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Mykbillz:
I’ve been married for some months, but it’s seem like my marriage is down the drain , I can’t go into details as I’m someone who doesn’t like to bring my problem public, but I really need help at this point and a second opinion, especially knowing that a major factor of this problem was my reaction and actions during this first year of my marriage.
There was a lot of relearning and unlearning I realized after marriage I needed to do. But the strain and mistrust I created, has on the part of my wife made her feel like our marriage should end, as we’re sort of in a damage control zone.
A lot of things has gone wrong, but at this point I’m willing to put effort and work out my marriage,
But I have a question:

Is it possible to still win back a woman who has sworn to destroy your life because you hurt her?
Is it possible to work out a marriage when the other pattern sees you as a devil and would rather not be involved in working things out?
Is it possible to win back an urhobo woman who once loved you cos I keep hearing this saying that if an urhobo woman loves you , she does with her mind and when she hate you , it’s also with her heart.

Yes it is possible, she loves you, she just doesn't like you at the moment. The important thing is that she is still in your house. So go back to when you started. Woo her ,chase her, and let her see through your actions and not words that you are sorry. Don't expect her to immediately return your love. Be persistent, with time all will be well. Time heals all things especially if you never repeat your actions. Avoid situations that might lead to repetition. You guys will be fine, and celebrate many more years together.

Asceleb16:
As a matured guy or lady,do you see anything wrong in a guy dating a taller lady or a lady dating a shorter guy Have you ever do such? How was the relationship?


Share your opinion and experience
Lalasticlala Seun Mynd44 Rocktation Farano

Very common among Igbos.

Zonefree:
Carry your busy body comot for this thread abeg

do you know her personally?
Or have you clashed before?

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, one random married man who cancelled the friend request he sent me has stopped adding my friends ever since I set my Facebook friend list to private…

Does that mean he was going through my friend list?[/color]

why are you bothered about a married man. Stop being a stalker.

Aify3000:
When we started my girlfriend always enjoyed me ,infact she squirts and cum for me ,but at a time she started complaining that my dick is too big and its painful for her,she says she is feeling back and wants to break up,what should i do,i love this girl so much �

Hiss , show off. Coded advert.

goodman41:
We have two kids, my wife can't pass a day without touching and romancing my dik even in the kitchen anywhere she said she enjoy touching it.

Sometimes when we have sex she will tell me baby thank you so much I really enjoyed you and she used to call me machine. Please is she for real or she is just trying to high me

all join. Enjoy.

lalalista:
please where else can I ask?

ask people around you. Older people.

lalalista:
I just discovered that my fiance of 9 months has birthmark on his lip at exactly the same spot that I have mine and we're not in any way related. What does this mean?

you are asking nairaland made up of majority of sex obsessed teenagers.

Samakus:
Why not? I love hardworking women.

When you encounter lazy, jobless, overly entitled leeches, you will understand the beauty of having a hardworking woman.

Na woman wey no get work dey get big eye pass

That's what you all say until you start imagining that she is having an affair because you don't believe a woman should take her job so serious.

Please girls resume singlet ,boxer and handkerchief gifts. This is what happens when you start going off script.

Ilamina:
Is ugly

Ugly Kenyan bitch

Your post is understandable. Sha don't commit suicide.

Bodyodour:
See the threads you created. Hypocrite

. Sherlock Holmes

Ndibuna:
Sometimes men we always be exhausting energy riding women whereas they enjoy it better without working hard for their orgassm. As a man don't punish yourself, allow her to work and ride. Sometimes they won't even do reach 2 mins

But I enjoy pleasuring her and being in control not punishment at all.

Uptheante:
Abeg where I fit get babes for nacking in Makurdi, Benue state.
Either joints or numbers of the babes will go down well with me

So nacking is your problem now.

Rachel98:
Some people's moniker can be so funny with weird names.

Some people's moniker are their brand products /company's names.

Some people's moniker are their real names.

Some people's monikers are their nicknames.

What triggered or inspired you to choose your particular moniker name? seriously some people monikers could be very funny, I can't even list the monikers.. Loolz.

mine's self explanatory.

joy4news:
Cheating has been an overstretched topic, especially in recent times where news of celebs and their baby mamas have been a regular commodity in the news.

Cheating is unisex; both men and women cheat but attention seems to be more on the former.

Men and women may cheat for very different reasons, licensed marriage, and family, therapist Shane Birkel, LMFT, explains.

But he notes that it's likely more due to the way men and women are socialised than any innate differences between them.

He adds that the more we as a society move away from that socialisation and away from patriarchy, the less we're seeing those gendered differences in cheating behaviour.

Nonetheless, as of right now, some research does show that men are more likely to cheat than women, with 20% of men admitting to cheating compared to 13% of women.

One may wonder why men cheat, along with what defines cheating, signs to watch out for, and what to do if infidelity has infiltrated your relationship. Many of these behaviours might apply to people of all genders, but they can be relevant to men.

From your perspective on the subject matter, what reason do you think makes men to cheat on their wives?

I would like the men in the house to shed more light on this thread.

Waiting for our responses.

Because most men's brains are wired to his dick. An erect penis has no conscience. It takes principles,the grace of God and realizing there's no gain in hurting another person .
For women,greed for material things and emotional connection makes them cheat.

BoredBerry:
Hi!

I'll give a special nairalander free airtime tonight!

Just being generous... Spreading the love this cold evening...

Recently, my sweet heart was broken...

So make me feel good with your kind words...

I'll choose who to present my gift to... The nicest person wins...

No redpillers... Thank you...

Don't worry, it's his loss. Once you know that you did him no wrong. Learn from mistakes. Don't let what he did change your nature. Not saying this for air time.

sanesta:
What's that weird smell you secretly like?

Smell of the water on dust, first rain after a long dry season. The smell of fresh money mint .

VictorUSA:
I'm not into any(not bisexual).

Yeah right

VictorUSA:
I'm neither a straight nor a gay.

So you swing both ways then. Not judging.

Animegirl:

And tap that ass while sitting.

VictorUSA:
Men would be better without women.

Women are the architects of the woes we face on earth.Thats why I say women are all useless regardless of their origin and status(except my mother, sisters,mentees).

Imagine, a woman can live with you but love another person.She hates you but loves your money.She's beside you but thinks of another guy.She's married to you but her pussy belongs to someone else.

A woman can cause you a gut-wrenching loneliness.She can cause you heartbreak in spite of the love you shower on her.No matter what you do to a woman her hate towards you is still undeterred.Any guy who insists in dating a lady should expect a driblet of heartbreak And thats just a tip of the iceberg.

If you are not in a relationship with a married woman, guy forget single ladies.They will gold dig you.


If you believe anything other than this you are a sinner.

Yes, then you can unwind with your fellow men's anus
We all need eachother oga.

Loyalty,love,care and attention

Dickjo:
...especialy if she lightskin or halfcast?

Do it in a dirty sexy way.

Pasima:
My girlfriend just ended our relationship this afternoon because I am not giving her money often and called her a lier. She expects me to be paying for her hair and place her on monthly allowance when she never even sleep in my house or give me sex for once since 8months we dated. I tried my best and did the once I can and always visit her and assist her in some house chores and even help her wash clothes, buy food for her, water, sub for her and take her out when I have money with me because I love her so much. Just because I withdraw myself from doing some of those things and talks to her in annoying way, she end the relationship. I cried alot this afternoon. I might kill myself

This is made up,by someone who wants people to bash women. I don't believe this is true.
Oya o redpillers your food is ready

Uniquetani1:
Lol
If leg cut ke
I don't know how many yards of husband material you are

0.001 yard