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slivertongue:
Osanobuwa!!!

see corruption with legs and hands moving around yet buhari claims the men working with him are clean

So corrupt practices na mosquito wey you go fumigate one time. Anyways I pray one day these practices will be drastically reduced to nearest minimum.

majamajic:
This can't be possible , without the help of America locals

It will definitely be a mix. I pray they resolve it so not to punish the genuine unemployed guys. Crime is bad.

southniyikaye:
The thing is, I have never gone to search for a job in my life, while in school, I was into photography so I used that to sustain myself.

After school, I worked in a construction company and I later had my own company and had almost ten employees. Well last year I lost everything and reality dawned on me.

I have too kids and a beautiful wife to take care of.

Now to the main koko. Am 6.2ft tall and faaaaat but now, the fat Don turn fitted when hunger Wan kill me so I set out to job hunt.

After series of trials and interviews, job no enter o. Least I forget, I fresh small, OK I resemble butty pickin.

Begged family to raise me to start over, found none. Close friends nko, shishi dem no fit raise me and sincerely I didn't blame anybody after all no be dem cause my wahala.

So I set out to do menial jobs, the ones I could find was bricklaying or packing of block. Anytime I get there, their response is always, SHEY I THINK SAY U FIT DO THIS KIN WORK? YOU THIS BUTTY PICKIN
OR I SABI THE KIN WORK WEY YOU FIT DO.

TRIED series of places, it was the same response until one Man decided to give me a trial.
First job was to carry sand from point A to point B. I almost fainted but was doing strong man cos all eyes were on me.

Secondly I was asked to bring cement now this is the funny part. One very tiny guy called levels was the one bringing the cement, not more than 5.6ft tall, as in tiny o, so seeing him, I believed it will be an easy task and I tried to carry 50kg bag all by myself, I couldn't even raise it to chest level when I scatter for ground and everyone burst out laughing. Tried severally to no avail until someone helped me.

Now after mixing, it was time to serve the bricklayers. Worked from 8 till 12 and I was already having Back ache and Head ache. Infact all my body was aching and I told them I can't continue. They should give whatever they feel like giving me until they told me if I didn't finish with them till evening, no kobo for me.

I Sha manage work till 7:30pm and they paid me 1700 instead of 1500 just to pity my condition.
I was bedridden for almost three days after

Guy, if that's what is in your front to commence with, buckle up. Before a week you'll get use to it while using the income to keep surveying for better opportunities

Tasha7:
Hello, I am a black woman born and raised in North America and married to an Igbo man. We have been in a long distance relationship for the majority of our relationship. We got married almost 2 years ago while still long distance and he recently immigrated to Canada in Jan 2020 under the spousal sponsorship. He has a wonderful bond with my mother and sisters. (my father has passed). I have met his family and we get along very well.

Everything was going well until I was looking up something in the search history of the laptop we both share and stumbled across emails he had recently accessed. Please note, I could not read the email itself, I could only see the subject lines in the search history. I will attach pictures if possible. It wasn't a normal email account like yahoo or Gmail. It was from a website called: Roundcube webmail. I had never heard of it before. Anyway, there were a bunch of emails forwarded from a hotel in Istanbul where people were being asked to pay their outstanding hotel bill (unfortunately I didn't take a screenshot of the hotel stuff). In addition to that, there were emails to 2 different women (named Wendy and Elizabeth) with the subjects: re: Thank you for written, re: back from customs baby, re: I am so happy our paths have crossed re: I am writing you with much sadness in my heart etc. I will try to attach the screenshots I took.

Lastly, within the same search history, my husband seemed to have been looking up songs like: 'what songs make a woman feel confident about herself' and 'what if I never get over you', and 'songs that make a woman feel beautiful'.

I confronted my husband that same night. It was 2am. He was already sleeping. I woke him up bc I wanted to catch him off guard. His explanation was that his friend in Cyprus had a bad internet connection and asked him (my husband) to look up something in his friends email account. He insisted that he had no idea what his friend was up to, as it was none of his business. In the process of me confronting him, he grabbed the laptop from me and deleted the search history. I told him that was making him look real guilty and I started packing my things to leave. He pleaded and insisted it had nothing to do with him, it was his friends email account blah blah blah. I wanted to believe him but some things just didn't add up...like why was he looking up those songs if he was just checking his friends email for him? His only saving grace was that the subject lines were written with poor grammar and my husband has excellent English speaking and writing skills.

