maasoap:


This is pure nonsense. You based your conclusion on assumptions and that rendered your conclusion invalid.

You are entitled to your foolishness Even in medical terms there is no absolute certainty talklless of human behaviour. So stfu and get of my mention.

NobleDeSage001:


Yes, she is circumcised.
If it is good, I won't be complaining and seeking solution.
A finger is even a problem for her.

One of the consequence of circumcision

NobleDeSage001:


Sir, kindly share your experience and how you handled it with your wife for the sake of married folks who find themselves in this situation.

My wife is very tight and she complains of pains whenever I try to penetrate her. So, I am still searching for a workable solution.

Probably a result of circumcision. But wait I thought being tight was very good.

Wazobiakene:
Good day guys. So straight to the Koko. I’ve been dating this woman who I really like and also happens to be a virgin for over a year now, a year and 3 months to be exact and only recently we tried making love and I even got some lube to help the ordeal, so I initiated some pre-intimacy to get her in the mood and when she’s wet enough I tried penetrating with my penis hard but I couldn’t penetrate, she was in obvious pain and I love her so much and can’t bear to see her in pain so we stop for a while and start all over again pre-intimacy and all, and the same thing happens! Even if we use lube. We don’t get to see each other quite often because of the distance and the nature of our jobs so we’ve tried only on two separate weekends and it’s been the same outcome

So you can't wait to marry her first before doing this.

CANDYDADDY:
We have been in the relationship for Just 2 weeks now, yesterday as i was going out, normally whenever i am going out she used to implore me of buying something for her when I'm coming back, but i don't really see the need to impress nor spend on a girl that never also invest in the relationship, so yesterday as i was coming back i bought her biscuits and some chocolate bars worth 1,500 and i told her the amount intentionally.



So today when I'm coming to her place i was already anticipating gratitude or 'thank you' from her to no avail,thus our convo goes;;




At the instance, i told her she is not appreciative and she should forget everything about us and she should never dare call or stop me on road wherever she sees me



Till now neither she have find way to call me nor me calling her



Moral of this is girls lives at the moment,what you did for them now ends there, stop impress a girl financially that don't show gratitude nor reciprocate your show of care.


seun lalasticlala

The relationship is just 2 weeks and it's obvious you are not her only boyfriend. The feelings are not that deep, she may also not be your only girlfriend. So it's a win win. That's what happens when two people who are out for only what they can get meet and date.

mic360:


You fit help her wash am, at least na wetin you dey find since.

You are savage bros.

imagrg:
I have come across many ladies who tell me frankly that they moan during sexual acts to make men believe they enjoy this act. This makes me wonder if ladies actually enjoy sex.

Take your time to know how to please your woman and make her cum, that way you won't be worried about faking enjoyment. Sometimes it's actually pain they are feeling not pleasure. Sex is about communication. Also know this that most women don't cum during penetrative sex.

I have read her posts, there's nothing wrong with siofra. She generalizes just like most guys do here. Red pillers like to dish it out but don't like to take their own pill. Unfortunately most of the guys here secretly love her and are dying to meet her. All the trash talk is just to get her attention.

siofra:
Please anytime you're in a bus pray a Nigerian man does not open his armpit. They stink. And if you're a short girl, sorry for you, because the smell of a Nigerian man boxers can knock you out.

Is it that they don't bathe again or what? Early in the morning, when one is supposed to smell fresh, Nigerian men will be smelling like rotten beans.

What is all this

The worst is when they open their mouth to toast you, Jesus!!!!!!


Please, dear Nigerian men ♥️, Zonefree, verywickedgoat, DaddyCk, pells1, pringles01, nonexisting1 and advanceDNA, invest in deodorants and good soaps, trust me they don't cost much. It's cheaper than a bet9ja slip.

And don't forget to shower and brush your teeth at least once a day. Thanks.

. It's not all o. But I understand what you are saying . This is pay back generalisation. Well I did use to encounter this a lot back when I was in school. Especially during night class, also in buse back then

siofra:
I've observed the families around me and my family and this is what I've noticed.

The average Nigerian woman around me brings half of her salary, cooks for the family, cleans the home, manages the home and takes care of the kids. Sometimes she may get help from her relative who stays with them or her husband's relative to manage the house but usually she does everything herself. The man never helps, he only pays the bills.

