Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Noodles

Are you male or female

If female, are you single or married

If single

What's your location

funmisticqueen:
what exactly do women want that men do?

Let's start with what feminists want

What do they want?

Please don't just say equality

Explain it. Give an example

funmisticqueen:
avocado, simply wanted to be classified in the same category as fruit, as opposed to being a fat and oil food.

But that's not what this is about.

Avocado is fruit just as men and women are humans

Avocado is about what apple does just as feminists are about the things men do.


Avocado wants to do what apple does..

Feminist want to do what men do...

But apple do give nutrient X and Y in its juice..

Men do their responsibility in the task required of the job...

But avocado can't give nutrient X and Y because biologically it lacks the capabilities to.

Feminists cant discharge these responsibilities the job requires because they biologically they lack the capabilities to...

Yet avocado wants apples role despite lacking the nutrients.

Yet feminists want the opportunity despite lacking the capabilities...



The human who wants nutrients X and Y makes it very clear he wants apple juice.

The company who wants someone with strength makes it very clear he want a man

Avocado gets mad

Feminists get mad...

Avocado wants to be a juice to that human but doesn't want to give him nutrients X and Y.

Feminists want the job of that company but don't want to exercise strength the job requires...


is this fair?

Idonweak:
I created a thread a long time ago about a girl who was seeking for job. I explained that she had no one to help and she also has issues concerning her school fees.
This is the thread https://www.nairaland.com/5393677/please-come-here

Well she message me this morning that she is going into prostitution. She told me not to look bad of her that she has no choice. Since no job or helper. I was devastated and tried convincing her but her mind was made up already. I really wish i could help her financially or help with something she can do. Our society is really fucke.d up. Now i understand why most girls turn to prostitution. Nobody wants to help without getting something in return. So sad

Can she cook and does she have a hustling spirit?

Eyeness:
You call equal opportunities much? IT IS THE BASICS, THE BASELINE. Equal opportunities are not asking for much at all..


Men and women can never have equal responsibility because their differences are meant to complement.

An apple and an avocado pear are fruits, they both grow from trees, are plucked, process and sent to the market for sale. that is basic,that is equal right. But they are both different in look, feel, taste, what they are eaten with and nutrient composition.

Asking an avocado to do what the apple does is quite a stretch, isn't it?

Do you now understand?

So there was apple juice...

People who consume apple juice gets nutrient X and Y.

Avocado now wants the attention of apple... But she lacks nutrient X and Y that is required of apple juice...



Avocado wants the opportunity to given attention like the apple juice but she does not want to deliver nutrients X and Y...

What do you expect those who want exactly X and Y in their diet to do?

Stick with apple juice or give avocado juice a chance and then get nutrient Z

Eyeness:
Answer your question. Your tone implied something else.

It implied nothing. Thick skinned women are thick skinned women. However you choose to interpret is entirely your business.

Eyeness:
But women are emotional. they listen more to the 80% non verbal communication.

So you want to blame me for your interpretation?

Whose fault is it that women are emotional?

Thick skinned women are not

Eyeness:
Well I don't know about feminists, but i do know this, while equal opportunity is possible, and equal expectations at work, equal responsibility is not possible because of biological sex roles.

To whom much is given.. Much is expected.

If you want to be given the opportunity, then expect responsibilities

If you know can't take the heat, you shouldn't be in the kitchen

Eyeness:
Indifferent also, i have learned to truly enjoy my company.

Did you just change your personal text to

I AM THE PRIZE



You are , to the man who loves you.


Actually there is no prize... No body is any prize to another...

You see, cocky people deserve ego centric people.



Most ladies are cocky and feel larger than life because they are the center of attraction.

Those girls deserve stupid misogynistic males who will rubbish their existence... In order to prove to them that they are nothing but skins and bones...


I personally detest proud and cocky and my cockiness and misogyny spring up when I perceive larger than life attitude from ladies.

Remember this... You are the prize.. And if everyone is the prize.... There's no prize at all

Eyeness:
Indifferent also, i have learned to truly enjoy my company.

If you not a feminist, my guess is you are young..

I stand corrected tho

Eyeness:
Yes, it implies a different tone to some people.

i guess men are truly from mars and women are truly from venus

But there's a dictionary meaning.

I'm not responsible for your interpretation.

Eyeness:
My intention is not to usurp a man's authority especially if you read the thread, but to make women realize their feminine potential. It is quite insightful talking with you

Feminism didn't start as that..

But guess what we have today... Women wanting equal opportunities but never equal responsibilities...

A typical feminist often forgets that there are gender roles in the family....

Eyeness:
i think you mistake femininity for cowardice and low self esteem.

Besides you are yet to prove that men are the prize

So you read that post you quoted and still didn't get why men are the prize?

What is your emotion when you are single?

Worried, indifferent, joyful

My emotion when I'm single is indifferent. No loss no gain. What's yours?

funmisticqueen:
I can see that arguing with you will take me nowhere. I didn't insult anybody, but here you are calling women thick skinned. I never painted women as calm, as i said in other posts, they have issues too and i said i would trash them in due time. Calling some women thick skinned for giving their all to improve their appearance is uncalled for.

It is like calling men thick skinned for hustling to make money i think i am taking your post personally because this behavior is called gaslighting

Hello dear..

Does thick skinned have a different meaning?

For me, it means someone who is insensitive to others criticism. Someone who cares less about others opinion....

Calling a lady ugly and she not flinching is thick skinned.. She doesn't Care about your opinions of her look.

Kindly tell me why this hurt you please..

I'm confused

Eyeness:
This does not happen often. Majority of men don't think like you.

but calling some women thick skinned was really unnecessary.

While i respect your opinion, i wont try to force them down your throat or belittle them.

