FhiBi: He always want me to cook for him at least once a day and bring it to his office. On Saturday and Sunday,I'll be the one to come to his place and cook dinner for him. If I default,he'll not eat anything. The thing is that he can cook but he depends on me all the time.
I pity you. Let him marry you first before you start thinking of pleasing him. After you have done wifely duties free of charge he will go and marry who didn't do anything. Don't come here to cry later
Wyrax: 4 years ago, I was heartbroken by my ex gf I loved so much. It took time for me to move on. I eventually moved on. That's after more than a year.
She wanted to reinitiate contact with me but I have moved on. And I don't love her again
However, I have lost confidence in dating/relationship. Ever since then tho I have been asking people out ,, but I have not been able to actually get hold of a relationship.
One, 2019, I asked her out. She said she will think about it. Actually she later agreed but I shyed out of it. I didn't make any contact with her at all till date. She even tried making contact with me but I blocked her.
Though it's not fair. But I was scared.
Early 2020. I met with another lady she's a great woman financially independent, beautiful and good heart... But I couldn't ask her out. I eventually didn't but she said she doesn't sense that I love her. And she said no.
How do I get over my initial heart break and find a good person
You have not healed..Don't ask oe8out until you have healed, also try and forgive your ex, don't have any bad grudges against her.
udofia234: I wonder why ladies of this days can not marry a Christian!!! it baffles me a lot, in churches today you see our ladies not just members both workers marrying the other religion willingly, some do say it categorically that the Christian born against are not romantic and that they cannot live their lives in bondage!!! my people some of this ladies not all end up becoming second or third wife to this men and they are still very happy with them!!! (I wonder ooo!!!). The last one I broke up with was asking me if she wants me to give her head that will I do such, I said "No" because its a sin to engage in MouthAction and guys she started acting strange for months and just this week I got the info that she's getting married to a Gboy this week Saturday!!! I'm not pained anyway!!! I'll go to that venue and I'll make her see me so her conscience can judge her for hiding it from me!!! I'm not saying I'm that too born again sha!!! But should a marriage bound relationship break up because of MouthAction? She was so bent on this MouthAction of a thing and we clashed severally..... anyway life goes on!!!
It's not about being born again it's about having Money
Adeyemi201: Hello Nairalanders, If u come accross this topic, kindly engage. Thanks
I started dating my girlfriend in 2018, and we Love ourselves really well even up till this time, we do things in common and was there with each other. Both our parents and family know us together. We started developing a problem when her mother, who is an highly spiritual person started going around to pastors places looking for visions about our lives together, she started poisoning my girlfriend mind telling her several things that her pastor said we are good together but we will later break up in d future after getting married, she started poke-nosing into my family affairs through her so-called spiritual pastor.
Now I think my girlfriend already made up her mind too because she said she had to do what her mother wants even though it will hurt but she sees no other way than to let go of our relationship, her mother called and said the same thing, meanwhile I’ve caught her cheating number of times and she told me it was because her mom told her earlier this year we can’t be together…and she’s already dating someone else without letting me know untill i caught her by myself.
She apologised and said she knew i did not deserve that treatment from her but she just had to follow what her mother pastor said.
Should I let go or try convince her about dubious pastors and various religion scams we have now? I love her so much and it’s somehow hard to let to
You can try to convince her but will you also convince her mother and the rest of the family. Since her mother has this much influence on her,then she will probably be the problem the so called prophets are seeing. My brother there's a reason for everything. Please stop begging, try your best to heal and move on. Run from anybody who goes seeking for prophetic visions and are close to pastors.
This house chores etc is not always the case, in fact most times we do assist them with it as well as have house help that do most of the work, but she still deny sex, giving you yeye reasons.
Anyway I think they usually loose interest or fall out of love, and most times they still get it outside from their ex. This marriage is scam mostly
Not my marriage . Been together over 15 years, both dating and marriage combined and we still have great sex. Though we are not both as adventurous as we used to be. That's understandable, considering age,busy schedules and kids. But we get it on very frequently
AdamuKD: It's no longer a topic that most married women loose interest in sex after marriage and start denying their husbands his conjugal rights even if she is comfortable with the marriage
Please married women what is the cause because right now, I am experiencing this in my house even though my marriage is not up to 2 years
Because the women become overwhelmed with house chores, kids and work. According to Madame those are a huge mojo killer. The trick to getting extra action I have learned is learning to do simple gestures,that lifts some burden off her. That way she has more time and energy for the oza room. If she hasn't been like this from the start, ask yourself what has changed. It's good to hear from her side too. I hope you have not being abusing her , verbally or physically.
