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Wow! I cannot beleive this. It is either most of the respondents saying forget the past are still very young or unmarried. We are talking of a wife here. A woman you are going to spend your entire days here on earth with. E no go easy abeg. I don't blame the lady for not disclosing this kind of shame to her man before marriage cos that automatically would have ended the whole marriage plan. That she wouldn't want I know. But for one to now say put the past behind and move forward when the shameless pastor still comes to the house is impossible. How do you want that to be buried when the devil still comes to relive it with his silly visits? Hasn't he done enough damage? Wouldn't common sense tell him to keep off? I'll forgive my wife sure cos it happened in the past. I'll also forgive her for not telling me before we walked the alter cos she didn't want to loose me: that is love. But for the pastor, God help him I wouldn't kill him for still having the guts to come to my house and look me in the face. He obviously must still have been sleeping with her while we were preparing for our wedding. Ah! All these so called men of God. I'll tell my inlaws about it so they'd know the kind of man he truly is. I will personally warm him to stop coming to my house if he skill love his life. I'd do it personally so he'd know I know his little secret. Na wah sha.

@poster, this is a win win situation unlike others wants to make you understand. The good part is; she is a widow and you are single. But to undertake this venture, you have to have backup evidence to nail the woman when the whole thing goes sour. Make a recording of ur phone conversations, use ur phone also to record conversations with the woman. Armed with all this bro, do your thing.

@Lucaya, try Vickmitchy Travels & Tours Ltd. Their website address is www.vickmitchy.com
I have tried them and they are reliable.

Arsenal blasts Stoke 3 goals to 1. The journey to EPL cup this final round begins.

Arsenal blasts Stoke 3 goals to 1. The journey to EPL cup this final round begins.

It is so amazing that 72hrs since arrival of the (then presido) into the country in the most unusual manner, the senate of this great country has kept mute. A lot of artrocity was commited; the smuggling in of the president without the knowledge of both the senate and the acting president, the deployment of troops without the orders originating from the acting president who is the comander-in-chief, the decision to keep the nigerian elected leaders comprising the governors, senators, house of rep members, ministers, and even the acting president himself from seeing the president. All these are enough to activate the provisions of our constitution and pronounce the presido incapable. If he is not incapable, there will not be need for all these drama. I expect the senate to act now and save us all from this shame as a few greedy souls cannot hold a country of over 150 million on the jogular. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. THE GAME IS UP AND THE CHARADE UNMASKED.

kemisuga:
Dearest Ex,

I called u ma honeey. I love u truly from the depth of ma heart. I gave you all I have, treated u like ma baby. While I was wit u for 6 years, I neva look at anoda man twice, cos I believe u have everything I wanted in a man. But little did I know you are just fooling me. You neva showed me love out of your deceit.

But on that fateful day, I saw u last. I thought I was dancing at an Ileya party of your friend, dont know it was your send-forth party to abroad. You neva told me you were travelling the next day. A friend of ours summoned courage to tell me the issue and gave me the flight time, wen I asked you, u angrily denied it.

You left me alone, without informing me. Wen I saw your pix 3 weeks after you left on facebook, you are already married to a older, fat, white woman.

I believe you are enjoying yoursef where u are now with your wife. I am also doing great here in naija. It was wen you left I noticed naija got some handsome men berra than you.

I wish ma self more good luck, so you can be jealous whenever/wherever you see me.

This must be the most touching open letter so far. Gosh! 6yrs? And he-goat left beautiful you without a hint. Jeeze! Did you say six years? Kem, you are as pretty as hell. Work hard to work yourself up the ladder of success boyfriend or no boyfriend, so the next time he-goat sees you, he'd bite his fingers. That's a better revenge. Good luck sweetie.

