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MorataFC:
Aside from infidelity, abuse, failure to fulfil responsibilities, or maybe one party is involvement in criminal activities, I see no reason why a marriage should fall apart. Many marriages would last if couples learned understanding, communication, forgiveness, patience, and mutual respect.

You may divorce one person because of a bad habit, only to discover that the next one you maeried has worse flaws.

The points you listed in the bolded are actually more loaded than they seem.

For example, let's look at failure to fulfil responsibilities : It can be financial in nature, sexual and even psychological in nature.

A man may suddenly go broke and becomes unable to fulfil his financial responsibilities to his family. He may try his best but things end up not working out. There is no amount of communication he may apply, once the bills are not getting paid the woman may start looking for way out of the marriage.

All those talks about patience, mutual respect, forgiveness etc will fly out of the window.

Methinks all those "infidelity, abuse, failure to fulfil responsibilities" you listed as valid grounds for divorce are intertwined with "understanding, communication, forgiveness, patience, and mutual respect." which you expected partners should exhibit to have a long lasting union. They are not independent of each other.

I don't know if I make sense sha.

GloriousGbola:
not sure he has avenues open to him like that

everyone is reading the writing on the wall and the same people withdrawing his security will be stalling signing off on document or using process

also if them mean am - they can set efcc on him - the guy should be careful as he is the whipping boy for the failed obasa coup
obasa may even go after sanwo olu as well

we went through a transition to new owners at work and i watched a powerful contractor's influence shrink in real time. someone who if his invoice enters on Friday it is processed all the way to the top that same day - they were sitting on his invoice for weeks

Obasa is done with Lagos politics for now, he is going to house reps in Abuja by 2027. He no get anything he Wan use Sanwoolu do again since he won't be the speaker by then. It's only if he was speaker he can call for investigation of Sanwoolu's administration and stink retirement up for Sanwoolu.

Something tells me Desmond is eying that Lagos state house of assembly speakership seat, that's why he's refusing to step down. He has a chance as a 4th term house of assembly member. So He dey Para why his "people" Want him to miss out on that once in a lifetime opportunity

iamoyindamola:
Gumi they walk freely in this country oo

Gumi say the kidnappers need the ransome to feed their families.

izzou:
A teacher was just beheaded over nothing!

God abeg!

The way we have now got used to hearing those horrific news and how easy it is for us all to move on without government/security agents doing much to curtail insecurity is just so sad.

Like an hour ago I saw the video of a GUO bus that was attacked by kidnappers/bandits while travelling. The driver of the bus was shot dead while he was trying to maneuver the bus to escape their assailants. His corpse was right there in the bus with a gunshot to the head. It seems the passengers were eventually kidnapped because only the driver's corpse was left in the bus.

Looking at that video I was just wondering why is it that the security agents cannot comb those forests along the major express where these kidnappings take place? Why can't they go on months of offensive in those forests and weed those criminals out ? Why is it that these incidents keep reoccurring since around 2016/2017?

Maybe because the thing never really touch people wey dey power sha. I mean like that GUO driver now, his kids are now fatherless; his family have lost a breadwinner just like that! And nothing will ever be done to get these people justice.

izzou:
He released a video that his security was withdrawn, LG staff supporting him were sacked, blah blah blah.

I would love him to contest sha. Someone has to take the spotlight from Pascal this week.

E never reach time wey there should be a law for the number of tenures you can spend as a legislator?

E be like say Abaribe na Desmond mentor

The system wey don favor am before, na now he know say the system no fair.

If dem like make dem give am house arrest on Wednesday sef, he deserves that and more.

I think the electorates should be bolder in rejecting these sit-tight legislooters like they did last time. Most of them don't really have much power, it is the vote of the electorates that keeps returning them back to the house of assembly. If the people say no to them with their votes, they will be serving for 16 years, 20 years etc

afrodoc:
Na person wife Desmond catch like Okala like this?

For this alone we can’t allow him go back to that house.

I don't think that lady na person wife o. Less is known about her marital life; she be like all those senior girls wey don waka inside life

So the gist on Twitter is that the Lady in contest with Desmond for APC ticket on Surulere was one of the aspirants that were asked to step down for Desmond in 2022.

She stepped down for him and went ahead to campaign for his relection in 2023.