In my house, my mom uses half of her salary to buy toiletries, buy things for us the children (like tech gadgets and lots of other miscellaneous items) and sometimes to cook while managing the home and working full-time outside the house.
My dad does not help with house chores, he only pays the bills, buys food stuff and occasionally buys miscellaneous items for the home.

I live in an academic environment where "housewives" are practically non-existent. The women work outside the home as much as the men and still run their homes. So how my home is run, is basically how the hundreds of homes around us are run too.


From what I wrote up there, it's clear that what both genders are contributing to the family is not 50-50. The woman brings 80 and the man brings 20.

My conclusion is that women bring more to the table in modern Nigerian homes than men do.

So, what exactly do Nigerian men bring to the table apart from money?
What else do they have to offer. It's obvious that marriages in Nigeria favours men more than women.
Nigerian men just want to eat their cake and have it.

You are very correct. Where I live, I am opprtuned to have both working class families and businesses people. The women are the ones doing the most. In my area in particular,there's a particular group of NFAs. A bunch of useless mem , whom I have encountered,most are married, few are not. They do absolutely nothing. Their wives cloth and feed them , and als take care of the kids. I get alarmed when I see men here saying all sorts. Women are really trying I must say.

mic360:
Omo, her controversial posts are damn much sha and 90% Trageted at men. She really deserved the Award for the most controversial person on Nairaland.

She sure damn know how to mess with men emotionally and mentally.

wow


But Siofra what did men do to you na?

If you want to read Siofra posts and you are way to emotional, i'll advise you avoid them cos they will surely mess with you emotionally and your mental reasoning will be badly affected.

It seems this is why Daddyck don't like her sha.

But Siora hope you don't hate men outside of Nairaland, abi you post those controversial stuffs just for fun or as a way of getting back at them Redpillers.

Trust me, if Nairaland Redpillers will start showing her some little love, her toxicity towards men might reduce.

Just my 2 cent

Let me go and check her posts.

Failure44:
Theres this girl am with.
When I say she's beautiful I mean she's damn beautiful.
Fat ass and average breast, she's my spec in every manner and way physically and we even have the same music taste.
You could call her the woman of my dreams and she has been bringing up relationship talk lately.

But there's an issue
She can't cook

This is a serious problem for me because I love food, I'm struggling to ignore the fact she can't cook this is a major problem for me.

Abeg my fellow guys in the house what do you think

If she feels same about you, she will learn how to cook because of you. Speaking from experience

Divoc19:
For those of you curious about what I look like

Go feast on my profile picture and don't forget to like

This is my December gift to my Nairaland family

2023 go steeeeeeewww

We Pray For Life!

Don't mind those saying you are ugly. You are far from ugly ma'am.

Sakirat25:
We all know love is a the strongest feeling, have you ever liked someone you just meet that day? Do you believe in love at first sight?

No, it's strong attraction. When pursued and it turns into a beautiful fove story,they will say it was love at first sight. But some bad relationships also started with that same strong attraction.

Very good you guys are doing better and using the right words and not generalising

MytyD:

Why una dey lyk insult person mama Biko nu
What did the innocent woman do to you
Una go leave person why vex u,start to dey insult mama/papa
Una lyk to dey go low belt e no good
Ok now as u don call the innocent woman worthless,u feel accomplished shebi u feel lyk a boss, lyk u just conquered Jericho
Make una stop am oo,bcus if na una mama/papa dem insult lyk dat una go start to dey rant
Make una stop am

The mama and papa supposed collect wotowoto, because it's their fault they raised a sick pervert

Pells1:
why are these girls bitter and always saying men are trash
Cc Magnoliaa Sweetplum virginprincess Shalommy Siofra Samantha123 Sweetvie

Na Una redpiller movement cause am.

horke:
Hello Nairalanders. Shortly, my girl friend which I planned doing introduction with next year, called me that I should please, she wants to visit her 4yrs old time MALE friend.
I asked for what?...she said, just to say hi, and d guy has sent him, #2,000 already for transport, that the guy is now okay ooo, like years back, she use to give him somethings even feeding him sometimes..but now he is (a bit yahooly rich)
Just as she explaned!!!

They were mere friends as well before in a nearby state, now my girl relocated back here where I am and this so called guy is presently doing his post education here too.
Now... My spirit is not at rest. (So Jealous). I told my girl to branch my place first when coming from his place, that I have a surprise for her.
.... I decided to just check secretly through her hand bag... AT THE INNER PURSE OF THE BAG I FOUND HER WET WASHED PANT WRAPPED
& KEPT INSIDE BLACK NYLON....

