Please, I need help on how I can increase the level of blood in my body. I lost a lot of blood this month through menstruation. My period this month came very heavy. As a result of this, I lost a lot of blood, and this makes me weak and dizzy sometimes. Imagine, on the third day of the period, I already used almost one medium pack of sanitary pads. This is to tell you how heavy it is.
So please, if there's anyone here who knows what I can do, eat or drink so as to replenish this blood, I would really appreciate it.
Thanks.
It's time for you to go to the hospital, you will probably be asked to do an ultrasound test.i would not know much but most times when there's heavy bleeding, it's linked to fibroids or hormones. So see a gynecologist. Things you can take. Buy a very good blood building supplemente.g astyfer,either liquid or tablet. Eat offals like liver, lots of vegetables. Ugu leaf water and milk, then there's this plant Yoruba people call,ewe eje. Get it fresh, boil it and drunk the water,the water is usually red. I also heard that potato leaf is good.
Westchester: A very beautiful 18 year old girl I met last month has just left for London today. I was heartbroken when she broke the news to me this morning, been a very long time I fell for a girl this bad, she's everything I ever wanted in a woman She came to my house last Friday and we just gist and laughed, I didn't try to touch her or do anything funny, I just wanted to build something strong with this girl and now she don japa to UK At a point I started regretting why I didn't initiated to have sex with her, at least that memory will linger for a long time
I haven't been myself all day, I just feel like a sore loser
Moniya4Real: Hi guys in the house? Pls, kindly give an objective response to the question below : ‘Should a guy take back a wife of 12 years that bore 2 kids after a strong allegation from family friends she cheated with a known person?’. Thanks in anticipation for your candid responses.
If she is repentant and you know you can move past it and not constantly bringing it up , especially if you know you have not been faithful too , forgive her. Try to make sure the kids are yours though. Also learn to keep third party out of your marriage.
Pells: I hope you are ready to share this bleached old kpekus so I can vote for your son
Both you and the people who liked your comments are all useless. Obviously you have no respect for your own mothers .spoilt brats ,can you say it to her face.
argent412: you look that girl think say she might be married....how many bucket of sperm do you think is on her face...this one here is a coded olosho....akuna akuna
Mozenge1: Men can’t vent about sexual harassment anymore .precious did this to me yesterday,she called she has sore throat,I rushed down and saw her unclad,the rest was history.I was sexually harassed by precious yesterday,my dignity just like that .I’m depressed TBH.I NEED HELP
It's either you are boasting or you are just saying out your fantasy hoping it comes true. It's most likely the latter.
Mozenge1: Men can’t vent about sexual harassment anymore .precious did this to me yesterday,she called she has sore throat,I rushed down and saw her unclad,the rest was history.I was sexually harassed by precious yesterday,my dignity just like that .I’m depressed TBH.I NEED HELP
NaturalKinzzy: Does anyone know how u spy on my younger sister's phone? She is in school presently and last week I called her around 9pm only for me to be hearing loud noise of music playing underneath. How can I possibly spy on her phone?
DigitalLawyer: Thank you. I have been far away from God because I came to feel I need to live a free life. I tried forming holy 4 years after our marriage but it seems the moment she feels I don’t have choice she doubles her wahala. This gave me constant headache. That was before I thought of having an alternative woman. I am still yet touch any woman but I just wanna be happy no matter the cost.
Now are you not in a dilemma? Study the word of God together.join groups in church that make you a better husband and a better wife,so you can be hearing the worf6of God too from others. Attend couples' programs together. Learn how to communicate.
DigitalLawyer: Hello nairaland, I need your candid advice on this matter.
