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First of, I am a Christian. And I walk with Jesus according to His power.

So a long time ago before the parties began selecting their representatives, I was praying, and in a trance, I saw an elevated podium like a pulpit, with a broom on it, and a man from the eastern part of Nigeria kinda round headed took the broom off the pulpit and left with it.

Secondly, I had a dream that there were two major people vying for a minsterial position. The tussle was between the one from the North and South. The South won and there was jubilation both home, and abroad.

Now today, I had a vision, that the first year of the one from the South won't be rosy, ( but it will be better from the remaining years), but there is a betrayer like a personal assistant, and that one will be exposed.

To buttress my point, before the reelection of PMB, when folks were all about Atikulate, I had a dream, people gathered together in a Government owned school, looking for Atiku to show up, and he didn't.
Then the people left in dismay.
That's how I knew Atiku wouldn't enter.

I will say Jesus is the way , and true life. Follow Him to have good life. See how u dey blast 50k on top sex, and that 50 k could be used for better thangs that will better your life.

A sinful life is a wasteful life.

Oluwashina72:
Someone help my guy....

My urge for sex whenever I'm with money is killing me. I'm into long relationship, my gf will be through with school in two years to come, 300level, writing exams, going to 400level.

I'm done with school, working and also stay alone but anytime konji hold me... Na to run to ashewo joint to kill my konji and na overnight..

I tried having a side chick but is not working... With this "ASUU" wahala she's able to write her exam in her school because her school didn't join the strike "ekpoma"...

"Hmmm everybody with hin own wahala na my own be that oo"

You quoted Matthew 5 vs 27, but forgot Matthew 15 vs 19.

Guy, you have a lot to learn. You do not know.

Kobojunkie:
Please stop using the name of Jesus Christ to peddle your lies. Jesus Christ never said anything about fornication being sin to begin with so your claim that a masturbator can be categorized as fornication according to Jesus Christ's teachings is baseless.

Instead what Jesus Christ referred to as sexual sin is the Sexual lust in your hearts also referred to as adultery - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28, masturbation being merely one of many physical acts that may follow the sin itself. So, one who masturbates is not guilty of sin because he masturbates, instead, he is guilty of the sin of sexual lust - adultery- and his heart is where the sin is committed, not his body or genitals.

As for your "spirit of masturbation", please stop parroting the foolishness of your many pastors and mogs who spread what are mostly again ideas using the name of Jesus Christ. An addiction to masturbation is like any other addiction, a mental problem that is to be treated much like every other addiction out there be it to gambling, drugs or even sniffing women's underwear, and rather than approach it by filling the heads of the patients with lies, it is best to speak the Truth to them so they understand that the problem stems from their lack of mental discipline in those areas.

Those cats represent people. If you substitute the cats for people, and white for honesty or plain, then you understand your dream

peggywebbs:
Yes, I'm an emphath.

To understand your dream correctly. You said you gave someone egg right?
Then when the person collected it, it beoke in his hands right?

If that is what you meant.

Then that one is going to be careless with what is delicate and useful that is going to be placed in his hands or already placed in his hands.

Kenpaly:
Good day all,yestaday in my dream i gave a man egg but when he move a little distance 4rm me the egg mistakenly fell down and break. Please i need an explanation about this.the man is even a leader in CCRN. PLS HELP ME EXPLAIN IT.

Miss Peggy, do you see yourself as someone that cares a lot for people?

peggywebbs:
I've had two dreams about cats of late and it's worrisome. I don't have any pet and if I'm getting one, it's definitely not a cat.

Anyway the first dream I was feeding a cat from my plate. While at it, my cousin came to collect it, saying it's her sister's own.

The second dream this came like 6 months after or even more. This time I was looking to buy a white cat.

I was very particular about it being white. Next I'm in a pet shop with lots of cats.. some looking stunted, old, clean dirty. Point is I was surrounded by cats, looking for a white cat. Also I forgot to add, I saw this cousin's mother in the dream. So I don't know if it's unrelated.

Now that's creepy...but on a serious note, should I be worried? Christians I need interpretation inspired by the Holy Spirit.

I will also add to the comment of the man before me. In addy to appreciation, develop muscles. Who go look scars when packs dey ground?

Jesus is a counselor. Seek His counsel

Blessedmercy8:
I created a post some days back about a man that came to me for remedy for erectile dysfunction and how he later said if the issue is resolved, we can get married. I laughed it off.

