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This Arsenal guys came into this match with to much belief. Giroud wasting chances, metersacker fumbling up.

searching4love:



T. B JOSHUA AND OYEDEPO ARE THE MOST CORRUPT AND EVILS PASTORS WE HAVE IN THIS COUNTRY. ONE IS THE GATE KEEPER OF HELL, THE OTHER IS A MASS MURDERER.

THEY BOTH ARE USING BIBLE TO SCAM GULLIBLE PEOPLE AND RIP THEM OFF THEIR HARD EARNED MONEY ALL IN THE NAME OF TITHES AND OFFERINGS.

MAY GOD PUNISH THESE EVIL MEN IN SHEEP'S CLOTHING





Any brainwashed bastard that quotes me shall die of stray bullets

Emi ti gbe ina wo oju ota loni, ota ko le ri ohun gbe mi se. mo ti se awo ajere, beeni ajere ko le je mi mo aiye. mo se awo alara, mo se awo , osun yeye o, yeeeeeee mo se awo orisa merindilogun. Emi koni rare bi ko se orire ni to ri pe gbogbo origun mererin ode aiye yi se te mi. Bi ope ogede ba gbe owo, ara re lo n fi na. Ko gba le nu re.

Now having said that...... I have quoted you.

That can be true which includes him as well as some nairalanders too.

CFCfan:
But a certificate is needed for the State to recognize the marriage.

God knows no state. As I've said, certificate is for human regulation.

joywendy:
really op no one is focusing you to do a white wedding.
just say you don't want to do it, than coming here to rant that it's unafrican. There is always a court marriage which is way much cheaper and faster, if that's your problem.

the trad marriage does it offer a certificate to prove that you are both married? i think not correct me if am wrong. that the most important thing in a wedding the marriage certificate.



There are many things we do in Africa that's not a part of our culture from the beginning. you may as well throw your college degree in to the bin since it's un African. you may as well stop typing in English and start typing in your native dialect because every other thing is unafrican. you may as well stop wearing western attire because its unafrican. you may as well drop your religion and go back to the African religion of sango and all because its unAfrican.

if you claim you want to boost the African culture.


ladies who tend to just be normal and don't apply facial makeup are seen as members of the s.u. when she does she is suffering from cultural slavery.
The generalization in your post irritates me.
i know some ladies who prefer trad wedding to the white one.

everyone knows that the white wedding isn't from Christianity. so what exactly are you blabbing about?

inferiority complex
i laugh in Swahili ain't you part of those Africans?
who discriminate others who are trying to continue the old culture by referring to some of things done has barbaric? you will be the first to point fingers at people who decided to wore bare on their feet and tie wrapper.

#smh

hypocrisy at it's peak.

God does not need a certificate to recognise marriage, it is the humans that created a certificate. Did anyone in the Bible collected certificate? Certificate is for human regulation and not God's. Your marriage is recognised immediately your parents ascend to it and blesses the union with witnesses around. Traditional marriage is it then go to the marriage registry to get your certificate after due process has been followed.

CityNG:
So does this mean that you didn't take my advice and educate yourself on the theory of cause and effect?

A damn shame but I bet you know what underwear Tiwa Sewage wore yesterday. SMH.

Look at this one. Who is Tiwa savage? and what is my business with her.You better do not get it twisted as if I am one of those silly Individuals that gallivant around. How the heck do you know that I do not know what the theory of cause and effect is? My friend talk without insult and irrelevancies. Tell me how you can have a firm belief that when those past causes have disappeared, things will definitely get better in the current state of Nigeria where causes occur every day without a space to affirm your belief. Please do not refer me to that philosophy of light-oriented thinking. It works, but it depends on what we have at hand. Bye and have a nice day.

CityNG:
I offer no apologies that I'm a disciplined and professional driver who motors about like a gentleman of culture. My travels around the south was to different cities.

I do not know you Sir, and frankly do not desire as such. Therefore you accusation that I thought you use the horn as a toy is uninformed.

I shall be motoring about again in less than 72 hours, In Sha Allah.

Oh by the way you're more likely to have a corpse around your neck or become one too with your complete lack of road etiquette.

My friend bye bye.

abatically:
I been driving for 3 years in Nigeria now and I don't honk unnecessarily. Believe me u can do it if u really want to. Within the city I rarely use my horn unless when necessary, on the highway, I can travel from Lagos to Benin and back without using my horn even once. But then for u, someone that blows his horn whenever he overtakes on the highway, I can imagine how much u honk while driving in the city then, choi, that horn go don suffer. An educated fellow like u should be creating awareness for the less learned, not doing what they do just because u think the country is failed.

