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liveLongNprospa:
Omo.. PR secured for me, madam and smally.

This year ended great🎉

Itsrm:
If you do a year sub, you won't feel it. Worst case you exhaust it in 9 months which will still bring your average monthly data cost to N11,000.

superintendents:
which kind embarrassment be this.

iamoyindamola:
Na IPTV get me jare
That one better for me

Shegzdave:
Werey no find sub for another thing, na dstv 😂😂him don chop belle ful, na ere bekun bekun be this

Ibime:
AI generated text for clicks

iamoyindamola:
Alakoba
Dstv in this era🤣🤣🤣
Btw dstv they try toast you guys back, if you do the 5400 sub this month they will open all channels for you
My own they gather dust for there thunder fire them

🔴⚪️ Arteta on replacing Saka out for weeks: “I’m putting some ideas together, we will be doing new things as we did when Ødegaard was out”.

“Gabi has played there, Nwaneri and Trossard… also Havertz can play there. We will talk internally and see what’s the best solution”.

iamoyindamola:
I am using Mikel football age he's currently 37 instead of 43
Tubaba is 49

GloriousGbola:
autocorrect strikes again!

iamoyindamola:
Nah it would have been too much or Mikel have good body stature
Growing up doesn't mean they are mates it could be egbon stuff
Because from what I see na 12 years difference o🤣🤣

I never knew tubaba grew up in jos, I thought it was makurdi

Amigoss:
Does this mean Mikel and 2face na age mates?

Shegzdave:
Atleast them Dey provide drugs to prevent back ache for those wey Dey stand on mandate

iamoyindamola:
The person that reported the first case is in ibadan they decided to kpai the guy by torturing him

I swear on my life, no matter how much you despise Nigerian Police, you can not hate them enough.

Look how they just wasted this young man's life in Ilorin ffs. Fuck you @PoliceNG pic.twitter.com/Bd8eFhyKAB

— 𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐨 𝐆𝐚𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐧𝐨 (@Abdulherphyz) December 22, 2024

iamoyindamola:
I was waiting for this especially from you🤣🤣🤣
The traffic choke die

Roland17:
I have never understood why the lead bike men for Nigerian Presidents and Governors have to be stunt drivers. What exactly is the use of performing stunts during a motorcade for a President?

Omo, look at President Tinubu's massive entourage in Lagos 😳 pic.twitter.com/wXPA1ckgkg

— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) December 22, 2024

mostob:
Leave Merino alone.... He is winning duel
Personally, I would still give him time. You must be something special if you're playing in midfield for Spanish national team.

Shegzdave:
That man fvcked himself and his livelihood per adventure justice is served cause why in gods name will you be announcing massive giveaway on your radio station

reccy:
https://www.nairaland.com/8298279/port-harcourt-refinery-shuts-down

And

https://www.nairaland.com/8298349/port-harcourt-refinery-fully-operational-nnpc





Itsrm and ballzproblem2 e don reach una to confirm and give us update.

Dis people dy confuse our confusion

iamoyindamola:
He must be a strong member for obi to cough out 30m

Btw akpi is not a clown

Unlimited22:
You mean the way you went to watch Super Eagles and came back to find that your wife was pregnant? Without you doing anything? While no other man had gone near her?

TemporaryHansel:
It was a typical Tuesday morning in Lagos. The bus was packed to the brim, the air thick with the chatter of commuters, the hum of the engine, and the occasional honking of horns from impatient drivers. Okpa, a young man in his late 20s, squeezed into a corner seat by the window, trying to avoid eye contact with anyone. He was still half-dazed from the long night at work, his thoughts wandering between the demands of his job and the endless traffic jams.

Suddenly, the bus jerked to a stop, throwing him off balance. As he steadied himself, he felt a sharp, unexpected konk on the top of his head. It was a quick, no-nonsense knock—strong enough to sting, but not enough to hurt. He looked up, confused.
"Ah! Wetin I do?" he muttered under his breath.

The culprit was an elderly woman, a complete stranger, standing right in front of him. She had a cane in one hand and a bundle of market goods in the other. Her face was stern, lined with years of experience, but her eyes twinkled with mischief.

"You dey sleep for my space?" she snapped in a voice that could only belong to someone who had seen it all. "Wake up, young man! You no see say the bus don full?"

Okpa blinked, still a bit disoriented. He wasn’t sure if she was angry or just had a way of getting people’s attention.

Before he could say anything, she turned her back to him, muttering to herself about young people and their laziness. The bus lurched forward again, and the bustling noise of the ride swallowed her words.

Okpa rubbed the top of his head, still a bit stunned by the unexpected konk. He glanced around, but no one seemed to be paying attention.

A few seats away, an older man chuckled and shook his head. "That woman, she no get time for nonsense," he said.

Okpa smiled, realizing the whole situation was just a part of life in Lagos. He’d learned something that morning: in a city like this, a konk on the head was just a reminder to stay alert—life moves fast, and you can’t afford to sleep on it.

obainojazz:
Well said boss…. I was barely beaten growing up unlike my siblings but I still grew up to be like the perfect boy who never entered any trouble
No beating yet I no turn out like Okpa and co

Roland17:
There are developmental milestones every child achieves as they age. Those milestones are typically physiological, biological, intellectual/ cognitive. When there is a deficit in any of the aspects listed, then we need to ask why?

Flogging doesn’t correct a deficit in emotional regulation. When you flog, you are not beating a child’s inability to properly regulate their emotions, rather, you are beating the child’s response to their inability to properly regulate their emotions. In this instance the response is anger or other maladaptive behaviors. Beating may suppress anger which is the response but it will not resolve the deficit in emotional regulation. Remember I said suppress anger, not resolve anger.

The process of developing proper emotional regulation takes a lifetime but usually starts at 2 when kids start to explore the different emotions they are feeling. That is the best time to help children learn proper emotional regulation. Helping them understand emotions like crying, smiling, anger, confusion, excitment etc makes the foundation strong. Redirect inappropriate responses immediately and consistently at this age. Encourage them to use their words. Also, their environment remains the biggest factor of influence. What surrounds the child? What is the child seeing? What they see informs how they interpret certain emotions.

Every disciplinary approach has the ability to have the same effect. The most important thing is the intention behind discipline and ensuring the approach/ choice of discipline matches the situation. Also, what are your own emotions when you are disciplining your child? Do adults mix their own frustrations with life when they discipline their children? For me, it has to be a combination and knowing what is effective and how to use it. Also, being flexible with approach.

If my child breaks TV as response to anger, e go collect before we dive into “why”? I am quite traditional but I also know my growing up is different from today. Know what your child responds to and that is effective and be flexible enough to explore options. Also, ensure discipline is age appropriate before you tempt a teenage son to handle you.. I have always said, my children will earn my friendship when they grow but until then I will parent.

TemporaryHansel:
Na see finish go make stranger konk you for bus sha. Like wtf? The woman don look okpa from head to toe say who be this bagger,

RecentHistory:
Guy, just shut up. Talk no dey your mouth.
How were you sure they were unarmed? Or you're one of their collaborators?

When they went to raid the Chinese in Abuja, they discovered armed escorts at the house of the Chinese.

When they went to arrest some idiotic fraudsters in Abeokuta, these idiots called soldiers to fire on the Efcc guys, telling them the Efcc guys were robbers.

You cordon off to easily identify yourself to those around and as well restrict movement.

The Efcc did a good job and your complaints are ranting and nags are nonsensical.