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E be like say you no meet Sandra Achums and Bimbo Akintola

Favemmzar200:
Look at the small boy of 20 years, I am sure his wife is much younger. A man should be both matured in AGE and in the BRAIN and POCKET before venturing into marriage
.

What would drive this little kid into killing the woman he swore his undying love for last week

Unto pap he could have gone to main road and got for twenty naira

Love? You only find that once in a while with this type of people. I can take a bet that this so called marriage was as a result of "boy had casual sex with one random girl and the girl got pregnant, so they decided to start leaving together" or "girl had nowhere to stay and boy saw an opportunity for free sex, so they start living together"

emmanuel596:
This man na old smelly goat

I think the goats in the post above yours do not agree with your assertion.

merits:
New year,new saga only God knows the truth never believed one sided stories honourable over to you.

As per the image on your comment sir, I think it depends on how you see it. I am intrigued by the picture even though it is not related to the topic. The straight nail will be hammered because it is the destiny of nails to be hammered before they can achieve their purpose. In other words, the crooked/bent nails will escape being hammered but also escape their destiny. If they are lucky, someone will take interest in them, straighten them out by hammering them then hammer them again to achieve their purpose/destiny. In short, according to Robert Mugabe nails wey wan escape hammer dey play with their destiny.

SaveMeLord:
Ok so I'm writing this to ask whether some of you live with your parents but don't eat their food to avoid "see finish". You know how some parents mentality is they feel because they feed you they will disrespecting you and talking to you anyhow and sending you errands meant for 12 year olds.

I feel if I start from not eating their food and be getting my own food the disrespect will reduce until I finally leave them for good. What do you think? anyone has experience? BTW I'm 24

This is a big problem in the world today. You have not come out to tell us of the specific excesses of your parent. You are just assuming and you are already preparing to be defensive and to carry your weight alone.

Try to be a good member of any society (home/office/church/community) that gives more that he takes from the system and you will see that this problem will disappear or at least it will no longer be as big as it sounds right now.

When I was in 300L/400L, I had no native wears so I usually run home to my father's wardrobe to borrow native wears when I had to go for weddings or similar functions. The thing is that I will always give the clothe to the laundry man before I return it to daddy's wardrobe. And this happens whether I picked the native from the laundry basket or from his wardrobe. I didn't know that daddy was impressed until my brother borrowed his shoes and refused to return it.

Try these:
If you don't have a car and you have to borrow you papa car, make sure you refill the gas tank. You will be surprised that they will beg you to take the car every time you want to go out. Take the car to the car wash once in a while if you're too big to wash it yourself.

Go to the kitchen once in a while to gist with your mummy and do things without being asked. If possible, initiate and sponsor some special meals once in a while if you can afford it.

Drive your mummy to the market or just follow her even if you people have to take public transport. You will be shocked at what you will hear from her.

Where are your younger ones? "Bribe" them, and your house-helps if you have them, (in cash and kind) before the need for it arises. Your gift will make a way for you at some point.

If you stay in your room alone, make sure that taking care of that room is your responsibility and that your being around does not burden anyone (even if you people have house maids). Now this depends on how you people are brought up.

Every once in a while, take care of some responsibilities in the house - rent, bills, maintenance, etc. Even if there are no opportunities for these, look for what you can do to "pay rent" in kind. This applies to anywhere you find yourself.

Even though you are staying with your people, treat them as well as you would love to be treated, don't take them for granted but don't forget that you are their son.

Themainboy22:
Why hiding your face? Maybe your face is more private to you than the half nude part of the downside you posted.

On a lighter note, You wouldn't recognize the poster with the nude(?) picture if you saw her outside, but you would recognize her face if she had posted it. Just thinking o. Merry Christmas

madjune:
Dr Omotayo.

Owner of Omotayo hospital, off toyin street, Lagos.
I remember my stint at the place years ago.

I doubt it sir. This one is most likely a geologist, engineer or something similar. He worked with Gulf/Chevron.

talktrue1234:
Wow, so because I am single now I have to look for someone to buy what I am going to eat for me. Our mentality is just mad.

