₦airaland Forum

ikeno:
I can't envision why ladies find it so difficult to spend a dime of their money on their boyfriend

You neva jam woman wey love you..u will know women spend recklessly for men they love if they have my girlfriend now my wife spent recklessly sotey har friends and family think say na jazz..now she is enjoying the home we built together. Won't even think twice to spend on her.

I dont have many friends but the few I have would go the whole length for each other...we lift each other up and we are all millionaires. We are already laying the foundations to be billionaires.

I can do without alcohol for weeks to months but when I see I consume it like say tomorrow dey...I can't do without nacking woman so my woman must always be close by if not I go find persin wey go fill the gap.. I don't smoke.

Minime10:
Akeredolu passes on.
May his Soul Rest in Peace.
All the struggles has ended
The powers
The influences
The certificates, Degrees & Titles
The much cherrished skin will now becomes termites food.
The luxury cars and mansions is of no use any more to the dead.
All the swags and protocols of office has ended.
All the security details and guards have abandon H.E to die and none would ever want to follow him to the after life.
What lesson are we learning from here?
It could be me or you tomorrow.
Do you realised you will die one day and you will also leave all those things you value so much behind
I believed if those people who love the goodies of political office so much had allowed the man to stay back in Germany and follow through his treatment, maybe, just maybe this death wouldn't have happen now. But because they love power so much and as such, they must drag a sick man back home just because of their parochial selfish interest and now they have lost all.
Let us live as though we know we will die one day.
Rest on Sir.

This sickness really dealt with this man...May his soul rest in peace. How are we even sure we are not the ones living in the land of the dead and those who are gone are living in the land of the living?

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Tell her that's what you can afford atm as God blesses u u would add more. If she no gree tel her the doors is wide open to leave..u av a long way to go.

JohnNgene:
Fellow Nigerians, I used to buy this sugar N50 (fifty naira) but when I went to buy it today, the woman selling it told me that it is now N100 (one hundred naira).

E shock me o! That is why I said let me come to Nairaland and ask all of you if the price has changed in your area too.

What is really happening in Nigeria biko?

Growing up this sugar na 5 naira

Reason why most children hardly remember home..u go see them dey do dorime for club but their mama get table for roadside.

ijustdey:
https://www.thecable.ng/single-window-43-items-contactless-payment-major-policies-of-cbn-in-2023/amp

2023 wa crazy watched how dollars skyrocketed from 539 to over 1300 naira

Keepamsafe:
I feel so sad and devastated. Why are ladies treating good men like this

Today, I had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.

Luckily, we met and had our date and I spent roughly 45k I borrowed from loan app and still gave her 5k for pocket money and yet, she refused to follow me home.

Im home now, lying in bed alone and sad.

Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today because i wanted to build soul connection. yet I gained nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not even sex and im now in debt, broke like a church rat and no woman to console me. I feel scammed.

Im in a dilemma. help please.

You behaved foolishly....a fool and his money are soon parted.

Chineloani:
https://www.quora.com/profile/Ike-Ani/VIDEO-Woman-Hangs-Herself-After-Killing-Her-Children-WATCH-THE-VIDEO-HERE-https-www-gistpark-com-ng-2023-12-vid?ch=15&oid=141781091&share=e45af9de&srid=EeHeq&target_type=post

See fine woman going to waste.

babaYIBO:
Just saw a thread where a guy is complaining about his friend not telling him about the fact that he was building his house, and I see a lot of comments complaining condemning the said friend.

https://www.nairaland.com/7892469/he-completed-house-without-uttering

Funny how people exact same thing happened to me last year, this time it wasn’t a from a friend but a blood sister who I thought loved me the way I do for her.

This woman was building her house while pretending to everyone that she was broke.

Funniest thing is, few weeks to moving to us getting to know about the house, she was asking me to lend her 300k as she has plenty debts to pay. Almost sent her 100k, but then I remembered how she prefers to party with her women associates more than she’s willing to buy anything for my parents. This is someone that my dad built and opened shop for.

If a friend do this to me now, walahi I won’t be surprised.

