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Romance / His Mould Or Other's? by Blue86(m): 5:49pm On Jul 25, 2022
Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
ROMANS 6 : 4

As a believer who is in Christ Jesus, we are expected by God to walk in newness of life by His Spirit ( the glory of the Father ).
Not in the old, sinful, defeated, hopeless, fearful life.

How do we walk in this newness of life by the Holy Spirit?
By the words of God in the testament of His Christ.
For The Lord said the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.
And also that is words are spirit and life.
When you spend time with the word, you are also spending time with the Holy Spirit.
And when you are receiving the word into you, you are receiving the strength of the Spirit into you.
Haven't you even read that the word of God is the sword of the Spirit?

I remember a time I was praying that Holy Spirit should manifest Himself to me. While at it, I happened to see a vision of the scarlet covered bible I use, and from it's pages, I saw vapour looking smoke coming out.
And I remembered as well that a time I dreamt a man of God saying, "Spending time with the word of God is spending time with the Spirit."
That same day I happened to come across that same man of God in the Tele saying the exact same words.

Now ask yourself this question.
Am I being transformed into what Christ wants me to really be, or I am a mould of what the world wants me to be, and what they think I am?
Family / His Mould Or Other's? by Blue86(m): 5:43pm On Jul 25, 2022
Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
ROMANS 6 : 4

As a believer who is in Christ Jesus, we are expected by God to walk in newness of life by His Spirit ( the glory of the Father ).
Not in the old, sinful, defeated, hopeless, fearful life.

How do we walk in this newness of life by the Holy Spirit?
By the words of God in the testament of His Christ.
For The Lord said the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.
And also that is words are spirit and life.
When you spend time with the word, you are also spending time with the Holy Spirit.
And when you are receiving the word into you, you are receiving the strength of the Spirit into you.
Haven't you even read that the word of God is the sword of the Spirit?

I remember a time I was praying that Holy Spirit should manifest Himself to me. While at it, I happened to see a vision of the scarlet covered bible I use, and from it's pages, I saw vapour looking smoke coming out.
And I remembered as well that a time I dreamt a man of God saying, "Spending time with the word of God is spending time with the Spirit."
That same day I happened to come across that same man of God in the Tele saying the exact same words.

Now ask yourself this question.
Am I being transformed into what Christ wants me to really be, or I am a mould of what the world wants me to be, and what they think I am?
Religion / His Mould Or Other's? by Blue86(m): 5:18pm On Jul 25, 2022
Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
ROMANS 6 : 4

As a believer who is in Christ Jesus, we are expected by God to walk in newness of life by His Spirit ( the glory of the Father ).
Not in the old, sinful, defeated, hopeless, fearful life.

How do we walk in this newness of life by the Holy Spirit?
By the words of God in the testament of His Christ.
For The Lord said the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.
And also that is words are spirit and life.
When you spend time with the word, you are also spending time with the Holy Spirit.
And when you are receiving the word into you, you are receiving the strength of the Spirit into you.
Haven't you even read that the word of God is the sword of the Spirit?

I remember a time I was praying that Holy Spirit should manifest Himself to me. While at it, I happened to see a vision of the scarlet covered bible I use, and from it's pages, I saw vapour looking smoke coming out.
And I remembered as well that a time I dreamt a man of God saying, "Spending time with the word of God is spending time with the Spirit."
That same day I happened to come across that same man of God in the Tele saying the exact same words.

Now ask yourself this question.
Am I being transformed into what Christ wants me to really be, or I am a mould of what the world wants me to be, and what they think I am?
Family / Re: I shall not die in Jesus name by Blue86(m): 3:31pm On Jul 23, 2022
Which church do you attend together?

Go for counselling together there.
Or invite pastor and his wife to your home to counsel you both.

