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Iyasaburi:
This is my story o



I lend 20k to a lady who I was not involved with sexually, based on compassion and good neighbourliness, but along the lines, one thing lead to another and sex happened between us.

Just a one time thing o.



A month after that, I asked her for my money which has fallen due over 2 weeks and she told me that she is not owing me again. What nonsense! For what?



Can you imagine, my people.

20k for just one round in this harsh economy.



My people, but this not fair nah. It's like, I will go all out to embarass her in the neighborhood, because I seriously need my money.



We never agreed to use the sex as settlement for the loan. How can she now be holding my money hostages?



Some women are simply heartless!

Ogechi98:
sorry am bringing this post to this forum cause I really need advice no insults please. Am currently in a long distance relationship with this girl who hails from edo state and we have dated for like a year and some months now and I really do love this girl and have made it know to her parents while am still trying to fix myself that I want to settle down with her. But about a months ago we both had a conversation and she told me she will be travelling to Italy to further her education, at some point I was in shock cause of the things have heard about edo girls who travel to Italy. I asked her who was going to sponsor her trip to Italy and she told me she has been saving money for it even before we met and this got me even more confused than I was and when I asked her who she was going to stay with when she gets to Italy, she told me she has a cousin who works in Italy as a midwife that she was gonna stay with her for just a month before getting her own apartment. The truth is am really confused cause I feel like there's more to this trip that she's not telling me about and lastly when I asked her when she will be returning she told me she doesn't know and that I shouldn't pause my life for her.. am really confused cause this is a girl have made up my mind to be with for life but all of a sudden it feels like everything is falling apart and I just don't know what to do..

Kronikuz:
Mehn guys that have several girlfriends and are still physically strong I twale for una.
I have tried but I'm failing.

I had 2 girls I was managing jejely until I decided to add a third. Now it's like all the contents inside me are emptied. I feel always empty no matter how much of good food I eat.

If I go to the gym no strength,.. Small workout I don tire. I have been following the instructions and even adhered to the diet but to no avail. Reason is these girls want to kill me with sex.

The other came on Sunday, another yesterday, another will come tomorrow. The one on sunday is hinting about coming on Thursday. Worst part is I work at home and sometimes I will tell them I have traveled then run away to go stay with my guys but I no fit run from my house na. It's telling on me already.

Small workout I don dey breathe like who run 1000 km. Oya na make I dey manage one rounds per each of them e still no dey work. I still feel the same way regardless of how much work I put in the work out. It's like fatigue has befriended me for life cos no matter how much I eat or try to regain energy with supplements and extra work out I always end up weaker.

I thought I was sick at first but the results proved wrong. I guess this Womanizing isn't for me. Or should I say I no fit do am. But it's all the same cos my energy no reach

udofia234:
I am 30yrs of age and a coming up business man, I have being in many relationships which doesn't last at all! the last two relationship I had was even the worst (this year), the first was a Christian and also a believer and the most disappointing part of it is that she wants us to have sex, but being a Christian I told her that we can only have this when we marry, she kept saying what is I cannot satisfy her sexually, we where on this for so long until that relationship ended abruptly, the second one I also dated this year was very demanding, she wants this and that, which I did the best I could but she said it wasn't enough, she broke up with me simply because I don't have a car. guys this is so frustrating, must I have a car or compromise my faith just to find love. pls I need your advice.

Bradford111:
Does it mean she really loves you

GoooodHardDick:
Dear Men,

Maintaining your girlfriend doesn’t mean you‘re kind or ‘responsible’. It means you‘re stupid. Very stupid. The only women God created you to maintain are your mother, your sisters, your wife and your daughters. A girlfriend who requires maintenance is no better than a prostitute. Tell her to get a job, learn a skill or a trade and work!!!

SultanOfPuna:
This man all my life has been a disciplinarian
Always Godly and preaching to us everytime.
Today i caught him in a hotel with one of his female workers.

I feel like this life na scam, all those holiness and preaching was for nothing.
This man will punish us back then for our youthful excapades
But Man is out here cheating, over 40 years marriage.
This hypocrisy of Nigerian parents is too much
The one wey pain me is that the girl is someone i senoir by far.
I feel like slapping him for real

Fedrick100:
Happy Sunday Nlers

How can i overcome my anger issues,like any little my girlfriend did to me even if it’s the one i should overlook i will get annoyed.

The thing is really affecting my relationship and it’s eating me up, i don’t want to lose a good girl because of my temperament,

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all. Please, I want to know if this is normal. Whenever I'm menstruating, there are usually some things that do come out like pieces or chunks of meat, I mean bloody meat.
It's usually jelly-like and can be felt when it's dropping or coming out.

It occurs every month, but that of last month was much and the flow was heavier too, that I ended up using more than one pack of sanitary pads.