I don't blame her...u see sibling diverting the money send from abroad by their fellow siblings abroad..them go dey chop life dey carry woman..go lodge if dem get sense even build house in their own name..the painful thing is u go dey abroad dey hustle out your ass and one person dey do dorime with your money.

abhosts:
This is good news for crypto bros. P2P would now become less prevalent because exchanges can now sell directly to customers.

e go sweet die..those p2p guys dey add 100 naira to 400naira even more to buy usdt or busd. Now e go dey at standard rate...Good buy to pop...cbn wan kill am..now u go be either holder...spot trader...yield farming...or futures trader..or smart contract founder.

Rrchrd:
One of the worst things that happened to man to make him feel like commiting suicide is if he lost his job.

I just lost my job ( Porter in a hotel ) on Wednesday I've been using to manage life since then I've been feeling depresse, like given up life, I can't even eat & even praying for God to take my life bc I suffered before I got that job I lost.

What is paininng me most is
1.) that I didn't do anything bad they just sacked me just bc a guest reported me to Director that I saw her holded food in a tray to go & mirowave & I didn't collect the food from her or open door for her
Whereby normally she suppose to have call room service & I was attainning to other guest.

2.) I'm been sacked @ a very wrong time I'm planning to go & see my mum this Xmas but now I don't know what to do bc I don't wanto go there sorrowful so she won't feel sorrowful too.

3.) I'm not even sure they will pay me atleast half month salary.

Some ppl are devil's In human form.

dre11:
https://leadership.ng/hoodlums-attack-loot-bus-carrying-christmas-gifts-for-ibadan-mogajis/

The emilokan mentality...any which way na way...they learnt well.

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

Since money isn't a problem...bring them and stop stressing your mum and sibling...where is their mum.

There is nothing in this life..na doing good to ur neighbour baff....work....chop...Bleep...die

It's going to increase with the rise if the cost of medication and many foreign pharma closing shop in the country.

EleventhWeirdo:
You paid bribe to bastardize the efficiency and effectiveness of the public service, yet you complain that the country is working for only an ultra minority. You lots are angry because you don't have the means to be among the privileged few, not because you give a heck about justice or societal equity

you are very correct ppl don't know that's something are not proper until they are at the receiving end...its sweet to need something and cos u know somebody u jump queue but when it's In other area u have no influence you begin blow grammar saying corruption...injustice

reedone:
I want to Japa abroad and I have set my mind on either Australia or Canada as I noticed the popularity and all. But my question now is that how do I go about the passport part. I stay in kaduna and I plan to go to the immigration office but the thing is I want to know what I should before going there so as not to look or sound like a noob and get myself cheated or scammed.
Please those who has done their passport please help me and explain the processes to me thanks.




NB: PLEASE SCAMMERS STAY AWAY AS I WON'T REPLY TO YOU THANKS.

Passport is very easy to get this days..can't remember the document but the nin slip is very important and it must tally with the name on your birth certificate also go with state of origin cert

lamikas:
I need help concerning my relationship which I'm not sure still stands. My guy and I have been dating for a year and half now and he his a very caring and great guy. He his Muslim and I'm a Christian and we both agreed to do our religion without hindering one another. We hardly fight and we settle our quarrels almost immediately.
Recently, my guy and I had a quarrel about communication which I kinda complain to him and I notice he just acted non challant towards and wasn't even trying to correct or amend. This lasted for like 3 wks and we barely talked during those period ( longest we've ever had to quarrel). He would not call me and if I called he would give excuses of different kinds especially " I slept off". Anyways we settled and I went to his place for the weekends but then I decided to go to work from his house the following week. I wasn't feeling sleepy that Sunday night and i decided to play some games on my fone but it was low so I used my guys charger and unplugged his fone. I decide d to play with his instead. Mind u I don't go tru his fone cos I trust him and I don't really think it is necessary but he goes tru mine every single time I come visiting. That's why he didn't change his password I guess, cos he felt save.
I decided to check his Whatsapp and the first message I clicked on was a contact that wasn't saved on his fone. I read the message and found out my guy was cheating on me with a girl he claimed was like a younger sister to him. This guy barely takes pics and funny enough I don't have any recent pics of him. If I take a picture of us or him alone, he would delete it from my fone without my knowledge. And yet he sent the girl his recent pic. I was heartbroken when I read their chat but didn't do anything till the next day. I called him after I got back from work and confronted him, he didn't deny, he only said and I quote " what gave u the right read my chat? And besides I know what I'm doing, I'm not stupid. What if I'm just using her to pass time, u are just overreacting towards this tin". While we were still arguing, I told him I was done with him, that we are over. he seem shocked then after a while cut the call and in annoyance, I blocked him in every place I could. Then I unblocked him after two days but he didn't call back or text.
Now my I'm wondering if I overreacted in that situation. We were already planning to get married next year. maybe I shouldn't have blocked him. Maybe he his into her becos she's a hijabi.