This their trick is everywhere o my people. Mine was at conoil along tin can area. I fell woefully for it, but I got them back some weeks later. I pulled in to buy N2000 fuel and as a motorist, you have a good knowledge of your tank capacity. With the quantity I have left in my tank, N2k should get me to 3/4 of my tank capacity. If you have been buying fuel for long, you can also estimate how long it will take to dispense N2000 fuel. As pulled in for a refill the attendants drew my attention to my tank hood spill duct while he dispensed the fuel. He said I should always make sure its never clogged to avoid rusting. As this dialogue was going on, a 2nd attendant (an accomplice obviously) stopped the machine (I don't know at what point it was stopped) and keyed in N2000 on the display. This I figured out on my own while pondering on how the spurn the trick on me cos I saw N2000 clearly on the pump display but my guage when I pulled off didn't even go halfway.

However, some weeks later, I went to the same station to buy fuel. The attendants were chit-chatting like they always do. The attendant that sold fuel after dispensing it forgot to come forward for her money and I drove off. This time with N500 profit. Ha ha ha. After I got my revenge, I never had to go to that horrible station again. Did I also mention that before I got my pound of flesh, I still go there to buy fuel but made sure I frustrate every move to spin another one on me.

All ya looking for all there higher versions of boyfriend application, note that it has a built-in trojan. How is got their is still unexplainable. The developers at geek squad are still trying to unravel the mistery. It is not advisable to use any of the boyfriend higher versions. They are re-known for the following errors.
1. Upgrade to husband version impossible.

2. Activates heartbreak 8.0 at will.

3. NoCall 7.5 runs steady

4. The following worms also runs in the background as a standard: cheating 9.1 full version, I'mInAmeeting deluxe, I'll call u back 7.1, She's just a friend 8.0 and Your just a booty call final version.
However, if you must install any of these higher versions of BF application, then you need to downgrade your system to BOOTYCALL 9.5 or any of the RUNSGIRLs versions.

It is a known fact that these versions of BF were never released because of these known bug. Any one available is a bootleg copy. BEWARE!

Who's read the book Heaven Is So Real by Choo Thomas? What's your take on the series of journey with Christ? Is it real? Fictional writing? Its kinda scary and mind boggling but at the same time oozes fiction. What do you think about bath tubs in heaven, Christ griling fish for and so many other stories alike?

@Mr blazer na wah for you o. You call that a sermon? It won't do you any harm appreciating the woman that God gave you. Rather the rewards are immeasurable.
Note that, a nagging woman is a product of a no good and incensitive man. Women have so much love to give. All you need do is activate it in them and sit back to savour the rewards.

The bible said "A virtuous woman maketh her home beautiful". To achieve that, these women need us. They need our love, support & encouragement.

When was the last time you showed your wife some love? When was the last time you made her cry with overwhelming love while reading your text message? You can't remember? Then try this and expect your best food and some overdose of you know tonight. This was a message I sent to my wife and wow! It wowed her. She cried and in her response, she said "Honey, u can't just get tired of churning out ways to make me feel special"
Here is the message below. Send it to your wife appreciating her.

"Wifing & motherhood is a tough 24-hour job. Even when there's no pay, no days off. Most often unappreciated & yet resignation impossible! U stood firm & diligently carried on with ur duties. I want 2 use this medium my darling to let u know u are appreciated even at those times dat I didn't say a word. I Lov u."

!!!!!!!!!!!!! So I'm not alone in this mad thoughts?

Whenever I see a pregnant woman .

What goes through my mind   ?

"hmmm, So this woman is also bleeping too? Can you imagine, but outside she go dey do like say she no dey remove cloth baff" (That's for the cream once up there)

But for the down trodden, i'll be like "Yuck  ! So this one too sef dey Bleep?" Abeg o jare.

Madam, me think you should relax, take time and indulge in pre-intimacy with your husband before penetration. Its natural for you to lubricate except like someone has said, there's an underlying factor. It takes a woman longer time to be fully ready no matter how "sweetie-sweetie" your body is. I'd suggest more pre-intimacy and you'd be amazed at the result.