I don't know if this is normal. Please, if it's not, is there a way I can stop it from happening again or at least reduce it. Has anyone experienced this? Is it something to be worried about? Thanks.

Attached below is a picture of what it looks like.

Aflix:
I saw a ram with 4 horns at a cattle market. We went there to get a goat, but we just had to buy this too.

Agriculture experts, is this a usual occurrence in your field of work?

Lalasticlala, Seun, Mynd44, FP please.

erinzy901:
What are the advantage of dating a single mother?

Autobot05:
Happy birthday to our evening newspaper that comes here to ease out her frustration here every day.



Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

fairwilliams:
Vawulence and T0ugh guy

siofra:
Why are you kind to me today?

siofra:
I'm 30 already

Time passes so fast.

Iamdbull:
It's has not been restored here o

BadRadio:
PHCN has embarked on a strike, meaning there will be total blackout in some areas if not all across the country.


What's the situation like in your current location?

Badboibipo:
I have never been loved by any woman in my life. What I have experienced and still experiencing even in my 30s is extreme admiration from women and flirtations from random women, but I think my personality is shit so I have never given anyone a chance to come too close to cry over me or whatever.

But I have loved once as a young man and I nearly died when the girl wasn’t showing me the same love I showed her, I was depressed for almost two years and since then I never truly gave love a chance again. I became BADBOIBIPO, The proud egocentric and arrogant alpha king who walks like the world revolves around his deek.

Have you ever loved anyone or being loved by anyone before?

300whitewolves:
My emotions are in a mess right now I am typing this right up. Everything was fine about me before I met this lady. I had just started my internship program UCH and things were going well until I met this lady, she was also an intern like me, at first we didn't really talk and one thing let to the other we started talking, exchanged numbers and all, she was even the one that initiated the process. That was how one night we were talking and she asked me whether I was single or dating, we actually live in the same hostel provided for interns but I went home that very day cos I was off duty and my house was in that state. I told her I was single, she went on to ask me what I wanted out of being with her, I was actually taken aback cos we just barely knew eachother though I was already falling head over hills for her, feeling all the knots in my stomach for her to the extent I had to ask myself what was wrong with me. My response to her was that she was distinct that I wanted to know her more, like friends and all, she said okay, she thanked me for my response, she went on to tell me that she liked me which was not the right thing cos she has someone she was dating but she is finding it so difficult not to fall for me. I was actually surprised, so I told her how I felt about her too that I liked her and all. That day went with other conversations going but we already created this tense atmosphere around each other. On Sunday I cooked rice and I was chatting with her, I asked her if she cared for the rice I am cooking she said yes, I told her I would call her if the rice was done. She came over when the rice was done, I told her to come with a covered plate so she could take her share to the hostel. When I finished with dishing hers she told me if I would follow her to the common room, we'll I told her yes, cos I didn't see anything wrong, it's a common room and it's open so I didn't see any danger in it. After like 1 hours talking in the common room she brought up the topic of she falling for me and all, that she wanted closure, I tried telling her how I felt with the thinking maybe she was just joking about the fact that she already had a boyfriend, during this conversation she placed her head on my chest, with time I couldn't hold it any longer, I asked her if I could kiss her, she said yes, and we went on kissing her her for like 5mins without her stopping me, I later withdrew she was looking scared, moaning under her breath, we kissed again, then we stopped, I then went on to say I was sorry, she told me I shouldn't be. Emotions we raging through her, then she blurted out that she was engaged that she has a fiance and she loved him and doesn't want anything to come between them. I became so sad, how could this be, I had already fallen for her, now she telling me this after the hot kiss and all. She stood up from the common room and went on to dress for work, cos she was on night duty. Through out that night, I was unable to sleep. Fast forward to yesterday she called me that she wanted to see me, when I got there she told me she already told her fiance about it that he came around earlier that day. She told me she wanted to cut off all attachments from me. I said OK but I was hurting, bruised, this girl led me on and shattered me along the way, she moved on quickly but am still her hurting. I really like this girl, but it's life I have to move on myself, the only painful thing is that we live in the same hostel. I will always have the mind that she lives close by.

Migxcy27:
I've been in relationship a while with this lady.... That I really love her so much
She was God sent for me even my friend were jealous of her

every weekend she normally come around to stay with me through out, sometimes I will give her excuse that am not around especially when I don't really have enough to sent on weekend..
Our love was growing very fast and I was very happy about it that finally I have found my missing rib
Unfortunately something just happened she started posting sometimes on WhatsApp like 'that your serious girlfriend will shock you one day'
Before I could knew what happened she started behaving strange to me like three day she doesn't pick my call or chat me on WhatsApp as usual
If I drop message for her on WhatsApp she will took like 5 to 7 minutes to reply me, it was really big concern for me
Finally she came with results that she's pregnant for me and I didn't even argue with her and I accepted it
But she wanted to remove it, but i didn't agree with that and she was really mad at me that I wanted to ruined is future we argue for a while I decided to send her money to remove it and final she say she had done it.
Since them the girl don't normally come my house on weekend again and I asked her what is happening she doesn't want to answer me and I started suspect something silly about her.

