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Kingzeez10:
Hi everyone. I'm very sure we're all familiar with Candidlady always posting bad stuffs about the male gender at every slightest opportunity. None of her fellow females called her out for once but they have issues with the Redpillers.

So you decided to open a thread because of her. You are low-key obsessed with her.

nickyj19:
Oral s*x is using your mouth, lips, or tongue to
stimulate your partner’s genitals such as pen!s or
vag!na..
Both men and women can give and receive MouthAction. But
have it in mind that MouthAction without a condom puts you at
risk of many types of sexually transmissible infections
(STIs).
STIs like chlamydia, herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis, and HPV
can all be transmitted orally, meaning they can pass from
one person’s mouth to their partner’s genitals.
MouthAction in adult relationships can be a pleasurable and
healthy experience. According to a poll conducted recently,
about half of teenagers and nearly 90% of adults aged 25
to 44 have ever had MouthAction with someone of the opposite
sex.


Now, here is our question for you all

Have You Sucked A Lady’s Puxx$y Before – What
Does It Taste Like?
Let’s hear from you all

It tastes like whatever it is she ate, if she is a sweet tooth it'll taste like yoghurt.

uthlaw:
You yourself as a woman, what is the benefit of marriage...
Don't include the following:
I pray for him-he can pray for himself and is mum can pray for him.
He can advice himself.
Remove sex-na normal thing.
Cooking-eatery is available, if he can't cook..
So watin de marriage self?

God created marriage. Nothing God creats is bad..the problem is we human beings. We are selfish and not willing to sacrifice and love the way God intended it.

See what Yul has caused.

giddy10:
I have been married for about 2 month now. Yesterday my wife saw her second period after our wedding and even though marriage is chiefly about companionship frankly, we both felt bad. Do you think it is time to become worried about delay conception? For the married ones, pls was conception in your marriage immediate or delayed? Did you use any treatment (for both male and female) to finally get it?

If you are both over 35,wait till six months then seek help from a gynecologist. If you are under 35 and anxious,wait a year. If you go to a hospital before these times they will ask you to come back. Meanwhile, time intercourse.to be every other day. Then your wife can be taking any good preconception vitamin to help boost her chances. Good luck

YoungBlackRico:
something about Bini men sha

Especially first sons aladt Born's with older siblings abroad. Very useless beings.

Emmanuelcann:
I'm neither Delta or Bini but Please stop stereotyping. There are good and bad people everywhere period!

Yes I agree, but it way to common where I stay. I can't count .

Skyview01:
Your dad na Delta man?. Just asking?.

Or Bini. Terrible, useless men full here. Maybe it's delta men living in Benin sha.

ebijimi7:
Good day guys, I've been on this forum for a while now and I've learnt a lot from you guys via threads here on nairaland.
To cut the story short and not bore you, I'm a 28 year old guy and will be 29 by October knowing that I've finally grown to be an adult is really getting me frustrated and depressed because of a lot of responsibilities that comes with it,
Although I've been a hustler from a very tender age (16) I had an irresponsible father who doesn't care about me and my sibling instead of him to take care of us with the money he made he would rather spend that money on woman. Leaving my sibling and mum to starve.
My dad had only one chance to turn my life around when I needed him most, he refuse to help me, because I went for a scholarship exam when I was in school and I was among the lucky 10 that was picked and I was offered to come and learn networking for a token fee of #50,000 naira then instead of the normal 450k but my dad refuse to pay telling me he doesn't have money, I cried and begged him to please help me my dad kept saying he doesn't have money and this happened immediately after I finished my ssce exam then, now my dad said he doesn't have money but that year he abandoned me and my mum and sibling at my grand mother's house because my grandma built her own house, for years we didn't hear from him or get to see him.
My mum would call and beg him for money for food he would curse her , later we found out he was living with another woman and he got another apartment for 300k and this same man said ge doesn't have money to sponsor me for a tech skill I wanted to acquire. So when my dad was not ready to help I had to seek for a job to take care of my mum and sibling because my mum business went down and we were not having anything to eat, so I got a factory job I would work from 7am to 7pm even with that machine almost chopped off my index finger I still had to go to work just for my family to eat my mum kept crying and calling my dad, he ignored us and for God so good he opened a way for me and got a better job offer, I gain admission in yabatech I wanted to pay 75k for school fee I had 50k my mum begged my dad to borrow me 25k that I would refund it, my dad shouted at my mum that he doesn't have anything to give to me if he doesn't pay his rent first[b](omo I regretted coming to earth through that man)[/b].
To cut the long story short, I am getting depressed because I'm still staying in my granny's house and I want to leave but I'm currently building for my mum and I want to build mine too and get married but the pressure is much because I feel I'm running out of time and my girlfriend is on my neck that we should get married (although she has been very supportive) but I felt I don't have time on my side again because now I need to rent an apartment and also finish the house I'm building for my mum but I'm not earning much and all these on a mere salary of 60k I'm really frustrated and if I should get an apartment while building its going to slow down the progress of the building and I really want to gift this to my mum for her 60th birthday which is in 3 years time (that woman deserve to be happy I love her so much) and I also needed to get married and start having my children adult hood is not easy
Please I need you guys advice as I'm getting really frustrated.