First I think you are right, that is actually what most women believe, you are the second lady telling me this, but I am not actually stingy, I just like being on my own.

I don't even have friends in my street, but I will work on your input, thumbs up.

Be careful with that game o. Before you know it, one woman will be telling you about how you used and dumped her. Ask for help if you need it but don't do it because of some other person's unrealistic expectations. If you're single and you are able to stand on your own, that shouldn't be anybody's problem.

XANDERO85:
This man seems to love dishing out slaps! Both to boys and girls....he’s not fussy about gender!

make you kuku call am EOS - Equal Opportunity Slapper

ThatFairGuy1:
Aside the assault, Nigerians should give Respect to men in uniform. You shouldn't expect them to queue like civilians, they might be on an emergency assignment

Respect begets respect. Men in uniform that are being respected in other countries get the respect because they are not know for using their uniform oppress citizens. The respect is in appreciation of their service.

By the way, which emergency assignment are you talking about? If he has personal emergency, he should learn how to negotiate with people. The uniform is not for his personal advantage. Using the uniform for personal advantage is corruption. That is what led us here.

Your thread reminds me of those days of Yahoo Chat, collegeclub.com, onlinenigeria and even the chatroom on Nigerian Guardian's website. First question used to be "a/s/l?"
meaning what's your age/sex/location.

Anyway, enjoy your thread.

post=94039248:
Reports!

The man who works at the airport that Nigerian singer, Davido tipped $100 in a video that went viral some few days ago have cried out on social media begging for Davido’s intervention after he was sacked, Reports.

From The Information Gathered By , The airport official who identity is yet to be known was allegedly sacked from work for defying the ethics of the profession which is taking money from customers.

According to him in a video chanced on by .com, he was relieved of his post by management for begging a passenger for money and has cried out to Davido to tell his employers he did not beg them.

The distressed man who claims has children and a wife said he did not beg him but only hailed Davido whereby on his own will gave him the money, Reports.

Watch The Video As Obtained By Below:

https://www.instagram.com/p/CFNgh08MEmA/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_mid=0460F7B5-CC45-4103-A16D-85F426547799


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=roZlCZpyR8I

One of our problems in Nigeria is that we often tackle wrong problems or sometimes just part of the problem in a manner that leaves loopholes for people that want to steal.

They should simply train their employees not to accept gifts from passengers. period. Unfortunately, hunger and ethics are 2 parallel lines

zuma4k:
Please fellow nairalanders, I need your opinions on this and if possible front page. It's quite personal and goes like this.
1. Mr Adam (my father) opens a fixed deposit account with X Bank. He subsequently submits his wife's details and makes her a co-signatory to the account with the *express mandate* that upon his demise, his wife exercises automatic access to the account and it's proceeds. Does this amount to a valid contract between him and the bank?.

2. Note that after his death the bank reneged on the primary provision of his directive, stating that a letter of administration must be procured (at an exorbitant cost).
Stated Reasons bothers on the fact that under banking laws and the principles of a valid contract, a contract between a depositor and the bank terminates upon the demise of the individual thus rendering the *mandate* unenforceable and invalid.
Please mods I need this on front page. Thanks.

I am not a banker or a lawyer but I'm not sure if any bank will honor what you described as the express mandate. What would have helped is a co-signatory status with the mandate that "either may sign". This would have helped the wife.

The other thing that could have helped is a will. I guess, the wife will wait till the will is executed before having access to such money though.

My mandate to my wife is that if anything happens to me, she should move any and every money in the accounts to which I have made her co-signatory. Then she can relax and cry for as long as she wants. I trust my family but I just have to avoid stories or at least let her be in a comfortable position while the story is going on.

SweetJoystick:
What else could make him visit? Don't think otherwise. That's the sole reason, other pastors have voiced out against CAMA, he's yet to do so because he has access to Buhari hence this visit.

Can you please tell us one reason why you think Adeboye would be affected by CAMA. Just one reason.

PS: I'm not a member of RCCG or any one man church so I'm not defending anyone. I just want to be sure that your statement has some basis, even if it's not totally correct.

