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@ alj harem, you are just playing footloose with the truth. It is obvious to the blind that the link you posted as a supporting story is a copy and paste from the 234Next website. Both stories are exactly alike. You can not use the something to prove itself. It is a fallacy.

As for the Deltan story, that is why we have to refute all these lies so people do not rely on it as truths. All you need to do is find out from people who live in Enugu if any such thing happened. I asked from a family member who lives near there, no less, and was told it was a lie. In fact, he went there after we spoke to physically verify.

So how can we verify this info? As far as i am concerned this is hearsay. Why not wait for the husband to come and expose the wife? What is your business? Were u a jilted party? Na wa you o.

God have mercy.

I did not want to say he is cheating but there are red flags everywhere. What's with the profuse apologies but constant backsliding? You need to sit up o. Act smart. My cousin's ex fiance was the same way. Always apologetic but still doing the same things. He will work till 11pm (or so he says) this is in Abuja and not call. Sometimes, he will say he is at home though he is still out. She took out a car loan for him but was stuck with making the re-payments cos he had a secret big project coming up. She used the shock and awe technique on him and that was when she started getting suspicious of him. She had to do some detective work and discovered that he got his (other) girlfriend pregnant and was soon going to marry her. All his money was going into wedding plans and taking this chic out to exotic places.

Just be smart and do what you have to do.

My internal antennae started quivering immediately u mentioned him working late and also carrying on a tasking financial project. They seem to go hand in hand but u need to probe deeper. Find out from colleagues what is up at the office. Is there a deadline? Is he the boss? Can u find out more about his project? Ask around, snoop around, whatever. If he has decided to be cagey and not inform you of what he is doing then you need to be extra inquisitive.

Ask him plainly if there is another woman? That is the shock and awe technique. He will be confused or angry or whatever? Tell him that it is not that you doubt his fidelity but that is how he makes you feel. Then go ahead and tell him what you want from him. Make sure it is as consice and practical as u can make it. Don't beat around the bush, don't sugar coat anything. Just don't start crying, abeg. I have found that men do not get subtle hints (sandwich approach) but direct statements. Be clear on everything and be very practical.

Then you can take it from there.

Chineke! Anifowo78 has almost 40 threads up! I think that is a new record.

INJNEC has 6 threads up.

There was never any flood in Enugu. Whether picture is a prop or not. The story itself is not true.

none of the above.

mallorca:
hahaha, na half man

The young shall grow.

Na wa o. Heard that their names and pictures have now been put up. What are they waiting for? I pity the young lady cos they would have threatened her and her family. She go dey fear to talk.

I think it is based on the maintenance of the car. Let me give an example. I know someone who got a brand new 2007 Honda Accord fullest option as an official car in 2008. He has 3 cars already in his garage. He uses the car in Abuja to go to his office which is 20 mins away and back home. Weekends, he uses his other cars. He drives himself and is a careful driver. All servicing is done at Honda's Place.

This is 2011 and he wants to sell. The car has done barely 15,000km. Everything is almost new. If he wants to sell it, how much should he sell it? I will go for this kind of Naija used car as i know the history rather than the Tokunbo from wherever.

jennykadry:
That one na man?

My husband was lamenting that he was the only male in the house. My son, who i was holding in a standing position without his diapers, decided to pee all over me. Like he was saying, "See, i can pee standing up. If that does not make me a man, then chop piss."

i think it is psychological. Female nannies r more acceptable.

@ Am alone, i am really sorry, totally apologetic. Will not happen again.

Just don't like the idea. In my house now, my husband is the only male (ok, and my son). I feel freer.

Don't think so.

its a lie

lol

Lawyer, it is not a laughing matter o See as i confuse when i see graph Wetin join graph and land? Anywayz sha, i still dey interested but if one person wan corner everything to himself, hmmm.

Transport allowi nko? Has anyone collected?

Is this house still available?

too much story don dey enter now. This is making it more complicated.

We can confirm it is NOT Enugu as those of us that live there have disowned this report. No one has reported any flooding in Enugu. I had to make calls cos i have family in that area but they said it IS A VERY BIG LIE. Also, u can't see that kind of house in that area.

Na wa o. and i was thinking of referring her to a friend. A friend told me that style. They will collect viewing fee and take u round to really dirty and stupid places even though u pay their transport fare o. That viewing fee they charge is what they live on. They will keep sponging of u until u wake up and smell the coffee.

This woman will charge agency and agreement fee.

Why not ask her what u would do that will be interpreted as showing love and do it? It is possible u r doing something else and thinking u are showing love but it is not what she wants. Do not work based on assumptions just ask her.

See as you dey yarn opata. If u wan yab persin, yab urself and ur generations, leave my kids out of ur stupid talk. U don't have to be condescending in ur answer. I said, and i will put it in caps, IF THE CFL SHOULD BREAK, IT WILL LEAK OUT MERCURY. U can not stop accidents from happening. Talking stupid shit about kids changing light bulbs. If the light bulb was being changed in the house with them in it and it should break, nko?

Even the people u want to copy are protesting but u want people in Naija, who r not conscious of the dangers, to swallow it hook line and sinker. The energy being saved in powering ur house, does it make up for the amount of mercury being released into the ecosystem by thousands of CFL bulbs that are thrown into the thrash? Abroad, they recycle those bulbs which is the only safe way to dispose of them but here, we just toss it in the bin.

Abeg, yarn another one. U are talking of multinational energy companies conspiring to discourage its use, what of manufacturers of CFL bulbs conspiring to push a product that is not healthy? Even in UK, with all their health consciousness, how many actively encourage the use?

U think we are still gullible abi? Thank God for research and the internet. Please, before anyone uses it, just do a little research on the dangers of CFL bulbs and how to dispose of it if it should accidentally break.

It cant be Enugu. Enugu is located in hilly territory. How will it flood? The rain will just run down hill.

why r u asking out of Nland? Abeg, answer the questions here on this thread. Has anyone used your technology in NIgeria?

Abeg google the dangers of CFL if u think i am high on crack.
Have u not seen that cancer etc is on the increase.

I WILL NOT under any circumstance use compact fluorescent lights also called energy saving bulbs. It contains mercury and mercury is very dangerous to your health. I have kids in the house, what if they mistakenly break a bulb?

I can do other things but CFL is not for me.