Please what could this mean??

Different thinking on my head since yesterday... Can't even sleep correctly.
Thanks good morning

Only a guy who is a cheat and has been caught by his girlfriend would have allowed such visit and is even afraid to call a spade a spade

BigDickProblems:
Happy Sunday Guys.

Let me go straight to the point. So I have 2 systems and a power bank(40,000MAH) to charge whenever I turn on my Gen. My systems doesn't take much time to fully charge but reverse is the case with my power bank.

Now the problem is my Neighbours. They will pack all their gadgets to my house as though I am charging the whole streets gadget whenever I turn on my Gen. This alone slows down the rate at which my power bank charges. Just today, after they brought all the gadgets as though its a street property, I noticed that my power bank took about 30minutes to get 1%. So I decided to try something new by turning off the switch connecting my neighbors appliances and see if this could help. Lo and behold, my power bank added 2% in just about 10 minutes.

I have left it this way since then. Their gadgets at not charging as I type this except for mine. I am managing time for fuel consumption cos fuel is expensive now and I am managing myself. My power bank is very very very important to me.

What I did, is it wrong? If you were in my shoes, what would you do??

Your moniker confused me . Anyway this one of those don't start what you can't finish things. If you can stop putting it on for a while w8the excuse that something was stolen from your room.everyone will find their square root.

Jackanda1:
Hello house. Is there any one that has this problem? It seems there is a part of my brain that is wired this way for years now.

While most people lie to escape punishment and blame etc, i tend to lie for no reason atall. Sometimes i need to lie further just to modify the initial lie.

Examples:
1. I went late to work because i had to take home some office files which i worked with all through the night. When asked, i lied to my boss that i had a compound dispute tha made me come late. Saying the truth would have earned me praises from my boss and saved me alot of stress.

2. I got injured at home. When my landlady asked how, i lied that i had a serious accident when going to work that morning.
I told her a long story about the accident scene and all. She was sympatizing with me and almost wept.

These are just few examples i can type now, there is more.

I can't help but lie most of the time i have conversation with people. Any advice?

nlfpmod, seun

You care too much about people's opinion about you that's why. Once you stop caring too much about what they think of you, and you putting an effort it'll stop.

GoooodHardDick:
Dear Men,

Women don't have a shred of respect or piece of love towards any man who presents himself as a woman rappa. You want to please her, worship her and shower her with unnecessary attention and resources makes you look cheap to women most especially to Nigerian girls. Women don't value Mr. Nice Guy.


This doesn't mean alpha male are harsh but they are principled men who don't foolishly lick women's butt crack. They are nice and fun to be with. They're mysterious and unpredictable, they go straight to the point, they are expensive and the type of guys women value and wouldn't want to loose. A bracelet of 500k and that of 50k, which would you value? Be wise! Your Attention is the most powerful tool you have as a man. Guide it Very well

The energy you put into this thing shows you are hurting. Try and forgive the person that hurt you and move on. Don't let one bad experience change your nature. There are good and bad girls out there. Just like there are good and bad guys. Just learn from your mistakes but don't blacklist every female and start creating awareness and training. Other young men to be hard hearted.

Vinnie2000:


Man and Woman NO BE THE SAME O.

We Guys have some Friends still Single!..

While Most Ladies' friends are Married with Kids and this make some Lonely and Depressed!

Well it's society you have to blame for that, and the friends who marry and decide they have arrived. But any girl that will let that depress her is just being silly .

Vinnie2000:


I Wanted to call somebody Today But Mistakenly Dialled the Number of one of My Ex Babe's Whom i Dated in 2018!..

She is around 29,30 Years now..

She Completed her HND in Delta State Polytechnic in Ogwuashi-ukwu recently.


She was like 'SweetHeart' how far nah, I am Still in Ogwuashi-ukwu here o. ' Maybe The Husband when go Marry me nah here he dey'..

She Sounded so Sad, Lonely and Depressed and I Really Felt for her.


SO REALLY, How Do Single Ladies Cope when Most of Their Friends are Married?



Nplfmod.

Same way single men in their 30s with married friends cope

Wordsfrombimpe:
You na too like sex oh

So you guys are telling me no relationship can survive without sex

Hmmn

Yes it can if both parties don't date for long and have marriage in view.