I am in my early 30’s. I am married and have been so married for 5 years now but I look very young like a single dude. Going back in time, it was the year 2017 during my youth service. I met this girl in my place of primary assignment. I got attracted to her and approached her for a date but she refused and maintained we could be good friends. She said I was not ready or rich enough to marry her. But as time went by, before the end of my service, I fell in love with her and she quite liked me but was dating another guy. Gradually, we started staying together as if we were dating. I was always with her, told her stories, sings for her while she cooks and assisted her in the kitchen. She could not resist my kindness, gentle disposition and above all my innocently handsome looks. She confessed that I am a husband material and wished I was rich enough to marry her. But poor me, I was a youth corper with only 20k salary and 19k allawee. In one of my romantic fits, I declared that in no distant time, I will marry her and I prayed about it. I never knew she was in love with another man. Fast forward till towards the ending of youth service, I made love with her and after passing out parade, she broke the news that she is pregnant for me. I had no job then but that evening I proposed to her without ring ( I had no money to buy ring). She was afraid because she does not want to disgrace her family by giving birth outside wedlock and so she agreed to marry me but we did not have enough money. Even with her own money combined, we cannot do a Traditional wedding and pay our house rent. I broke the news to my dad and knelt down and begged him in tears to support us so that we could successfully get married and settle down. Luckily for me My dad agreed and said that the baby in her womb is his blood and he cannot abandon it in another mans land. That I will marry her and she will give birth to his grandchild. He made some calls and sold one of his lands, divided the money in half and gave me to do a befitting wedding and settle down. I met the family of the girl who at that time did know about the pregnancy and with a bottle of Champagne told them I came to ask for their daughters hand in marriage. The mum accepted me but the dad had reservations as to whether I was buoyant enough to take care of his lovely daughter. But he finally made a remark “ he who do not have today, will have tomorrow” and gave us his blessing. I took her out and we professed love for each other. In the course of the wedding preparation, she lost the baby. After the baby was gone, we assured each other we will go ahead with the wedding because we love each other not because she was pregnant. The wedding was a success and we relocated and started life in another state. It was hard for us initially but I got a job and things became fine.
Along the line she became pregnant again and gave birth to my son. After some time my salary was no longer enough for us. This was how insults found its way into the marriage. she insults and disrespect me at the slightest provocation. She calls me a failure whenever I cannot afford some things we need in the house. At a point my son’s school threatened to send them away from school in 2 days time if I don’t pay their fees. As a result my wife mounted so much pressure on me to look for money but I could find none. I pleaded with her that I was expecting some money in two week’s time from a deal I did but she gave me the insult of my life that day. Because of this I went and borrowed money from someone I was not supposed to meet for money. The insults continued and the disrespect persisted. At any slightest mistake I make in the house, she will rain down insults and threats on me. At one point she threatened to kill me if I cheated on her. As a result of the insults, I lost the love I had for her. The house became a hell to me. I lost my phone and could not buy another phone. I resorted to borrowing people’s phone to use their watsapp to do business calls. Sometimes, my wife refuses to give me her phone to use to speak to some clients. It became obvious, am no longer happy. Even my children started noticing it. The way she forments quarrels over trivial issues in the house and uses words that breaks my heart. At a point, I resumed smoking and drinking inorder to find peace and happiness at least whenever I am high. It was not enough, I started looking for alternative to my happiness. Maybe if I carry another woman it will balance the equation. I would be able to get the joy I never had in the house and be able to bear insults from my wife because another person is giving me joy outside. On a fateful day, I met this girl in a taxi I entered to work. Beautiful, attractive and courteous. She liked me at first meeting and we exchanged contacts. First I was not serious with her until when the sadness in my home continued, I started going after her to get the happiness, I am missing in the house. From meetings with her, I found her very respectful, lively and playful. One could forget all his cares in a moment with her. She is industrious and always expresses her dreams and how she believe she will attain same. I invited her to have dinner date with me after office hour on a fateful day and she complied. During the dinner, I told her about myself and she told me about herself. I told her that all I need is happiness because I am sad and empty. She did not know I am married and she wondered why I said that. She was already waiting for me to ask her to date me so that she will quickly say yes. Because I love to be truthful in all things, I told her I am married but that I am not happy. I was surprised when she told me she liked me and would like to date me despite that fact. She told me she has a boyfriend but he is unserious. Both of us within a short time blended in such a way that we talk, play and act like siblings. It was as if we had been friends before. Although I meet her clandestinely, my love for her grew. I started planning her future with her. Each time we talk we look at each other passionately in the eyes and she said she wished we had met before I got married. The funny aspect of it is that I have come to love her so much that all I need from her is her presence and attention and I have no desire whatsoever to have sex with her. I am not just attracted to her sexually. Each time I see her I smile profusely and she too smiles profusely and we play like little children. We always wished there were no obstacles like my marriage. Because of her, my happiness came back. I was no longer sad and at home my wife noticed my new countenance and that I am no longer interested and started Changing. Above all, the money I was expecting came, for now I am okay. She easily got whatever she asked for in the house and currently she has completely changed (not sure if she is pretending or not). Currently I am happy. Currently the beautiful innocent girl I met is in a dilemma because she does not know my fate with her. I kept wishing i married her. She keeps wishing I were not married. I showed her my children’s pictures and she loved them and asked me about them always.