Pinkie2018:
Please I have a problem in my marriage. I need advice. Pls no insult.
I got married 2020 and did the court Marriage last month. My husband has been a wonderful husband and by God's grace I have been a wonderful wife and a mother. We have one child.
The issue I'm having in my marriage is anger management. When ever my husband gets angry, he says all sorts of things to me, like leave my house, you are a bad wife, different sorts of insults of which whenever we reconcile he apologizes sometimes.
He's the type that no matter the good things you do, once he gets annoyed, he abuse you verbally of which really hurts me. Last month we had an argument that resulted to a fight, her beat me like his fellow man and locked me out and ask me to leave his house. Neighbors intervened and we settled.
Something happened today. He came back home around 2.am this morning instead of the usual 11-12pm he usually arrive home. I wasn't happy, he tried to explain but I knew he was lying because my sister in-law already called one of his friends before he came back. So I wasn't happy with him but I didn't make trouble with him. So this morning I drank aju mbaise and hot drink on empty stomach, so it was affecting me and making me want to faint. So it happened that he was giving me money for something this morning but I felt like fainting so I threw the money on the floor and quickly fell on the bed. After few minutes, I regained myself and got up, all the while my husband never cared to know what the problem was. I got up and asked him for the money, he started shouting and insulting me that why will I trow money on the floor for him. I tried to explain to him what Happened, he never cared to listen. He started insulting me, saying I will leave his house, that he can't continue with the marriage, that he will kill me. Note, it's not the first time he has threatened to kill me. I don't know what to do. His family members have talked to him about this his attitude about marriage but he gets worse. Pls I need advice because this his "leave my house" and threat all the time is too much. Little issue that couples have and settle, my husband always make it a big deal. If he annoys me and I get annoyed and refuse to talk to him, he will vex and start insulting me and threatening me. Pls I need your advice, what do you think I should do? how can I change him because I don't want my marriage to crash?, we have a daughter and u wouldn't want her to grow in a divided home. Thanks
Romance / Re: Help!! I Don Want To Commit Suicide by Blue86(m): 3:25pm On Jul 23, 2022
Please bro.
Go to Jesus.
And let me carve your destiny for you.
You didn't come to this world for women relationships.
Get to know your destiny in God. And God will match you with a purpose filled complementing woman.
Youngerikan:
I'm 27 years of age and ever since I was born av not gotten a girlfriend, I'm good looking, I'm 5'10 I have the right physics but every girl have wooed turn me down, I'm not the type of guy that like talking too much and I can't chase a girl too much.
But just being lonely everything in this world is just so meaning less to me I need a companion someone I can emotional connect to pls wat can I do...
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Message That Shocked Me, Im Scared by Blue86(m): 3:23pm On Jul 23, 2022
You acted irresponsibly by committing fornication.

Now do not compound the problem more by running away from your manly duties of taking care of the child.

Do not abort that child.
For good things also come out from the mud.
And it is not a go ahead to marry the girl.
But a lesson to straighten your ways out and be a sheep with the lord.

I hope you hear all these things.

It is that simple.
Romance / Re: Ladies What Do You Think About This Trending Brazilian Hairstyle (photos) by Blue86(m): 7:32pm On Jul 22, 2022
You mean this Tufiakwa - hairstyle?
Romance / A Christian by Blue86(m): 7:31pm On Jul 22, 2022
He shall save his people from their sins.
He showed up to destroy the works of the devil.

The testimony of a believer in Christ should be that of being saved from iniquities.
A bad mouth turned a good mouth.
A slut turned a saint.
A liar turned a truth teller.
An alcoholic turned sober.
A beast turned harmless etc.

Anything besides that is not life from the eternal life himself - Jesus Christ.

His death is not freedom to go on doing what you feel or want.
But a provision of remission of sins past.
Freedom from sinning.
And the obtaining of forgiveness when you mess up, with the motive of repentance.