I smile when nairaland guys are always insulting women with comments like outside sex what can you offer a man, when there are millions of women singlehandedly carrying their families.. This is the story of the life of many families around me. The karma that is going to befall your dad is doing press up. (No insut intended) later he will come and beg, mark my words.
Please don't be frustrated. You are doing well, How many 28 year olds that are legit can boast of a land, talkless of building. Calm down and take it easy. If your girlfriend is supportive talk to her, if you guys can stay in your grandmother' s place. But ask your self if the place is condusive enough. You know how some families start treating wives and how some wives too behave. You know both parties so only you can decide if they can cohabit without ending in enimity.
Left to me ,if you know your girlfriend is the one, you can get married to her. Get a house of moderate irent,if possible a one room self contained or single room, that is if your grandmother's place isn't
conducive. You can decide to wait a little before trying for kids, or have just one right away. You should have built for yourself first . Channel your resources into one place,then yt can live there and house your mum. Then later you and your siblings could join hands to build for her. Make sure all your siblings are as hardworking as you are. Then you all can join hands to build for your mum. Don't put yourself under unecesarry pressure please. Continue in your way of life, avoid a sinful life and keep praying. God will bless you. When the money starts coming do not start womanizing and making the mistakes your father did.

PrinxArthur1:
Girlfriend : I'm hungry

Boyfriend : What would you like to eat?

Girlfriend : I don't know.

Boyfriend: Should I get you Pizza?

Girlfriend : No

Boyfriend : What Should I buy, then?

Girlfriend : Nothing!! I don't know!

Boyfriend : But you said you're hungry

Girlfriend : Yes, I'm hungry! *starts crying*

Boyfriend : Do you want Plantain?

Girlfriend : No!!

IF you think this relationship is fun or you behave like this, you're an 1diot.
IF your gir|friend behaves like this and you're comfortab|e with it, you're a b1gger 1diot

Re|ationship is for expressing love and respect. Not an avenue to disp|ay madness.

Probably hungry below the belt.

Fancygurl23:
I don't like baggy outfits, even if, I can't wear them all the time.

Plus I have a nice figure and wearing baggy outfits will hide that.

I have seen people selling body shapers that include the breast area,but that will not be comfortable all the time. So I suggest you embrace your looks, and wear a good bra with extra support. if you still feel the same later in future and you and your husband has enough you can have them reduced through cosmetic surgery.

luminouz:
I don't agree. So market women are not career women? That's insulting. They close at 8pm or even later and still do the normal for their husbands. But hey, doesn't matter how easy it is, lazy women must complain,right?
In an era where technology has made everything easy with microwaves, fridges, ovens, washing machines for plates and clothes...what else do women want?
Don't give me that tattletale about a career woman. If you don't know, folorunsho alakija still cooks for her husband and serves him...and I don't even know who the man is. Striking a balance is key
Please, stop the cap about financial help from the woman. In Nigeria, women who do such are in the minority or why are these insane gold-diggers around if women are such financially independent creatures.
Since house chores are not gender roles, bride price shouldn't be from the man alone. Why, the woman too should pay groom price. It's not forming woke ..it's a basic thing a person should do

Market women are self employed, they can come to the market at any time. They close by 6. Most of them buy food, their kids buy food. Some are single mothers,. Not everyone can afford the gadgets you mentioned. Also should a woman be looking haggard. And older than her age? All I am saying is that couples should assist eachother, by doing so the burden is much more reduced. For the bride price aspects most people don't even collect it anymore. If you are surrounded by bimbos who are entitled I am not. Where I stay the men loaf around the women do all the work and you see them looking haggard. Some out of frustration end up parting ways with the man and staying on their own. So I stand by my words, you don't have to accept it. What worked for A might not work for B. Incase of the OP, let him exhaust all possible options before resorting to whatever it is you redpillers are suggesting. Call me a SIMP if you like I don't care.

luminouz:
And this is your blunt truth?