Sorry for the long story but I am in a dilemma. Please I need your advice, I now love her more than my wife. In fact I no longer love my wife, we just live strictly as legally married husband and wife and nothing more. But I now love this girl so much that I am afraid of losing her because she is the one that gave me joy to be able to withstand the depression in my house. Now that peace has returned to my house what should I do. I don’t know whether my wife is pretending or she is fully changed. But I feel for the girl, I love her, she is someone I can live with for a 100 years without getting tired of loving her.
Please advice me. Please no insult and abeg don’t judge me, I have not touched her.
Never find happiness in sin. Find happiness in Godly things. Why didn't you go and hangout with your friends,or find happiness with your kids, or your job, or church activities. What is bad is bad. You have to man up and be honourable. End all associations with the second woman. You now know your wife's weak point. It's for better for worse. You should both involve God in your marriage and study his word together as a family. Things will be better, and for now stop breeding kids, face the ones you have and take care of them. Don't think the love the second woman is showing is genuine and don't go and lose guard and then she poisons your family because you think she is perfect and loves your kids. Put an end to it now the longer you wait the more difficult.
JackDaAlienz: I think too many children are now in romance section. Virgins lieing about how they bleeped girls in campus. Too many wannabe bad guys with fake concoted stories. And the funny thing is that one useless mod will push it to frontpage.
Don't Believe anything in Romance section Its all Fake stories for Likes
Exactly,virhins who have been rejected forming redPiller
TS2911: Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready. One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts. The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes. This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.
Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks
You are a side piece. He has no interest in you. There's no such thing as being so busy that you don't call someone you are in a relationship with for weeks. What you should do is not to discuss anything with the guy, just let it die a natural death. Don't tell him you want to breakup, just ignore him, and move I. With your life, stop calling, if he does call ignore it, if you can't block him.
bigpicture001: One single vice I didn't commit while with her... Common fight or smoke or drink, or even beat or shout at her , I no do.... But in marriage things might heat up one day especially abraod where men are reduced to common ppl like women, the fight for equality in that society may get to u as an African man... ND u may want to act... Sh is the type that would call in law enforcement on u....
It's good taking care of ur child, but even better if ur the one who modelles the child way of life... But when ur absent and another guy bring him up in a day to day culture while u only support with finance, it's painful...
See, just agree, sh is good.
I don't disagree that she is good. I am saying you had issues. You won't admit. not admit. Like I said said it's always good to hear from both parties
bigpicture001: Guess u don't want to know more..what else can a guy say, wen he says his ex is a good girl......
I acknowledge the fact sh wants a guy who is already stable financially, and I am not at the time.
The bank guy sh now dates,unknown to her is a contract staff at zenith.....but whatever sh sees with him. Her choice ,her luck.
Do u know I declined relocation abraod to canada by her..?
I couldn't find myself staying with her abroad till she begins to Nigerinize herself...sh is too westernized......both parents died wen she was 11..sh thereafter modelled her life after Amerian screen play families.....
Sh blivs in all American norms and I know sh is open to divorce, open to sorting issues with law enforcement instead of elder family members....I dont want to b tied down with child support all my life abroad
Then you did wrong by turning it down. That means you had vices if you are worried about law enforcement agencies, were you abusive? If you say she was very good she would not call law enforcement agencies for nothing. Also have you heard about pre nup if you are afraid of dividing your wealth with her. If you pay child support its n6 bad, won't you support your own kids if you were together.
bigpicture001: No.. sh caant comes back... And I won't go back forr her.. not cuz of pride... But cuz it got messy as my income rose.. I kept updating her of my progress and constantly ask her to return....
