Kobojunkie:
So, the millions of orphans already out there in need of mothers and fathers, ready to be adopted aren't blessings?

of course they are.
Every child is a blessing . But people want children carrying their own DNA.

halogate:

Don't mind that one, she obviously doesn't know the pains of a barren woman..

Only a guy can reason that way. Especially one who has probably indulged in multiple abortions.

Adebowhales:
People often preach about abortion being a bad thing.
I've seen singles who preached against abortion but have aborted thrice already after getting married.

Seun
Mynd44

Abortion is bad either ways, the same thing is being committed. Murder

Funnily Igbo people see it as normal for the woman to be taller than her man. Maybe look that direction.

Richsteemit:
God thank you, I went to university as a virgin I graduated as a virgin with no girlfriend, single for life. God thank you for the gift of life. Even though konji won kill me. I still stay discipline. Got a job at age of 24, left my father's house at age of 24. Graduated with a 2nd class upper. Thank you God for the gift of life🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. Wanna go to shop rite tomorrow to celebrate it with my dog. Virgin for life!!. Stay true to God!!!

Virgin indeed. If only your hands, lotion and third leg could talk.

Kobojunkie:
1. Not according to reality, they ain't. Have you seen how many Nigerians raise their kids at all?

Have you also seen people spending millions and not being able to get a child. Have you also noticed the emergence of baby factories

Kobojunkie:
1. Gain ke? She had a child for a man who ruined her business and life, how can that be a gain? She has to take care of her responsibility anyways.

A child is always a blessing.

truthhurts2:
you mean wife got her husband arrested? What will she tell their child?

No, the man duped people, and disappeared. They waited till he came around for naming ceremony and had him arrested. The wife had no idea he was involved in fraud

jeromestarks:
Women get clumsier with age.
When you're in you 60s, she won't even be able to carry a cup. She will just be smelling all around the house.

Marry a woman you're at least 10 years older than or else, you will regret that marriage sooner than you expected.


In all you do, never marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men.
If you desire a peaceful lasting home you can return to after work, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a young virgin woman and marry. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

She kept herself for you. Thus, she deserves to be kept.

You obviously didn't grow up in a home filled with love. Pray you make it to 60.

truthhurts2:
A VERY CLOSE FRIEND OF MINE. She's overdue and desperate for marriage, and she used to be unlucky when it comes to finding the right partner. She just met a guy that is of age but single, this guy is not financially bouyant but she is(self employed). Both of them are desperate to get married that within a month of their meeting this guy had introduced her to most of his family if not all. This my friend is ready to give him money for business of his choice or bring him into her business so they can both be doing it together, ready to get new apartment for both of them that in short , she's going to be the breadwinner of the family if they later end up together. Now, HER FEAR... What if she get unlucky again with him? What if this guy dupe her? Is it the right thing to do for a guy that she barely know nothing of?

NOTE... Pressure is on this lady from her family

Your advice are needed pls...

Too many redflags. I know a lady exactly like this. She was self employed And doing well for herself,but was almost 40 and desperate. She met a guy and within 3 months they were married. Just two years into the marriage the man ram down her business, ran away in the guise of going to look for business opportunities,he came home for their first child's naming ceremony and got arrested for fraud. Till today,the once thriving lady has gone back to ground zero, her husband is in jail, her only gain in the marriage is the child she had.
The lady in question has to be extremely careful. We don't want to be hearing takes of woe later.

1Battery:
It has been been almost 2 years since we broke up now just because she wanted to marry and time and age was telling on her ,so I understood.
Ever since then we've not met because I deleted and blocked her ,not until last month I bumped into her in a shopping so we decided to have some chit chat, she was now telling me how she misses me that even up till now she can't get me off her mind that she doesn't know the type of love or likeness she had for ,I simply told her that was in the past she should move on I can't have anything with her again,
She felt bad and was like she doesn't wants to let me go ,I had to stand up and leave her there for her to call me the following day and tell me she wants to have my kid that I should get her pregnant.
I dunno what to do cause I still have feelings for her she has always been there for me ,I still miss her I just don't know if I should take the risk of her having my kid.

She wants a child desperately. Her husband and her are having fertility issues I guess and wants to test herself with someone else.

