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Sex on a 1st date does not determine a wife material or a none-wife material. What if the wife material is so into you that she couldn't resist your moves? Does that make her a none-wife material? That she yielded to you doesn't mean she'll yield to some other guy. It might just be that you both share a sure-fire sexual chemistry which equals to a superb sex life after marriage. It will be your loss as a guy to toss her just cos she gave in to your demands on your 1st date.

So in conclusion, the no sex on a 1st date thing is for them ladies tryna hold up a good-girl card. For me, it's insignificant and doesn't determine who should be considered a wife material or not.

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

Pls this never works. You can't steal a fond heart from its subject. Except the subject walks and shows no interest at all, then will the fond heart get up from its slumber.

akeensbussy:
if truly you need help, This is what to do.

There is a leaf, if a lady use it to touch her breast it will become over bigger but if a guy use that leaf to touch his dick, it will not harm you rather it will help u to increase your dick as u apply it.

The name of the leaf is called (Pandoro) in Yoruba..to get that leaf visit (elewe omo) Those people that sell traditional things in the market. Also ask for (ori amo) a grease like. all these are Yoruba name.

Miss the two together and use it to massage your dick every morning then observe your dick as it grow, fat and thick.

it is real with no side effect. You Will thank me later.

True & proven for brreast. I dont know for the D!ckk

AhmadMind:

You are TOAST.... there is a REASON why they all "Accidentally" SEE YOU and Come for TeSt RuN....

2 things to note....they are passing the ball, but you can quickly drop the Lower Level guys and sight... The BIG BOSS!

Next step will be to skilfully kick the Biggest Boss by accidentally showing up in his Local Community Function...Like his Church where he is respected...

You might even penetrate a circle that will cause him to "Drop you"like a Hot Potato!

RESPECT! Bro. Your head dey there. No need castigating the owner of the write-up cos this is what goes on in our society. It is even happening as we type so lets not hide our head in the sand like an Ostrich. She should follow the quoted advice to the later, that's only if she can get here sef.

Twaci:
These trivial marriage issues sef

Soon person go tell me not to do boyfriend and girlfriend, how i go take sabi my partner well before commitment?

This part is very vital. I laff when peeps think otherwise on this issue. Looks can be deceptive. A lot of hearts has been left bleeding from not courting enough to see the other side of their various partners before the "I Do".

This offer is still on. Don't let the look of the engine deceive you. Haven parked for long, engine has gathered dusts, rat munch debris and so on. Car is 85% aesthetic condition. An engine and body wash will surprise you at the diamond this rough stone is.

Only N250,000.00 (AS IS) Non Negotiable.

Come along with your mechanic checks, you will wonder at the end why I have to give it away at the going rate.

Call now: 08181880567

Setaje:
Catarrh no won make I sleep . Infact this catarrh just make life taya me.

Which kain life be this. Am here sitting on my bed remembering the days my nose was not blocked

Ha ha ha ha
That moment when you miss the little gift of life that we don't even appreciate or think about (clear nostrils).

Ok

This 'Druss' thread is an indication that we have said and treated all that there is. Nothing new to talk about.

Endtime thinz.

Have you seen this offer?

oliidell:
Kagorba3 I don't usually jump on this kind of threads cos of the Hints, Hearts and Better Lovers people peddling fake stories but yours seems genuine.

I'm sure u know what to do. You are just looking for validation. Love starts with the eyes, so there must be a good degree of chemistry/physical attraction for any consensual relationship to work. That man might not even love you. Maybe he just wants to marry a fine girl & his attitude is likely to change after marriage.

Take my advice...SCRAM

Word! Someone should put this into perspective. Like a song back in the days, "Love Has No Guarantee". The guy might actually be faking it just to land this babe while making it seem like he adores the ground she walks on.

It is your right to want to have cute kids. I had this same thought process and God answered my prayers. We as guys always go for the beautiful ladies 1st before studying them to decide if they are good enough to marry or not. There is nothing wrong for a lady to desire her man have good looks which will compliment hers and translate to cute and lovely kids.

