is a mature lady at the top of female R n B with competition from only Mary J. and Mariah at this time. Also, she's Jay-Z's claim to a clean girl after his years of running with groupies and street chicks. Rihanna is still a kid, from way over in the Caribbean while Beyonce is from a wholesome middle class US background (something Jay-Z never had), an established, solid career with the multi-platinum selling Destiny's Child and an equally stellar career as a solo artist. Plus, she's fine! Face it, put the two girls side-by-side and you'll realise why Jay-Z will always favor his Beyonce. Afterall, he rapped on his classic song from the "Black Album", the line, "I got the hottest chick in the game, wearing my chain." The hottest chick in the music game being Beyonce and the chain being his platinum chain with the Roc-a-fella pendant worn only by Roc-a-fella rappers and producers. |
Rihanna is ok if you are still in your teens or just coming off puberty. Beyonce however is a mature hot chick at the top of female R n B with competition from only Mary J. and Mariah. Also, she's Jay-Z's claim to a clean girl after his years of running with groupies and street chicks. Remember that Rihanna is just a kid, from way over in the UK while Beyonce is from a wholesome middle class US background (something Jay-Z never had), an established, solid career with the multi-platinum selling Destiny's Child and an equal stellar career as a solo artist. Plus, she's fine as , ! Face it, put the two girls side-by-side and you'll realise why Jay-Z will always favor his Beyonce. Afterall, he rapped on his classic song from the "Black Album", the line, ", I got the hottest chick in the game, wearing my chain." The hottest chick in the music game being Beyonce and the chain being his platinum chain with the Roc-a-fella pendant worn only by Roc-a-fella rappers and producers. Holla back. |
One question. So? |
My reaction? Instant laughter, you're killing me . ![]() |
Marraige close? |
