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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 2:42pm On Mar 24, 2025
GloriousGbola:
both drugs and gambling count as clinical addictions

the only difference is that drugs are for the most part illegal, but gambling is legalized so businesses can actually employ psychologists to figure out peoples buttons and triggers . the gambling pipeline is designed, planned and executed
Gbam!

U are very correct on this one, that is how the whole baby soccer/virtual sports betting is designed. That is why virtual betting is worse than the normal sports betting where u bet on ur regular football matches. Those virtual will trigger people and make them lose hundreds of thousands today and they will be back playing it tomorrow.

The bet companies and their psychologists are really eating good when it comes to virtual betting.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 2:38pm On Mar 24, 2025
raumdeuter:
People dey steal and kill to fund betting lifestyle oh. All those people you see at Baba Ijebu shop, you are certain 80% of them dont have money to feed next week but they will still play 2sure and 3 direct

Just as you can start selling things to get that high with drugs, you can also sell things to get that hammer with betting and MLM

How many times have we heard bankers dip into customer accounts to fund betting or MLM where they can hammer quick and return the initial money they they wll start competing with Dangote for richest man

I agree drugs is worse cos it hits your health straight but those ones too, na highway to unclothedness
Yeah, I always have the feeling that betting and crypto/MLM can knock u off and make u go broke for life. But u can break off their addiction if and when u want to cos its more of psychological issue and it is being fueled by availability of cash at ur disposal.

Drug addiction is worse because u will practically be unable to function well as a human if u don't consume that drug u are addicted to. To break off the habit can even lead to serious medical issues like suffering seizures as part of withdrawal symptoms. I believe that's why some female can sleep anything/anyone just to see money for drugs. Same reason why some male can steal or kill anybody just to get money for blow.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 2:27pm On Mar 24, 2025
Emmynator:
Any of those things is terrible depending on the level of addiction. Growing up I have experienced at least one extreme of each of these things. I cant say which is worse.

I knew someone, bright guy. Was in first class at 300 in Chemical engineering. This guy hit gambling addiction, he started borrowing money, begging, then resorted to stealing and he was owing the bet shop a lot of money too. The guy had to run away from school when they were hunting for him. That was the end of his academics, the first class just waste. Let's not even talk about what would have happened if he was caught.
So yes, gambling addicts can display the same level of madness as drug addicts, maybe we can just make a case for the direct effects drugs has on the body.
Omo! shocked

This one week me o, so he lost his bright academics prospects to gambling? U sure say his matter no be spiritual sha ? How can he be on the verge of finishing with a first class that will almost earn him an automatic job after graduation only for him to lose all to gambling ?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 1:39pm On Mar 24, 2025
raumdeuter:
Which is worse, Taking drugs, betting or doing MLM
Those are 3 areas I will gladly accept and embrace my ignorance. Add crypto to it
Drugs is worse, the other two can be be gotten rid of when one is extremely broke. But for drugs, people who are addicts can steal or even kill to get that high.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 1:36pm On Mar 24, 2025
Emmynator:
Pastor Chris has been vocal in criticising gospel artists too. Seems na the new trend be that.
Pastor Chris own is still understandable to an extent.

According what I read, it seems he gave Gospel artistes like Sinach, Frank Edwards and co platform to blossom in their music career. More like he sponsored their music careers till they became mega stars who now charge millions to appear at concerts and church programs.

I think his grouse with them is that they somehow feel irrespective of his contribution to their career in the early stages, it is about time he starts paying them for them to honor invites to his programs. They feel they will be losing money if they honor his invites to perform for free when they can go for other events same day and they will get paid their worth.

In a way we can say he's trying to reap what he has sowed in their career in the past and they don't seem to agree he has not already reaped enough.

