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Although I'm broke,i don't think I belong to the average graduates.

1. I never looked up to anyone. I still don't. I'm a one man army.

2. I hardly apply for jobs. If I do, I tend to resign too soon even without finding another one

3. I never applied to any govt job. Even my housemanship, I didn't bother to apply to govt hospitals.


4. I have diverse skills and learned them during that 6 months strike of 2012.. I thank ASUU for that strike because I can be independent cos of these skills.


My guys will be look.. "there's an opening at eko hospital oo, Bonny camp sef Don open".. For some unknown reasons I don't always consider it...


Although I'm broker than my colleagues now.. What I can say is that in the future I will be better than I am.

My advice to students is "pick up a skill. Assume there are no jobs and you determine your life. Don't build your future on the dreams of another (a company).























Not everyone can be an entrepreneur sha

MissJoy29:
I don't think I can. Sincerely. Can you allow a lady provide the basic needs for you before marriage? But that's different from what we are discussing. Cos my idea of a broke guy from a girl's perspective is not having enough money to throw around after catering to some basic needs. Again, a man may have money just for two mouths in marriage but they both know deep down, they can't cope with catering for babies when they start coming. Some can also call that broke.

Now, it's easy for me to SUPPORT a man before or in marriage. But that he can't even secure accommodation? That's extreme!

I don't know about other ladies but I DO consider character. That part can't be compromised. Except I don't want to be happy. So quit with the generalisation.
You are right that more men consider character than women.

Oh I know. I am too.

Are you serious? Is that what you guys think?

Mehn, I'm shocked.

So if I don't have money to throw around for frivolities.. Your gender will term me broke.. This is just funny.....

A guy is trying to build a future and some girl somewhere is thinking of today's fun.

When you said you will support him, what kind of support you talking about financial or emotional

MissJoy29:
If a man can meet basic needs comfortably, you think I'll call him broke?
That's why I asked you for your definition of a broke man cos apparently, we both have different definitions of it.

Oh yeah? A broke guy is not 80% husband material. So what would you have us do? If we look for an established rich man, you guys will term us "gold diggers". Now we want to wait for that person we love but who isn't ready yet, you are now saying they won't be same when they succeed.

Which way men?

Ladies don't consider character? Do men do?

If he isn't able to meet basic needs, will you start a life with him?

I don't think ladies consider character of a man. But men do a lot.. After beauty, the next is character. Only few men can tolerate garrulous and nagging women. Only a handful can tolerate feminists no matter how pretty she is..

But ladies tolerate abusive men for reasons best known to them. They only yield when their friends have advised them severally to leave the relationship

BTW, I hope you know I'm talking within the context of finding a partner for marriage. Not bf gf relationship

CaptJeffry:
If na me they say mek you bring, it means they have already planned your funeral oo. I cheated death 3times last year and so far twice this year so you see, death dey even avoid me now.

Cheated death 3 times.. The brotherhood must hear this.. Your head will be very valuable.

Abdulnur:
I dont know the kinda life ua living, but your write up says you're not really what you're saying you are.

No kidding bro, you're depressed.
Talk to someone, a life coach, a psychologist, a friend or a family member, they may help you.

I haven't said I am anything na. But what I am confident about is that right now I'm a much happier person than you. Yet you speak of depression. You need your advice more bro, can't you see it. My words are bringing down the mansions you have built in your fantasy abi so my talk of vanity is disturbing you real bad when you are yet to actualise your fantasy.

The Lord is your strength bro.

CaptJeffry:
Maybe this one do ego/owo/kudi ritual and dem don tell am when e go die.

They said I should bring a captain.. E b like God Don butter my bread. Where can I see you na to take to them

Abdulnur:
The dude above sounds right, you sound depressed.

If you say so. But I'm very certain I'm enjoying life more than you are.

Most people begin to question life and existence when they have suffered and enjoyed so much. I guess you are still suffering and wish to leave a life of enjoyment. When you get there, you will then see there's nothing in this life.

You think you know more than Solomon when he said vanity upon vanity, all is vanity. Dude had tasted all manner of women and wealth when he said that.


Don't worry, you will live the life you have been imagining and when you get it. You will like "na im be this"

Abdulnur:
Are you sure you're OK? because she's not just skin, bones only then you want ppl to be thinking about death?

lol.. I'm OK. the only reason she wants us to see her body is so we can see or think she has a perfect skin. some weak minded people will now wish to be like her forgetting that she's only skins and bones and that the skin will rot after death. I visited the morgue department and none of the bodies looked pretty. They looked like statues

Prognose:
That was the only thought that came to your mind? Really?

Are u sure you aren't depressed?

I'm not depressed. If anything I'm in my best moments.

I'm at a stage where everything seems meaningless.

I'm a deep thinker.
How does it feel to be dead?
Your pretty face will rot
Your money will be left behind.

We are all humans and nothing but skins and bones.

Do we live to die?

What is annoying is that some people feel very special but they are only skins and bones.

