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Favemmzar200: Love? You only find that once in a while with this type of people. I can take a bet that this so called marriage was as a result of "boy had casual sex with one random girl and the girl got pregnant, so they decided to start leaving together" or "girl had nowhere to stay and boy saw an opportunity for free sex, so they start living together" |
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emmanuel596: ![]() ![]() ![]() I think the goats in the post above yours do not agree with your assertion. 1 Like |
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merits: As per the image on your comment sir, I think it depends on how you see it. I am intrigued by the picture even though it is not related to the topic. The straight nail will be hammered because it is the destiny of nails to be hammered before they can achieve their purpose. In other words, the crooked/bent nails will escape being hammered but also escape their destiny. If they are lucky, someone will take interest in them, straighten them out by hammering them then hammer them again to achieve their purpose/destiny. In short, according to Robert Mugabe nails wey wan escape hammer dey play with their destiny. ![]() |
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SaveMeLord: This is a big problem in the world today. You have not come out to tell us of the specific excesses of your parent. You are just assuming and you are already preparing to be defensive and to carry your weight alone. Try to be a good member of any society (home/office/church/community) that gives more that he takes from the system and you will see that this problem will disappear or at least it will no longer be as big as it sounds right now. When I was in 300L/400L, I had no native wears so I usually run home to my father's wardrobe to borrow native wears when I had to go for weddings or similar functions. The thing is that I will always give the clothe to the laundry man before I return it to daddy's wardrobe. And this happens whether I picked the native from the laundry basket or from his wardrobe. I didn't know that daddy was impressed until my brother borrowed his shoes and refused to return it. Try these: If you don't have a car and you have to borrow you papa car, make sure you refill the gas tank. You will be surprised that they will beg you to take the car every time you want to go out. Take the car to the car wash once in a while if you're too big to wash it yourself. Go to the kitchen once in a while to gist with your mummy and do things without being asked. If possible, initiate and sponsor some special meals once in a while if you can afford it. Drive your mummy to the market or just follow her even if you people have to take public transport. You will be shocked at what you will hear from her. Where are your younger ones? "Bribe" them, and your house-helps if you have them, (in cash and kind) before the need for it arises. Your gift will make a way for you at some point. If you stay in your room alone, make sure that taking care of that room is your responsibility and that your being around does not burden anyone (even if you people have house maids). Now this depends on how you people are brought up. Every once in a while, take care of some responsibilities in the house - rent, bills, maintenance, etc. Even if there are no opportunities for these, look for what you can do to "pay rent" in kind. This applies to anywhere you find yourself. Even though you are staying with your people, treat them as well as you would love to be treated, don't take them for granted but don't forget that you are their son. 7 Likes |
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Themainboy22: On a lighter note, You wouldn't recognize the poster with the nude(?) picture if you saw her outside, but you would recognize her face if she had posted it. Just thinking o. Merry Christmas 2 Likes |
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madjune: I doubt it sir. This one is most likely a geologist, engineer or something similar. He worked with Gulf/Chevron. 1 Like |
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talktrue1234: Be careful with that game o. Before you know it, one woman will be telling you about how you used and dumped her. Ask for help if you need it but don't do it because of some other person's unrealistic expectations. If you're single and you are able to stand on your own, that shouldn't be anybody's problem. 1 Like |
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XANDERO85: make you kuku call am EOS - Equal Opportunity Slapper ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
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ThatFairGuy1: Respect begets respect. Men in uniform that are being respected in other countries get the respect because they are not know for using their uniform oppress citizens. The respect is in appreciation of their service. By the way, which emergency assignment are you talking about? If he has personal emergency, he should learn how to negotiate with people. The uniform is not for his personal advantage. Using the uniform for personal advantage is corruption. That is what led us here. |
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Your thread reminds me of those days of Yahoo Chat, collegeclub.com, onlinenigeria and even the chatroom on Nigerian Guardian's website. First question used to be "a/s/l?" meaning what's your age/sex/location. Anyway, enjoy your thread. |