I also mentioned how he proceeded to know more about me beyond the biz and all that.

Now, just when I thought it would stop at that, he's gone further to chatting me up on a more private level and hammering seriously on the marriage.

What do I tell him now?

He seem like a nice guy but I'm just scared cos of the manner of his approach. I hope he's not pretending or even lying.

He's 40, meaning I'm a year older but he doesn't know my age yet and he looks older than me. Though he's a young man.

I'm confused cos I don't know where this thing is carrying me to. I'm also scared because of something he said. That maybe... God used this condition to tame him to save him from trouble. So I'm wondering what if he gets cured, is he going to be the randy type? Judging from his tribe again. I'm not comfortable but.... This chat right here suggests something I don't like about men.

Is it normal to be saying that?

Take kunu drink and groundnuts consistently, with abstinence from sex till marriage ; you will be glad.

Oregbe17:
What herbal remedies are you on the lookout for?
Some people recommended dates+coconut+tigetnut.
I haven't really been a relationship but I know PE might come knocking if I don't desist from masturbation.

Leave it like that. I saw one lady one time with dark lips, and dark skinned. That girl was a beauty to behold.

She is not divorcing you.

Go and get yourself together.

And clear your debts, and stop borrowing.
Live according to your level.

She is not divorcing you.

Go and get yourself together.

And clear your debts, and stop borrowing.
Live according to your level.

Op.

I will just address your moral code of giving to be blessed.
It's true.

But what you don't know is that people are grounds, as well as people are floods, as well as people are ravenous beast.

Using the above analogy, now analyse placing bread ( seed ) in the mouth of those above listed categories.

It happens.

The people that experiences just term it wild fantasies.


Haven't you heard someone became a spoke person for big foot?

Run to Jesus, and let His blood purge you..Then go and sin no more.

SerikiFulani:
Hi nairalanders

I need your opinions on this please.

What a life

I make money but I'm addicted to weed, alcohol and sex....I can't help it at all....What makes it worse is the money I spend on sex alone....What I spend on sex in a month alone would buy a brand new car.

I have a notoriously high libido that I can't go a day without having sex and my sperm is healthy and always thick.

Funny thing is when I try to stay off weed, alcohol and sex,I get depressed....Once I'm back to the habit, depression is gone but I fear for my health and my money...

I hate paying for sex but nowadays everything is transactional....Even some married women do bill their husbands before sex.

Another thing I don't fvck ugly women...I love my woman facially beautiful,sexy and neat from a decent home too wink Not these ratchet ass hoes who're available for every nigga undecided

Hmmm,truly life ain't a bed of roses angry

If you are a Christian, watch over her in prayer

Davies25:
Hello familylanders,
I have a 3 year old girl who's my life. She's cute, good and almost perfect.
But recently, I've discovered she's intentionally being disobedient. Like, you literally have to threaten her sometimes to do somethings. People say she's spoilt but i don't see that element in her. I just see a growing girl. She doesn't overdo things.

The reason for this thread be say...
Uhm, my girl likes to cuddle, she likes to be touched, more like a cat �. I didn't see anything sexual in it until my baby was Caught Kissing a 4 year old male. My heart has been paining me since then. Have i failed as a father?
The mom wanted me to scold her or even beat her but I've been confused. Does she know it's a sexual act or she just saw someone doing it?
Can my baby understand sex education at 3?
What should be my reaction?
I'm lost really.

Iyanma.

If this is true, then it is a confirmation the world is truly evil.

Better hide in Jesus, for safety.

Hope all is not just to get down with a girl?

Secondly, do you masturbate?

Because those enagage in masturbation are very very intimidated talking to a girl.

Thirdly, you need to be close to Jesus, and let Him work on your personality.
Because If you go like this will you end up with a red simP card.

Just sit down and reason.

If na two orphans wey you give 111k school fee scholarship, for college of education ; don't you think it will pave smooth path for you, and won't be a waste?

See how you waste 111k on someone wey be like say dem beg force am go date with you.

Sometimes make una dey reason.


Guy you are simp in the true biblical sense.

Biblical wisdom is golden.

Say no to fornication.
Say no to you are wise in your own opinion.

It is being wise in your own opinion, not God's that brought about all these chaos.