2cribz:
Thats the spirit. Traits of toxic parents and siblings ..sadly this aint naija . So if they go contrary they might end up in jail. I too like yankee

You see generator, pump water, fetch water and you still dey think say na Yankee? I doubt it.

tym92:
Which one is more authentic
Church Wedding
or
Court Wedding

The wedding certificate from the LICENSED CHURCH is as valid as a certificate issued by the court.
Typically, a church can only issue a wedding certificate if it is licensed (by government) to do so. A Church that doesn't have that license would request that you bring a wedding certificate from the court. If you get a wedding certificate from a church that is not licensed, the certificate is not on less authentic but it may be invalid. Unfortunately, you wouldn't know until there's an issue.

If your church did not send you to post any notice at the local registry or to bring anything from the registry before your wedding, please ask questions to confirm if your wedding certificate is valid.

ChizzyBuna:
Virgin Mary Was Raped by a Roman Soldier
A young woman from Galilee, who's tragedy turned to be the greatest blessing in disguise. Showing how God works in mysterious ways.
During that time in Galilee, Roman empire was on top of the world.
Roman soldiers were sent to Jerusalem after the Jewish people revolt and started the Roman-Jewish Wars.
The common thing with Roman Soldier that time was to rape the females of the land the conquer.
A Soldier named Panthera is accounted in Jewish records as the soldier that raped virgin Mary. Thus she became pregnant with the baby Jesus.
This explains Joseph's Furious attitude when he learnt about Mary's rape.

There are certain clues in the New Testament to suggest that Mary was in quite a terrible state after the beginning of the pregnancy. The fact that she went in great haste to see Elizabeth. The fact that she talks about herself as a "lowly handmaid": why is she lowly? Some people believe the lowliness was because she was actually the victim of a rape.

Jesus is the son of a Roman soldier that raped Mary.
This destiny was to be born of a Roman
And to be crucifer by the same Romans
It was a prophecy that was fufilled.

The true reason this story is symbolic is that it is the true event that happened.
Constantine and the council of bishops in Niccea covered the rape case with the idea of immaculate conception. That God impregnate Mary. This was a plot to save Mary image from ridicule but they made a mistake in covering up the true story.
Mary was highly respected because in the face of ridicule, gossips, and trauma she faced as a rape victim. She still put her hope in God and kept the pregnancy.
Instead of aborting it.
Joseph was a truly understanding husband to still accept Mary after all she was raped.
Now the result of this rape pregnancy was Jesus been born. A messiah. Who changed the world.

God wanted to show us that every dissapointment is a blessing in disguise.
That he can use mary someone who was victimized,casted,rejected after she was raped to usher in the saviour of the world.
God wanted to prove that he can use the least expected person to change the world.

I am almost impressed with your imagination. I just have a few observations. By the way, I'm not talking as a christian (which I am), I'm just looking at some inconsistencies in your story. I use numbers but I listed them in no particular order.
1.

ChizzyBuna:
Mary was highly respected because in the face of ridicule, gossips, and trauma she faced as a rape victim. She still put her hope in God and kept the pregnancy. Instead of aborting it.

Was there even abortion at that time?

2.

ChizzyBuna:
Jesus is the son of a Roman soldier that raped Mary.
This destiny was to be born of a Roman
And to be crucifer by the same Romans
It was a prophecy that was fufilled.

Please tell us about the prophecy that said Jesus had a "destiny to be born of a roman father". You don't even need to prove it. just quote/mention the prophecy

3. It is a conclusive contradiction when you said a tragedy was "turned to be the greatest blessing in disguise. Showing how God works in mysterious ways". Which blessing or mysterious ways are you alluding to? That Jesus came to die for the sin of the world?
4. Why was Mary singled out for protection from ridicule? was she the only virgin that was raped at that time?