Bye and regards to your family. Have a lovely week. Drive safely.

lomomike:
The man you're calling a scholar finished school before I started secondary school most probably. So know what you're saying.

So you know me? I wonder how some people reason on a forum that is blindfolded. What is my business if he finished school before you started your secondary school? Does that have anything to do with wisdom? In fact how am I suppose to know that, do I look like a spirit or what is the essence of you telling me. Please let's face our work. I have had enough for the day. Bye and regards to your family.

abatically:
I was actually expecting this kind of answer. So when u go to another man's country u keep their law and do the right thing, but when in ur own country u do the wrong thing. U ARE ONE OF THE PROBLEMS OF THIS COUNTRY. Tomorrow u will blame GEJ if an accident happens, or blame the bad roads. Then u will compare Nigeria with USA or UK, trying to use USA as a standard. How can we ever be like them when our citizens know the right thin but will keep doing the wrong thing? A sane person will never blow his horn every time he overtakes in those countries and it is one of the reasons their highways are safer than here.

Look here man, when your government convoys drive recklessly on the road, intimidating everyone, what can one citizen like me do. Their highways are safe not because they do not use horn but because they think safe, their governments do not intimidate and more so they have effective speed limit control likewise a patrol at every reasonable kilometer or mile as the case maybe. CCTVs or hidden camera monitoring with bills knocking at your door if you are found wanting. So what do you expect. See I drive regularly on highways, 5 hours, 4 hours and not just city driving. We are talking of a country where many do not even know the meaning of road signs. We are talking of a country when the other driver does not even care about you. I try not to use my horn if you care to know that, but when you always find yourself in precarious positions, tell me what you will be doing to save the day. We are all in it. Can you lead a revolution to make things right, if not you are also a problem. Imagine a road that is so wide and government fails to demarcate it even with paints and where both sides are meant to keep two lanes to each you find the other keeping almost the four lanes. Tell me won't you safeguard yourself. The so-called US you have mentioned, are our roads like theirs. My brother make we leave talk face our work.

CityNG:
I drove in Nigeria for 3 weeks last year and hardly used my horn at all. Admittedly much to the chagrin of my passengers who wished that I used the horn more. Totally uneccesary.

Some Nigerians are so stupid with this mentality that even when they get home they lay on the horn for the megad to open the gate thereby disturbing the peace of the whole neighborhood.

Obviously you are not resident in Nigeria and I'm pretty sure that your 3 weeks driving wasn't a regular one. It's also likely that you drove to a particular destination throughout the 3 weeks. If you drive in Nigeria for 1 year I bet you that you won't even realise when you will start hooting your horn because I am sure you won't want to have a corpse on your neck or maybe become a corpse to. Leave the aspect of gate man and face the driving on the road we are talking about because I don't even horn when entering my house. 3 weeks is not enough for you, come and drive for a year and more and you will understand. I used to be against the use of a horn when driving but when my car became bashed severally because I felt the other driver was also thinking clearly and another series of happenings I changed unconsciously but yet I use it with decorum and not as a toy as you thought.

CityNG:
You continue to show your ignorance.

Governments create laws and most importantly enforce them.

Get off of Nairaland and go and buff up on the theory of cause and effect and then come back with reasonable dialogue.

Telling me to calm down shows your ineptness in debating.

Mr Debater, I can see that you are a fresh scholar hence mentioning debating. I wonder who the hell is debating with you. If you have an opinion, air it and dissipate from the forum. Telling me about the theory of cause and effect. I wonder who is more inept between you and I when you can't even differentiate between a debate, dialogue and discussion.

CityNG:
You are part of Nigerias problem if you can't see that the government of reasonable countries do indeed enforce laws like that.

Attempting suicide will at least ge you admitted into a psych ward and charged with attempted suicide.

While would your brain even be functioning when at the first cry of "ole" you're already picking up materials to burn someone.

Unwashed barbaric slowpoke.

PS: And by the way the reason that the government is involved is making sure that all tractor trailer shave safety bars in the back. Something this simple has been law in the US since the 60's. I know it will take 100 years before they figure that out in Nigeria.