The picture below is Desmond hugging her to thank her for how she carried his re-election on her head back then. I guess this explains why she said in one of her videos that she expected Desmond to step down for her now like other candidates did.

As it stands, dem go use Desmond wipe ground on Wednesday at the direct primaries across all wards.

So I came across a post online last weekend about one Nicholas Mutu who has been In the house of assembly for 27 years, next year will make it his 28th year in the house.

The man from Bomadi/Pantani federal constituency in Delta state has been in the house since 1999. (I doubt if anybody has been in the house for a longer period). His people are saying they are tired and want someone else to represent them in the house. Somehow I still see a handful of comments on the post by his supporters who say he is the man for the job.

Omo! Things dey happen for this country o.

It seems the guy lost eventually Sha. He lost the APC ticket to someone else and thank God for electoral law that made it impossible for him to jump to another party to contest, if not he would still win the general election. Person wey Don dey rig for 27 years won't find it difficult to rig for another 4 years definitely.

afrodoc2:
Bro, it looks like you are advertising for this babe ni o.

Make he dey play!

Senior men for this thread wey dey silent mode don find the babe go tiktok enter her DM negotiate the cost of her 2 weeks package for "cook and live-in chef services" for December already.

One man's poison is another man's Congo meat.

Segedinho:
https://x.com/NafdacAgency/status/2056061405397418054


😊

NAFDAC is a fooolish government agency.

What I expected from this their findings is for them to address the concern that is it normal for a bread to stay fresh for weeks and even months.

It would've been an avenue for them to Clear the air not just on BON bread but any other bread that stays fresh after weeks of purchase. Instead, they made this their report look like paid advert by BON bread to clear them of whatever allegations they believe was being leveled against them (which didn't have their name mentioned) 🤦‍♂️.


Why dull people dey head key agencies in this country sef? 🤷‍♂️

Yet another one 😂

This is the video of Daniel Asama Ago, who won through Peter Obi’s influencer but decamped to the APC, after pocketing dollars.

In the video, he’s campaigning for Tinubu and his re-election.

It turns out that the APC rigged him out even before the primaries. He’s stranded.✍️ pic.twitter.com/WhvdDFDgUB

— Obiasogu David (@afrisagacity) May 17, 2026

Izzou go open church abeg!

Izzou, this is another one!

😂😂😂😂😂

My brother Engr Iyawe Esosa won the Oredo House of Representatives seat through the Peter Obi and Obidient wave in Labour Party.

He subsequently decamped to the APC, now my brother Iyawe is crying.

😂😂😂😂😂 pic.twitter.com/EXzrOFg28X

— Zekeri Idris Jnr (@IdrisZekeriJnr) May 17, 2026

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If you enter twitter this morning , u will just be siring clips of how APC rigged out APC in the just concluded primaries at various ward levels.

Make everybody just give up and accept that APC will rig themselves in at the general elections in 2027. The way they rigged the primaries was just so shameless . 🤦‍♂️

semid4lyfe:
How consistently do you think he gets those event hosting gigs?

There's a lot of competition in the industry with seasoned professionals and young cats in the game.

Also, many actors, comedians, TV anchors/Radio OAPs don crossover and dey do this event hosting and MC thing now. Off hand, there's

Ebuka Obi-Uchendu.
Ik Osakioduwa
Gbenga Adeyinka
Bovi
Basket Mouth
Nancy Isime
Kie Kie
Ali Baba
Gordons
AY
Dotun
Roby Ekpo
Seyi Law.
Koffi
Rufai Oseni
Ruben Abati.
Toke Makinwa

I have no doubt he'll be getting gigs here and there but I dont think it'd be enough to meet domestic/family responsibilities and maintain his lifestyle.

He should go back to radio and TV so he can draw a monthly income while doing the event hosting thing on the side.

Most of the people u listed here won’t get the kind of gig Frank gets .

No serious corporate organization will give Kiekie , AY, Rufus, Roby Ekpo, Rufai, Koffi, Reuben Abati, Seyilaw, Gordons or Dotun the kind of gig you would give Frank .

The only person that can rival Frank on ur List is Ebuka .

I’m telling u this because I was present at the event and I know what Frank delivered which none of those jokers on ur list can deliver .

iamoyindamola:
I thought obi cubana too contested

I didn’t really hear about his candidature o. I only knew about his boy’s .

izzou:
Imagine the disrespect sef.