My conclusion is that you should please leave us alone to believe what we believe. You are equally free to believe what you say you believe.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
All these is manipulations and threats, cos her phone is erased and she has no traces of anything. The shaking gave him out.
Who else remembered when he hosted cocomaster house or whatever, like BBN? Put about 10 or more girls in the house, having sex with them and uploading it? Whosoever WINS will collect some millions.
He boasted he was a BANGALEE, now he can no longer boast of his prowess and proving to be a saint.

Before you call the girls OLOSHOS, please tell me the name of a man who sleeps with over ten ladies at a time, boasts of using ladies once outside at the same time, and nicknamed himself BANGALEE boasting of his prowess in banging women.
#alwaysliveright
#yourpastwillhuntyou

Auntie, I will call that "man who sleeps with over ten ladies at a time, boasts of using ladies once outside at the same time, and nicknamed himself BANGALEE boasting of his prowess in banging women" an OLOSHO, ManWhore anything but not a rapist. what will you call him ma? I'm not a fan of D'Banj. I can't even remember a word or tune from any of his music but let us fear God and at least be objective.

Anyway, what will you call him? A rapist?

Righteousness89:
Not completely correct!

A Marriage needs to be Blessed! Someone who stands as a Representative of GOD needs to Bless the Marriage. E.g Pastor, priest, etc

GOD ALMIGHTY in the Beginning Blessed Adam and Eve..

Gen 1:28..

The Blessings spoken to a couple is important!

All the other things are not really important!

Who "blessed" Isaac's marriage? Who blessed Jacob's marriage? Moses' marriage nko? Who blessed Ruth's marriage to Boaz? We may not read about some of David's marriage but who blessed his marriages to Abigail (Nabal's widow) or to Bathsheba?

I'm not a fan of Reno but this one is very true. Only God can deliver us from this man-made yoke.

MiVida:
the maid enjoyed it abeg... Say something else.

One of the most important issues surrounding rape is based on the difficulty in gauging or confirming “CONSENT”. That is why some of the most common statements from rapist and their supporters are “it was consensual sex”, “I did not force her”, “why did she not shout for help?”, “why did she not report immediately?”, “what was she doing alone with a man that is not a relative?”.
Rape is often associated with physical violence but the perpetrator can equally use the power of psychological manipulation, power and position among other things to subdue the victim. Examples?

Your house-help or ward sees no other place to turn when you asked for sex. She stands the risk of losing her shelter and maybe more. So, she gives in and even moaned rather than cry or shout for help during the session. It is still rape.

Be warned. Continue the rape if you want but don't say you did it out of ignorance.

Rape is often associated with physical violence, but can rape still occur if there was no physical violence or any form of struggle between the parties? Can’t the perpetrator use psychological manipulation, power and position among other things to subdue the victim? Examples?

A minor cannot give consent. It doesn’t matter if she didn’t shout or if she came back for more. It is rape. Period.

You may end up having consensual sex with your student (or subordinate in the office) that travelled kilometres or even drove herself all the way to meet you in the hotel room, but you may have coerced the consent. It is rape.

Your house-help or ward sees no other place to turn when you asked for sex. She stands the risk of losing her shelter and maybe more. So, she gives in and even moaned rather than cry or shout for help during the session. It is rape.

She sees you as a man of God and couldn’t believe what you were up to when she knew what you were up to. She was mesmerized by the power you wield around you. She gave in didn’t want to “offend God” and kept quiet because she didn’t want to “ruin your ministry”. It is rape.

Now let’s talk about marriage. It can be safely assumed that sex is expected to occur in marriage between 2 consenting adults. The lines between negotiation, coercion, consent, rough play and role-playing may even get blurry. If the woman is having sex with her husband because the man may withhold monthly allowances, is it rape? If the woman is having sex with her husband because she’s afraid the man may go out for sex, is it rape? If the woman is having sex with her husband because the man is a mafia Don that can do and undo, is it rape? We may debate on the scenarios above. However, one clearly unambiguous case of rape in marriage may be when there is physical assault or violence before or during sexual intercourse. Unfortunately, some folks also swing this way and it becomes difficult to prove that the two parties did not plan for the drama.