People giving instances with Tinubu and Obasonjo and the likes, do you guys have the inside scoop of what goes on in the marriage. At least we all have a snippet of Stella Obasanjo with one present senator now (though it may just have been rumours). Wealth does not equate to HAPPINESS in marriage. It only aids happiness.

Please my lady, Don't Do It. I don't mind being hated for being objective and realistic on this issue.

kagorba3:
The character for now seems nice but it looks fake or something that he's enduring just to get me, cos since I don't like him at all, I don't bother with all those visitations to really access him and whenever he invites and say no he doesn't complain about it.

Babe, what you have just said up there is the gospel truth. You have just projected the driving force behind his patience and niceties on a slide. If not that this your story is recent, I would have thought you are someone I know cos I witnessed a similar thing some 7yrs ago. The guy is married now though. We were friends then.

Please don't do it. You will leave the rest of your life in regrets and will eventually resent him and chances are that you will abscond with someone else cos the type of man you desire will cross your path along the way thereafter. There is also a higher chances of you becoming emotionally unavailable for him at some point. You are not attracted to his looks and he can't change that. If he wasn't fashionable that you can fix but physical appearance that goes beyond just facial looks has no fix.

The summary of it all is "Don't do it". He will be hurt, but it's better he is hurt now than the hell you'll both live in thereafter. Take my word. There is no need jumping off a cliff with your eyes closed.

Have you seen this?

@OP, I just love this your post. This is one truth I have always tried to make guys understand. Now I know I ain't crazy after all.

You as a guys sees a lady and go ga-ga and want her cos she's either got some nice bootiee, nice boobiez, freshly pressed skin, wow carriage or swag. There just gotta be something, or maybe she is even from a wealthy home and u feel she is a better option and won't be a financial burden. Then why turn around and hate on ladies for going after a dude cos he is rich? I don gerrrit!

Av been there so I know better. She came for the money and swag then fell so hard thereafter and was my main chick for many years. She didn't get d ring for other reasons not because she wasn't a good girl.

Life threw at us all choices, don't hate on someone else's choice cos it ain't same as yours.

Thanks for your calls and interests. It is not over until it is over. All those who's indicated interest and requesting inspection, please due to my busy schedule, I will dedicate Tuesday for it. Time is from 8:00am.

Meanwhile still keep the calls coming. The lucky buyer I bet will come here to give his/her verdict.

Who will it be? Your guess is as good as mine.

Car has factory AC
6 Disc factory CD Loader
Leader seats
Alloy rims
Arm rest

E fit be you o. Don't hesitate.

So guys, you have it all. The pictures are here for everyone's perusal. As you all can see, car is still in top shape.

Who will be the lucky dude?

Only N250k (Not negotiable)

Note: car is As Is. Not washed or waxed to appear deceptive. Seeing is believing.

dandy2222:
My friend make we hear word

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You will have yourself to blame if you miss this awesome giveaway. For just N250k you will join the league of German machine owners. Car is in a rugged state I bet you will come back to thank me later. Dont hesitate. Take that bold step now. Call or WhatsApp 08181880567.

@OP is still observing. See proof below

Personal text: for everything.. there is a season.
Gender: f
Time registered: November 24, 2015
Time spent online: 19 hours & 8 minutes
Signature: life is an empty page. whatever you do adds meaning to it
Last seen: 7:02am


I just wish she ignores all the comment both the good, the bad and the ugly to continue the story. It more a memoir of her life in school. Tell it so others can learn babes.

Have a fun filled day.

Eleniyan15:
God punish friend. zone

Damn! Guys are really vexing o. Abeg babes make una no dey friendzone guys naaah. This story will open to ya'all babes how the boys dem hate this friendzoning thing. No be say de thing ma sef hungry dem pass. Throwey shame give ur buddy small sometimes so that omo'boys no go dey para.

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@Prestonvic I'll make available as soon I am back in Lagos. Latest by weekend.

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Don't miss this. It's an absolute give away. Nothing else can describe getting this ride for this amount. Just spend less than N50k on it and u are cruising around town on this beast of a ride.

