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niggereyez:
Hmnnnnnn....
dat gate in d background.. there's sumtin about it that makes her take 'most all of her selfies there..
lol.
kidding...
buh there's sumtin about it shaa

Guess she's the indoor type

Sarimah:
she and this her gate


she looks beautiful

I tot I was a alone.“the gate"

bukatyne:
@OP:

What do you think should be the ideal?

Situations, though can be peculiar,

1. Husband earning 5 digits without other allowances, & wife 6 digits with other allowances.

2. Both earning 5 digits

3. Both earning 6 digits

4. Husband earning, wife not earning

5. Wife earning, husband not earning.

What can be done in this situations assuming they are both God fearing.

veave:
Are you married yet?

Hmmmmmm.....dilly dallying. Kind of, kind yes

bukatyne:
I agree

However some marriages are not ideal and each spouse must find What works with their partners.

Hmm, some marriages are not ideal. Situations like?

I'm beginning to be worried about series of hypocrisy going on in marriages of today. Husband and wife eat together in the same plate at once as a sign of togetherness in the presence of their children but their monies are different. Husband has his own, wife has her own, including acquired properties. Wife can not submit in everything likewise the husband. But really how should this play-out.

How should couples show they are one in all dealings just as they eat together in the same plate.

Oya floor don open o

[quote author=donald1010 post=30258827][/quote]Of course why would you "Alter" you are meant to utter .

cycline404:
Who Is More Relaxed Here (GMB or GEJ) In the Meeting With John Kerry

Mischief makers. None of this picture can be used to describe who is more relaxed between the two. Bye bye.

major466:
In a world growing with violence on a daily basis. The need for self protection becomes very paramount, especially for ladies who are usually vulnerable.
Below is a pictorial display of how ladies can defend themselves from possible violent attacks.

https://s5.postimg.org/q3jwg4o8n/1421664919736.jpg
Step 1. Stand your ground. Show no fear.
Step 2. Hold your position and lower yourself below the attacker's chin.
Step 3. Make a surprise thrust with your head on his jaw area. This will disorient him into confusion.
Step4. Consolidate and take advantage of the confusion on the attacker with a nice knee kick on his balls. This will make him lose control.
Step 5. Keep on the offensive by giving the attacker a knock on the back with your elbow.
Step 6. Triple it up with a kick on the attacker's heard as he skampars for breadth.
Step 7. This time your attacker falls on the ground gasping in pains, but don't let go yet. Give him a leg kick to prevent surprise offensive from the attacker.
Step 8. Now your attacker is completely subdued. You may finish him up with kick on his arms and back.

Disclaimer: This is advisable only in life threatening situation. Don't practice this on your husband.

If only they exercise to keep fit. Many of them are fragile and lazy when it comes to been physical. If they try that head butt, I bet you they will be the one crying.

Hiswordxray:
"11 Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. 12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence." (1Tim 2:11-12).
Is women silent through out your church service? If not then you have also gone astray.

Lol. Hmm, my sister. Hold on I will reply you, Just keep a tab on your device

Hiswordxray:
Yes we have another foundation and that is Christ. Christ is our foundation not the Bible.
It is "Sola Christo" not "Sola Striptura".

Christ is the foundation not the Bible! Of course, it is not the bible but the word and the word is who? God; and the word has been before the creation of the earth meaning it has always been their hence Jesus Christ saying that He has not come to abolish the Laws, but to shew light unto it

KoloOyinbo:
Yes but again you focus on silly irrelevant rules nothing to do with Christianity. The Church is wherever two people or more gather together to worship God! The people are the Church not some building!

You analogy of skirt length strengthens my point! Whatever is appropriate for the time.

Are the tiny minority in a few developing world countries who believe this nonsense the only Christians

Christianity is not about hair covering or not. We stand naked in the presence of God.

Please allow the ladies to worry about important things and not whatever silly misconception a few ill educated men would divert them with. This is the least of the issues facing Christianity in the developing world. What about the vast number of fake pastors milking their congregations for their own greed, pretending to speak in tongues, how will we know the rare cases when it is real and the interpreter is correct? All these issues and we worry only about fashion and style? Sigh. Have I gone back in time to the days of the barbarians?

Please you are getting yourself worked up. No one has said this is the most important of all neither has anyone said Christianity is about covering of hair. The issue of fake pastors has always been there and no one has been silent about it either. Do not forget that the so-called fake pastors have already been judged by God Himself. Focus on yourself and let your life be a shining path of Christ unto others so they may be saved.

KoloOyinbo:
"Nor do the Churches of God generally". The CHURCHES not GOD!

Again the error of looking so closely at the word that we the miss the MESSAGE! Dress in a modest and appropriate manner for whatever place, time, culture you are in.

