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pocohantas:
And the only way to accept the show of love is to marry him?
Go take your fix. Something is lose up there!!!

For one you didn't say Amen.

Two, did you accept Jesus because he just died for you or cos you couldn't save yourself and you had no choice but to accept his condition that you accept him as your lord and Savior else u face eternal damnation or did you accept him because it felt like a cool thing to do cos everyone is doing it.

The lady was dying. A dying man has no choice... You are indebted to anyone who gives u life whether male or female. If the story had been about 2 friends (males) and the dying one betrayed the other guy in whatever way.. Would you have said what you said here? Implying that you owe no one anything for saving your self.


You are taking this fight for women too far.

HajimeSaito:
I am a Christian. And if you bothered to get your facts straight, you would understand that unconditional love means love without expectations of reward. That is what makes it "unconditional!"
If you saw a building on fire, and there was a beautiful girl trapped in the building, would you rescue her only on the condition that she marries you? Would that be a fair condition? Shouldn't you just be happy that you saved another human beings life?

Explain why people who dont accept Jesus marriage proposal or sacrificial love will perish in hell

I mean he died of his own accord no one asked him to. It isn't obligatory on the people to accept his proposal abi?

pocohantas:
The girl did what I would do.
I owe no one marriage for a kidney.

That seems like subtly blackmailing me to accept the proposal.
I won't marry him for that.
I will appreciate the gesture...most definitely.

Here's my prayer for you

May you sacrifice something of great value to someone and may that person reject your show of love


Be a true woman of integrity and say Amen to that. Whatever you can do to others, you should be able to accept too.

IamShiningStar:
nne I wonder oo! how some people think ehnn, especially my naija peeps dey baffle me oo! So you must be compensated for doing good or helping out a friend in dire need? oooh! odikwa egwu oo!

note/ they are best friends for Pete's sake! the guy helped her knowing fully she may turn down his proposal or may not. And you heard the man said he can never regret giving her life, marriage or no marriage! And some folks are here talking what I don't know!

Naija folks really have a long way to go in learning how to love for real without expecting anything in return!

All these self centered ladies.


Here's my prayer for you and kimbraa

May you both sacrifice something of great value to someone and may that person reject your show of love.



If you can stomach that, then you ain't hypocritical

Picture that a lady defied her father's instructions to not marry a guy. She got disowned by her father. She lost every affiliation with her family and friends for the guy. Yet, after eloping with the guy.. She suddenly discovers that the guy is married and has said he could not marry her for whatever reasons

Would you have said all this nonsense you people have been saying on this thread?

Apparently not, you would have cursed the guy and called the babe foolish.

Now this scenario depicts a girl who can easily go back to her family and plead for forgiveness. The topic of this thread is a fvucking kidney.


There's so much hate in my heart right now for you ladies who have decided not to be humane.


I wish I could inject your eyes with hot sulphuric acid.

kimbraa:
I don't understand people. Is she meant to compensate him with marriage if she doesn't see a future with him now simply because he gave her his kidney out of his own volition? Well, she said she was going to think about it, and she has every right to say "yes" or "no". The guy is matured enough sef.

I used to like your post but this is outright stupid. Does a dying lady have any future? I'm a doctor. I understand the risk that guy took. For the rest of his life, he is going to watch his diet and drinks. His lifestyle will change. He will not involve in energy consuming exercises. He will not be able to run optimally in times of danger.. Etc. In fact, to some extent, his sex life has been compromised. Yes, he can survive on a kidney but he must not overwork it.


Jesus gave his only life yet some people rejected his rejected his marriage proposal.


Is she meant to compensate him with marriage if she doesn't see a future with him now

The question above is annoying. I am trying so hard not to use abusive words.

That question is akin to saying

Are we meant to compensate Jesus because he died for us?

That lady doesn't deserve life same way the people who reject Jesus do not deserve life.. Your judgment can't be better than God's standard judgment to people who neglect sacrificial love.

God's judgment is that if you don't accept his sacrificial show of love, u will perish. In similar fashion, if this lady doesn't accept this guy's sacrifice... She doesn't deserve to live.


P. S: Everything above is null and void if you not a Christian. If you are, explain why people who reject Jesus's marriage proposal should perish in hell... If u can do so, I will know you are objective in your thinking and not always in a quest to exude feminism

JayIlych:
This is another reason i rarely approach girls again directly. Bunch of rude, self-centered bítches.

That was how i was with a fine gal at an atm, the machine wasnt paying, 2geda we walked to another bank to withdraw. On the way, we got talking. Found out we were from the same local govt, she laughed at my jokes and all.
Oya after she finished withdrawing, she waited for me. Then i asked for her number, she just smiled and told me she was scared i'll ask her that, then politely declined.

I quote "if God designs us to meet again, i'll give you my number".

AFTER ALL THE GREEN LIGHT?

Confused humans!.

I still don't see myself being abusive or threatening a gal when jilted/rejected.

Personally, i've always known that the secret of making a girl give u her mumu button is NEVER to ask/collect number on the first meeting.
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I agree with you a lot. I use a laundry very close to my house. The receptionist there is very pretty and curvy. I liked her immediately.. We got talking and friendly and never for once have I asked for her number even though I wanted it . she got my number from the laundry record and have been calling me. Never for once have I called her.



if I had asked her for her number. She would have left all the work of trying to impress her to me...

Factfinder1:
Something tells me this pmexpress people are liers and story fabricators why is it that it is only this kind of news that they carry always with no video or picture evidence.....

look at the op moniker


Islie is his moniker. When I see pmexpress. I don't bother to read...

