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funkymatics:
how many married nigerians have a job that permits them to have dinner latest by 7pm. most times that's when they leave thier work places and of course they would be caught up in traffic and because they cant afford to keep a maid or buy from eatries they will end up eating late because the dinner would be cooked that same nite. this is the major cause of the big belly men and women carry around.
eat fruits once it is too late to do dinner tho some husbands no go gree hear say wife no wan cook cos it is late and if i cook i go chop now. sho!!!!

This is the most sensible response from among all the female respondents on this subject. Yes most women do get fat just after marriage and many factors could be attributed to that. It doesn't mean its not reversible or cant be contained at the early stage. Laziness is the biggest of the factors and our womenfolk should accept and work on it than being antagonist whenever this issue is raised.

Na wah o

What an exceptional piece. Only if we as humans can go back to the original design of God and do away with the well articulated system breakdown master plan of the devil and its agents that is being propagated to malign God's manual for happy living. They come in many forms and our female gender is swallowing all line, hook and sinker.

I haven't said men don't have blames but imagine if marriages are laced with the ingredients as xray(ed) in the above piece, we will have fewer domestic violence, fewer spousal killings and less divorces. Children will fare better and at large we all have a better society.

aniyphil:
Just Cruisin - Will Smith

Picture Me Rolling - 2 Pac

Hmmmm just cruising by Will Smith use to be ma evening glide & roll song with ma Gs while prowling on them coochies back in the days - Festac thingz in d good'ol days.

Bon Jovi - Bed of Roses
Bon Jovi - Someday I'll Be Saturday Night
Bon Jovi - Living on a Prayer

Stay strong man. Accept my heartfelt condolence. Hmmm... the loss of a loved one ? Pain like no other

This contest from observations seems to be between Mimzy & Lanicky. You go girls, ya'all are winners.

I Vote For Refiner Cc NLjega

dearygally:
hello sir / ma,
I don't have a cleaving or splicing tool but by Monday if u still need it, I could check around and leave u a contact if I find one.

Great! I'll appreciate that. Thank you.

dobys:
PLEASE DONT EVER TRY DIS SHIT OF KILLING YOURSLF 4 SOME1. I KNW LOSSING SOME1 IS VERY HARD NOT TO TLK MORE OF A MOTHER.I PRAY GOD WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENGHT TO BEAR THIS HUGE LOSS. PLS FORGET ABT DT GIRL CUS ACCORDING TO UR STORY U DID NOTHING WRONG TO HER SOO SHES EVIL AND WICKED. U DID ALL A HUSBAND IS 2 DOO ESPECIALLY D PRIVACY STUFFS MEN DISREGARD DAT AND U GUYS ARE JST DATING. I KNW GOD WULD GIUE U SOME1 BETTER. TRY FOCUS ON GOD, BE WITH TRUE FRIENDS AND FAMILY DAT LOVE U, FOCUS ON UR JOB, BE CAREFUL DNT THINK ANY GIRL U CEE CAN REPLACE UR MUMS SPACE IN UR HEART.

Here lies the vulnerable port the girl got her access to take a hostage of your life; the bolded texts above. You found succour in her after the exit of your mum so she became more like a mirror mum to you which was the BIGGEST of mistakes to make. No one can take the place of ones mother.

Sorry about your pain. Just forgive the girl and move on. She sure will come running back to you as true/mature love is the rarest to find. Make sure you don't take her back when she does.

@dearygally the machine bae, can I get a Fiberoptic cleaving tool and also Fiberoptic mechanical or fusion splicing tool? Pre-owned most preferably.

Let me know ASAP.

ItsMeAboki:
You must have skipped your history class or never had one; however, you may wish to find out what the three 'R's policy implemented by the FG stood for after the war - so that next time you wouldn't have to make such ignorant comments again.

The 3 R only existed on paper. Pls dont even make mention of it.

It's Refiner again.

Cc NLJega

Ndeewonu:
It appears that's the only sentence you learnt how to write well in secondary school. Always "concurring on intelligent reasoning!"

Funny assumption . Who concurs?

goldbim:
This man is confused!!..there's no smoke without fire,i strongly believe something must have prompted his sudden denial of his story..maybe his wife has" DEADLIER"evidences against him..

Very intelligent reasoning. I concur!

axortedbabe:
Change of tongue under Durex

Very intelligent reasoning. I concur!

loveisblind:
Thanks a lot.....I understand the purpose of marriage that was why i made her my best friend whom i discuss all with....I dont keep friends but only my wife......To my understanding, she did not understand what companion is all about, she believe in (My children aree my everything) which I never frown at....Just playing my own part, cos all effort to let her understand what companion is all about, she keep saying....You men are this and that.......You know how women castigate men na...even when the man is 100% faithful to them, they still belief no saint in man.

Now here lies the onus. Any woman that dwells in the thoughline that "All men are cheats with no exception" is bound to stray. They can not comprehend why their hubby will be different from other men they know or have known in the past. Such women are easily swayed by sweet talking predators.

Do the much you can to fix her because of your child to avoid another innocent child being added to the list of children from broken homes.