Do not be deceived, because you can be.
[ So many are deluded right now]
That's why we are told to be careful and watch, not to be deceived.
For the ones who claim Christ as their Lord, and keep living in sins will find themselves in hell, if they don't repent.
1 Corinthians 6 : 8 - 11
James 4 : 8

"Let him that stole steal no more" entails repentance.
Ephesians 4 : 28

" Let fornication, covetousness, uncleanness ( homosexuality and co), not be once named among you " implies repentance.
Ephesians 5 : 3

"Let everyone that names the name of Christ, depart from iniquity entails repentance.
Isn't departing from a wrong doing repenting?
And it begins with godly sorrow?
2 Timothy 2 : 19
2 Corinthians 7 : 9 - 11

Severally Jesus spoke to the church ( candle sticks before Him; indicating they are His) in the early chapters of the book of Revelation to repent from the wrongs they were doing.
And you with your high and mighty opinion do say and promote that repentance from being bad is not one of the messages of Christ!
Religion / A Christian by Blue86(m): 7:06pm On Jul 22, 2022
He shall save his people from their sins.
He showed up to destroy the works of the devil.

The testimony of a believer in Christ should be that of being saved from iniquities.
A bad mouth turned a good mouth.
A slut turned a saint.
A liar turned a truth teller.
An alcoholic turned sober.
A beast turned harmless etc.

Anything besides that is not life from the eternal life himself - Jesus Christ.

His death is not freedom to go on doing what you feel or want.
But a provision of remission of sins past.
Freedom from sinning.
And the obtaining of forgiveness when you mess up, with the motive of repentance.

Do not be deceived, because you can be.
[ So many are deluded right now]
That's why we are told to be careful and watch, not to be deceived.
For the ones who claim Christ as their Lord, and keep living in sins will find themselves in hell, if they don't repent.
1 Corinthians 6 : 8 - 11
James 4 : 8

"Let him that stole steal no more" entails repentance.
Ephesians 4 : 28

" Let fornication, covetousness, uncleanness ( homosexuality and co), not be once named among you " implies repentance.
Ephesians 5 : 3

"Let everyone that names the name of Christ, depart from iniquity entails repentance.
Isn't departing from a wrong doing repenting?
And it begins with godly sorrow?
2 Timothy 2 : 19
2 Corinthians 7 : 9 - 11

Severally Jesus spoke to the church ( candle sticks before Him; indicating they are His) in the early chapters of the book of Revelation to repent from the wrongs they were doing.
And you with your high and mighty opinion do say and promote that repentance from being bad is not one of the messages of Christ!
Crime / Re: Young Man Racially Profiled And Beaten By Police In USA (Graphic Content) by Blue86(m): 11:27am On Jul 21, 2022
Oh.

That's too bad.

I see.
PoliteActivist:


There is actually another aspect to this people don't think of. As a black person, every interaction you have with the police is a chance to become a millionaire. That won't happen if you just meekly comply!
Crime / Re: Young Man Racially Profiled And Beaten By Police In USA (Graphic Content) by Blue86(m): 10:26am On Jul 21, 2022
Didn't see no racial profiling whatsoever here.

Don't resist.
Simple.

Comply.
Any issue, settle in court.

Acting thuggish can get you killed.

Don't be stupid.

See how you were manhandled like a fowl.
Going all about, rather than comply and settle whatever in court.
Is that too hard?

Let us stop all these racial bitterness passed down by the parents to the children.

Even the recording is an evidence against the man.

Because over here I see a man running from the cops, and resisting.

Why are you running?
Family / Theft by Blue86(m): 9:25pm On Jul 19, 2022
Witchcraft is real.
It is of the devil.
And it can be used as a medium to steal from you.
The devil comes to steal.
Your spouse can be stolen from you via witchcraft ;
Your belongings ;
Your health etc.

An elderly pastor once told me that his mum was heavily pregnant with one of his expected sibling.
One day, she awoke and her belly was as flat as a teenager.
Till date, the baby is no where to be found.
This woman isn't inexperienced in giving birth; it's not her first time.

Even a person and their mind can be stolen via witchcraft.
Just as the various means people steal in the physical, so it is in the spiritual.