The people read the Bible looking for silly and infantile rules to follow or make themselves feel superior to other Christians. All are welcome at the Lords Table.

Hmm, just as I said, we've kept on giving reasons. Was the church brought up to serve men or God. Please refer to the book of Philippians as quoted in my earlier post. You said dress in a modest way according to time. Is this why women wear skirts that are above their knee rather than covering the knee down half way which you feel is better than Mini skirts. remember that you are exposed wearing a mini skirts and also wearing a skirt that is just on your knee or above for when you sit, you are opening up.

Do not be deceived as God is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow. He changes not, His word has always been the same and the times that you think, have changed is a decoy by Satan himself to deceive men. Obviously in the end times different interpretation will be cropping up, just as this. No Christian is making himself/herself superior to others. It's either you are a Christian or you are not.

Hiswordxray:
In the book of first Corinthians Paul gave certain instructions and he gave a reason for each of these instructions. Some he said it is directly from the Lord, another he said it's from the wisdom that God gave him, yet another he said it's just an advice. But when it came to the issue of women covering their hair he said "Now if anyone is disposed to be argumentative and contentious about this, we hold to and recognize no other custom [in worship] than this, nor do the churches of God generally." (1Cor 11:16).
Paul didn't say didn't say this is directly from the Lord and he didn't say if women didn't cover their hair they will go to Hell.

But Paul said this is a custom. Custom tells you what you need to do to be a part of a group or a society. And to be a part of the Church as at that time you must cover your hair as a woman.
But the gospel tells you what you need to do to make heaven and have a foretaste of heaven on earth.

Women covering hair is nothing but a custom for believer as at the time that verse was written. But if you choose to follow it fine and if you don't want to follow it there is nothing wrong with that.

From time immemorial, women, has always been giving a reason why God should not be honoured. Firstly from what you said, it was never their traditional custom but a custom in worship "But when it came to the issue of women covering their hair he said "Now if anyone is disposed to be argumentative and contentious about this, we hold to and recognize no other custom [in worship] than this, nor do the churches of God generally." (1Cor 11:16).

If you also read your bible well with a divine understanding you would have noticed this in 1 Corinthians 11:1-34
"Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ. Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you. But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. ..."

Also in Philippians 4: 8 "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things."

Why have we then chose to go astray? Please live to correct the errors of Eve and not to add to it.

Hero10001:
"If you wanna hide anything from a Black man, put it in a book"

@OP, Why was India banned from the game?
Just becos it aint real doesn't mean it didn't happen.

Come of it. India's exclusion from FIFA Competitions was due to disagreements over the wearing of playing boots or not. India preferred playing with their bare foot as at that time. Up till now they still participate in footballing competitions but not FIFA. The information I have given you may not be 100% accurate but I am 100% sure that it roves around this and not the gibberish you still thought was true.

jamace:
Yes, it is the mindset of the followers of the pastor that influenced him to change from confession to thanksgiving. Don't you think that if the pastor had instilled godliness in the man, he wouldn't have stolen in the first place?. It is clear that the pastor worships wealth and that has rubbed on most of the followers hence the pastor as a leader has failed in his responsibility.

I still disagree. Firstly we were not told that he worships at that church neither were we made to understand that he has had a first contact with the pastor before then. Secondly, if you want to fall you will fall in the face of temptations, and that is not the fault of the pastor. A pastor cannot see your true repentance unless you breathe it in and out, radiate it,... . It was written that he wanted to go and confess, so if he has the mind of confessing means the church/pastor has not encourage sinful acts. Unfortunately, he changed his mind which means he is double edge and wasn't prepared for true repentance. If he truly wants to confess, he would have turned back and go to another church.

honjohnbright:
That's a rural outpost not a station. There r many of such kinds in d middle belt.
These r responses of requests by locals to bring the presence of the police closer to the rural individuals.
More reason we advocate state/community policing cause it will make such outposts get an advance status quo

So because it is an outpost, it should be in such condition. So only State/community policing can guarantee a good and secured police outpost. Shaking my head for you. All the allocation meant for such projects are been stolen even by the leaders of that community and its likes and they are still the one to be around if state policing comes to being, so what is your point. Please be objective.

jamace:
And these same pastors will open their mouth to shout, "Jonathan is not fighting corruption".

The leadership of the church has collapsed. Pastors are failed leaders. How can churches be brooding crooks and expect the society to be corruption free? Pastors should repent!

You are wrong. Was it the Pastors that asked him to change his confession to thanksgiving or did he informed them of his motive. If him himself was ready for the confession and repentance, nothing on this earth could have deterred him from doing that. He was coming to deceive God, He killed intentionally and ran by back to God to give him a silly excuse in the bid that God should have mercy and forgive him while he's still spending the money.