Nigeriafirstlad: My problem is my girlfriend just posted "A Day Well Spent With Boo"
I don rush ask my mama if she saw me going out today ��, maybe I went out without knowing �
She said I have been home since morning
I almost fell off my chair reading your last two sentences. I think you should get a second opinion if you went anywhere . Jokes apart your girlfriend has hooked up with a big spender.
Truvelisback: Good day, fellas. Have u ever watch a movie that made u Shed tears profusely? I just watched a particular American movie that made tears drip down my eyes profusely. I couldn't hold back the tears. It's abt a guy whose only son and child had heart failure and needed a heart transplant that cost $250,000. The guy sold all that he had to save his only child. Just because the money he managed to raise was not enough, the doctor(s) refused to attend to him. This guy had to do the undo in the hospital just to save his only begotten son.
Condition001: There is a difference between a quarrelsome girlfriend and a Destructive one. During the time i was dating this my ex, i couldn’t count the numbers of my shirt she Torn. Any small argument like this she will lock up my shirt that i am going nowhere and if i struggle to leave her at the spot she would tear my shirt. She sometimes go into the kitchen and pour the food i’m cooking for both of us into the kitchen sink or break plates in the kitchen all in the name of quarreling with me which i think is very normal in a relationship She doesn’t cook most of the time she is with me in my hostel. I would be the one to cook majority of time and she always said she enjoyed my food that i cook so well. Thats how much i endured this girls wahala because i loved her then and she gives me good sex and not over demanding. If i no get i no get ni that time and she didn’t because of that cheat on me. I guess thats why i still held on to the relationship then. Fast forward to 2018 december when we got a break in school i went to my home town and she also went to hers. I was thinking that the everytime quarrel will reduce since we were not together at that time that we were on break but it got worse. If i don’t call her within 5hours i’m in soup she would nag nag and nag on the phone which i also endured because i knew she missed me thats why she was acting that way but it got to a point that i got tired and couldn’t focus on my hustle again then because of her over demanding attention so i was pushed to break bonds with her noting to her that the reason i want a break up with her is because of her everytime wahala coz a day won’t go without us arguing or fighting over something and she usually initiate them. She was begging me not to leave her that she would change but i’ve made up my mind already and couldn’t change it. About two weeks after she called me and told me that there is a ritual she has to do pertaining her departure from her Egbe (Emere) and the guy she dated last must be there for the ritual to go well, she even said her dad was aware of it then that it wont hurt me at all but i refused to do that with her because i was scared and moreover i felt like i have broken up with her already why would she want me to come to her again. I faced my life after then but noticed that in the Freelancing job i was doing then and also Gee that i was doing wasn’t paying, not that i don’t usually see the opportunity to hit big but they always turn out to be failed no matter how hard i try. The only money i do see is small change to eat and do small big boy. I was so backward academically, lots of carryovers but still moved on and hoping for better days. My thoughts then was that, who school help i just wanna graduate with any grade and face my life squarely after. Moving on with my hustle i realized that anytime i want to hit big money or i smell something big is coming my way from the way i update my clients, i would just wake up with wet dreams maybe a night or two night before the supposedly Big hit reach my hand and everything will scatter that the client will block me or get into big argument with me and won’t eventually pay the money. I used to think that maybe that money isn’t meant for me that what will be will be…Fast forward to last year, things got tougher for me financially that no day will go that i wont beg people on my contact list money to eat, Although i had graduated then but still have some courses to clear because of too much carryovers then. I continued with my hustle with lots of Mercy Soaps (Ose Aanu) from My Alfas but still yet things didn’t change, anytime big things is coming my way i will always have wetdreams a day before and thing would always flop at the end of the day. So last month i went to one new Alfa and he revealed to me that there was a girl i dated some years ago that she is the one behind all my predicament and tough luck hitting Good money from the Work i’m into, he even went further telling me that i’ve been using some (Ose Anu) lately that they are working for me but anytime the work want to show that this Powerful Emere girl will always hold it down with her Tragic Powers that if i noticed that anytime something is coming up i will always noticed a strange thing on my body like Wetdreaming or cobweb fly on my body when i’m outside and on a broad day light. The Alfa told me that i need to appeal to this girl because she has registered my name in her Group as her Earthly Husband and i won’t be able to move and inch to success in life if she doesn’t forgive me and she reveal somethings to me about the then ritual they were going to make for her pertaining her departure from the group. The problem now is that the girl doesn’t want to grant me an audience one on one but rather chatting and i don’t want be chatting with her with stuff like that. This is not fictitious as i am not looking to trend on NL but rather to find a solution to my life.. Anybody with Candid advice?