Your concentration can be stolen through diversion and frustration, that you might not be able to manifest the celestial glory allotted to you.
Because the hordes of darkness know that if you move in that celestial glory in its purity, you will destroy their kingdom.
That's what a demonic entity of high authority said in the realm of the spirit, while I watched.
Even your terrestrial glory can be stolen.

Works of witchcraft should be destroyed in the name of Jesus.
And a command should be given to the same thief ( spirit ) to restore what it had stolen, seven fold.
And ten times.
That's what the Bible says.

PROVERBS 6 : 31
Religion / Theft by Blue86(m): 8:06pm On Jul 19, 2022
Witchcraft is real.
It is of the devil.
And it can be used as a medium to steal from you.
The devil comes to steal.
Your spouse can be stolen from you via witchcraft ;
Your belongings ;
Your health etc.

An elderly pastor once told me that his mum was heavily pregnant with one of his expected sibling.
One day, she awoke and her belly was as flat as a teenager.
Till date, the baby is no where to be found.
This woman isn't inexperienced in giving birth; it's not her first time.

Even a person and their mind can be stolen via witchcraft.
Just as the various means people steal in the physical, so it is in the spiritual.

Your concentration can be stolen through diversion and frustration, that you might not be able to manifest the celestial glory allotted to you.
Because the hordes of darkness know that if you move in that celestial glory in its purity, you will destroy their kingdom.
That's what a demonic entity of high authority said in the realm of the spirit, while I watched.
Even your terrestrial glory can be stolen.

Works of witchcraft should be destroyed in the name of Jesus.
And a command should be given to the same thief ( spirit ) to restore what it had stolen, seven fold.
And ten times.
That's what the Bible says.

PROVERBS 6 : 31
Family / True Meaning Of Psalm 23 by Blue86(m): 5:26pm On Jul 18, 2022
As long as you are obedient to the Lord as a sheep does to a shepherd; you shall not want.

Your obedience to the Lord Jesus will land you in green pastures. Just as the sheep with a shepherd.

Your close walking with the Lord will grant you protection and shield from the terrors of death.
For the Lord is who you rely on, and who you are loyal to.
You will call on Him, and He shall save you from your enemies : the pangs of death, floods of wickedness, sorrows of the grave, traps of death.

Those who walk with the Lord Jesus as a sheep does a Shepherd are the ones who get to have tables prepared for them in the presence of their enemies.
[ Something to think about, for all who think all eating in the dream or vision is demonic.]

Goats should forget about getting their heads anointed with oil - cup running over.

Those who are sheep in acts draws the attention of mercy and goodness, and will finally end up in the abode of the Father forever.

Are you acting as a sheep is with a Shepherd with the Lord or you are acting as a goat?
The blessings and promises of Psalm 23 are for true sheeps not goats.

Psalm 23
Religion / True Meaning Of Psalm 23 by Blue86(m): 5:02pm On Jul 18, 2022
As long as you are obedient to the Lord as a sheep does to a shepherd; you shall not want.

Your obedience to the Lord Jesus will land you in green pastures. Just as the sheep with a shepherd.

Your close walking with the Lord will grant you protection and shield from the terrors of death.
For the Lord is who you rely on, and who you are loyal to.
You will call on Him, and He shall save you from your enemies : the pangs of death, floods of wickedness, sorrows of the grave, traps of death.

Those who walk with the Lord Jesus as a sheep does a Shepherd are the ones who get to have tables prepared for them in the presence of their enemies.
[ Something to think about, for all who think all eating in the dream or vision is demonic.]

Goats should forget about getting their heads anointed with oil - cup running over.

Those who are sheep in acts draws the attention of mercy and goodness, and will finally end up in the abode of the Father forever.

Are you acting as a sheep is with a Shepherd with the Lord or you are acting as a goat?
The blessings and promises of Psalm 23 are for true sheeps not goats.

Psalm 23

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Religion / Re: Psalms And Water, I Need Every Help I Can. by Blue86(m): 7:59pm On Jul 17, 2022
Those Psalms given you are mercies of healing to you.
It won't go on like that forever
Best, leave a sinful life.
Spend time with God and fix His words into your spirit, and use the words from your spirit to fight any situation.