DonaldGenes:
With this pix of mine, iDo hope I have been able to convinced you as to why millions of Nigerians aspire to be a Medical Doc. This guys de enjoy walai [ In Aboki's Voice ]

Anyway, I wonder if it's still the Medical norm shookinq peeps in the a$$..

Speaking of which, i prefer a female Doc to shook me to a male doc

Doctors do not administer injections, they refer them to Nurses

Rikidony:
THIS GIRL ALWAYS LOOKING HOT. LOOKING BANGABLE

Shes nada hot but appears empty. When you have treasures you cover it up but when you do not have you try to expose your emptiness.

bukatyne:
Genesis 1:27 - Bible Gateway

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+1:27

So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them

I am trying to see from this verse where it talks about inequality. If the OP wants to quote the Bible let him/her make appropriate references.

@OP: no comment; the Bible passage attracted me

Earth wasn't created in one verse, neither was man and woman created in one verse or same day nor He created them with the same mindset. So get your facts rights. God created a man to oversee what He has created and a woman because there was no companion for the man.

Franchise21:
http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/173168-buhari-nothing-new-offer-except-tired-ideas-provocative-utterances-pdp.html

Can we really quantify what GEJ claimed he has done to what Buhari did then past. Jonathan has only regressed Nigeria locally. General Buhari (Retd) built all the Old refineries we have today Pipelines, fought corruption to almost a stand still, which was visible to all Nigerians despite some disgruntled elements.

Some are saying Buhari will use most of his time to prosecute. Well I think when there is a problem the cause needs to be tackled in order to solve the problem and not the other way out. If it entails jailing all the current thieficians then so be it. We need a stern hand at this moment so that when we grow up we will not depart from such ways.

A Known devil is better than an unknown Angel.

AceOfDiamonds:
Yeah,ikr...
I get your point
Not all foreigners read and not all Nigerians do not read
But yet, our reading culture is appalling

It seems so because they dictate the events while we play along. Until we also determine the events and record them, then we shall know if they like to read always or rather if their reading culture is appaling. How many of them read Nigerian books

AceOfDiamonds:
Its said that if you are trying to hide anything from Nigerians, put it in a book ; they wouldnt bother checking/reading it...


But seriously,the adverse effects aside,the internet has helped in a plethora of ways which cannot be overlooked

Shoutout to the earlier generations who made it through school without search engines
How they did it,i haven't the faintest of ideas [/quothttp://m.youtube.com/watch?v=udlc2lNUTJAe].

The saying of hiding it in the books is a fatal lie. Is it all Europeans or none Black man that reads and yet we have a lot of blacks that reads. That statement is a racist one

GODDYGEE91:
Parents suffer n toiled day n nite 2 secure a brighter future 4 dia wards and de only way a child can repay de parent is by joinin cult n bring shame n sorow 2 d family. May their souls rest in perfect peace.

SHUN CULTISM, IT DESTROYS LIFE.

Not peace but pieces

There must be a national debate organized by INEC with 50% focus on bringing to a halt Insurgency and terrorists act in the country

Princecalm:
What do you need a car for?Do you know what it takes to maintain a car or all you care is about driving because am sure when the car is faulty you will also expect him to bring money for the repair.

Na only money? What of the time to repair and evaluate work done. yeye de smell. Most women think of the comfort the car gives and do not give a hoot of what it takes the for the car to give the comfort it ives

solomonslones:
last week I parked my vehicle in a place that had no "no parking" sign & There was another vehicle parked in my front with a police license plate

I barely spent 20mins in the office I went to, when I came out my vehicle had been towed.

Luckily for me their office was not so far off, got there and explained to the man who seem to be incharge, he claimed that, that was a no parking zone, I asked him how he expected me to know without the no parking sign, his response was "everyone knows"

he directed me to another woman to attend to me, she charged me N25,000, stating that 20,000 was for my offense & 5,000 was for the tow truck.

Long story short ended up paying N10,000. When I asked for receipt they handed the money back to me & asked that I go pay the 25,000, then I'll have a receipt. I paid the N10,000 & drove off

Points to note

1. Selective justice:why didn't they tow the vehicle in my front(note it wasn't a utility van or a patrol van)

2. They deflated my tires despite the fact they had a well fortified gate(the Vulcanizer initially charged me N400 for 2tires, ended up paying N200) why should I pay for this?