A bullet to skull would send them to sleep too.


Nor vex.. Sex isn't all there is to life. Her plastic body didn't arouse me.shes not just skins and bones but plastic also.

The only thought that came to my mind is that..


So one day, the pretty skin will die,rot and become sand. So all these will become trash someday.


This life sef

pocohantas:
Go sleep inside hot water na
Yea, when you least expect it...trust me

What am I reading

Red pill, black pill, green pill


Are we in the matrix

pocohantas:
LOL, wear sweater, then wrap yourself with blanket . It is true o, I still have it in mind. You'll get it, when you least expect it .

Blanket will not work na. You know what will

When I least expect? Like Jesus's coming?

pocohantas:
Yea,it is an extended discussion.
How are you doing?

I'm cold. You promised me vegetable soup onr time. Why have you not waybilled it

pocohantas:
This isn't about thinking life is better on the other side and your illustrations. Anyway, you didn't see the thread it started from.

Oh.. I was responding to your response on that dudes comment of not living Nigeria... Didn't know it was an extended discussion.

pocohantas:
Pseudo-patriotism

Not everyone thinks life is better on the other side of the ocean.

I particularly think that Nigeria is a very free country. Other than the personal income tax that my company pays and the indirect tax on commodities. I don't pay tax. The average hustler in Nigeria can afford an accommodation anywhere he hustles (even in Lagos). But overseas, they spend so much on levies, tax, bills and all what not. My friend living in the UK pays about 1000 pounds monthly for accommodation and her total income monthly isn't up to 1500 pounds.


The fact that I will choose Nigeria over anywhere else isnt pseudo patriotism as you termed it. I would only choose overseas if and only if I am offered a very good job.

I cannur go to school, have a license and certifications and be washing plates and cleaning toilets for one racist all in the name of finding green pastures...

MissJoy29:
Lol...have done it in the past. Can still do it. I just decided not to anymore. So many disadvantages.

But that broke guy has to be 98% husband material & it's remaining money to complete it. Because even though money is important, I can't date a 40% husband material just cos he has money.
The best is to have both: money and character. If not, give me the first scenario.
Btw, what's your definition of broke?

Broke is not being able to meet basic needs comfortably.

What is a husband material?

Do ladies consider character ?

I know a lady who for unknown reasons loves that particular guy that beats her up with head of his belt more than any body in the world.

We broke guys are not 98% husband material oo. Don't be fooled. Poverty humbles a man.

MissJoy29:
Really? They did? I have no idea.

they did?

Are you not female?

Sure you guys did. Can't you date a broke guy?

MissJoy29:
There's that @bolded?

You tell me.. It's your gender that defined it

What I don't understand is how that looks good

makydebbie:
I still sent her a message today and no reply yet. Calls don't go.

I think she's still here and prolly lost her phone or number. She also prolly doesn't want to reconnect.

I can't believe I am missing her troubles

makydebbie:
I've tried reaching her all to no avail.

makydebbie:
Lol, sure I did. Most if not all, my articles here are written by me.

Thanks dear, yes I am.

Hi.

Is Aderola or black hawk OK?


Haven't seen her around here

Petonis:
where is the proof...some1 said she is using the same moniker #ogaDetective, also said shez a scammer on business forum Ok o #FBI. Whatever you do...there will always be haters, just keep doing you and keep it real.
P.S. whether buyer or seller, you can never be too careful when transacting any business.

How can you not see that the op is a guy....


You don't proof to know this. The responses are enough.

Irunnobo:
If you don't apologize i will report you to the mods and have you banned. I don't know you and i won't tolerate nonsense from you.

Your thieviery skills is amazing. You are confident in telling lies ..


It is very obvious you are not who you claim you are

Irunnobo my love. I will give you 50k if you can write "my name is irunnobo" on a piece of paper and place it close to your chest. Also you should put on the clothes you have on your dp while doing so

Lol..

It's exempted

computergeek:
This is funny AF. ShopRite and a handful of other shopping malls are the only sight-seeing centres in many Nigerian states. No zoos, no parks, no fvcking beaches. Shopping malls are for shopping and actually buying stuff, not for celebrating Ramadan and Christmas.

I bet my Python 3.6 Compiler that 90% of these people have no cash to buy anything.

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Hey bro,
Are you very good with front End development

ImaIma1:
I dislike the question...How was your night?

Ask the angels...i was asleep

How was your night?

did you sleep?

so no one was smart enough to know that this op is a guy??

oyb:
So? The offa robbers are also bread winners.

Look. I know that's not an excuse. But imagine your dad was the guy and you were only nine. Life became tough immediately. Would you be happy with Justice meted on your dad or would you be an offender to stay alive?


Something's have a chain reaction that doesn't end well even if it started out as a good gesture.

I'm in no way supporting crime. Beyond justice, what might happen is I'm looking at

princfred:
When did being a bread winner become a good excuse to be a criminal a pedophile at that? Which kind of goat reasons like that?

You know.. Your points could have been passed without insults.