Dickson178:
Please there's this friend of mine,my closest friend..... He was telling me about having sex with a pregnant woman, and which the pregnancy is about 5months. I was even feeling bad for him wen he was telling me all this things,to the extend he called the lady to come over to his house, so that I can see her face-to-face. I was SHOCK! wen I see a pregnant woman my friend is having afair with. So ,my friend discuss with the woman { don't know what they were talking about}, after then the woman left ..... And I asked my friend "what about her husband?" ,And he said to me that her husband divorced her ,and I said "with this pregnancy that is about 5months?"... He said YES... Now I keep begging him to stay away from someone's wife and i believe he don't want to hear.... So , please what can I tell him or do so that he'll stop having sex with this woman?

𝗡𝗼 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁 𝗽𝗹𝘀.....

Why are you disturbing yourself? If you have told him to stop it and he refused. Leave him. Remind him not to call you if any problem comes out of it.
Learn to cut away from bad friends, who don't have same values as you.

Goodmarlian:
This is one of the reasons i think Davido is a simp anyways Nigga was born in money he didnt experience what it means to be snubbed or brokeshamed by women.
Wizkid is far smatter he knows this bishesss are up for his money and star life,wizkid really burst my head with the way he treats boluwatifes ( his firstborn) mum he is the real alphamale the bitchhh went to take in in 2011 to blackmail wizkid but wizkid never gave her real attention,the madam wanted to just sit at home and be bearing wizkids baby mama for a living wizkid shock her.

You nedd to see her current pics how she looks so unkempt and hungry wizkid has a deal with his baby mamas that once his kids clock 18 they should all find their way and leave him with his kids..
Davido never wise at all mumu boy.

Speaks volumes about your background and upbringing.

Taunt:
You sure say no be siofra you meet with so.
She is poorly rich, or rather wealthy poor.
Asin sapally rich,hei!
How do I put it sef.

Why not just come out straight and tell her how you really feel about her? All this won't get you anywhere.

Prettygirl200:
Why are u insulting me? Did I call your name in anyway?

Where's the insult?

PrinceofSarcasm:
GO GET A JOB. YOU NEED ONE BADLY

Come on it's ok to be nostalgic. Doesn't make him jobless. Does that mean you are jobless too, for commenting on this thread?

Savedday2:
9ja girls are all useless, to advise them is to do urself a great displeasure.

Kindly leave them to their destruction if not, they will call you mugu

So all females related to you by blood are useless. No wonder you have this opinion. If you respect your mother, you won't use such Words.

Ammmy:
I'm dating this guy who's very rich but he doesn't give me money. We do hang out and he can spend up to 50k straight up on drinks and stuffs but to give me money is a problem. He expects me to pay for my hair with my money, shop and get my needs myself. He likes me paying my bills. Time spent with him is very awesome. I love him so much but this stingy side of him wants to make me quit the relationship. I hardly demand money from my man but recently I asked him for money to make my hair and he said he doesn't have. I'm very confused. Should I quit?

NOTE: please I don't need opinion of alpha males. I need sincere and genuine opinions

Ask him for money for something very important not hair, and let's see if he will be of help to you. If he isn't the. Know you are not his main girl

officialJP:
I dated him and we had sex twice

And I latter realized that I love you and it you I want.


should I forgive her cause I love her, she's trying all means for things to work again but my mind keeps going to the past. what should i do I'm confused

Try and be more coherent with your heading and comment.

Prettygirl200:
Why are whites naturally stupid?

And yet you won't mind selling all you have to go and join them in their stupidity

EmiDon11:
She kept complaining that my pen*s is big and is hurting her.

I havent cummed since this year because, she kept screaming louder anytime i thrust faster.

She said she cant take it anymore.
But the girl i was dating before neva complained.

I am really angry right now.

See advert plus hype. For your mind.

Infolenka:
Like you guys know, I've been exploring Twitter this election period and although I've come across a lot of pretty women, many of them don't have spectacular bodies. The ones with big nyash and nice boobs are usually the ugly ones. Why is this so?

I'll be posting pictures as proof.

It's compensation, and God knows that some men prefer body to face.

Smartguyboy:
Just registered on codedruns menh!!! Forget about it
If you meet any Nigerian girl with one or two body count hold her tight because you can’t find her type again . And what I discovered there is also %98 of them have intimacy gadget to pleas themselves because no matter how many loud and Tm you take you can never satisfy them. Omg 😳
Just happy for my babe that why I will never let her go na she I go marry .