LittleBigDick:
I hit my girlfriend yesterday because she suggested opening up our relationship. It wasn't a big deal tho. I just slapped her face.
She grabbed some of her stuff and left to her parents house angered but didn't break up with me yet. I sent her a text "If you wanna break up im fine with it but i need a clarification" and she replied "i don't know, let's talk tomorrow"
Is there any way to fix this? I don't know if i over reacted but i felt disrespected. I just acted without thinking

If she continues with you, then she is a fool. So as you slapped her you felt like a man abi. Pussy assed coward. Well I don't blame you sha, I blame the girl who left her parents house to live with you without marriage.

Animegirl:
Ever since I started serving as a youth corper in Abuja, I've been getting free rides and money from older men, in exchange for my phone number and couple of meet up.

Everywhere I go with my corper uniform I attract older men. Why the obession?

The idea of younger woman from a different tribe. And the fact that the stay is temporary, just a year and you go back to your base.

Crazychris:
in reference to my previous thread; this girl for the past three months she refused to come visit me in my house since 3 months for the fear of me forcing her to use drug and abort. She finally puts me in trouble cos this wasn't my plan.

She tested it with PT this morning and the result came out like this but I'm not really sure how to read this thing. Please doctor in the house help me check

Congratulations, a pack of kiss baby diapers is over 6k. Not to talk of baby milk. You have already made the mistake don't make it worst by committing abortion. That's murder. Go on YouTube and look for silent screams. Your perspective on abortion will change. Don't listen to them saying the baby has not formed

pappy2000:
Please i am in need of a lagos lawyer, I need to file for a divorce. i will appreciate if anyone can offer his or her service and the required legal fees

Have you tried all possible means to resolve the issue.

Tinubumustfail:
Earlier this year I met this beautiful damsel in one of the shopping mall as a cashier. I do come to the shopping mall every week because I have a business relationship with the MD and his Son managing the mall.

Fast forward, I collected the girl number and we keep talking and she told me plain that she is in a serious relationship and can't go into another one. But my goal is just to have and move away.

Fast forward, after few day, I invited her over, she refuse for several days. Later she open up and told me her ex stays in same compound with me. The compound is a twin four story building flat and I stay in the second building. She eventually visit me and we make out the rest is history. Now this lady sleeps in my house every week when she is on night shift. The mall closes by 10pm and where she stays is far. So from my house to the mall is N50, so she comes every week. But the funny thing is that, each time the boyfriend called her, she will tell him she's in the girlfriend place or at home.

This same act goes on for 4months until she finally got admission to continue her HND. Each time she visit me from school during weekend, she will still branch to see the ex to say hello. The ex have ask her who she knows in the compound and she lied her girlfriend they both work together. Wetin concern me, my own na to collect. At a point I start feeling for the main guy. She opens up that she has done all manner of crazy things with men. Infact she took in for me and hang it on his guy neck when I told her to keep it. What actually happen is that, she visited the main guy on Friday from school, they both make love, on Saturday she came to my place we make love and I come on her. Two weeks later she missed her period and visited me from school to tell me. I told her to keep it but she refuse. On Sunday she went to see the main guy and told him same thing that she is pregnant. The guy man was shock that he did not come on her how come. They both calculate when he met her, and it tally. Guy man abort the baby (God forgive me). And this is not the first time she is carrying out abortion she told me.


This girl has been visiting me often from school weekend and sometimes ordinary days and go back next day. She visit the ex too. She really love her guy so much I can attest to that, but if she do, how come she sleeps around with other guys?

Just yesterday, she told me she will be visiting her ex living in the same compound with me on weekend, that next week she will visit me. I was angry at her and ask her why is she still visiting her ex? Note they broke up due to Genotype. They are both AS. I started feeling for the real guy. Her boyfriend always provide for her, make her feel comfortable, send her money. I only give her food and transport each time she comes from school 3k. I have seat her down and let her know that even though am benefitting from it, is not good to sleep around. I have advice her but she won't listen. Mind you am only talking about the one I know, what about other guys she visit I don't know?

My conscience is not at peace. Should I tell the real guy, or should I let go of her and not communicate to her again, or should I just let her be. I just want to avoid her and have peace..

Criticism and advise is welcome.

Continue spreading the herpes. I don't understand this generation and their notion of sex.

HITsquad:
Nigga you are ugly as fvck! You look like you just jumped out of an old naira note! But since you got money... No tension. That's the only thing that can get you laid.

Nothing else... Absolutely nothing else.

Haha, are you jealous. How can you say he is ugly.