Remember I told u, sh don't double date and sh likes to face just whoever sh dates... that guy got into her mind and ask her tto send me court papers for disturbing her life...
Sh did.. ND I was served a court papers and made to sign an understanding to very well distance myself from her.. now we pass each other on close shape but don't holla...
Sh will pass me, stop and be looking at me as I walk away....
Guy, things dey happen.. still it doesn't make all her real qualities fake.. sh is a good. Girl
That's so sad. Maybe there's more to this story you are not divulging.
bigpicture001: It's not about not valuing her.. I did.. and sh knows I did.. but u know the common problem with ladies aand impatient...... My income was low hers was higher.. I was working on mine and ssh even supported....
But as business world has it, my biz world crumbled within first 5month.. sh knew, I was bent on rebuild, but sh wouldn't have more of it.... She left and I built to 5x higher income than my previous, called her back, she has already moved with another....
It was a painful loss.. but what can I do.. we move..
The. Funny part is where sh is rushing to mainly for whose income is fatter.. sh got it.. now I HV dwarfed that person income, ready tto marry and still d guy isn't ready to marry her (yet).
In life sh would HV learnt a lesson... two plus two is not always. 4
Then it was not only your financial status that was her reason, if it was she would have left the other guy. Could be she feels you are trying to deceive her.if she isn't married to him yet you can still get her.
cutecommend: A Pastor said a guy slept with a married woman and lost his job the next day.
If you sleep with a married woman will it bring a curse? Let me tell you one thing. Curses are sometimes like seeds that grow into a tree. Do you know if you sleep with a married woman today, you may not feel anything or consequence until maybe 10 years later.
Sleeping with married women is dangerous. You may escape it, but your children may begin to experience some negative stuff.
If you have slept with a married woman, please stop it and repent.
It's no different from sleeping with a married man in God's eyes.
KiNg0G: Today is the first time of me knowing a womb can be reset through massage, They came to ask me if theys anybody that rubs in the area...I directed them to shoprite...The dude said not that kind of body massage, but a native massage. he further went to say it's for his wife, and they need ijaw hand to help reset her womb.
There's what is called fertility massage. I think it just improves blood flow to the womb, I don't think it resets or repositions anything.
ibechris: It’s natural for women to try to sell you purity, to make themselves look more suitable in your eyes for a committed relationship.
On an intrinsic level, women understand that men don’t want to commit to women with a questionable sexual past.So when a woman wants commitment.
She creates a version of herself that she knows increases her chances of getting a commitment from you.
It’s manipulative, but it’s accepted in today’s society.
So don’t complain, just adapt.This woman in question, I had been seeing for about 2 months.
And out of nowhere, she decided to tell me I was the first guy she had unprotected sex with.
I didn’t even ask her, so this was totally unsolicited.I could have immediately called her bluff, but that would have been the wrong move.
All that’d have done is make her defensive.
And I’ll end up looking crazy.
So I waited a month.
& came up with a series of questions, to unravel the truth with ease.I asked her “whats the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex at ?”
She said “On a rooftop” with a smile on her face.
I asked “was it planned or was it spontaneous?”
She said “it was spontaneous”
Checkmate!Who has spontaneous s*x on a rooftop with a condom ?
Possible ? Yes, but definitely not probable.
Being reactionary and directly confronting women about their lies never ends well.
They’d rather die than say the truth.
They’ll get super defensive.
Not worth the stress.Did I call her out after this discovery ?
No.
Did I continue banging her ?
You’re damn sure I did.
I came to a verdict in my head, and knew she’ll never get a relationship out of me.
Silent dismissals are usually the best approach in situations like this.I also need to make it clear that I didn’t dismiss her because she previously had unprotected sex.
I mean, who hasn’t ?
I dismissed her because she’s a liar.
She couldn’t be trusted.
And it wasn’t my responsibility to find out what else she was lying about.
Both sexes do this. Everyone wants to have value in the eyes of their love interest. I know a guy who lied about genotype, another about being a graduate,even to the extent of forging certificates, so this is not gender specific.
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