What a load of crap!!!

Market women, and street hawkers are way busier and still do chores at home and fuq their husbands. It's like y'all Keep forming woke, equality and still expecting the man to do his part alone while he shares yours with you.

Why on earth would any woman keep shouting about her husband helping her at home? Una no dey shame ni? What's there in keeping a house clean and cooking for your husband?

It's a big deal if the woman is a career woman. Nobody is saying the man should take over chores but a little help here and there isn't bad, involving in spending time with the kids isn't bad. The woman too supports her husband financially. Both should learn to assist eachother. That's all I am saying. This isn't about forming woke. It's basic . House chores are not gender roles. They are basic things a human being should do.

Exactly,expose them,so nobody will be deceived. You find the most wayward people in church. They feel they are covered by grace. They feel as long as they are coming to church and paying offering and tithe that are covered.

Mobolajifanny:
Good evening father's and mother.
I want to share something with us because I am confused....
I meet this lady by February and we have a great discussion as regards the future and our goal. The relationship keeps going in which nothings like fornication was involved because I told her that we should be sexual purity. We made the agreement together and the relationship keep going.
After three week I noticed she demand money from me every time but I see it as a normal thing to provide if I have the money.
In summary what makes me to be afraid of the relationship was that, she borrow money online from one application but she doesn't inform me and she used my name as a guarantor. After the deadline for the payment she was not able to pay and they call me . I was shocked and I ask her did you use my name she said no but after much pressure she said yes, she beg that she doesn't want to bother me. I pay the money and we have a discussion that please be since to me and we should be open up to each other. That one goes, to my surprise today on the 27-03-2023, I received another call from another loan that she borrow another money again and she used my name as a guarantor too and she doesn't tell me again and is like times two.
I told those people to send evidence and it was her.
I confronted her but she said , they are scam that I should ignore them, after two hours I send the evidence to her and she confess that it was yes.
I was sad and devastated that how can she be keeping things away from me , she doesn't feel remousful non see anything bad in this.
Her response is
'Why do you want to keep knowing everything about me'
I was sad .
What Can I do?
Am sure of breaking up with her 80%, but I need advice from mature people.
Thank

These are red flags. Please move on. She is only using you. She will ruin you. You want a woman who will build with you not squander money and expect you to pay. Please ,do not continue with the relationship. Learn from it and move on, to someone better.

cryptofredoom:
Thanks for your advice. I do house chores, even wash the dishes sometimes. Helping her out is not the problem, she just doesn't like sex. She avoids it like a plague.

She sleeps on one side of the bed and place the child (3yrs old) at the centre of the bed. If I move to her side of the bed, she quickly switches to the other side.

I think she should have remained single...

Them something is very wrong,it could be psychological. I mean,even if a woman doesn't enjoy sex,if she loves you she will give it to you just to satisfy it. Some will even fake orgasms. So that might be where the problem is. Did she fall out if love with you? Was there any incident?

NewSoul:
Shut up there
You are the m.o.r.o.n here. I put it to you that if OP hires 3 housemaids that stranger he calls wife won't change a bit. And if he peradventure follow this your ridiculous advice he'll be moving from fry pan to fire. The disrespect will double. I can bet my whole life savings on that

Op once again don't heed to the advice of the confused specie above. Never report any family matter to your wife's parents. She won't change, she'll resent and disrespect you more for not being man enough to handle her and instead going to her parents like a "cry baby" in extreme cases the parents might support their daughter we've seen it happen many times.

Have you heard of this saying..."hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". When a woman wants to destroy you there's no remedy o. Even this confused sna-ke advising you above, the advice she's giving you won't work on her assuming she was your wife. I have never seen a man that took a relationship advice from a woman and everything went well.

Just do what I said and if she does not change please let her find her way out of your life. Marriage is not by force. There are many young single ladies praying for husbands waiting to take her place. Op stop being soft on that woman!

Eyah Pele. You are taking it so personal. You must have been through a lot. But don't judge every case with what you went through. Now run along . After this I won't dignify you with a response.

NewSoul:
Op don't follow this advice, I beg you. All she'll see it as is "desperation" so she can open her legs to you.