If you patronise them you have no moral stand to look down in them. You are one and the same.

AyemafugeILAJE:
The last time I entered anything serious relationship was in my mid 20s. Now I'm in my mid thirties should I fall in love?....a corper gal in her mid 20s, from imo state is giving me a serious green light, though based in Kaduna, Should I give her green light or should I just chop her the way I've been chopping others since my mid 20s? Confused
I need advice before I go fall yakata in love. Thanks

Na fool at 40 syndrome dey worry you. You better break the yoke

Fedrick100:
When we started dating at 2021 , I thought she was an Angel in human form, she was a virgin then and i was the one that disflowered her. This guy can do anything to make sure I’m okay, i don’t really know she hid her through character because of the benefits she’s getting when i wasn’t broke


Then 2022 August period when things become difficult for me her attitude changed all of a sudden, she Became selfish and Toxic, Even when I was broke throughout last year, i still celebrated her birthday got her gifts. Fast forward to this February that was my birthday, she couldn’t get a gift for me even when she had the money.

This morning i was telling her how she has been acting since I become broke and how selfish she has become,all of a sudden she told me she’s no longer interested in the relationship

You are just an option. She has at least one other guy in her life

Novemberaura:
She said to my face that I have a small dick

That no matter how much I try I can never satisfy her.

After making her scream during sex for 3months straight. Indicating that she was only faking it the whole time she moaned during copulation

I just started feeling inadequate cuz it made me question my gender

Why do you attach so much importance to the size of your dick. She knows you are insecure about it ,that's why she used it to talk to you. Yes women fake enjoying sex and orgasms to massage men's egos.

Go and make money because that's what keeps most women not the size of your dick l

Testiebobo:
I have a girl in my class, who always stare at me at all time. And am a shy and private guy, and hate people staring at my face especially the girls. And to be honest, I don't even admire her. Pls I need your advise urgently on what to do next time she stares at me

What you expect to hear is that you should make a pass at her. But you said you don't admire,so just ignore her. Nothing lasts forever.

Kachiopie:
I want to settle down but it's hard to see a serious guy out here,it's only married men that always show up when they're not even needed self
Please I need your advice

Guys can smell desperation. Have something doing. Go out , attend functions, attend church, dress well look good a6smell good..carry yourself with poise. Be nice to people around you,not just guys. Pray about it , You will get married. When you eventually get someone coming around,don't lose guard because he mentions marriage. Most guys are just looking for who to f..ck and they will tell any lie to have their way especially once they observe that you are after marriage.

saphiere:
Men do this all the time. A girl rejected you or broke up with you and instead to go back to the drawing board and find out why, you gather all the energy in this world to hate the female gender.

A good example is that of that boy who's thread is on fp claiming that his sister's and the entirely female children in his family lacks common logic.

He truly needs help.

Inferiority complex and bad upbringing ,that's what causes it.

JackDaAlienz:
Brooooo, I'm so fucking done with Igbo girls, I'm Igbo but to be honest Igbo girls are very decieving like snakes.
I'm tired of playing stupid childish manipulative games.
I spent some years in eastern Europe, over there it was very easy for me to date white girls.
If white girl love you, she will make things easy. I enjoyed girls over there

Since I came back to Nigeria I stay down in the east.
My experience with igbo girls have been a total mindfuck.
She will like you but play very hard to get, she will give greenlight when you approach her she begin to snob or act unitrested. Like wtf??
That brings me to what really pain me is the Sex.
Igbo girls see sex as money transactions
The white girls give you sex freely if they love you.
Igbo girl will love you and still use sex as bargaining tool for money or gifts.
Igbo girls motto is "No money No Sex"

Console yourself with the fact that you men caused it, using money to win a girl's affection. Even competing with each other.

AllKnowing:
Really, what?

We’ve got a problem, us MEN. I’m all too convinced that it’s never been about the women we meet; whether black Nigerian girls or foreign white women, tall or short, petite or curvy, beautiful or facially-handicapped. Who made us to always want more? Who deceived us that MORE was owed to us.

Here’s the cliched path in the life of an average male. We find a woman and it’s all sunshine and rainbows for as long as our virile sex hormones find her attractive. 6 months later, we are compelled to find someone new to get in bed with. A never-ending cycle!

The problem is thinking with dicks and not brains.