Na why I dey laugh Chief Priest yesterday.

Instead of reading the room to strategize, you begin shout and shout APC from start to finish.

Now City Boy Leader for SE, cannot even secure his own ticket in the party. But he will give Tinubu 2.5 million votes

That Cubana bar man Dey craze !

He thinks the pride he exhibits on social media will translate to votes for him offline .

I’m sure Tinubu , Seyi and the rest of APC don’t really rely on him and his ilks for south east votes . They just need their performative support so they can use it to rig the results in their favor

izzou:
Alibaba has investments oh.

Recently, the Court seized his property worth hundreds of millions.

Frank no go fit near am oh

Alibaba na senior man and he married the right woman whom he supported her career .

I have been seeing a lot of misogynistic stuff being written online since this Frank’s saga. I deliberately mentioned Alibaba ni.

Alibaba’s wife was an ED at defunct heritage bank and now an associate director at a capital house . She’s into business consulting . That woman never come out to open Alibaba yansh before . Nobody knows whether na Alibaba Dey foot her bills or it’s the other way round .

Sometimes in this life , who you marry really matters and how you conduct yourself also matters. Not all women will watch you cheat and take everything in like typical African woman that believes “African men are polygamous in nature”

izzou:
I have a friend that works in the Corporate field. He's just doing okay

But his father worked with Ministers and even an Ex Governor who is now a Senator.

Sometimes, I ask him how his father was well connected and he's just going through the same process with us. He says his Dad was just a man that did his job, and went home. He didn't really tap into the opportunities he had to network.

Some people are like that. You just think they should be connected, but they aren't like that.

It's possible Frank was the kind of guy that prefers to swallow his problems, than jump from one place to another

In all of these drama, no man has said he fed Frank or borrowed him money.

I understand ur guy , there are people like him who like to forge their own path without concerning themselves with their father’s .

However , Frank is out there with access to corporate clients , individual clients and what have u. Aside from whatever investment he must have had , the line of job he’s in has limitless opportunities. He has a brand that is well recognized . He has what it takes to eat till old age sef .

I believe if he lives within his earning ability he shouldn’t have any reason to depend on his woman for sponsorship at all. He has grownup kids that are already in the university from his first wife . If he is just focusing on seeing his kids through school and living within his means with his second wife , he no supposed broke o

iamoyindamola:
Unless he's living beyond his means I dont believe he's broke broke
He might be running out of gigs though and I don't want yo believe that woman funded his lifestyle

Exactly ! Senior men like Alibaba still Dey chop good based on networking they built as far back as 1999 to 2003 when OBJ was president .

Alibaba never come out to identify as broke till date , how come someone like Frank done really broke reach level wey na him wife Dey carry his bukata?

Make he really tell us wetin he Dey spend money on .

izzou:
Broke is relative.

Also, sometimes, we assume that Celebrities that have a name, may be doing well.

It's possible that Baba might have been struggling. And just being a Host isn't enough. Events come occasionally.

Well, may they both be healed

I just find it hard to believe that a woman he supported her business will suddenly be in a position to be sponsoring his lifestyle .

What happened to all the networking he built over the years ?

Na wa o .

Maybe the guy really fell off sha

izzou:
Na sure odd nau

99.999% of them will not come back.

These people think they discovered APC, so they will just stroll in, and get the ticket. You know many people dey line for the past 12 years dey wait?

Dem give baba 11am, do primaries by 8am

Sope O ti lor

Everywhere blurr for him eyes 😂

I did not follow Frank Edoho and his ex-wife’s sob stories , neither do I have an opinion on their affairs . But I find it hard to believe Frank is actually broke to the extent of relying on his wife’s benevolence sha .

Around May/June last year I attended an evening corporate event where frank was the host. He did really well with everyone having a nice time . I don’t how much they paid him but I want to believe he must have earned good six figures for that event .

I’m really wondering how is it that someone who can attract such gig would suddenly be broke to the extent of needing his wife to sponsor his lifestyle …… except maybe he’s been living quite above his means sha .

mostob:
NGL, I'm nervous. Like so so nervous. Then I saw this on Facebook


CRAZY FACT: Despite Liverpool conceding 52 goals in the Premier League this season, there has been only one team which failed to score against Liverpool this season. And that team is Arsenal.