Let me tell you the truth...he was looking for opportunity to break up with you. He couldn't come up with a good reason...and u did the blocking yourself..perfect plan for him..now he will ease into this new found freedom and focus on the hijabi..its hurtful but u mustnt cry over spilt milk..move on and stop wasting your time with him. If u agree to accept him the knacking go continue but it will end nowhere.

Games
Indomie
8 to 5/ 6 to 7 jobs
Making promises
Trusting ppl

The most annoying thing is baba misplacing his British passport Nd going to get a replacement and him being told he won't be given another cos he was wasting govt properties..am also very sure baba don show many white babes shege during his time.

Jewessgratitud3:
LoL 😂😂😂.

Though the first girl that swam in it I guess over did it, they both did the do.

absolutely

Jewessgratitud3:
There's this lady I've been trying to bring into my kind of job, so she's been coming to me for training against next term.

Now she happened to let me into her past and her sad encounter with men. I try as much to encourage her. She now asked me a question about body count and I really don't have any idea how these things are rated. So I told her would get back to her on that.

She asked if 6 Body count is too much for a lady her age. She also explained that for most of the men, the sexual experience was just a few times like twice and the others once before it hits the rocks.

So is it too much or not?

Modified
Look, all these men saying they don't believe women, are you yourselves trustworthy? Women are more truthful if you ask me and if for some reasons they are no longer like before, you men caused it.

Aside from the spiritual aspect body count means nothing..a girl can date a guy and they have sex over 120 times in a year at say averagely 10 times per month could be more and they break up. a girl can have 4 relationships in a year each lasting a month to 3 month and might have sex 2 to 3 times before each break up that's 12 times who do you think has used herself more..the first gal..my own be say make one lady no bring bad luck becos of the spirit she don catch from multiple knocking from different ppl

Now una don dey miss buhari...is this life not strange.

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

If she is between 35to 45she fit reason you but less than that..she feels she still has a shot...at premium guys. Don't do it except u are ready to gamble with ur job...I remember my very first job as a fresh graduate was 300k monthly yet I was single and I didnt appreciate the job cos I felt it was taking away valuable time to do other things so I often resumed work 30 to 1 hr late was ready to loose the job cos I knew I would get another within a week..if u are ready to gamble go for it. But not wise.

FreeStuffsNG:
Lagos to demolish more illegal structures across the state



https://nairametrics.com/2023/12/16/lagos-to-demolish-more-illegal-structures-across-the-state/?amp=1

Na to dey buy govt built properties..I no wan dey her stories...

PrinceOfLagos:
I'm a free spirited person and want to send something to my boss for Christmas. Is it appropriate to tell him to send me his account number let me send him something for Christmas even when I know he doesn't need it?

Can only do it if I no send my boss...some employee carry pass oga o dem just dey disguise.

BrodaBenad:
if you're reading this and you voted APC na Ogun and Amadioha go strike you

let me add to this prayer..if u were recruited to thumb print..snatch ballot boxes...jam server by the awalokun crew...May hunger never leave your household.

fadilaMaikiriki:
I really want to learn how to drive.Please, can someone learn how to drive with a glk 4matic jeep? I have a friend who has who has a glk 4matic jeep. I would like to know if one can learn how to drive with it. Will it be more difficult learning how to drive with these types of vehicles? Or is it advisable to learn smaller cars? I really want to know how to drive.


What's your suggestions or opinions on this?

You can lear with any car but not advisable..cos if u bash the car na serious money to repair.

LooneyLester:
They're mostly okosho




Most of them collect preek from different apes

Yes cele by day...olosho by night..them like to dey wear beads..if u Bleep up dem lock up ur destiny after knacking dem

Nigerian need to read the book outliers...and learn that some jobs shouldn't be done for life...some are only good to keep body and soul together.