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post=94039248: One of our problems in Nigeria is that we often tackle wrong problems or sometimes just part of the problem in a manner that leaves loopholes for people that want to steal. They should simply train their employees not to accept gifts from passengers. period. Unfortunately, hunger and ethics are 2 parallel lines |
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zuma4k: I am not a banker or a lawyer but I'm not sure if any bank will honor what you described as the express mandate. What would have helped is a co-signatory status with the mandate that "either may sign". This would have helped the wife. The other thing that could have helped is a will. I guess, the wife will wait till the will is executed before having access to such money though. My mandate to my wife is that if anything happens to me, she should move any and every money in the accounts to which I have made her co-signatory. Then she can relax and cry for as long as she wants. I trust my family but I just have to avoid stories or at least let her be in a comfortable position while the story is going on. |
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SweetJoystick: Can you please tell us one reason why you think Adeboye would be affected by CAMA. Just one reason. PS: I'm not a member of RCCG or any one man church so I'm not defending anyone. I just want to be sure that your statement has some basis, even if it's not totally correct. |
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2cribz: You see generator, pump water, fetch water and you still dey think say na Yankee? I doubt it. |
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tym92: The wedding certificate from the LICENSED CHURCH is as valid as a certificate issued by the court. Typically, a church can only issue a wedding certificate if it is licensed (by government) to do so. A Church that doesn't have that license would request that you bring a wedding certificate from the court. If you get a wedding certificate from a church that is not licensed, the certificate is not on less authentic but it may be invalid. Unfortunately, you wouldn't know until there's an issue. If your church did not send you to post any notice at the local registry or to bring anything from the registry before your wedding, please ask questions to confirm if your wedding certificate is valid. |
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ChizzyBuna: I am almost impressed with your imagination. I just have a few observations. By the way, I'm not talking as a christian (which I am), I'm just looking at some inconsistencies in your story. I use numbers but I listed them in no particular order. 1. ChizzyBuna: Was there even abortion at that time? 2. ChizzyBuna:Please tell us about the prophecy that said Jesus had a "destiny to be born of a roman father". You don't even need to prove it. just quote/mention the prophecy 3. It is a conclusive contradiction when you said a tragedy was "turned to be the greatest blessing in disguise. Showing how God works in mysterious ways". Which blessing or mysterious ways are you alluding to? That Jesus came to die for the sin of the world? ![]() 4. Why was Mary singled out for protection from ridicule? was she the only virgin that was raped at that time? My conclusion is that you should please leave us alone to believe what we believe. You are equally free to believe what you say you believe. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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Ijawwomaninoyo: Auntie, I will call that "man who sleeps with over ten ladies at a time, boasts of using ladies once outside at the same time, and nicknamed himself BANGALEE boasting of his prowess in banging women" an OLOSHO, ManWhore anything but not a rapist. what will you call him ma? I'm not a fan of D'Banj. I can't even remember a word or tune from any of his music but let us fear God and at least be objective. Anyway, what will you call him? A rapist? 4 Likes |
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Righteousness89: Who "blessed" Isaac's marriage? Who blessed Jacob's marriage? Moses' marriage nko? Who blessed Ruth's marriage to Boaz? We may not read about some of David's marriage but who blessed his marriages to Abigail (Nabal's widow) or to Bathsheba? I'm not a fan of Reno but this one is very true. Only God can deliver us from this man-made yoke. 5 Likes |
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MiVida: One of the most important issues surrounding rape is based on the difficulty in gauging or confirming “CONSENT”. That is why some of the most common statements from rapist and their supporters are “it was consensual sex”, “I did not force her”, “why did she not shout for help?”, “why did she not report immediately?”, “what was she doing alone with a man that is not a relative?”. Rape is often associated with physical violence but the perpetrator can equally use the power of psychological manipulation, power and position among other things to subdue the victim. Examples? Your house-help or ward sees no other place to turn when you asked for sex. She stands the risk of losing her shelter and maybe more. So, she gives in and even moaned rather than cry or shout for help during the session. It is still rape. Be warned. Continue the rape if you want but don't say you did it out of ignorance. 3 Likes |