It's the first time Arsenal have been the only team not to score against a specific side since 1998-99, when they were also the only team not to score against Liverpool.

Arsenal finished second that season with 1 point behind Manchester united who won the league.

We also lost our second to last game against leeds united away (1-0) and then winning 1-0 against Aston Vila on the last day of the season.

I don't know why I'm having weird feelings like this. Our second to last game is Burnley and our last game is crystal palace.

Could this be a script??

No Dey put urself under unnecessary pressure . We are winning the Burnley and Crystal palace . We are not falling for any mind games these last two games , we are coming out with the W in the two games to clinch the title .

The players know the expectations of the fan base and they will not let us down . They have a chance to become the greatest Arsenal team in history by winning 3 consecutive games against teams they’ve beaten in the past .

They have enough to motivate them . Make we fans no Dey doubt them abeg !

Izzou your predictions are coming to pass.

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1Hm5CNrc2Z/?mibextid=wwXIfr

This guy rode on Obi’s popularity in 2023 to win a seat in the house on platform of LP. After getting to the house , he decamped to APC and planned on seeking reelection on APC’s platform .

When he got to venue of APC primary they told him the primary has been concluded 😂

Talking about soups and hiring private chefs , just want to drop it here that SPAR supermarkets sell tasty and affordable soups . The soups are loaded with various protein.

They sell efo riro, edika ikong, egusi and I think oha soup . They sell at most of their outlets and they don’t insist u must buy swallow before they sell the soup . They sell as much quantity as you want .

izzou:
The Nigerian Government may not be wrong.

So, these terrorists usually don't use their real names. Those names are mostly a title attached to that rank.

Once you get to that rank, you will start bearing that name.

So, it's possible that they killed that particular Commander in 2024, and this is just another one that has assumed the role again.

It's possible oh....You also might be correct that it's propaganda

Bayo Onanuga has admitted they lied with their claim in 2024 that they took out the ISIS terrorists.

I guess that lays to rest any speculation/suggestion that maybe they took out the person occupying the rank back then.

He blames the misinformation on imperfect intelligence in their counterterrorism efforts .

https://www.nairaland.com/8672988/bayo-onanuga-admits-militarys-error

raumdeuter:
Governorship primary no dey today na House of Rep dem dey do today

So what is the commentary about ?

GloriousGbola:
i dont seem to remember making any comments

but since you have chosen to put words in my mouth

1) Keep the car, and we add an additional one year warranty - the car was already defective when sold
2) Take another model, and add an extra fee for the cost difference - basically, they want to do like your corner corner road side hustler who sells you a brand new product with k-leg and then says okay, pay us extra and we will replace with another model
3) Collect your full money back. - 260m in 2024 is not same as 260m in 2026

car dealers of all classes , unfortunately are usually dodgy. years ago my colleague took delivery of a brand new honda which died in traffic within a week of buying it. i had to tow him to a safe place. they replaced teyh car with anothr brand new one that it tured out was midly accidented with the door badly resprayed

seems to me like they sold her a partly refurb car at brand new price - not open box/return price - which like i aid is how we do in these parts

You are right . None of the options proposed by the dealer seem fair to the customer .

The only deal that will be fair to the customer is if the dealer provides the same year and model of vehicle as replacement without the buyer dropping a dime .

What I don’t know is why the court suggested that coscharis should be shut down . The court could’ve ordered coscharis to replace the car without expecting any money from the customer .

Raumdeuter comman carry ur Adelabu o

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Where are all those people that came to welcome him at the airport ?

LMFAOOOOOOOO IM IN STITCHES 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 pic.twitter.com/700nn51Ajk

— Dr Alhaji Kowope Cole 🇳🇬🇸🇸 (@Magixlamy_) May 16, 2026

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Roland17:
Baba, I say make EPL happen fess.

We shall be there ! 😎

iamoyindamola:
We are losing because of Arsenal jare

Those of them celebrating when city was pummeling them in the league , I hope they are still in celebratory mood now

https://www.nairaland.com/8672884/voters-flee-violence-breaks-out

If APC primary can be this violent , who knows what will happen in the general election sef ?