Where Femi's own come from is what I don't understand.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 1:18pm On Mar 24, 2025
Theflint1:
Is that what they call appearance fee for pastors? cheesy
YES, It has no fixed charge/price but it will be substantial and must be paid .
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 1:15pm On Mar 24, 2025
Theflint1:
And to think Femi Lazarus follow for our commonsense geng pastors...now imagine the level of shege these gospel musicians would be getting from your normal entitled god of men.
That's why the artistes will not honor some invites. Some churches will put the face of those big artistes on their program banner and they won't show up.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 1:14pm On Mar 24, 2025
afrodoc2:
People are not bashing Dakolo. Sheeple are.
grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 1:13pm On Mar 24, 2025
izzou:
[color=royalblue] Christianity is Nigeria is more chaotic than ever. So much noise, less substance

Can I invite Femi Lazarus to my street fellowship, and he'll come for free? Femi no dey collect, whether na charge or Honorarium?

It's funny how these pastors who are only seen in Invite-me-I-invite-you crusades have the guts to castigate another group who are doing the same thing with them.

If you will not pay Gospel Artistes, use your church choir.

Na why Bro Gbile Akanni still remains my favorite.[/color]
Initially I thought Femi was on to something when he said after Gospel artistes collect money and start rolling on the floor when performing , that they only being motivated by the money to put up a show and nothing else. But when he started suggesting that the gospel artistes not get paid at all , I see say that one na winchi man things. If gospel artistes don't get paid, how will they cater for their bands and individual financial needs ?

The truth is the pastors even make more money than some of those gospel artistes in the name of honorarium.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 1:08pm On Mar 24, 2025
liveLongNprospa:
BlueRayDick, remember when we argued whether 600k was enough to take care of a family?
Shebi people say it is more than enough and that u go still save hundreds of thousands keep inside grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 12:28pm On Mar 24, 2025
afrodoc2:
We had a snooker joint on medical school campus, and 4 booze joints (3 in students area and 1 in staff area), and a video game joint. And police no dey enter.

I think it was not until some external boys designed one of my guy’s face with bottle on top snooker gambling before the student union government closed off the snooker joint.
The guy still get the scars today.
Those snooker joints used to be rough no lies! Na fight dey always end most of the games sef.

That bottle and knife stabbing na regular occurrence and that's why police always raid them back in the days.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 12:15pm On Mar 24, 2025
Shegzdave:
Tomi Dakolo is right on this

I think someone here said something sometime ago that “Never allow yourself to be used for free for services that others are being paid for”

Gospel that should be free and disciples being taught how to be like Christ are being charged for that but Gospel Artiste who compose songs should not be charging fees

Moreover, Big Gopel artiste equals large offering for that day program so why is he complaining

If you allow them use you, na your problem be that
The funny thing is that some people are still bashing Dakolo, they claim the gospel artistes charging to perform is not the same thing as Femi Lazarus charging to teach at his International school of ministry. Dem say na false equivalence.

I really don't understand why Nigerians can't see when a pastor is wrong and just tell the way the thing is . They will rather crawl through the lion's den to defend the indefensible.

I can't wrap my head around the fact that a pastor will charge other pastors to teach them how to handle their "misnistry " which is supposed to revolve around the gospel
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 12:10pm On Mar 24, 2025
afrodoc2:
I have never staked money on betting in my life.

I don’t know even know how to read a gambling slip cos all those numbers look like Greek to me.

I had friends that were chronic cards, video games and snooker gamblers in Uni but I was just an observant. Some of them even gambled on video game football matches that I participated in but my own money no come out. I was the Barcelona or AC Milan wey dem dey bet on top. LOL
On Saturday myself and 2 of my friends had a hangout at an indoor lounge that has a sports bar where we decided to just drink and catch up on old times.

One of my two friends saw the snooker board and said he wants to play but surprising myself and the other friend don't know how to play. He was now asking how we can be guys who grew up on the streets and don't know how play snooker?

I told him when we were much younger police regularly raid snooker joints and game centers where they arrest young boys at random and their parents will have to bail them later in the day or the next day. The fear that if police should arrest me in a Snooker joint, my parents will nearly kill me made me to never go near any snooker joint till I became an adult. That fear of parents really instilled some levels of discipline in us growing up o
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 11:53am On Mar 24, 2025
Theflint1:
These pastors have several gospel ministers that'd perform for pretty much free, but are obsessed with the likes of Timi Dakolo because they know those are the ones that will swell offering purse.