Cool down. What I am saying here is all about common sense. Before those countries enact such laws their citizens themselves have thought of first-hand safety by putting common sense to use. The laws are to check mad individuals. Law or no law common sense is required. Personal safety is vital. And mind you, the problem we have in Nigeria is not about enacting laws but rather bringing them to play. I can tell you that if 50% of the traffic laws we have in Nigeria comes to play, our road will be a lot safer. So where they are not been obeyed nor enforced, common sense should fill up. If you by chance get to read the laws we have in Nigeria, you will say if only half of it can come to play. It does not only take the government to enforce laws but also of the citizens.

abatically:
Try blowing ur horn every time u overtake in the US or Europe or even some parts of asia and see if u won't get pulled over. If everybody on the highway blows their horns like that do u think the highway would be conducive to drive?

My guy, if I am in europe or where sane people are, I know that I am in it. But curently I drive in an environment where people can be so selfish on the road, in an environment were nearly all the drivers behave like a mad person. So it is not bad if I check your sanity before overtaking you. And mind you that doesn't mean I hoot my horn every now and then.

abatically:
There is no point blowing ur horn before overtaking. It can be annoying to other road users and can even cause the person u are trying to overtake to lose control. It can be used when necessary especially when the person in front of u is not maintaining his lane, but doing it unnecessarily is not right.

Why would blowing of a horn make you loose control? A driver must be ultra alert and not jittery. I can blow my horn in a way that it will be like a nuisance and as well as the other way round. If blowing of a horn can make a driver lose control then any sudden noise can make a driver lose control if that is the case, that person is not a driver. A good driver must not suddenly develop a fear but rather be aware of his/her surrounding within a jiffy and keep safe.

phibah:
Most accidents are caused by human error....but what do you expect when people sit in their house and get their drivers license delivered to them...FRSC/VI O should sit up..driving is far much more than starting the ignition and moving the car.

Drivers licence or not, a mad man is a mad man. Why are people still arrested for traffic offences in well managed countries despite passing through required tests. First line of defence, Love your family then your self

Reference:
Nobody is talking about the condition of the road. There is no government to blame here. So what is the excuse. Silly people that will never take responsibility for anything. Always looking to blame others.

Are u minding them. Road is rough, government, road is smooth, government, preserve your life, government again. Haba

deor03:
I assume you understand Maslow's hierachy of needs. We are still at the most basic in Nigeria. ( I assume you have been away for long)

Food, water , shelter are still miracles here. In the US all you need anywhere is to have 1-bar signal on your phone..You can call 911 and be rest assured that you will get help.

While the government is still battling to get over the basic needs of Nigerians, isn't it wise for a Nigerian to live with caution?

Don't mind him. May be government will enforce law that he should not put his hands in fire

chronique:
RIP to the dead. A lot of Nigerians are bad drivers and bad road users. Overtaking from the right is wrong and should you attempt it,make sure you have a clear view of your front view and also ensure there's ample space for you to drive before the vehicle you're overtaking,pulls over in front of you. The safest and right way to overtake is from your left. Many people know this,but still end up breaking this rule and at the end,they waste their lives and the lives of others. Last month,I was on Lagos-Abeokuta express and my colleagues were of the opinion that I should reverse on the express so we can quickly connect the opposite lane and avoid traffic. I vehemently refused,but opted to through the normal route to connect the opposite lane. I tried to explain to them that reversing on the express was wrong and the vehicles coming behind me wouldn't expect a car to be reversing on that lane. At the end,I might end up causing accident for innocent people. If they die as a result of that,would I forgive myself knowing fully well that I was wrong? These are the little details Nigerians don't pay attention to and at the end of the day,they end up paying a greater price for it. People should learn to do the right thing often,and also put other road users into consideration when driving.

Either I'm overtaking from right or left I press my horn until I'm certain I can overtake you.

Na so. Small small o.










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bushdoc9919:
The Police must investigate......who did this must be caught.

[size=14pt]NO TRIBAL JOKES PLEASE. RAPE IS A NIGERIAN ISSUE....NOT A TRIBAL ISSUE[/size]

How do you think young men will be able to see women from the side of humanity and not sexual objects with the way ladies dress up and down these days? Ladies open up the boobs, were very tight fitting clothes that reveal all their curves. Move around wearing skin pants without putting on pants or maybe they wear G-string. They move about wearing micro skirts. They move around showing their cleavages, and now that it is even a trend. Anyway we fathers will try our best to see to it and also that of our daughters.

One thing I know is that my daughter must be physically agile and security skillful.

That been said. Please you are one of those that need to reexamine your mentality. How do you mean that raping is a Nigerian thing, a Nigerian issue If you want to know what rape is go to south Africa, Jamaica, Haiti. In fact, no make me abuse you this morning. It is people like you that go outside and bring Nigeria down and make people see you differently. Siiiioooooo.