Your christmas couldn't be merrier.

queenfav:
I enjoyed reading the story..But you can lie on your feet sha,you should think of studying law o..lol.seriously,u are a good writer.only @blueeyes had been able to captivate me with her style of writing..Keep it up cos you have gotten a fan here.

Where is our @blueeyes? That babe sha. I wish her the best wherever she is today. I just wish she could come give us a lil'hint of what has been.

Colour is still the same. Every other thing still intact.
No filler - meaning there hasn't been any form of body work.

Who remembers this thread towards the end of 2011?

https://www.nairaland.com/584115/now-n899k-tincan-cleared-american#7513946

That ride is up for grabs now. I used it for less than 2yrs and it has been parked for over 1yr thereafter.

I have bought other cars after it sha. I initially had in mind to fix it and give it to a relative but I guess someone here might have a better need of it.

I am giving it away for N250,000.00 non-negiable.

1. Car is 1995 model E320 and has a transmission problem that made me park it. (Costs abt N35k)

2. Car has a toks engine that useless Nigerian Kazeems made me buy when the issue the car had wasn't engine related. The story of the engine swap is somewhere here on nairaland. I learnt my lessons though.

3. Front bumper needs repair.

These are the only issues that needs fixing and of cause tires as the once on it I'm sure won't be healthy haven been parked a looong time.

If u are interested, call or whatsapp 08181880567

obiorathesubtle:
I'm years in the past. I feel terrible!


But I think Tom and Jerry is the best ever, if Jerry dies, tom dies with him. Those guys need each other to survive

Just like Yoruba and Ibo. The 2 tribes need each other to survive.

queenfav:
I left the ministry of justice last month after the completion of my NYSC.As for the trust issues thing,my cases got to me emotionally for a while.I was always imagining how uncertain marriage is.I just had to learn to forget about my clients and the entire mediation session at the close of work.If I choose to relect on most cases for too long,I no go even marry sef!To be honest,in a day I can get all sorts of cases that will just make you ask "why bother getting married,if this is how it may end?"From domestic violence, infidelity,custody issues and other nasty cases.Fortunately,I used it as a learning ground for myself,since I was opportuned to know the mistakes most of the couples made.It taught me a lot about what makes a good marriage.That it requires patience,constant forgiveness, hardwork,commitment and true partnership in all areas of your lives .I can say I don't have trust issues with my fiance for now,however nothing he does in future can shock me!That's why I keep praying for the ability for us to stay truly committed and respect each other's feelings.

God bless your union woman. You have spoken as someone with so much wisdom. Events in our lives should teach us to be better people an not the other way round.

@Petkruz is killing it. Av followed her comments and threads since I checked her out. That bae is a LADY to take to mama. Some bros should hold and pride with her wella else someone'z gon'get snatched.

I no drink talk am o.

NinaNigeria:
so you mean prostitutes also show all these your signs?

Prostitutes dont enjoy sex from customers naaaah. They are only just providing a service for money so dont expect them to exhibit any of the traits enumerated by the OP.

I am aware some, if not all of the OPs claims are CORRECT.

I dunno for d rest of the voters o but for me, it's B. This has nothing to do with patriotism. Ya'all should take a deep breath, clear ur eyes very well and take a deeeeeeep look at the photoz once again. B is the true beauty amongst the 4.

JJLUV:
am nt sayn i support cheatin bt wen a man cheats dey tlk abt luv nd 4givnes bt wen its a woman its unacceptable.mtcheeeeew lubbish.

Let's put aside the LOVE that propelled you to make the move on him in the 1st place before the decision to take him to be your significant other till death do you part.

Until you chase a man, woo him, then go beg his parents and appeal to them to give you their blessing to marry their son, then gather your entire family to go do introduction, make the groom price payment, traditional wedding followed by white wedding. Take up the responsibility of being his protector, lover, fend for him even when he is making his own money and spending it at his own discretion, only then will you realize just a fraction of a man's pain when his wife cheats.

Not like I am condoning men cheating. But when a woman cheats, it's just unacceptable.