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Rape is often associated with physical violence, but can rape still occur if there was no physical violence or any form of struggle between the parties? Can’t the perpetrator use psychological manipulation, power and position among other things to subdue the victim? Examples? A minor cannot give consent. It doesn’t matter if she didn’t shout or if she came back for more. It is rape. Period. You may end up having consensual sex with your student (or subordinate in the office) that travelled kilometres or even drove herself all the way to meet you in the hotel room, but you may have coerced the consent. It is rape. Your house-help or ward sees no other place to turn when you asked for sex. She stands the risk of losing her shelter and maybe more. So, she gives in and even moaned rather than cry or shout for help during the session. It is rape. She sees you as a man of God and couldn’t believe what you were up to when she knew what you were up to. She was mesmerized by the power you wield around you. She gave in didn’t want to “offend God” and kept quiet because she didn’t want to “ruin your ministry”. It is rape. Now let’s talk about marriage. It can be safely assumed that sex is expected to occur in marriage between 2 consenting adults. The lines between negotiation, coercion, consent, rough play and role-playing may even get blurry. If the woman is having sex with her husband because the man may withhold monthly allowances, is it rape? If the woman is having sex with her husband because she’s afraid the man may go out for sex, is it rape? If the woman is having sex with her husband because the man is a mafia Don that can do and undo, is it rape? We may debate on the scenarios above. However, one clearly unambiguous case of rape in marriage may be when there is physical assault or violence before or during sexual intercourse. Unfortunately, some folks also swing this way and it becomes difficult to prove that the two parties did not plan for the drama. Rape in marriage is extremely sensitive and delicate. It is a coin with two sides but with “tails” on both sides for the victim (male or female). On one hand, the responsibility is on the victim to report the first occurrence of rape in marriage, so that subsequent occasions of rape may not be misconstrued by the perpetrator or the system as a normal husband and wife matter. On the other hand, who will believe him/her the first time? They will tell the victim not to allow the devil to use them to scatter their own home. My conclusion is that "the fact that you have not experienced it does not mean that the people that said they have experienced it are lying". 1 Like |
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obonujoker: Make this man leave me and my landlord. 1. the landlord is the lord/owner of the land 2. Sarah must have committed a big sin because he called Abraham her husband "my lord". 3. All lawyers are sinners because they address a human being as "my lord" in the court room 4. and if the name dey pain the pastor make he no worry. That is why Jesus Christ is the Lord of lords. 1 Like |
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https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2020/may/george-floyd-ministry-houston-third-ward-church.html I think I should drop this link connecting him with other things apart from porn here. There is no justification for anyone to be killed like that. 1 Like |
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ken711: I'm sorry but it looks like you just set up a business center for her o. if you know, you know. By the way, you're not a mumu. You are just a masochist. You won't be trying to date a lady you just described if you don't enjoy heartaches and pain. 1 Like |
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Ezennwa: She has no right to lay her hands on a policeman... but do you think the police had a right to lay hands on her because he was enforcing curfew? She said she was eating "in her house". Even if she wasn't inside her room, how likely is it that she would be breaking the curfew where she was eating? I'm not supporting her but I just don't think the police man is the innocent party in this matter. 2 Likes |
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Perfecttouchade: Bros, e go better for you plenty. The woman kept shouting that the man slapped her while she was eating in her house (apparently, in front of her house). which curfew dem dey enforce reach people door mouth. na juju wey no dey see people dem wan carry? 5 Likes 1 Share |
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donbachi: Saraki (Papa ruled ilorin politics for so long and the children really tried their own too) Otedola (sebi you know) Awolowo (his children are all over the place in terms of personal achievements) Adedibu (his son is or was a senator) Adelabu (his son worked in central bank and later contested for Oyo state governorship) Adeyinka Adebayo (His son became Ekiti State Governor) Asiodu (his daughter na one big babe for one of the big America owned oil companies in Nigeria) Umaru Dikko (his son works in a big oil company) I believe there are several others. |
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Mummyfour: I followed you. Follow me back so we can talk in private. All the best. |
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