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Health › Re: Judge Orders President Bolsonaro Of Brazil To Wear A Face-Mask by Bluffly: 1:44pm On Jun 24, 2020
SmartProf:
Lol..those asking Buhari to also follow suit, let it be known that the President's age has made him fragile and he may not be able to breathe in and out easily should he put on one. His handlers know that if those visiting him put on a mask, then he may not need to wear one. Besides, the man is now just relaxing in the villa monitoring what is happening in Nigeria from TVC or Channels TV, and recieving some government officials and APC leaders who come to brief him on how they are handling Nigeria and APC, so he effectively doesn't even leave the villa gate. That's how redundant the President and even his Vice have become
He can use face shield
Family › Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Bluffly: 11:22pm On Jun 23, 2020
TOPCRUISE:
Even if you apologize and reconcile with your wife she will divorce you finally. Talking from experience
Hmm. From the elders
Family › Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Bluffly: 11:20pm On Jun 23, 2020
simplexity:
Firstly I will like to apologize for any errors made while typing, and I am seriously in need of ur advice and criticism.

My name is Stanley(not real names) married for 4years with two Lovely kids both female with d eldest at age 4. Trust me I cherish and love my family. I am a graduate while my wife dropout from the university cause of some money issues her single mother had while she was sick. After our first child I made sure she got admitted to a polytechnic and thankful she just rounded up her N.D all expenses paid by me, with high hopes of Getting admitted for her HND.

The problem started after our first child, my wife attitude towards sex changed totally, she would never let me touch her or play with her, calling her pet names will usually end in quarrel, I spoke with her her severally, pleaded and beg her most times but her attitude never changed, she made me feel like I met nothing to her, yet she will always fight with me whenever ever she suspects I have a girlfriend, fights with any female that comes close to me through calls or chats, she even went as far as beating up a lady that needed my help thinking I was dating her.

Fast forward to recently, her mom who is a single mother relocated to stay with us, and during her stay we had some misunderstanding about money issues, (note both me and wifey are gainfully employed in the ratio of 10:4, but 60% of wifey salary goes to her mom while she spends the rest 40% anyhow she likes) during d money issues a frd of hers came and told both of them that she see saw me flirting with a lady. And without hearing my own side of the coin my mother in-law rained curses on me , reported my to all her family members and left my house angrily, two days later my wife took our children and left my house while I was in d office, I called about her where about and she said she won't tell me and she said I will hear from her family soon, her mom called a family friend saying she will sue me.

It's been one week now and I don't know the whereabouts of my kids.

Should I report to the police or what?
Note I have apologized to wife for the crime I didn't commit yet it seems they want a bigger pound of flesh.

Please kindly advise me caused am depressed and confused
I wonder the kind of your social setting and your mother in law though is a cancer. Your wife has simply taken after her. With your efforts on your wife, I don't think someone stupid(third party) should come home with accusations and wholla they swallow it and go gaga.
Your mother in law is bitter and she has contributed a lot.

On your part as well why will things always look like you are flirting. Just thinking
Family › Re: My Encounter With My Successful Wife by Bluffly: 11:03pm On Jun 23, 2020
Though you are wrong but you were both wrong. Irrespective of what contemporary approach dictates, there are yet basics to everything which doesnt change. Every other are adjustments.

It's good you brought your wife up with you which shows that you initially encouraged her to be better but you later became uncomfortable which is bad but the wife contributed unknowingly and many women do that.

Most wives when they are doing well forget about encouraging their husbands that they can be better. Only few wives push their husband from a positive mentality. If the wife as well has focused on encouraging her husband there's no way the devil would have crept into their marriage. She was too fixed on getting better and making money. When women make money they become an individual but when below their husband they see collectivity. They should learn to balance up.

When you are growing make sure that your spouse grows with you either way so when you fall you be just by a level to pick up again but when your spouse if far below you and you fall you go back to the beginning.
Agriculture › Re: 11,000 Hectares Coconut Plantation In Akwa Ibom (Photos) by Bluffly: 5:28pm On Jun 23, 2020
ifiokjohn:
Read again. it PPP
Thank you late comer
Health › Re: Mum Of One Commits Suicide After Crying For Help On Facebook by Bluffly: 5:05pm On Jun 23, 2020
She is stupid. Learn to adjust and keep adjusting to find solace, na lie. They fix their eye on a particular thing and put their hope in man instead of God Almighty through His only begotten Son, Jesus Christ.
Agriculture › Re: 11,000 Hectares Coconut Plantation In Akwa Ibom (Photos) by Bluffly: 4:58pm On Jun 23, 2020
Ilaumoh:
Again sir, it is PPP
I know. Communication is effective when simplified
Agriculture › Re: 11,000 Hectares Coconut Plantation In Akwa Ibom (Photos) by Bluffly: 4:51pm On Jun 23, 2020
The truth is such a business can not be run by a government. They'll run it down. It's good they have built it. It should be sold out to people that can handle it with government stake still intact.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Bubba Wallace: Noose Found In Garage Of American Race Car Driver. by Bluffly: 9:08am On Jun 22, 2020
milehigh06:
Can you state what makes the black race a joke
Which black nation has sworn to develop and improve human development index. We do projects day in day out just for the paper, no impact.
Okay let me give you an example of a professor during this Covid 19.
Professor Iwu came out and said he has a cure for Covid 19 without any profiling, 3d representation, peer review and is seeking for funding just like that.
Black nations do things individually and not collectively. Until we have a collective mindset there cannot be an individual.