You are duping people and expect that it will be well with you. O Sese bere. Flee from all types of sin and give your life to Christ.
You have too much expectations. Always expect the worst in people or situations and you won't be disappointed. Done will call it pessimism but it helps me cope. Also always have a plan B
Haynnie: The fact is, it will be difficult to please a woman who has had so many experiences with several other men, most marriages are having issues because of this problem. Imagine getting married to a man who has had no experience with another woman before and you are already veteran in the game, haven had several experiences with men, how on earth will that man satisfy you, you already have so many memories in your head and you might want him to be like one of your ex.
This is why some women end up going to meet their ex boyfriend even when they are already married but that wouldn't have happened if there were no expectations before marriage.
Same thing goes to the men, virginity is not only tied to women alone, a man should also keep himself till marriage.
It is very possible to make so many mistakes in the past and still have a happy marriage but not making those mistakes gives you a better marriage.
Go for Purity, I've made up my mind to be this way until I meet my wife, ain't sleeping with another man's wife.
Good for you. Don't force your ideas down people 's throat. Do what works for you and let them do theirs'. Virginity is good for both parties but it doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. My cousin married a church going , born again, beautiful and intelligent young lady, she was a virgin. He told we that are close to him because he couldn't believe his luck. She was 23,a graduate and working, 6 years later my mom went for a function, his parents were there,he was with another woman. Shocked my mom asked that was how my aunt and uncle said he and the other lady got divorced quietly. This is after he had sponsored her to go for masters abroad.They had a 5 year daughter whom he pays almost million naira to the mum on child support. When asked what happened, they said the guy said if they don't allow him end the marriage he will commit suicide. He told my mum his ex Was very conceited. Fr6then on my mindset changed. I now see virginity as a bonus.
Jloanbroker: I have a UTI. I've taken a card of ciproflaxin. It's still persist. Which affordable drug can you recommend going on please
You need to treat it well, put away the idea of being cheap if not it will not be well treated and my degenerate. Go to the nearest government hospital, see a doctor, run the necessary tests to be sure of what you are treating, and the best antibiotics to use. Buy the best antibiotics prescribed,not those unbranded ones , use your medication properly and religiously . Make sure you complete the dose. To be sure it's cleared off, run another test like a month after . Abstain from sex , or you will get reinfected. Get your partner treated too.
freshkpomo: Girls spreading your legs anyhow because of small promise of "I will marry you" na una Sabi. A girl got pregnant for a guy, the guy ran away and then on the day of delivery the doctors said the only option will be CS (operation) after several hours that was unfruitful. Them tear the mama bill, the bill pass her power and then she ran around to borrow money just to save her daughter.
Operation was successful and now time to discharge the girl, another bill again and this time the hospital locked up the girl in one room preventing anyone from seeing her till they pay up their debt. The mother ran around for money again and a man who happens to be working for the armed forces borrowed her some cash. Guess what? It's been two weeks since her discharge and the mother has been receiving insults upon insults from those she owe and now she is planning to get a loan from lapo to pay those she owe because their blood is boiling and they keep abusing this woman all because of her daughter who refused to close her legs. If you talk them go say na my life, I am a big girl.. na small thing remain this girl mama for commit suicide because of the kind words the Force guy dey tell her. I pity who born WAYWARD pikin when them dey tell "let me just put only the tip inside".... Story number 2 LOADING... https://www.facebook.com/100039104576330/posts/pfbid0hB28t6uYbCXN9fs6cBC3oFo1u4xB9ZKrPEGGV82KTgGdW7h4E8jXCUQ8kRvnVmZXl/?app=fbl
Even married men run away sometimes. This is not the reason for a girl to keep herself
Clint02: Does Married people still contact sexually transmitted diseases among themselves after they have sex?
Please I don't mean the man/woman cheating with an outsider,I mean sex between the married man and woman.
Is there sharing of infections within the marriage?