That's what is expected from a Christian.
Romance / Re: Yahoo Boy Suffers Heartbreak After Investing In Girlfriend’s Education Abroad by Blue86(m): 11:41am On Jul 17, 2022
You sow Yahoo, you reap Ya-hoo.
Romance / Re: How Does A Young Teenager Figure Out What To Do In Life? by Blue86(m): 5:39am On Jul 17, 2022
Jesus is the way

Tell him to seek the Lord.
Seek His face.

And He will find his destiny.
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Think This Way? (pics) by Blue86(m): 5:37am On Jul 17, 2022
Where una dey get this kind gurls from?

Well, for you to be with this kind of gurl reveals the manner of man you are.

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Family / Re: Please Help Explain This Dream To Me by Blue86(m): 8:52pm On Jul 15, 2022
There is something as a demonic anointing / empowerment that can increase your power.
You just had that. And it is not of God.

Be with Jesus.
Messi1:
It is to 7pm here. I just woke up from sleep. A short nap.

Background: I was cryobsessed with Michael Jackson and have been listening to his song "give in to me" for almost a week now...I love the guy from roots of my heart.

Dream: I dreamt that I saw myself in a place and lo and behold I saw Michael Jackson appeared in White garment and stood still. I ran to fall at his feets but he ordered me to stop and not to cross, that he's in a different world.There was a thin line between us. He brought out a black and a white paper of the same size. He said if I want the black paper he will annoint me then I'll become like he was. I said I wanted the white paper, he told me to look to my right, I saw my late dad. I ran with joy to hug my dad but he ordered me to stop! I look down and Saw a thin line between us, he told me he was in a different world. I told him that I wanted him to annoint me. He placed his hands on my forehead and prayed for me, then squeezed liquid substance on my head and gave me a white
Romance / Re: See What My Ex Sent To Me, Imagine! by Blue86(m): 8:37pm On Jul 15, 2022
For you to dey ask what you should do,
Dey hungry me to slap you
Lexkenny99:
I dated this bi*ch 4 a year and 3 months. I loved this bae like my our souls were linked together from birth. I even introduced her to my family. As the first and only son, my mother wanted me to settle down quickly. My mum loved her. I really had plans for us, our future. I noticed mid last year that her attitude towards me changed drastically. I go call am, to pick na problem, chat am, no reply. I go buy gift go visit am, she go dey gimme attitude. Only for her to visit me and tell me she's ending the relationship. She said she dated me cuz made a bet with her friends. I narrowly survived that experience. Yesterday marked exactly one year she bitched me 4 an america returnee . Only 4 her to match to my apartment today, crying and begging me to take her back that the guy's a scammer and he duped her of her life's savings. She almost created a scene. Now am in a new relationship. She said she'll kill herself If I Don't just forgive her but take her back and her ghost would hunt me. Wetin make I DO?

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Romance / Re: Can Anthony Joshua Beat Usynk In Upcoming Rematch by Blue86(m): 11:15am On Jul 15, 2022
He entrusts you with money, u wan carry the money go bet.

Is that what he relied on you for?
spyroet:
I know this is not the right section but i want more answers.
this is a very serious matter and i want serious people to advice me, and it should be taken very seriously.
Sport and boxing fans in the house pls advice me,am about to bet 5m naira for Anthony Joshua to beat usynk in the rematch,
my reasons, i think Joshua will win this fight and the odd is very big 2.54 odd for joshua to win that insane!
If i bet 5m the return will be 12,700,000 naira that cool cash, shud i take a leap of fate or forget about it,
this money am about to use now belong to my brother in ghana for a projects which is early next year.
my brother dont want to use the money that why he gave me to hold first because he trust me with money issues but i just see this as a very big opportunity to double the money and have my share, i cant sleep over this issue pls advice me thanks in advance
Romance / Re: I Insulted This Yoruba Girl And Igbo Guy On Facebook by Blue86(m): 7:43pm On Jul 14, 2022
Just let Jesus work on your manners.