Fast forward a few weeks later, my husband left the bathroom to put out the garbage and accidentally left his phone in the bathroom playing music. This is significant because he has never parted from his phone from the day he arrived. He sleeps with his phone beside him. He showers and uses the bathroom with his phone beside him. When he cooks, he keeps his phone beside him. The day in question, I went into the bathroom and locked the door shortly after he left the bathroom. Side note: I only lock the door bc sometimes he jokingly sneaks up on me to scare me while I am in the shower, so to avoid being snuck up on, I sometimes lock the door. I digress. I commenced using the bathroom when I noticed that hubby left his phone on the side of the bathtub with Nigerian gospel music blasting. I was shocked! It was the first time he was separated from his phone! I didn't touch his phone and started using the bathroom. Within 15 seconds, my husband started knocking on the door saying he really needed to use the bathroom and wanted me to open the door. He was saying he really needed to pee. I asked him to hold a minute, because I was on the toilet. He said he didn't believe me and then things escalated from there. He started pounding really hard on the bathroom door, demanding that I open the door because he really needed to pee. He was eventually pounding so hard and yelling to the point where he started to lose his voice! I was freaked out! I told him to hold on and I would be done in a minute! But he wouldn't listen and eventually broke open the bathroom door by force...there is literally a large crack down the bathroom door now. I was shocked. Beyond words. Once he broke down the door, he quickly did a scan of the bathroom and saw his cellphone was right where he left it. I didn't touch it. Then he was more calm. He then reiterated that he really needed to pee and went into the shower, pulled the curtain and turned on the water.

I started freaking out. I started yelling telling him that he was a liar and if there was any doubt in my mind he was hiding something, I need not doubt it anymore! He broke down the bathroom door NOT because he really nedded to pee, but because he was so terrified I was going to snoop through his phone! Of course he denied it. He was saying that if that was the case, the first thing he would have done is grab his phone. I responded saying that he's not stupid, if he grabbed his phone first, it would have made him look guilty. After that blow up, we stopped talking to each other for days...

And here I am today. If anyone could provide me insight into what is going on, I would be so appreciative. What is this hotel stuff and what are these msgs to multiple women? I am thinking he may be involved in a 419 scam or his friend is a yahoo boy....but why is he using such poor grammar when he speaks and writes excellent English?

I am so stressed over all of this that it is literally consuming my every thought. My husband only denies everything and gets defensive then ignores me if I keep pushing for answers. Outside of this incident he is incredibly loving and affectionate and treats my mother so well. He cares so much about what she thinks of him.

I have turned to this forum with the hopes that someone would have more insight into what is going on. Thank you so much to anyone who has taken the time to read this very long post and respond. I truly appreciate it. Again, I attached photos, but scratched out names just in case.

Thank you,

Tasha

No one can give you insight. What you can get from third parties is scatter scatter

What exactly are they celebrating.

Buhari pensioners

He is a good man

crackkhaus:
You mean contentious.

Well, good journalism will state where they reside (location)... then where they're originally from, would be secondary information after the fact.

Sorry, typo error

crackkhaus:
First of all, that doesn't look like it happened in Abia State. The home in the video looks like a building design for houses either in the US/UK/Canada.

The man himself is the one holding the phone to record what is going on, perhaps to use as evidence showing that he did not raise a hand on his wife should cops/courts get involved.

He is deliberately trying to piss her off, there is even a grown-up fat boy (probably their son) laughing at the whole drama.
The only person who seems really angry and agitated there, is the woman.

Sassysure, abeg come interpret wetin dem dey yan so people can get a better picture.

It says they are from Abia state. Nothing contentions about its clarity

The Governor has also violated. Why is he not wearing face mask? No social distancing as well.

Nbote:
And when Bill and Melinda Gates foresaw dis few weeks back myopic and dumb Nigerians were quick to label them d antichrist...