@topic
There might seem nothing wrong with the idea, but I'll vote tolerance any day. What stands us apart as humans is our ability to adapt to our environment. We are dynamic in nature and also adaptable. Bear in mind that no one individual can have all that we desire in a partner. Note also that as you have on your scope for screening, the opposite sex also does have theirs on for same purpose. What guarantee do you have that the one you'd eventually find fit will find you fit?
We are only humans and none is perfect. Let me also add that what you might initially think you don't like in a partner might later turn out to be your high.
My 5kobo sha.

Dated On/Off for 10yrs and 10 months. Been married for 3 months and 1 week. I must tell you, its been a bliss all the way.

@poster, NO! Ladies do not take quiet guys for granted. Instead they adore them cos they are more sensitive cos they have listening ears, they talk less and use more of their thinking faculty. They make the best of lovers, but I must also add that they are cunning. They warm their way so easily into a woman's heart and also into their pants; this is were their cunning nature comes in. Because women tend to fall easily in love with them, they sleep with girl friends best friend. Sleep with friends girl friends, sleep with even female friends. FEAR QUIET GUYS but RESPECT them. However, note that quiet and timid ain't the same though may have 1 or 2 things in common. You better know which side of the divide you are at if your girls are taking u for granted. I also will acknowledge that some ladies mistake being quiet for being foolish or timid. I remember my days as a single guy, it paid off for me real good. UP quiet guys that their game is tight. Peace and one love.

Omolola1:
@ poster

go with the first one, afterall she is your first love, and she loves you so much

It is better to go for the one that loves you more than someone that loves you less.

if you go for the second one, it would be a big mistake because she does not love you as much as you love her but if you go for the first one that loves you soooooooooo much, you will grow to love her as much, afterall she is your first.

Well I didn't say the first girl is my first love. Rather I'm her first love even though I didn't meet her a virgin. I think I agree with you Omolola the problem is I can't seem to get my mind off her (the 2nd girl). She is not leaving either but is not into me to encourage me further.

No question about that. Its obviously she does want something more. If you want it, go grab it but be smart about it by weighing your friends position on that. Something good might come out of it.

I'm in a dilemma. I have 2 women in my life now. One is my ex that we got re-connected after about 6 years. She is one woman that'd give anything for me. I'm her first love and I am well aware of how much she loves me. Since our reunion this January, no day has gone bye without her calling me several times and sending me loads of text messages professing her love and thanking God for answering her prayers to bring me back to her. We broke up (which was my fault) before she left our shores for studies. Within the time we were no more together, she goes in search of me whenever she is in Nigeria on vacation. A few times she's spend 1 or 2 days in my house within those period and we usually do make out; and did I tell you? She confesses its the best times of her life. We dated for 3 years before the breakup. I must add here that I don't feel fire for her as much as she does. But I know she's someone I can live with as she's very pretty and RED HOT.

On the other hand, I have a woman I love so much that I can give my life for her. She means the world to me and I have asked her to marry me but she is dragging her foot. She's never said the word "I LOVE YOU" to me before in the 1yr and 8months of our relationship. The sex is owesome, she makes me happy and guess what? I can give up everything in this whole world for her; that includes my family.

The 2 women are drop dead gorgeous. The first is serving and the second is a working class. Now I seriously want to settle down this year and I have started making move on my ex girl and she is so on top of the world that at last her love has come home to roost.

The question I now want to ask is this:-

WILL YOU RATHER MARRY A WOMAN OR MAN THAT LOVES YOU SO MUCH AND YOU DON'T FEEL MUCH FOR
OR MARRY THE ONE THAT YOU LOVE SO MUCH WHILE HE OR SHE DOESN'T FEEL THE SAME FOR YOU?

The answers I get here will go a long way in helping me make my judgement.

Thank you all my fellow members in anticipation of your honest response.