It's good as Timi Dakolo is bringing receipts, there is a very business end to the church venture and everybody in the value chain deserves to eat of the fruits.
Timi Dakolo is not even a gospel artiste at that ( I guess that is why he can take on Femi Lazarus, cos most gospel artiste will not want to be seen as dragging an Apostle), but his points are very valid.

Like u rightly said; everyone in the value chain deserves to eat. Most of those gospel artistes being invited are even avenue for pastors to raise funds in their church. If a pastor organizes a program and he lists 3 to 5 big gospel artistes, u will see several well-to-do members rising up to donate substantial sums to the success of such programs and the gospel artistes' stay. Only a part of these sums will go to the gospel artistes while the rest will be residual income to the church.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 11:47am On Mar 24, 2025
semid4lyfe:
E be like say na only me no sabi nada about organized betting.

The last time I ever staked money on betting was when I rolled dice in Sec Schl. Simple and easy stuff.

All the buzz words, terms and phrases be like swahili to me.

Anyways, from the negative perception and comments on betting I've gathered here, it seems this my ignorance of betting is bliss so I'll continue in it.
Honestly, ur ignorance is a bliss.

This was the same thing I told a former colleague back then who saw a ticket posted by one of his ex-university mates on twitter and was surprised that people win tens of millions from sports betting. He said he wished he knows how to play sports betting that he will just be cashing out considering he's a soft guy who is actually loaded (aside from his salary, he's from upper upper middle-class family)

I just told him to not even dream about it because he will regret the day he ever learnt how to bet. I said I can teach him the terms, how to forecast and how to bet but he will later cuss me in life when the thing starts eating into his finances when he becomes an addict. He go dey inside church service he go dey check games wey don come or ticket wey he fit quickly cash out before everything cast. grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 11:16am On Mar 24, 2025
Apostle Femi Lazarus has been vocal in recent times calling out “Gospel Artistes “ who charge humongous amounts to “minister “ in churches .

He recently projected on his church’s screen ; a mail from a gospel artiste stating his terms of service for him to perform in a church and part of the terms includes honorarium of 10k USD , executive hotel suites for the artiste and his team , first class flight ticket for the artiste and business class flight ticket for his crew members , etc.

Since Femi Lazarus started the callout weeks ago , Timi Dakolo has been subtly shading Femi Lazarus and questioning why pastor’s get to collect offerings , tithes , special donations , etc but they expect gospel artistes not to get paid . He even suggested that churches should rather use their resident choir if they can’t afford the popular gospel artistes fees instead of the pastors whining online about the gospel artistes fees charged .

Now Timi Dakolo has gone a step further by revealing that Femi Lazarus actually charges 150 USD per head for entrance into his international school of ministry . Dakolo queried why Femi Lazarus will charge others to teach them about the ministry/gospel of Jesus that should be free . He is saying if Gospel artistes are to be performing for free then pastors too should not be asking congregants to pay for any teaching whatsoever in the house of God.

Below is link to Femi Lazarus school of ministry payment evidences posted by Dakolo.

https://x.com/instablog9ja/status/1904094516426019126?s=46


If u ask me , I think Dakolo’s point of view is quite logical
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 10:51pm On Mar 23, 2025
larride:
E no even suppose say something like that as an Elder knowing that the practice is amoral.
The man no try at all.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 7:54pm On Mar 23, 2025
raumdeuter:
What he said is what most of us know about the entertainment industry and how sex for roles work

Like some weeks back I shared a story told to me by an aspiring Yoruwood actress and it's not different from what Jide Kosoko said here

Some people will always ask for sex and if you value your dignity, you walk away from them and their roles, but if you're the all way na way person then you might see it differently
You are right , that’s why I said some things are better left unsaid . The whole sex-for-role has been happening from time immemorial and it is still happening .