Stop this nonsense of Melinda gates for seeing trash. Did people not fall and die in China, Italy, Spain, UK, USA...? Why stereotyping Africa. Moreover Africa isnt a country but a continent. She should foresee her country first. Looking at the rate of death in the likes of the countries mentioned, such astronomy has not replicate itself in Nigeria at least considering same time frame.
And stop calling people dumb.

https://www.africanews.com/2020/05/10/coronavirus-in-africa-breakdown-of-infected-virus-free-countries/

Power indeed intoxicates when it becomes absolute.

igwe699:
he is protecting his state

That is stupidity and not protection. What warrants going that far, to prove what point. He is intoxicated by power. What happened to seal up, license withdrawal.
He is meant to be a leader and not a tyrant

Why do we spoil good things in this country. A laudable project wasting away all this while and yet the current action won't be any different

Mikehot:
Melinda said it they criticized her instead of addressing the message

Lies everywhere. Tell Melinda to project Europe's death first. Africa is not a country. They've not projected Europe and they are dying like fowl.

Those figures from north has more to it.

Orubebe01:
The way you described him as if it was because he annulled the election that made him die.
This Lagos Ibadan express way Media sef.

You are the one that implied the thought.

Why did he gave order to auction cars caught. That is tyranny

Etizz:
I don't even know what's wrong with men wanting to have male child by all means ....na wa oh, I am so happy I have a daughter and she's making me fulfilled, if I have another girl I will be very grateful to God

She is making tou feel fulfilled not because she is a girl but because you were blessed. And mind you your detfenition of fulfillment depends on what you want and need. It may not be same for others.

Henri8:
How on earth he was left alive till the police came is still a mystery to me.
He should have been killed immediately by those there.

What nonsense!

Why were you not there to kill him so you can be sentenced for murder.

[quote author=Bigcola post=89261990][/quote]The woman's vaginal PH environment also plays a major role

Righteousness89:
Demonic FOOLISH UNWISE Wicked FATHER !

The Woman only delivered what you put in Her..

It's totally Foolish for we Men to blame our ladies for things like dis

They are both responsible for the sex and not just the man. Yes the man bores the X and Y but the woman's environment also determine the survivor of the Y to pick up an egg. The vaginal PH environment in the woman matters a lot as well.

The man is however stupid.

Killing the virus is one thing treating the damage is another

Indeed, previous monies returned last year from Switzerland - some $320 million US dollars - are already being used for the government’s free school feeding scheme, a stipend for millions of disadvantaged citizens, and grain grants for those in severe food hardship.

320m USD on this. Hmm
And the 311m USD will finish and Lagos ibadan road won't be completed. All those projects mentioned wo t be completee while larger part will be stolen.

I weep for Nigeria.

Authoreety:
Oga go and cut your finger nails...
Covid 19 could breed therein u know...

Go and cut it for him since you are jobless. Are his nails on your fingers? Busy body

iokpebholo:
Find out from ppl who were on ground and stop relying on d crocrodile tears of a jezebel

So it is tears you saw. You didn't hear her saying why would the police man slap her. As long as it wasn't denied in the video and we heard her saying that repeatedly, we can hold it.
Deal with it.

Rilwayne001:
Slapping her first gives her the right to do that continuously?

In the first place she defied the curfew order in the state. While at that, she got the liver to slap, repeatedly a police officer? Chai. Even in advance country where things are in order, she would be doing 1year for that.

And the officer too will serve his punishment for the unwarranted violence towards her

For those thay do not understand Yoruba and have been commenting. What led to this from the woman's utterances was that the police man slapped her first for no reason, hence her outbursts

Local classroom. Where are the tools to deploy the vocational skill. Just building and no content

Raymeskey:
When are we going to be behaving like humans


What are the characteristics of humans self? Are all these behaviors included? If no then who are these people? Or what are these things?
What do I even know self?

When our leaders starts doing what is right. Nigeria has 0.58 HDI, so we can't expect less. Until we start investing heavily in Education and modernization, these shits will continue

Most non-performing and below average are the ones going

Sparkies85:
Corona virus is real guys ...
I just pray and hope they find a cure to this disease soon, else what Melinda gate about body littering the streets of Africa may come to reality.. I just hope not ..

The illiteracy in northern Nigeria maybe a factor here

Forget The Gates. Deaths in africa cannot be more than what is happening in Europe and USA. Can't you see the astronomical rate of death in those locations. In spite of the lockdown pronouncement, there has not been true lockdown. Rate of Death in African will not be more than others by the time it will be over . I believe that. COVID deaths has nothing to do with best health facilities as all we need is good facilities and by God's grace me and you and our family and loved ones will not follow this flood which shall soon seize.