Blessed are those who are thirsty and hungry after good mannerism, for they shall be filled.
Religion / Re: I Want To Be Communicating With The Super Powers by Blue86(m): 7:40am On Jul 13, 2022
I wouldn't want you to go mad. Stick to the Bible and Jesus.

He is the way.
OBOTOTHICK:
Yes, how can I be eleveted spiritually?
I want to be seeing things myself
I don't want to be consulting people before I make decisions
I want the angels to be giving me messages
Religion / Re: Be careful,they are everywhere now!!! by Blue86(m): 7:38am On Jul 13, 2022
If what you thought Jesus meant is what you think, then John wouldn't call the people he was writing to little children, and would be in the Bible.

Paul wouldn't refer to the Corinthians as his children.
And still be in the Bible.

And Timothy wouldn't be called son in the Lord by Paul, and it wouldn't have been recorded in the Bible.

Peter wouldn't have mentioned his spiritual son either.
It wouldn't have been recorded in the Bible.

For they would be going against all what Jesus said and meant.


As for the second question, I have already answered you.
elated177:


Matthew 23: 9 And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven.

You didn't answer the question: "Of what use is spiritual father when one has the Set-apart Spirit (Holy Spirit) and the Word of the heavenly Father in him/her"?



What journey are you talking about?

What are the benefits of spiritual father or even spiritual mother?
Religion / Re: Be careful,they are everywhere now!!! by Blue86(m): 7:34am On Jul 13, 2022
elated177:


[b] Matthew 23: 9 And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and

What are the benefits of spiritual father or even spiritual mother?
Religion / Re: Be careful,they are everywhere now!!! by Blue86(m): 9:05pm On Jul 12, 2022
Still Timothy had a Father.
John called some saints his children.
Peter as well.
Paul referred to the Corinthian bunch as his children.

Good luck in the journey that should have taken 2 years, but took 20, because we decide we don't need the guidance and experience of those who are gone before and well matured in the walk.
elated177:


No saint, servant or messenger of YHVH Almighty, of Yahushua the Messiah, needs a spiritual father

Of what use is spiritual father when you have the Set-apart Spirit and the Word?
Religion / Re: Be careful,they are everywhere now!!! by Blue86(m): 4:51pm On Jul 12, 2022
There are good fathers, and bad fathers.
Only the Holy Spirit will reveal to us who a good spiritual Father is.

elated177:


Go through the thread below and let me know what you think.


https://www.nairaland.com/5291591/why-dont-need-spiritual-father#80101187
Family / Re: . by Blue86(m): 11:30am On Jul 11, 2022
Jesus said something, " By strength shall no man prevail"
And that I am come that you may have life and have it abundantly.

Why don't you just go to Jesus, let him work on you and then plan your life for you?

For I tell you, if He is in charge.
He will arrange every thing in place at the right time.
Unknownknowns:
Nigerian background. American citizen. Recently hit mid-30s. Late bloomer in dating. Never married. No kids. Seeking calm, gentle, honest, goodhearted, Godfearing, truly single man, preferably abroad in North America or Europe or in the process of relocating abroad. Good communication skills a must.

Divorced? Don't message.
Got kids? Don't message.
Plethora of female friends in or outside Nigeria? Do not message me.
Criminal background in or outside Nigeria? Do not message me.

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Romance / Re: I Am About Getting Married To A Man That Hates My Mom So Much by Blue86(m): 11:18am On Jul 11, 2022
Your mom offended him.

Can't your mom apologize?

Second, what is with you people and sex before marriage?

You are Christian's o.

Life is not all about marriage.


It is about finding God's plan for you, and living it. And the rest follows.
Sheeba22:
Good morning everyone ! My head is filled with thoughts and I am very confused on which path to follow that is why I am making this post.

It's a long read but I will try to shorten it.