It’s just that it looks bad on him that the clip paints a picture of him supporting sex-for-role or he sees nothing bad in it.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 7:24pm On Mar 23, 2025
Jide Kosoko is being dragged for this



A part of me thinks he deserves the dragging because some things are better left unsaid ; but another part of me thinks it might just be the usual gimmick of Honest Bunch podcast producers whereby they will cut few seconds clip of their guest’s controversial speech to promote that episode online .
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 6:47am On Mar 23, 2025
iamoyindamola:
Rest
Blueraydick and I also talked about the so many plot holes

Btw, you guys are short in youkay how's that my fault too?
😂😂😂
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 10:40am On Mar 22, 2025
iamoyindamola:
Ever since Starmer nack kemi badluck correct agbako
We no they hear from the defender of the west again
Shey u Dey read UK newspapers ni ? Na people wey Dey read their paper go know whether she Dey talk or not na
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 1:29am On Mar 22, 2025
ouzo1:
Blueray see another teenage African sensation..
This bros old pass me wey Dey my 30s sef 🥵
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 10:26pm On Mar 21, 2025
GloriousGbola:
Also I read there are far less guns in the streets of the UK. So much so that people literally rent guns. So the same gun may have been used in multiple crimes. Them catch you with gun 4 years before other charges. It's a pure TV show
Yes , that was a big plot hole ; the guns were just too available for the respective families/gangs .The fact that they shoot the guns in broad daylight and don’t get picked up by policemen after reviewing CCTV footage shows it’s just a pure TV show .

I guess they just want to enjoy the action and look beyond some of these obvious plot hole sha . I’ve enjoyed it up to episode 7 sha ; na finale remain
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 10:23pm On Mar 21, 2025
iamoyindamola:
The annoying thing is they Nunez their shots, 5 people were shooting Sean and none could hit him
The producer Dey keep anybody he wants alive no matter what . He only kills a character when he no longer wants him to feature anymore . Sean don too escape so many near-death situation till he finally meets his end .

The rate at which Elliot always heal quickly anytime he receives a beating is also questionable . When they beat him almost to coma now , the next few days u see him fighting like he was never injured few days ago.

But overall the series has been good , no dull moment . I like Luan and his Albanian mob sha, those guys are the real gangsters
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 8:09pm On Mar 21, 2025
iamoyindamola:
Nah I can't hold it anymore
This season Gang of London is the bloodiest and baddest
How can you use placenta to strangle someone and the baby was born into chaos
Yeah the violence makes sense . I’m already on episode 7 sef .

The only thing I find too good to be true and equally unrealistic about the series is the way they shoot loads of guns on the streets , private properties and even in church yet somehow the police don’t always show up. They make it seem like London police is like Naija police that don’t always make it on time to the crime scene no matter how long the crime took to happen .
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 2:29pm On Mar 21, 2025
How’s it that the FG and military authorities are yet to react to this incident ? They just kept mum like the lives of these soldiers aren’t worth a nickel .

🤦‍♂️

Abi dem don react make we no know ?

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 7:08pm On Mar 20, 2025
akwesenana:
E go well?
Yes,making sense thus far .

Dem don kpai Sean laidis
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 4:58pm On Mar 20, 2025
GloriousGbola:
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Not all heroes wear cape, some don't even wear brassier cool

Celebrities › Re: Kanye West Lists The People Who Have Betrayed Him by BlueRayDick: 3:31pm On Mar 20, 2025
This guy get mental illness, as in real Kolo!

He should be on suicide watch make he no go unalive himself one day
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 2:20pm On Mar 20, 2025
larride:
Senate approve the proclamation of state of emergency in Rivers by the President
As expected.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 2:12pm On Mar 20, 2025
iamoyindamola:
Yes
larride:
It’s not. Tried to copied Empire and failed miserably at it. Terrible cast of actors and actresses also.

Same with “All the Queens Men”
I'm not really a fan of Tyler Perry's drama shas sha. When I finish gangs of London I will try and look it up sha
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 1:28pm On Mar 20, 2025
iamoyindamola:
Watch beauty in black
It is Tyler Perry's ? Hope it is interesting sha?

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