The thing is over there are opportunities for jobs one can do, if laziness ain't in your blood.
And payment per hour.

Why scam for goodness sake?

Godliness with contentment is great gain

He groomed that huge bush meat to get killed by it.

Oh.
Well if they follow my comments on other topics, they will get to know I am no simp.

Jovialjune1:
They will soon call you a simp, simple basic logic is usually far from them, that is how daft they are.

A woman who respects you when you cheat on her has a problem with self esteem.

And a woman who disrespects a man that is loyal to her is for the streets.

Be loyal, and have a loyal spouse.
That's being blessed.

She is not the most beautiful, definitely.
Neither is He.

But developing together and being loyal is the key.

Nothing wrong so ever in what he said.
He was not insulting in whatever he said.

Anyone who tells you are the most beautiful, na lie e dey lie.
You don't have to be the best looking to get loyalty.

Beauty is vain.
A woman or man who fears the Lord shall be praised.

She needs work to do on herself.
Till then put a pause on wifing her.

Don't mind having a relationship with one with more cool and cosy attitude.

Save1soul:
Nairaland family, help a bro here, I had to open another account to post this, pls read till the end.

I have been dating this girl for more than 3 years, I will say that I have been experiencing hell fire in the past 1 year and 6 month. I know no one is perfect but the problem is too much.

She have some good sides every man will cherish, she appears decent and well brought up, but here are the problem.

1. She gets angry easily. This is a problem to our relationship because we can't have a normal conservation without quarrel, like we quarrel almost every 2 days.

2. Recently she talks to me disrespectful: if there is any small argument or disagreement among us, she talks to me like her jnr sister, not minding or caring how I feel.

3. Anytime we have a fight, she gives me the silent treatment for days and I end up apologizing even when she is wrong. When I remember her good side, I want to make peace and beg her.

4. Most times when we argue, I try telling her that I am a man and i won't take some things she does. This statement " I am a man" gets her provoke. She complained against me using that statement.

5. She does not want to be scolded, she doesn't want me to complain about wrongs she does, she believes with complains about her behavior, her self esteem will be affected. She confessed to me of having an ego.

In one of the arguments, she said I make her regret saying yes to me. Just last week, we had a small disagreement; I tried helping her recover something and since I was not able to do that, I told her I will still try and her response got me angry, she didn't appreciate the fact that I was trying, that got me angry.

I uploaded a female friends picture on WhatsApp and wished her happy birthday, my girlfriend screenshot the pic, sent it to me mocking me, calling me immature, saying that I am not mature, that if I post 100 female pictures, it won't disturb her.

This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Early this year, she phycologically abused me, she knew that I love her so much, so she was playing games with my emotions, today she will act like she is angry with me and not talk to me, when I beg she will calm to forgive me, tomorrow she will continue same thing, until she stopped when I got her in the game.

I will take all the insults, Nairaland family, what do I do here.

Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
ROMANS 6 : 4

As a believer who is in Christ Jesus, we are expected by God to walk in newness of life by His Spirit ( the glory of the Father ).
Not in the old, sinful, defeated, hopeless, fearful life.

How do we walk in this newness of life by the Holy Spirit?
By the words of God in the testament of His Christ.
For The Lord said the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.
And also that is words are spirit and life.
When you spend time with the word, you are also spending time with the Holy Spirit.
And when you are receiving the word into you, you are receiving the strength of the Spirit into you.
Haven't you even read that the word of God is the sword of the Spirit?

I remember a time I was praying that Holy Spirit should manifest Himself to me. While at it, I happened to see a vision of the scarlet covered bible I use, and from it's pages, I saw vapour looking smoke coming out.
And I remembered as well that a time I dreamt a man of God saying, "Spending time with the word of God is spending time with the Spirit."
That same day I happened to come across that same man of God in the Tele saying the exact same words.

Now ask yourself this question.
Am I being transformed into what Christ wants me to really be, or I am a mould of what the world wants me to be, and what they think I am?

Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
ROMANS 6 : 4

As a believer who is in Christ Jesus, we are expected by God to walk in newness of life by His Spirit ( the glory of the Father ).
Not in the old, sinful, defeated, hopeless, fearful life.

How do we walk in this newness of life by the Holy Spirit?
By the words of God in the testament of His Christ.
For The Lord said the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.
And also that is words are spirit and life.
When you spend time with the word, you are also spending time with the Holy Spirit.
And when you are receiving the word into you, you are receiving the strength of the Spirit into you.
Haven't you even read that the word of God is the sword of the Spirit?