ReneeNuttall:
I swear everything u said about establishing business In Benin is damn true.On the other hand I was once in Lagos In search of job.my dear my legs file join my slippers,I couldn't secure any job.I had to run back to Benin.Talking about fully equipped,aside my chef work I'm also learning something else during my free time,so it's after I'm true with it that's wen I can full, start my own cooking is just wat I enjoy doing.But aside that I'm learning a different skill entirely.

Best of luck my dear

ReneeNuttall:
I'm in Benin,and i don't wish to relocate any sooner.Plus the 500k is rent inclusive.I know it would have been better in Lagos,But one has to be fully equipped before relocating to Lagos.

Benin? That's not a place to do good business. I was living in Benin (uselu Lagos road) and my team wrote so many proposals to companies including itv.. None accepted. I came to Lagos and in less than a month, I already got a contract and went on to having 2 jobs (although, the other is weekly based).

The benins do not appreciate good and quality things. They think everything looking cool is luxury and your meals look cool(inference from your dp). They want more for less. There's a good reason McDonald's,dominos pizza,coldstone,The place, uber, taxify etc may never set up anything in Benin.

Well, except you want to play local. If you really desire to be amongst the sharks in the food business.. Then you have to leave your comfort to Work as a cook with one of these eateries in Lagos.


I was writing codes in Benin. I decided to leave to meet the giants in tech industry in Lagos.


I actually was hoping I could enter a partnership with you.


And what do you mean by fully equipped? Are you waiting for the perfect time? Sorry that doesn't exist. The best time is Now

ReneeNuttall:
Lab been able to raise a little above 100k

Great...


Madam, I really like what I am seeing as your dp. It is looking so good. If I were full, I will still want to try it out regardless.


Just one question, does the 500k cover rent too?

Send me a pm if you stay in Lagos or wish to relocate.

ReneeNuttall:
With what I have In mind.400k to 5000k will be enough.Just a mini fastfood

how much have u raised dear?

i do hope you are based in lagos

ReneeNuttall:
I hope to,once I'm able to gather enough start up capital.

how much is enough capital?

ReneeNuttall:
Absolutely.

Do you own a restaurant or you hope to?

ReneeNuttall:
I can see the orishirishi in ur body already.But tnx,I will rather stick to my club.

Mehn... That dp just took me away.... You made that?

I found one recently and there's a good chance she will be the one.. She's so smart and she wears glasses

You should consider uniben

I won't lie sha. Her boobbs look very appealing

Nasarawaboy:
Op, as the person above me stated, get her books to read, it could work you know! As for me ooo, I can't and will never marry an ugly girl simply because she's intelligent. A dull pretty lady can be worked upon, but an ugly intelligent lady? Well..... Take her to heaven and bring her back, if she ain't pretty she ain't pretty. I just hate ugly girls. Op pity your children, give them a pretty mum they can be able to flaunt. Am not saying she should be miss Nigeria, am saying let her be presentable, let her be someone you can confidently introduce to someone.
But wetin I sabi sef

How about introducing her to people and they hold you at high esteem for her beauty but not for long until she opens mouth


Would you want a pretty patience Jonathan for a wife?

Nobodys:
op am not beautiful so can't answer . buh some of my fine friends aren't rude Sha. most are shy...

See this fine girl dey form modest.. Be doing psychology there so that people can say u are fine... You think you have sense abi

pocohantas:
Hihihi.
I meant 911, that's tipper. That old mercedes truck they use for carrying sand to building sites

911..

Chimo...

Make I trek dey go house.... This prodigal gf will not come back... Mama sikiru.. Put water for the firewood, no celebration today...

pocohantas:
Funny you.
Remain there, I am coming to pick you with my 991.

Please I don't cars very well. Which one is 991?

Lalas247:
Oh it’s Virgin Media ... it’s a uk network lol pretty fast maybe that’s why it shows up that way ..

Na everything those people take pass us. Mtcheww... Africa is just annoying me

Lalas247:
Ok maybe it’s a similar name as yours ... my bad

It sure is.

What carrier you using? I get your mention on my new post before it shows on this thread..

Lalas247:
No talk that kin thing o .... before e warriors bring evidence lol maybe you don’t remember

But u like azz too much

I'm not a regular visitor on nl. And I don't engage people much directly. I only observe things here. I think you have me mistaken for someone else. As for me liking ass,that's a wild guess.. I'm male... Should you expect less?



Meanwhile... for not taking my comment as hate speech.. That was mature

Lalas247:
Boiz na ur face-be this ... wow
Been awhile .. why the evils na

Lol.. You don't know me oooo.. I know what you doing but e nor go work.

Lol.. No hate intended. But that babe only got curves or so I think. I might be wrong. She isn't all so delectable as you all paint her. She isn't bad. She's just your regular plain Jane with curves.

No hate please.

Nobodys:
snub people??...hmm I only ignore foolish comments.....it's very true o....it's soo true.

By snub, I mean that you don't reply pm

pocohantas:
Nah, people need to realise there are different kind of boobs.
Not every boobs will stand at attention.

Some will be shy and look downwards, like hers.
Others will stand and stare at you, very aggressively.

May I ask? Are yours standing at attention?

Nobodys:
me I haven't found love since ages now...

I doubt this is true. Having noticed how you snub people, I don't think this is true

pocohantas:
I'm not angry at all.
Coming from you, I didn't know if that was a compliment or not.
How have you been?

Have been where you left me oo. That same bus stop everyday hoping you would come back