Blacks do exceedingly well in foreign countries because those countries don't permit mediocrity but at home there is a question mark. Hence those countries will still always see themselves as superior.

Guy we see it every day and I can go on and on.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Bubba Wallace: Noose Found In Garage Of American Race Car Driver. by Bluffly: 8:52am On Jun 22, 2020
Abalado:
Trump could not do anything about this issue ,even till now,i think blacks needs to fight,,,make any oyinbo no near me for this America way i they o,or else na to use charm kill them o
The only fight blacks needs to fight is to emancipated their root. Black nations needs to develop and start doing things right competitively at home without the interference of any foreigner, until then blacks will always be a joke.
Crime › Re: ₦550 Million From Malaysia Found In A Teacher's Account In Anambra by Bluffly: 10:38am On Jun 20, 2020
Coldie:
Let them send it back to the sender. Simple.

If na me get that money we go fight tire for am.

Nigeria that didn't help anybody wants to come and seize your sweat just because u have Money in your account.

Its better they dash it to the Malaysian govt, at least the crime came from there than for Nigerian govt to seize it
Sending it back to the sender or the Malaysian government will start with process which can be freezing of the Suspects account.
Crime › Re: ₦550 Million From Malaysia Found In A Teacher's Account In Anambra by Bluffly: 9:35am On Jun 20, 2020
Hedonisco:
Annoying country. You don't know the source of the money and yet you're rushing to freeze the account, initiate forfeiture processes, and arrest the poor woman. Have you established that the money was proceeds of crime?

So someone abroad cannot send money to his own mother again. Everybody must remain poor. Stupid idiots.
That is a pure money laundering and or suspected crime proceeds. It can be freezed based on the fact of the person possessing it is a paltry salary earner.
Crime › Re: Autopsy Reveals Uwa Was Raped As A Virgin - Edo Attorney General by Bluffly:
Come to think of it. What forensics are in place to help unravel this case. No CCTV, has DNA sample been taken from her body and the scene, Do we have DNA data based to match up with. Have they investigated her call logs and SMS.

I pray our police has a miracle approach around this case.
Career › Re: Dr. Wendy Okolo, First Black Woman To Bag A Phd In Aerospace Engineering by Bluffly: 9:53pm On Jun 17, 2020
Nigerians should stop been greedy and selfish. It's high time we learn to form a synergy and actualise big dreams together. Na there the thing go end o and patapata they high Jack or she lectures, pronto
Crime › Re: Mike Pompeo Issues Statement About Nigerian Fraudsters by Bluffly: 11:01pm On Jun 16, 2020
They should talk more about the Idians as well, as they are the masters
Politics › Re: Major-General Hakeem Otiki Dismissed For Stealing By Army Court Martial by Bluffly: 1:55pm On Jun 16, 2020
All of them must be sick once they are caught. See him on wheel chair
Health › Re: Soldiers Attack Borno COVID-19 Committee, One Dead by Bluffly: 9:11pm On Jun 13, 2020
Farki:
Nigerian military doing what it knows best and that is forming superpower for unarmed civilians and violating the law.

Later some stupid people here will be asking why Nigerian citizens don't hold the military in high regard.
No law was violated. the committee is so wrong. You saw soldiers in combative mode en route and you are telling them there is a restriction in an ongoing war area. Wisdom is required in enforcement.
Crime › Re: Nigeria, U.S. Fight For Hushpuppi’s Custody From UAE — Premium Times by Bluffly: 6:34pm On Jun 13, 2020
daddytime:
What did he steal from the Nigerian authorities that they are fighting to have him?