Rape in marriage is extremely sensitive and delicate. It is a coin with two sides but with “tails” on both sides for the victim (male or female). On one hand, the responsibility is on the victim to report the first occurrence of rape in marriage, so that subsequent occasions of rape may not be misconstrued by the perpetrator or the system as a normal husband and wife matter. On the other hand, who will believe him/her the first time? They will tell the victim not to allow the devil to use them to scatter their own home.

My conclusion is that "the fact that you have not experienced it does not mean that the people that said they have experienced it are lying".

obonujoker:
Charles Osasuwa, founder of Rock of Ages Christian Assembly Inc, has said it is a sin to live in a rented apartment.

He said this in a message on his Facebook wall on Thursday.

He went on to explain that it is actually a sin for Christians to live in a rented apartment because they will end up having two lords – Jesus and the landlord.

He said “the tenant is always at the mercy of the landlord. The landlord can call the tenant anytime and he can request to use his apartment anytime. The Christian who is a tenant should work towards freeing himself from the second Lord which is the Landlord.”

Osasuwa also said churches who operate in rented properties are not left out. He said “a church that operates in a rented apartment is having two lords. This should not be.”



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2666004633640561&id=1619094834998218

Make this man leave me and my landlord.
1. the landlord is the lord/owner of the land
2. Sarah must have committed a big sin because he called Abraham her husband "my lord".
3. All lawyers are sinners because they address a human being as "my lord" in the court room
4. and if the name dey pain the pastor make he no worry. That is why Jesus Christ is the Lord of lords.

https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2020/may/george-floyd-ministry-houston-third-ward-church.html

I think I should drop this link connecting him with other things apart from porn here.

There is no justification for anyone to be killed like that.

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

I'm sorry but it looks like you just set up a business center for her o. if you know, you know.

By the way, you're not a mumu. You are just a masochist. You won't be trying to date a lady you just described if you don't enjoy heartaches and pain.

Ezennwa:
Remember, this is a policeman.
a Lady has no right to lay her hand on a policeman.

it shows exactly what she does to her husband at home.

She has no right to lay her hands on a policeman... but do you think the police had a right to lay hands on her because he was enforcing curfew? She said she was eating "in her house". Even if she wasn't inside her room, how likely is it that she would be breaking the curfew where she was eating? I'm not supporting her but I just don't think the police man is the innocent party in this matter.

Perfecttouchade:
The video wasn't recorded when the officers slapped the woman..I saw the comments on instablog yesterday and the truth be told, what did they do to the woman before she reacted...in the same video gunshots were fired, why? An harmless woman confronting an harassment...police man no calm reach that extent abegi

Bros, e go better for you plenty. The woman kept shouting that the man slapped her while she was eating in her house (apparently, in front of her house). which curfew dem dey enforce reach people door mouth. na juju wey no dey see people dem wan carry?

donbachi:
Why are they attacking him..when karma knows his father is a nigerian politician...since dem born una,una don ever see a nigerian politicians child become somebody for dis life?agwui ironsi,ahmadu bello,tafawa balewa,azikiwe,obasanjo,buhari,babangida,yar'aduas, and co,down to ur various states...name one.pls,i stand to be corrected.

Saraki (Papa ruled ilorin politics for so long and the children really tried their own too)
Otedola (sebi you know)
Awolowo (his children are all over the place in terms of personal achievements)
Adedibu (his son is or was a senator)
Adelabu (his son worked in central bank and later contested for Oyo state governorship)
Adeyinka Adebayo (His son became Ekiti State Governor)
Asiodu (his daughter na one big babe for one of the big America owned oil companies in Nigeria)
Umaru Dikko (his son works in a big oil company)

I believe there are several others.

Mummyfour:
this whole thing is just paining me. I could use 50k to add value to my business which I am looking for and one goat had to dash one fake man of God a whopping 210k to do rubbish. God abeg pick my calls. Rituals and sharp sharp deals is never the best at all. Now wetin Dem gain. If I catch that guy,I will slap him first for misusing the money people are fasting day and night for to start a legit hustle

I followed you. Follow me back so we can talk in private. All the best.