I met my guy after my waec. He was a struggling young man with a lot of aspirations. Meeting him improved me because he pushed me to the limit to become a better person. This is a guy with soft heart and was willing to share his little with me, not only me but everyone around him. He is someone that is willing to go hungry for that man on the street to eat.

My parents knew him, everyone was OK with him. Three years into the relationship I gained admission which he played a key role at some point he was like my sole sponsor because things were rough at home and my uncles were disappointing. He took it upon himself and was sharing his salary into three and one portion comes to me. At home was a nightmare for my parents because my parents as civil servants were being owed. If you know how osun state was under Aregbe's govt.

This guy was our hope, not yet my husband, not rich but was coming through for us. Sometimes with foodstuffs and money to my siblings most especially my mom.

During my NYSC in 2018, suitors started coming, some with cars and my mom tired of suffering was mounting pressure on me to accept one of them. My fiance on the other hand was ready but waiting for me to be ready because we agreed that marriage and maybe child bearing will distract my studies.

My mom became so desperate to the extent of not wanting me and my guy to continue with our relationship. She wanted one of the rich suitors to have me (she forgot so soon). When the pressure and embarrassment was too much the relationship collapsed.

God knows I wanted to continue but he wasnt willing to fight. Our relationship ended and he left, I heard he relocated to Portharcout to stay with a friend and soon after travelled.

We lost all forms of communication only for him to resurface December last year. Dude looks good and we got talking and reconnected again. While he was away I was in a relationship with one of the suitors.

When my first love called that he was back I didn't think twice before rushing to the hotel to meet with him. We had the best sex that day and I couldn't help but cry all through, everything was like a movie to me.

I ended my relationship with that guy and we started again, he is OK (not that rich) but I am willing to marry him even in poverty.

He went back after some months and we have been talking on phone , he asks about my siblings but doesn't even ask after my mom. Whenever we are having a discussion and my mom is mentioned, he changes the topic, if I ask he will say he doesn't want to talk about my mom.

Like the hatred is much, he has this anger towards her and I am worried.

He plans to come ask for my hand when he returns, then we become man and wife but I am worried.

I love him, but how do I cope with a husband who hates my mom and sees her as a personal enemy. He doesn't hide this hatred, at a point he told me that his biggest challenge will be stepping foot inside my house for the marriage rites. And if he marries me that will be the last time he comes to my house.

He is still cool with my siblings and dad but mom is his enemy

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Religion / Re: Be careful,they are everywhere now!!! by Blue86(m): 10:54am On Jul 11, 2022
Through demonic spirits.
One of devil's assignment is to steal.
A man's glory can be stolen.
elated177:


How do you suppose such an individual could pull it off?
Religion / Re: Be careful,they are everywhere now!!! by Blue86(m): 8:16pm On Jul 10, 2022
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A pastor once said his pastor colleague said that if he notices a brother with 5 stars on his church, he will make sure he takes like two or three of the stars
Truthsoldier:
Good day nairalanders

There are things which I see in Christianity today and amongst so-called places that are called churches which in truth are not in any way close to churches but shrines in disguise of 'church'.

I was talking the other day with a friend of mine whom always go with these guys of prophet this and that,this friend of mine can hang out almost every weekend with these people,and always going to mountains or so-called deserts to pray,when he returns and in a form of gist he would tell me what some of these people do in the name of God.

I will always tell him to be careful.

In one of our discussion, he told me how a so-called prophet friend would go in lie with some girls and later come and mount pulpit,preach and do great miracles,this so-called prophet tries to get him to fornicate with girls telling him that it doesn't matter.

On another occasion according to him,he went with a supposed prophet to a mountain to pray and as he got to the place he saw a man whom got engaged in dialogue with the supposed prophet that he(my friend) should be taken away,killed or they should never bring him again to that place.

And this are so-called men of God.

For a family deliverance according to him that he goes with some of these people they charge from 50k to 300k with sumptuous treatment.

There are many other things he said that space would not permit me to share here,but seriously people need to be careful, study your bible,know God for yourself to avoid falling into the hands of these charlatans most masquerading as men of God, may God keep us.

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