Std is STD, marriage does not hinder it. Most likely one party is cheating. But if you are 100% sure both parties are not, then it might be infection that wasn't well treated. If it's staph infections,there are some staph infection that occur naturally , isn't necessary from sex
Buju803: Im an average dude (dick wise) whenever I try having sex with my girlfriend she always pull to the side… Like when I’m about penetrating her she always shake one kind so it’s almost impossible to get my dick in her I don’t just know how to curb this when I asked her what’s the problem she always tells me is paining her
I need advice on how to go about this
You are a teenager. It's obvious. Please remember trying to Pacific a crying baby all night and the price of baby milk and diapers. That will help with your raging hormones.
Oh, you've switched to your other account and quoted your dull self to continue spewing your gibberish?
Do you know if the OP is very comfortable here in Nigeria before making your useless assertions of building a better future for his kids?
Must everyone relocate to Europe? What happened to going there and giving birth to the kids when it's time for delivery like the OP rightly said?
MUMU!
You are surprised people aren't as foolish as you, so I quoted myself to get validation from a bunch of strangers. Maybe that's what you do to help boost your overinflated ego. I know your problem. You are frustrated . You wish you could but you can't. I won't engage you, remain in your shiithole country dingbat.
Insecure simp, so na cos of the fear of a woman having power over you you no wan expand your coast?? Low iq
OM G. You took the words right out of my mouth. When I read the comments of the insecure low iq guys up there I shook my head. Dear poster I know what you are afraid of. You are afraid you won't be able to fit into the system over there, you are feeling comfortable, abi you don't know book ni? You are happy with the peanuts you are receiving here and the mediocre life. When kids start coming you will wish you had left Most of the myopic guys commenting will jump at it. Don't mind them. Build a better future for your kids Your wife to be is a keeper, she thinks way better than you.
Vicboy1: Just yesterday i invited a girl to my house . i asked her for sex she refused , i touched her she flipped my hand, i tried sweet talk it didn't work but the moment i showed her some porn in my phone she started watching it and after 10 minute she grabbed my dick and inserted into her pussy Why do some girls pretend a lot
Another post by a teenager with ranging hormones.
Porn turns anyone on it is not gender based. For the pretence, it's because of judgement that's what causes. Gradually women are becoming sexually expressive. The same you will call her ashawo,or wayward of she didn't decline initially. You can't have it both ways.
ChizzyBuna: I don't know if i should call it grace of God But 2022 will make it 9 years of me having sex without condom. Right from igbenedion uni, okada is when i started experimenting with raw sex with different girls. In all these 9 years, i have never gotten an STD or HIV infection.. My last hiv test in June came out negative..
Anyways I have always have a very strong belief that I can never catch Aids or STD. And the medical results dont lie 9 years and im still healthy,i don't fall sick at all.
I think scientist should come and study my body system because I'm shocked that after 9 years of raw sex. I'm still very healthy
After making this post you will catch it. Remember that always happens after you have praised something , either someone, NEPA, or phenomenon. Get ready for the life of living with HIV. You are not invincible.
Congratulations to them. Evercare a very good hospital,quite expensive too.
For those saying rubbish up there looking for reasons to console themselves or make their bitter themselves feel better, making snide remarks and assumptions won't change your lives.
Matix222: So I just decided to play a trick on my girl that a female bestie is staying with me so as to get her serious in the relationship. What’s it a good move? What are your thoughts?
You fit eachother. Two unserious kids deceiving eachother.
imagrg: When I met my 21 years old lover for the first time, I observed that her virginal had a fairly offensive odour.
I didn't hide the fact from her. I told her how to go about it and she did.
The odour is less now..most times not noticeable at all.
She thanks me for this.
What's your take on this issue?
What will you do if your girlfriend's pu*ssy stinks?
Have her have a swab test, to rule out infection. If there is she treats it. Then better hygiene, bathing at least twice a day, washing the vulva well. Then wiping properly, after peeing.
Heehee. E pain you,that I spoilt your market. So because you have that thread guarantees you are not one. . Some day when you have a daughter and you get to know that she wants to meet up with some random dude she met on a faceless media for "runz" and she shows you a thread as proof for letting her guard lose, I hope you will give her a big hug and tell her how wise she is. Mind numbing Mo*ron. Now fck off my mention.
Modified, so you are in your fifties . You are gone already, a fool forever and ever.no redemption for you. Chai. It is well
Romance / Re: What Do I Do To Please My Boyfriend??? by Blunttruth: 12:02pm On Nov 06, 2022 
