LolaO:
My relationship of 5 years ended in the most heartbreaking way.

He got transferred to Asaba from Lagos and months later just stopped talking to me, no communication, no closure, nothing, just like that.
It’s been 5 months now.

This is someone I had planned my whole life around.

Distance does not make the heart go fonder.

I am so hurt, it hurts.

Side note..

You look like a yahoo girl oo

Did you cheat or lied about something in those 5 years?

Chances are he has been resentful towards you if you did.

AwkaetitiBabe:
He should use his medulla oblongata and decide

AwkaetitiBabe:
Increase ur mom's allowance.

Should he discontinue the girls wages or just increase his mums allowance?

Easybela:
Shey dem been dey celebrate Mercy the order day say she win 60m for BBNaija and some people come dey vex dey wish say na dem. You remember that year wey Davido buy one motor like that for Chioma,how much be the car again ,I hear say na 45m and he come use diamond ring wey worth millions again propose to am. Just the gifts alone don pass wetin Mercy win. Relax first,I no dey beef anybody, follow me to the end.
Few years back,many girls kill themselves on top BlackBerry phone matter but today,, who dey remember BlackBerry again ,chilax guys,life no balance.
Shey Dangote na the richest black man abi?but him be 100 for people wey rich for the world. No go kill yourself, life no balance.
Shey C.Ronaldo and Messi get money pass for footballers?, you know that young man Zuckerbarg, him fit pay them till them die and he no go feel am. Life no balance, even if una get same money,una no go get same children or same blessing
Oya make we check this one, you know that boxer them dey call Mayweather ,that guy watch alone worth 18m dollars.....convert am for naira and tell me how much e be, Davido net worth as Forbes take talk am na16m dollars....Mayweather watch alone don pass Davido net worth. Ordinary watch wey no fit show us the time wey angel Michael go blow trumpet.
After reading this,you go still won kill yourself because say you no get money. Chillax joor, buy cool drink,add am suya if you get money. Tell DJ make him play "can't kill myself" by Timaya for you,if DJ no dey,use you phone. As the music dey play,dey tap your feet for ground, dey nod your head like lizard,dey feel say you be Bill gate,life no dey 2.
If you no get money at all to buy drink or suya, still chill,go church and thank God for good health,e no easy. Appreciate God for life,be contented with what you have,be thankful even as you work harder for more,God go answer all your prayers one day.
The summary of this massage is,"Be contented with what you have,no one has it all. Life no balance and e no fit balance, we all are going through one problem or the other,but we are all hanging unto God.

If say you be woman, I for marry you already

Ewedegubbler:
Don jazzy mama looking like an ancestor while the papa just fresh pass Jubril al sudani...

A woman beauty fades with age.. Men ironically get better

I nor go lie.. The babe set

hidhrhis:
Their is this s.u girl let me just say Jesus daughter I wanted to woo but I couldn't talk to her one-on-one So had to get her username from her friend and added her on facebook but due to the fact that I don't really talk to girls or woo girls
I'm going to add a screenshot of our chat though I've being talking to her on facebook but only limited to greetings so had to pull the lion by the scrotum and send the main message but I got it all wrong
any advice on how to turn things around

To be honest, I am not an expert but I swear to God, I can never type all those to woo a woman.. For what na... People are skins and bones with clothes on... The bad thing about this is that you have already registered yourself in the friend zone

comshots:
I never show her that I have money o.E be like say na all her toasters she dey tax.She can be very friendly to male strangers that they will think she is falling in love.That gel get cunny character.

All women are manipulative...

chinchonglee:
Dats because u re showing her u av moni...

Once i start talking to a girl weda girlfriend or ordinary friends, i ll keep complaining of bad economy, how Nigeria too is looking for where to take loan frm bla bla...


So u won't gather mind to even ask me of moni

This is me ooo..

I ask for money for no reason even when I know they can't give me...... Hiss periodically.

peepydelano:
You are having a very good lady as your wife,count yourself very lucky.Why not fast forward your white wedding and have free access, and its not a big deal if she turns out not to be a virgin,appreciate the fact that she's God fearing. Respect her Godly wish and wait for the abundant blessings that follows,she is blessed amongst women

It is a big deal if she isn't a virgin.

The foundation was built on lies

lilianofentse:
I gave him my virginity but he wasn't good in bed, since then I've not been able to enjoy sex.

wait...
how did a virgin know what is good enough?

maynation:

I actually did but we have good security in my estate and I already told the security men about him. Even if he had thought of running away with my things they won't let him out of the estate, so I knew to an extent my properties we're safe just maybe the ones he could have carted away with in his bag (like my laptops and some other gadgets) I made sure they we're locked up in my personal room.

Even at that.... The risk was unwise. If he had come with a gun and compelled you to transfer money to his account.. The Story will be different today.... He only came with his brains thinking that was all he needed to get you to do his bidding. He was wrong.

maynation:


He left because I denied him the money he requested for. He wanted me to lend him a very huge money for his contract and I declined this. He picked offences and left on Thursday instead if Friday. That is all

So you left for work and left him at home each day?

pocohantas:


Apologies sweetie. I didn't see it as such

Chop kiss

maynation:
Good morning fellow wonderful people.

This thread is a response to the baseless accusation from a nairalander yesterday.
Worthy of mention is the fact that he has called to apologise late last night, i guess he had a little sugar rush and this sorta made him go haywire. Anyways, i have forgiven him out of my good heart but then the deed has already been done and I believe many people have already seen the post so I definitely need to clear my name.