Useless people.
They want to make money from him
Crime › Re: Thunderstorm Kills 18 Kidnappers While Sharing Ransom In Adamawa by Bluffly: 9:57pm On Jun 12, 2020
alexsoftwork:
That's a very good and premium thunder. grin
I wish that thunder can strike all boko haram members and corrupt politicians.
What do NA
Career › Re: Atlantic Hotel Sacks Worker For Reporting Attempted Rape By Indian Boss by Bluffly: 8:53pm On Jun 12, 2020
JasonScoolari:
It is a well known fact that majority of Indian men are serial rapist and hornnny pigs, and it is also a well known fact that majority of business and company owners in Nigeria are not after their staff welfare....


The Chinese and Indians will come to our country and humiliate us in our own turf, but our useless government will rather keep quiet...

A useless Indian rapist sexually harrased your staff and all you could do is to sack the abused young girl?

I will try my best to make it trend on different social media.

Enough is Enough.
It is the same Indiand that sacked her. They should plant a hidden camera and film this guy. With such evidence of harassment justice will be done
Politics › Re: Emmanuel Oscar And Yohanah Kilus Executed By Boko Haram In Borno by Bluffly: 1:06pm On Jun 12, 2020
The fight against insurgency should not be overwhelming shouldered by The Nigerian Army. Let them form a coalition which must include SSS, NIA and DIA. Intelligence gathering is key.

What is the agitation of the terrorising groups as I don't get it. What the heck.
Properties › Re: 19 Buildings In Banana Island Sealed By Lagos Government Over Planning Permit by Bluffly: 10:55am On Jun 12, 2020
daddytime:
So, those buying these overpriced and over-valued pieces still by-pass the relevant permits?

What's the sense in shelling out a Billion to buy a piece of land while cutting corners, and trying to avoid a permit in the Millions.

There's something inherently criminal and wrong with the average black man's DNA.

Fantastically corrupt by make-up, morally, and otherwise.
Not really. It's just a systemic failure on the part of the government that accommodates such act. Also not being informed could lead to this.
Education › Re: 45 A.B.U Students Graduated From Chinese University In Railway Engineering by Bluffly: 8:11pm On Jun 11, 2020
Last last na certificate and babariga
Crime › Re: 2 Lagos Housemaids Raped Employer’s Daughters With Fingers, Sticks by Bluffly:
What is unlawful and indecent penetration sexually.
Simply put it, they raped the girls. Infact we can term it attempted murder because penis penetration forcefully is even better than the stick used.
Crime › Re: Wife Pours Boiling Water On Her Husband In Bayelsa For Slapping Her (Graphic) by Bluffly: 7:54pm On Jun 08, 2020
FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.
Pray Devil should not install a switch over box. Be prayerful
Career › Re: 50 Directors Fail Perm Secs’ Exam, 41 Make Final List by Bluffly: 12:09pm On Jun 07, 2020
olusma23:
Many of those that passed self may score less than average mark oo.

Why can't Permanent Sec be promoted to become MINISTER of different ministries instead of appointing someone that study Law to Head Ministry of Health.
Because ministerial position is politics and not civil service career progression
Career › Re: 50 Directors Fail Perm Secs’ Exam, 41 Make Final List by Bluffly: 12:08pm On Jun 07, 2020
Redoil:
if you check their names I bet you almost all of them are northerners

I
Nigeria i hail Una promoting olodo and mediocre since Nigeria was created
Did you care to read at all
Politics › Re: Yahaya Bello Lifts Lockdown In Kabba Bunu, Insists Kogi State Is COVID-19 Free by Bluffly: 10:05pm On Jun 05, 2020
AsawanaDgreat:
Yeyeh Bello, how many tests have you been conducted since the outbreak?
How many news of sudden death or symptomatic experience has surfaced
Politics › Re: Yahaya Bello Lifts Lockdown In Kabba Bunu, Insists Kogi State Is COVID-19 Free by Bluffly: 10:03pm On Jun 05, 2020
EmekaBlue:
kogi should be left test free let's see how d so called Covid-19 is strong
He didn't allow testing
Crime › Re: Robbers Attack First Bank In Kogi. Kill Many Policemen, Customers (Graphic) by Bluffly: 10:42pm On Jun 04, 2020
These are the kidnapping gangs. Since no one is available to kidnapp because of lock down, they now resorted to this.
Ewe palaba yin a to se.
RIP to the dead
Foreign Affairs › Re: George Floyd Protests: Trump Deploys US Military In Washington by Bluffly: 9:38am On Jun 02, 2020
He should appeal and come up with executive orders at least to put hinges in order and not trying to use force. Good knees in racism will calm the situation down. The deployment of US military will only makes hinges worse. The Huston police chief has said it. What they need now is quality and top notch leadership and not suppression
Health › Re: Ekiti Government Commissions Mobile Laboratory To Run COVID-19 Tests by Bluffly: 7:00pm On Jun 01, 2020
Is it that they don't know the difference between modular and mobile?

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