One particular day she decided to come over and I took her phone go through her WhatsApp chat and I was shock to found out that this girl is telling another guy she is missing her period while she told before that she is pregnant and Bill me and delivery it to her to remove it. and to even worst everything she didn't put a pressure she was putting me through she was a kind of gentle with the guy, she even tell the guy not to worry that she will work it out and she didn't demand any money from that guy.......
And confront her with a evidence she denied it that her sister is the one actually not her that her sister phone spoil so she decided to add her own boyfriend number on her WhatsApp to chat him and I didn't believe her I decided to break up with her but my greatest surprised was that the girls was not even complaining or say anything about it she decided to go and since then non either call or text from her

The girl really mess my life up for me I swear I don't think I will be so stupid to fell in love again

plsdisvirginme:
Olosho has cripple my account.
Landlord has evicted me.
Sex with olosho has finally put me in a state of the monumental colossal disaster.
Please pray for me.
I never knew that sleeping with olosho has a perpetual spirit that follows you until your life is completely disorganized.

Simpleman4life:
Hello....

Am new to nairaland, a friend introduced me to this forum to get good advice he told me some of the replies could be very extreme, so I will go straight to the point
There is this pretty lady in my area she has a very big ass with perky boobs the way I like it , everything about her turns me on she is dark tall and has a good smile, and her mom happens to have a shop in my area, just so I can see how I will go and buy something I don't need, she has really messed up with my head like no other lady has done before I have approached her severally she said she is not my type but I told her I don't mind I just want friendship even if is breast I can see to touch I would be very happy, but one thing I don't like about her she is always demanding money from me I don't mind giving her the money but she doesn't have time for me everytime excuse upon excuse I can sell my father's land to make her happy so she can be with me , please brother's help am i Going insane over her is this norma
One more thing anything i see her my joystick is always on the rise is all this normal

Please pardon my bounders

SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife .

This lady is my one and only best friend . As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it . We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage .

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked .
Days after she called and apologise and explain how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse . We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage .
She came to my city was staying with her elder brother.
We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.
Well, after some months , she blocked me from reaching her . For 9 months we haven't been in touch .

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number .
Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.
As I am typing, she is still talking on phone . She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old .
I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her .
It is painful. She is my best friend

Eminence125:
Please be patient and read carefully.

I'm a contract worker and my wife is pregnant, i have this male neighbour by name steve who's also a contract worker. I have been noticing that something fishy is going on between my pregnant wife and steve, i can remember coming back from work one day and notice steve pinning my wife to the wall and they were very fast to move out from each other, while steve started climbing a stool to fix our damaged bulb when i passed they both greeted me. Yesterday i and my wife was sleeping and she started sleep talking and i quote "Steve stop joor am not really in for that today, do you want my husband to catch us" To be frank i'm piss off, is this not a clear evidence that my wife is cheating on me with steve? Please help me.

Lalasticlala, mynd44, nlfpmod help me push to front page.

Islandlady:
Yes, men will always be men irrespective of his race, religion and tribe, their flirtious, cheating and polygamous nature must reflect!

So, this past month, I took a first time trip to Badagry to relax n explore and I lodged in a resort! During my tour around I met this newly wedded Ivorian couples from Abijan who came to Badagry for their honeymoon, the wife was soo friendly, beautiful and nice toh...so we all tour around together with some other wonderful tourists too!

A day to the last days of my tour, we all chill in a bar to gist and to bid them farewell and then I went back to arrange my stuffs against the next day travel...but the most annoying moment was when this newly wedded Ivorian guy ran after me to ask for my number and also started telling me how he has fallen in love with me(lol) and will want us to have a sexy relationship since he always visits Nigeria!

I blantly turned down his proposal and left, I was so angry and pissed that why will a man on his honeymoon be asking another lady out!... Then I understand that cheating n flirting are natural features of Men!!!

To my fellow women, it's okay to trust your hubby and boyfriends to some extent but just prepare for the unexpected from them, so your heartbreak will not be much!

PoliteActivist:
IT IS HIS FRIEND, NOT HIM!!
Can't you people read??!!

MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

Oluwashina72:
Someone help my guy....
My urge for sex whenever I'm with money is killing me... I'm into long relationship,my gf will be through with school in two years to come,300level writing exams going to 400level... Im done with school, working and also stay alone but anytime konji hold me... Na to run to ashewo joint to kill my konji and na overnight.. I tried having a side chick but is not working... With this "ASUU" wahala she's able to write her exam in her school because her school didn't join the strike "ekpoma"...
"Hmmm everybody with hin own wahala na my own be that oo"