For the sake of my peace of mind, I have been on nairaland since 2009, even though I deactivated my previous account and and created this one. Since I have been on this forum I have never exchanged contacts with anyone apart from Jason (which shall be referred to as Jay all through my post).
I gave spoken and met some nairalanders actually but it is out of this platform. I met Lirusehn back then in ABU, I met: "Queenyprinxex, Sehindemi15'' and one other guy I can't remember his name at Lirusehn's birthday party back then in 2017 and we have been friends since then.

Then again he alleged that 'Sisterfine' and 'pettyprincess' are my alternate monikers, please this isn't so. I met these people on that thread so his claim is an obvious baloney.
My alternates are 'maynattion and maynnation!.

Why did I give Jay my contact? He begged. Yeah, he begged. He was too persistent and I felt giving him the number wouldn't cause any harm even though I out-rightly regretted and regret this.


Anyways, I will be sharing screenshots of what truly transpired and I will allow you fellows to be the judge. But did he really give me 10K as he alleged? This post will answer it.


Below is the screenshot of the post that was later removed by moderators.



Be my guests.

Wait... There was no contract

Did he know you were OK financially before he sent that pm?
It seems like he planned every move.

Borrowed money from you and paid with interest so you could drop your guard.


You let someone you don't know his house stay in your house for 2 weeks

Its illogical to think he got mad because you didn't buy his idea.

What truly happened?

Something made him leave earlier than the said time I think

I feel so bad for the guy... You and him got to 100 conversations on email?



What's so special about you or your phone number?

The dude is a sore loser....

Weak men everywhere. Pussy worshippers

pocohantas:


I'm flattered
Just the girl next door though.

Why are you flirting with them?

Geminita1:
I love his honesty. Men find ''good girls'' boring.

Don't be fooled. Men marry good girls.

Bad girls are for fxxks

Olamsoh:
I met her in the comment section here and we talked for a while before meeting, I sat there 10 minutes to the time, wore my neatly long sleeve shirt, a pair of chinos trousers and a black canvass , I called her once it was time, she picked and said " I just woke up , please give me 30 minutes I'll be there" .....

She came after one hour and we sat down, she began to size me, told me how my shirt is not London shirt because she deals in London shirts , all the plenties she said about fashion and how "she's not sure she'll be into people who don't wear designer wears atleast on a date"( no the shirt wasn't London shirt cos I didn't plan on buying London shirt , I bought a nice shirt)

She kept talking about her achievements and how she doesn't give two hoots about men and how she's ready to walk away once she notices a fault cos she's a career lady , talked for huge straight chunks of minutes and I kept wondering when I'll have to talk about myself... ( Did I tell you how she said my job is a low grade kinda job compared to the money she makes? Lol...) She'll blow one big fat lie and I'll just smile and swallow it, kept listening while she goes to either Instagram or Facebook to buttress her points ( my dear o, at that point I just wanted to go home and see a movie jor)

She finally said we should go to her house so she'll show me class and neatness and she rarely goes out cos everything she needs is in her house ( whether she wants to knack and couldn't just say, who knows, mtseeeew)
Well, I declined and left....

PS : I didn't say you shouldn't brag o, or talk down on people's hustles, but atleast don't come and be blowing lies ontop your rude ass shenanigans.... Thankiooooooo

(She'll read this and I'll be glad she refutes any of this claim)

please who she be... I want to ask her something

Fragility6:

U no care mean say some jobless ones no care too. No b pple still dey carry Regina Daniels mata 4 head till now

Why do people try to impress?

Just go to court na if you don't have money. Stop impressing people.. We don't Care

Ismail1311:
UK �� USED IPHONE 7 FOR SALE 60K

How can this rubbish with cracks everywhere be UK used

Looking for mugu abi

Kaeboy:
bad guy

He think say we nor go know

We know he wants to see Cindy's pant..


Child of grace my ass

Geminita1:
fear fear

Not fear.

I don't know if I should expect "no I am not intelligent"

Geminita1:
I've noticed the brightest women have very few men showing them interest while the low iq ones are spoilt with choice. Its only on the internet i see men asking for intelligent women.

Hmm..

Are you intelligent?


Not sure what I am expecting as a response sef

purples25:


Lol you people and borehole. Sha go marry the tight pussy, if thats your idea about pussies.

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Kentura:


nah I didn't mean it like that, not like woman of your dreams kinda statement.. I actually meant sexual fantasy, like you picture a girl you'd like to fvck in your head.. Along the line u find someone that looks or measures up to her in a way, and u do everything possible to fvck her, even if it means you gotta spend..

I dont go out of my way for sex...

You place so much value on sex.


Even when I ask bae for sex and she resists....

I don't pressure her. I just fall back bed. Na she go dey use body touch me.


I have told her severally that I don't like drama...

funmisticqueen:
misogynists everywhere

To be honest babe, I love women. I believe in equality. Not love, I adore women but you see when she starts feeling important.. That's where I remind her that she's only boobs and ass to me..

I mirror people.. Whatever you are is what you get from me...

I have resigned from 2 companies just because I was getting the vibe that they were starting to feel they were doing me favor by employing me.. How much less a woman

AntiBrutus:


Lol. Never said you do. Did I?

I only said, maybe you are not lucky- maybe you are only smart and strategic enough to attract your kind.

I don't think I'm smart or anything...

I easily lose interest.


I think those type of girls stick their noses in the air and feel so damn relevant..


My problem is that I don't waste time wooing... Any form of resistance.. I use the door...

I think that's why I don't meet them