3.Everyone knows what the official fines are for FRSC but EDSTMA does not show you any official list of fines to be paid( so how do I know I'm not being ripped off)


There were so many cars there with lots of shouting, threats & pleas majority of the offenders there were wrong parking & violation of traffic light, none paid less than N5000

I read in a vanguard article where the Governor said that violators of tragic light should be detained for at least 2hrs, I don't know if there are any fines attached to it but when you get to their office, you must pay

If truly the pen is mightier than the sword, I hereby plead with all to help me pass the message to the appropriate authorities that:

1. The public should be informed on the extent of the powers of EDSTMA(I have tried searching the bill enabling them, I haven't found any)

2. The public should be informed of the official fines to be paid so that when arrested, you will not be ripped off

3.A platform should be created for the public to report erring officials of EDSTMA


Thanks

I no know wether na my broda or my sister make I call you. You see when you carry agberos put for job na the thing wey person go dey see be that. No be only Benin o, na everywhere, Lagos, Ibadan, Abuja(dem done stop am small). Na so them do me for Ibadan too for 2010, I park say make I ask for description, I no come down o. Before I say jack where is this place them done full my car say why I park for the worng place and me I no say I park wella and no gelemo of No parking sign dey there o. We drag am o soteesotee I come go ATM commot money give them 10,000 thooooousand too from 50,000 o. Hmm. You see the thing wey dey there be say, everybody dey do him own as the ogas at the top too they do there own. The society, economic, financial and security system is vulnerable to hawks and they are ready to make use of every giving opportunity to take what does not accrue to them.

mikeson12:
http://m.goal.com/x/en-ng/news/5755011

http://www.supersport.com/football/super-eagles/news/141102/Keshi_lifts_the_lid

Now Keshi appears clueless. So we should sit down with past accolades and not think you getting new accolades. Brother Keshi keep dwelling in the past. Go and bring Okocha, Amadu, Kanu, Tunde Balogun, Henry Nwosu, Amokachi, Oliseh, Taribo etc etc to play the remaining qualifiers, alright because you are better off in living in the past.

Grievances in marriage can be deadly. Many divorced marriage are as a result of unresolved or irreconcilable grievances.
So lets learn, what are those grievances that sprouts up in marriages and why. I will give an example and more are welcomed from the house.

One of the causes of grievances I see in marriage is Selfishness. Many would expect me to refer to finances but no no no, that's not where I'm going. Look at this situation, Kunle and Kemi got married successfully and happily; both are Christians. Kemi who is the wife appears to be more spiritual and prayerful than Kunle who is the husband. But there is this thing that keeps happening. Kunle is not the type that prays regularly in the morning but desires it a lot but any day Kunle wakes up and want to pray he involves the wife, if he wants to fast he tells the wife and they fast together, but if the wife wants to pray in the morning she prays alone not calling on kunle. She prays and sing aloud without the husband and Kunle has been watching to see if she would change. To Kunle this is an issue because he was at least confident that one day he will be praying regularly in the morning more than the wife if the wife always tap him and say lets pray. To Kunle this is selfish of his wife and he sees his wife as someone who his self righteous.

So what do you see about the situation above and what are other causes of grievances in marriage.

drnoel:
THE Ibeno beach is a beautiful sand beach, which stretches to James Town on the Atlantic, providing recreational facilities for water sporting. Other impressive beaches are located at Eket, Ikot Abasi, Adadia, Nwaniba, Uta Ewa and Oron.

The state is well known for her exciting and rich culinary culture, and highly reputed for her irresistible and salivating variety of cuisines, which are predominantly vegetables and sea foods.

Visitors can have a taste of popular local dishes such as isi-ewu, Afang, Edikan Ikong and top it up with fresh palm wine.

Oron Museum offers some finest carvings, relics, artifacts and other valuable antiquities such as masquerade costumes, traditional/instruments, pottery. The museum also contains an attractive, shaded water front garden where visitors can watch small boats drifting on the creeks.

Other places of interest in Akwa Ibom are Ibom Plaza, Presbyterian Church, Mary Slessor House Tomb, Mbo Forest Game Reserve etc.

Ibeno Beach is reputed to be the longest sand beach in West Africa covering about 2 kilometres.

It is a beach that forms a part of the West African border with the Atlantic Ocean. The beauty of this beach is that its sands have been stable over the years without receding with the tide.

Ibeno beach presents a nature's gift, not only as a home for fishing but a relaxation spot for tourists. It is located in Ibeno Local Council Area of the state.

http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=118620:ibeno-beach-akwa-ibom-longest-sand-beach-in-west-africa&catid=184:love-a-life&Itemid=711

But you are yet to show us how long the sand beach is. Meters and picture

Goshen360:
Okay sir,

I hope I can do this but not now. I'm typing from my phone. Maybe later, hopefully. But, look up the word "bewitched" in the Greek and see for yourself.

I can't seen to correlate. But you can always reply at your comfort