And from there she'll "transactionalize" the sex. Making you do things before she offers sex. Anytime you are not a good boy she with-holds sex. Don't mind this women and never you make the mistake of taking relationship advice from them they will always look out for themselves and lead you astray.

They only make rules for you when they think you are not man enough or a natural born leader that can effect his authority. Redpill will say they see you as beta male.

Just Imagine your wife is married to Dwayne Johnson (The Rock) or Stone Cold Steve Austin or Randy Orton or let go down to Nigeria Nyesom Wike, Jim Iyke or Hank Anuku or zubby Michael( the one with a scar on his face) will she be setting useless rules for you? No she won't. She'll be very careful so you don't throw her ass out and replace her sharply. Don't be soft Mr. OP you are giving her too much respect. Some of this women the only language they respect is violence and hard-heartedness.

Here is what should do:

1. Stop eating her food let her be cooking for herself to eat.

2. Don't respond to her morning greetings (that's if she even greets you sef)
3. Don't discuss anything with her(just be giving her basic silent treatment)

4. Change your wardrobe. If all you have is responsible "office clothes" change them to what young guys wear. Crazy jeans and big shirts with fine Snickers and shorts, fancy wrist watch, expensive perfumes. Then on Friday night hangout with friends and come home late

5. On Friday dress fine again, make calls laughing and smiling making it obvious that you are speaking with a lady and then move out all dressed fine and smelling nice.

6.continue ignoring her and make sure he sleep in her separate room. Her brain will reset before a month.

Please don't follow the confused being above telling you to wash plate and cook for her. Yes she'll let you have sex but it will still be with the "come and do and go" attitude.

Op go ahead and follow the m.o.r.o.n above, and end up ruining everything. Try what I said,that is if she is consumed by domestic and work without any help. If it continues go and report her to her parents. So any consequence will be justified. God bless you for your patience.

after4:
i go like to give you a dirty slap even if e mean to pay for the slap, i no mind

Of course you would because you are callous and immature. Brawn without brains.

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peepydelano:
But you are married, don’t you love your wife as well?

Did you read the post at all?

cryptofredoom:
She was not a virgin, but she was not sexually active, mainly because of her religious beliefs.

Is she circumcised. That sometimes has negative effects on some women.

EkoErrands:
Hnmn I'm going through exactly the same thing word for word...the only difference is that when I swallow my ego and pride and go and open the pant and enter she doesnt stop me but the frown on her face is dangerous.

Try and help out at home. Take stress off her. Do it without expecting, any reward in the other room. It's a big turn on for women.

Generalwoodz:
Keywords: knack, delete, block, everywhere.

Weldone nackson

ThEGodFaThEr140:
Jealous over a male hiding behind a moniker crushing over his fellow males?
You must be suffering from diarrhea of the mouth.

Maybe I am, but a proper diagnosis, would be that I am not psychic and I don't spend time stalking people's posts or cramming monikers to know whether they are male pretending to female.

Orestino:
I can provide you with clay so you can mould him

That will be lot more easier

this is so savage .

ThEGodFaThEr140:
Your Mumu never do! No be only crushes na clutches.

You sound jealous you were not mentioned.

TheKrakon:
Just curious to know who for my area dey use nairaland. If you do, tell me my name.

Toheeb

Frank25:
Hello nairalanders join me to celebrate as i turn a year older today



Happy birthday to me

Are you a baby? You want a bunch of faceless people to wish you happy birthday. Do our wishes matter?

Isabelle16:
This morning, my boyfriend, my first and only boyfriend texted me the message bellow:

"Anyday anytime, feel free to dump me without hesitation if you no longer love me.Don't forget to inform me quickly when you take such decision".

I'm still figuring out what that means.I begin to doubt his love for me.I'm restless.Did he actually love me?

He does not want to be led on.

[quote author=FaAbokiWithSuit post=113132960]Why are women always begging ? Is it like that all over the world or the problem is a Nigerian thing ? Could it be the economy or there is little regard for self-respect and dignity?

They are all on WhatsApp and tiktok dancing and using style to beg. It's even worse on WhatsApp. They all have this funny way of begging status.

That's if dem no con bill you directly and when you turn them down, they start to guilt-trip you. Omo abi NAA only me, E dey happen to ?
Why women Dey beg on WhatsApp? Is it that they don't have parents or they can't work and earn some money. There is dignity in labour [/quote
Their parents did not bring them up well.