I remember a time I was praying that Holy Spirit should manifest Himself to me. While at it, I happened to see a vision of the scarlet covered bible I use, and from it's pages, I saw vapour looking smoke coming out.
And I remembered as well that a time I dreamt a man of God saying, "Spending time with the word of God is spending time with the Spirit."
That same day I happened to come across that same man of God in the Tele saying the exact same words.

Now ask yourself this question.
Am I being transformed into what Christ wants me to really be, or I am a mould of what the world wants me to be, and what they think I am?

Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
ROMANS 6 : 4

As a believer who is in Christ Jesus, we are expected by God to walk in newness of life by His Spirit ( the glory of the Father ).
Not in the old, sinful, defeated, hopeless, fearful life.

How do we walk in this newness of life by the Holy Spirit?
By the words of God in the testament of His Christ.
For The Lord said the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.
And also that is words are spirit and life.
When you spend time with the word, you are also spending time with the Holy Spirit.
And when you are receiving the word into you, you are receiving the strength of the Spirit into you.
Haven't you even read that the word of God is the sword of the Spirit?

I remember a time I was praying that Holy Spirit should manifest Himself to me. While at it, I happened to see a vision of the scarlet covered bible I use, and from it's pages, I saw vapour looking smoke coming out.
And I remembered as well that a time I dreamt a man of God saying, "Spending time with the word of God is spending time with the Spirit."
That same day I happened to come across that same man of God in the Tele saying the exact same words.

Now ask yourself this question.
Am I being transformed into what Christ wants me to really be, or I am a mould of what the world wants me to be, and what they think I am?

Which church do you attend together?

Go for counselling together there.
Or invite pastor and his wife to your home to counsel you both.

Pinkie2018:
Please I have a problem in my marriage. I need advice. Pls no insult.
I got married 2020 and did the court Marriage last month. My husband has been a wonderful husband and by God's grace I have been a wonderful wife and a mother. We have one child.
The issue I'm having in my marriage is anger management. When ever my husband gets angry, he says all sorts of things to me, like leave my house, you are a bad wife, different sorts of insults of which whenever we reconcile he apologizes sometimes.
He's the type that no matter the good things you do, once he gets annoyed, he abuse you verbally of which really hurts me. Last month we had an argument that resulted to a fight, her beat me like his fellow man and locked me out and ask me to leave his house. Neighbors intervened and we settled.
Something happened today. He came back home around 2.am this morning instead of the usual 11-12pm he usually arrive home. I wasn't happy, he tried to explain but I knew he was lying because my sister in-law already called one of his friends before he came back. So I wasn't happy with him but I didn't make trouble with him. So this morning I drank aju mbaise and hot drink on empty stomach, so it was affecting me and making me want to faint. So it happened that he was giving me money for something this morning but I felt like fainting so I threw the money on the floor and quickly fell on the bed. After few minutes, I regained myself and got up, all the while my husband never cared to know what the problem was. I got up and asked him for the money, he started shouting and insulting me that why will I trow money on the floor for him. I tried to explain to him what Happened, he never cared to listen. He started insulting me, saying I will leave his house, that he can't continue with the marriage, that he will kill me. Note, it's not the first time he has threatened to kill me. I don't know what to do. His family members have talked to him about this his attitude about marriage but he gets worse. Pls I need advice because this his "leave my house" and threat all the time is too much. Little issue that couples have and settle, my husband always make it a big deal. If he annoys me and I get annoyed and refuse to talk to him, he will vex and start insulting me and threatening me. Pls I need your advice, what do you think I should do? how can I change him because I don't want my marriage to crash?, we have a daughter and u wouldn't want her to grow in a divided home. Thanks

Please bro.
Go to Jesus.
And let me carve your destiny for you.
You didn't come to this world for women relationships.
Get to know your destiny in God. And God will match you with a purpose filled complementing woman.

Youngerikan:
I'm 27 years of age and ever since I was born av not gotten a girlfriend, I'm good looking, I'm 5'10 I have the right physics but every girl have wooed turn me down, I'm not the type of guy that like talking too much and I can't chase a girl too much.
But just being lonely everything in this world is just so meaning less to me I need a companion someone I can emotional connect to pls wat can I do...