The developers of this npower site must be high on expired oshogbo weed . Imagine developing a site that will see over a million hits at the same time with wordpress (see this link http:??portal.npower.gov.ng?wp-login.php)? Replace the ? with / to verify. Wordpress is a very good development platform no doubt, but not for a critical portal like the one npower represents. Drupal would have been most ideal for this nature of project or better still, a joomla bearing in mind the volume of anticipated traffic.

Odikwa serious.

Yewandequeen:
Op ur own better that isn't even early enough self.
For me as at may 29 I was heading to office around few minutes to 6am and I was attacked by these okada boys (2 of them) one of them nearly killed me with matchete all because he want to snatch my bag

Am still recovering from machete cuts.

Oh! Ma G! Wishing you a quick recovery. This country is getting scarier by the minute. People should please be very careful and always exercise caution. The present hard times will see crime surge to an all-time high.

And don't be surprised federal government spent billions of Naira in developing this crap. Is it that the developers didn't know they need a dedicated server for hosting this site and several CDN for decentralised traffic?

I want to believe this project was bidded for and was won by the most competent firm and not the usual handout of projects to allies. The firm has rubbished itself with this.

I just hope the data of the earlier registrants are still safe as indications shows applicants who has earlier completed their registration can no longer access their accounts which may mean one thing, they no longer have records on the server.

This is a shame.

Nice concept if OP can pull it off.

Congratulations @Godzchild and a BIGGER welcome to your boy. He will be a blessing to you and his society. I give God all thanks for keeping you safe through the travails. He is indeed a great GOD.

More blessings will come your way and be prudent and piece together a good plan to engage yourself the moment this phase is over. God's BIG hands are upon you.

Congratulations once more.

Remove the image background I see on ur site or better still, compress it. You really don't need that background image cos it's not even related to ur site.

@GAZZUZZ was right afterall.

Jamean:
by giving her a huge amount of money right like it could really make up for her hurt. Or you think she doesn't feel worse off?

I call it selfishness. They just exchanged some vows earlier in the day.. I don't think you understand what for better for worse means. The best thing that could have been done was for both of them to go for rehab.

Decisions made at the peak of emotional trauma may not be the best.

The usual double standard playing out in "For Better For Worse". That is what this ur comment reeks of. In today's women standards, the phrase makes no sense except when they get caught-up.

I wouldn't do what the man did but it's his choice as today's generation has stripped marriage of all its true meaning. I am of the opinion that 'for better for worse' be expunged from wedding vows and be probably replaced with 'as you deem fit to tarry'.

@mimzy, every point raised here is a hit back2back aswear. Well, coming from a naija gurl, you know em all.

In sane and working clime, the pathologist could have as well delved deeper to ascertain the possible time of death. This report as is doesn't hold much water as it neither proved the man is complicit in his wife's death nor has it exonerated him. Establishing the time of death will help in narrowing is the man actually killed his wife or not since the autopsy report didn't indicate death was from bodily harm or trauma from battering. Remember the man went to work so if death happened after he has left for work, there won't be much left to hold the man for.

The floor of their house is tiled and her head injury which seems established as minor may have come from when she fell after loosing consciousness going by the way her body laid on the ground.

What could lead to water in one's head and not the lungs or stomach? She could have suffered asthmatic attack, maybe etc.

We still have a long way to go in this country.

Just yesterday I used my GTBank Naira Mastercard for an international transaction. The exchange was high though, N315.6 instead of the N299 advertised by abokifx.com

It just might be a diamond bank thing sha. Let's just hope it's really a DB thing cos it's gonna be messy if it's a general thing.

The way this present generation throw divorce around leaves much to be desired. Is this how far disconnect we have become from reality? Divorce has become a melodious hyme everyone is singing to now. In this new chant for divorce, no one stops to consider the traumatic effect it will leave on the children from such marriages. It rewires their perception to life and in some cases exposes them to various forms of abuse.

I won't wanna dig deeper into the many horrors of divorce as it affects the innocent children from the union. This however does not mean I encourage domestic violence or sitting tight in violent and life threatening marriages.

Marriage takes a lot of work to make it work. The ADULTS involved should fucckkin be adults and correct their stupidity for the interest of the innocent kids and make that marriage work. Women should learn to be loyal and bridle their tongue, for it will yield better results when they say less hurtful things to their partners. No one can understand your marriage better than you that's in it. Friends most often will encourage you to do what they wouldn't do when face with the same situation you find yourself. Better still they'd want u in the same shoes as they are - afterall, misery loves company.

We can all learn to live in peace and bring up lovely children to make our society a better place.

So touching .

In as much as I am not in support of OP reporting to his cousin, ya'all should face reality here. There are actions that triggers the RED FLAG and this incident is one. It's inappropriate for a woman in her husband's house to be found in a single man's house at such hours when everyone including the kids have all gone out. Please what is she possibly looking for at that odd hour that can't wait? Ka anyi kwuo kwanu nu ezi'okwu n'ufodu oge.

Sometime we try to make light of issues until things go south.

The women making light of the issue, I have a question for you all. How will you take it coming back to pickup something from home and discover that your husband you left in the house is in the apartment of a young female student staying at the BQ in your compound? This was after repeatedly knocking at your flat door till he emerged from the girls apartment with a surprise on his face he fought hard to suppress? It sure will leave one with many questions begging for answers.

Abeg make we stop all this forming jooor, khaki no be leather.