DesChyko:
R.I.P to the dead.
The election isn't more important than the lives of Nigerians.
Elections can hold at anytime, postponed or not. But human lives, once gone, cannot be replaced.
For this reason, the military must try to contain this BH issues before elections. We don't want such scenarios in our polling stations.
And the people must put safety first. No political position is worth the blood of any citizen.

Containing Boko Haram is not about brute which is why I'm still wondering how SSS, NIA, and DIA are supporting the Armed forces brute with intelligence

Democracy can be interesting with all this Dogo Turan chi. Stealing is not corruption because it was written in the files that they stole money. In those cases of corruption that was written as stolen, did or did it not involve manipulation of records to be able to steal public funds. If he supports that stealing is not corruption and he talked about what is been done in his village to anyone who stole, then I think we need to start executing jungle justice on anyone who steal public funds as stealing is not corruption and they are "Ole".

3cycle:
When your mates are out there hustling, you sit all day typing nonsense and expect her to worship you?
So Sad.

So you are a hustler. Sorry for you o. when your mates are making cool money, you are hustling for money. Mr hustler, so you have the time to open and read nonsense. Nonsense, as if you did not read the topic before opening it. Nonsense. Mr hustler, is your wife worshiping you already for been a hustler?

denkyw:
if devil come and attack
them, is it their phone or laptop they will use to
fight the devil? ....op you dey watch too much nollywood movies, Bible no dey cast devil. devil self dey quote Bible

You will use the word of God which comes n the name of Jesus Christ. So let me ask you too, do you intend to be twisting the bible like a sword i the face of spiritual battle?

zick19:
I never said its wrong, my main point is on how the pastors makes use of it.... They keep bible somewhere else and they make their tabs in place of the bible...

Is it the book or the word?

samtol4:
.Why buy properties in her own name ?why see money as her own money? Bible says Two shall become one.I will find out what is causing " insecurity" from her since I am faithful and honest.

Then in whose name should it be bought? Husband's, Wife's, or Mr & Mrs. If it's in Mr's by the Mr's, maybe wife is submitting in everything, Mrs-the husband believes that anything acquired in marriage is a community property(Same goes for Mr), Mr & Mrs -Maybe they are both Thomas and needs to see with their eyes.

samtol4:
it is difficult to sacrifice for a man swimming in extra-marital affairs and likewise with a wasteful and purpose less woman. I preside with sincerity and openest you know the kind man or woman u marry you will understand how to operate .However for me my woman knows my total income and she has access to my atm(she is my bank manager and chief planner) and I have access to hers also .(That is not issue).When you are honest a good woman surrenders all to you. Unfortunately many men are possessed with the "demon of infidelity" and kept women outside and these women drained the family purse while some women are extremely wasteful ,a woman will want to buy all aso ebi and though she has 30shoes already she want more and she want d lastest Phones not considering the income of the husband, when you marry such lady u need wisdom otherwise you end up in penury

What of a situation where infidelity is absent, the man is not wasteful, wife not wasteful, man earning 5 digits, and wife 6 digits. The wife knows what the husband earns precisely, but the husband does not care to know what the wife earns precisely neither does the wife mentions it specifically. Wife has a natural insecurity and sees her money as her own, buys properties in her name and wants the husband to be fronting it. Wife's earning is wth benefits but husbands' earning is without benefits. If you were the husband how would you perceive this situation?

MzNelly:
Its unwise. Please don't. Only God knows the future.

Do not say it is unwise. It is very wise. You need to pray and confirm if you are in the right direction though not always 100% but only for few.
I can boldly tell you that there are many things we neglect that we aren't suppose to. Before I married I prayed and pastors told me some certain things, my dad even did a traditional consultation. Every message giving are 80% similar. I jettisoned some things, after all, every marriage is not 100% so we will always sort things out. After marriage, there use to be a lot of friction. I then read about the Chinese zodiac signs and is not different from the revelations.

The bottom line here is that it can be wise. Do not forget that God won't come down to live your marriage for you. It requires does involve to live it right in the midst of their differences.

bukatyne:
Preside as in?

there will be an overseer now. how do you think interests would be harmonized? The truth is one must sacrifice his/her interest in order for an agreement to come to been. So who bows most times.

bukatyne:
IMO,

I believe all resources should be gathered and distributed to meet the needs of the home.

E.g. If a wife earns 200k and a husband earns 200k monthly, the total income monthly is 400k.

They pay tithe of 40k and use the rest to meet their needs and save

There is no my money your money.

But someone must preside. And who will that be?