It was nice chatting with you

Actually thick skinned is a complement denoting a strong willed woman who isn't disturbed by other's opinions. Her ideals do not bend to favor your opinions.. If you call her ugly, she leaves you behind and move on...

While this is admirable, they eventually become feminists.. Which becomes unfortunate for guys like us who love thick skinned women....

Its an ambivalent feeling... We love women who are not pussies but hate when they become a captain too in this ship of relations

Eyeness:
You should have said you were talking about yourself. People in general dont think the way you do.Remember we have a lot of people with low self esteem walking the earth.

please tell me why exactly men are the prize?

To A good number of ladies

After school, whats next?

Marriage (not even jobs)

Who do they marry?

Men.

Who would do anything to get a another human even to resort to use charms and jaruma

Women

Who is the "another human"

Men

Who is the more excited couple in a wedding?

The bride

Who is a bride?

A woman

Who marries who is available and not who they love?

A woman.

Who regularly checks the clock and gets disturbed when time ticks?

A woman

Except career focused women, most women become less of themselves when they marry.
When you have run the race and you get the gold (the prize) ... You rest.. That's what most women do after marriage.

The dream of a young girl in her world of fantasy to be marry a charming rich prince. A prince is a man.


the dream of a young boy in his world of fantasy is by be very successful.


you get

Eyeness:
Good reply.

But the initial response will be to lash out at the woman who rejects him because she is broke, he will call her names because he feels he is entitled to have her and she MUST accept him as broke as he is. If men strive actually to become better,why is it that he always paints his ex in a bad light. "She was this and she was that". Not all men who strive to become better actually become better. Men are 4 times more likely to commit suicide than women

If a man rejects a woman because of her looks, initially she does feel dejected, she doesn't call the man names for calling her ugly. But she then tries to either supplement her ugliness with other things, character traits we commonly call ’inner beauty' or she tries to work on her looks in any way possible, lightening,hair,makeup,nails, weightloss, surgery, just to upgrade her looks. To back it up with real life evidence, a good number of today's female celebrities were not born with the looks they have today. That is how femininity works. When a woman talks about her exes, she talks about his actions, 'Hey did this or did that to me'

I love how you tried to make the woman a calm simple lady who takes things easily in good faith

Typical of women...

Only thick skinned women are like that and they are few. Unfortunately they eventually become feminists.

Women take their looks seriously. Telling a woman who loves you that she is ugly will kill her...

She will by proxy be at war with the new babe you will get (someone that is yet to come)

the very heartless ones will go the mile to make sure your new gf who is prettier become ugly... havent you heard of ladies pouring acids on ladies faces..


Women hate rejections and are incapable of taking it...

the worst a woman can say to me is NO...

I won't hate her for that.... Never. We just become friends. That's all..

I have liked some babes here but I have gotten a good number of rejections... They are still my friends... We talk and laugh as though I didn't ask them out.. No time to be waste productive time on a woman's rejection...

This is not even an alpha make thingy. it is basic survival instincts and common sense..

Have some value for yourself and women can never break your heart...

I see everyone as nothing but SKINS and BONES (male and female alike).. So why should someone who can rot to sand feel larger than life to me...

Eyeness:


No a woman does not have a dick, but she has a clitoris, which is the female equivalent of a dick(check embryology). A woman does not stand to pee, but she can actually stand to pee, but it is not a convenient position.

Now answer the question i asked.

let me add to it, what does having a dick or standing to pee have to do with being percieved as a failure as a result of continuous rejection from women?

To consider something a failure, it has to be beyond the ordinary.

If you add 1 to 2, u should get 3. If you get 4.. You failed it.

It is normal for ladies to reject.. Considering a lady's rejection as a failure speaks a lot about the self esteem of the guy...

I particularly think any girl who rejects me is a loss to her...

The mentality goes beyond women.. If I apply for a job and I'm rejected. I consider it their loss...

What then is failure?


Despair.. When you get to that point where you believe external odds are better than you.

If I send you a pm and ask u out, best believe I will be unperturbed (even though I might be in love) if you reject my proposal. I cant and will never take a ladies rejection as failure..

Which was why I asked if the guy has a dickk

Whether u agree or not.. when push comes to shove, men are the prize...

Eyeness:
let me ask you a 2 questions.

What is a man's response when he is rejected by a woman because he is broke?

What is a woman's response when a man tells her that she is ugly and can't date her?

I want to answer on his behalf


The man will strive to become better and go for women who don't consider his financial status

The woman will lose her confidence and self esteem. She will become timid and slow in public. She will always shy away from the public. I pray she doesn't commit suicide or bleach her skin

Eyeness:
How exactly does having a dick or standing to pee make you better?

Did you think that was a statement?

It carried a question mark. How didn't you see that?

Eyeness:
Good attempt at projection and gas-lighting.

what reality are you talking about?

What exactly are women being rejected for? Asking a man out? ROMANCE LAND is a prime example of guys who cant take rejection well. i don't see women opening threads to bash guys for rejecting them, nor do i see women threatening to expose nudes.

Women have issues yes, which i will eventually trash out. but we do not project our issues or make others feel shitty because our egos are like China. We have issues and thrive inspite of them, we know when and how to seek help, which is more than i can say for some nigerian men. women develop esteem issues FROM relationships.

Ever wondered why we have more suicidal and homicidal men than women even though you claim women have more rejection issues?
MEN FEAR FAILURE, and rejection from women is perverted as failure.

A man moves on to the next one because he is not strong enough to look introspectively.

Are you serious?

Some men consider rejection from women failure

Does the man have a dicck or does the woman stand to pee?

Enlighten me please

Can someone explain that 10th law to me..

Are there nonhuman animals

MissJoy29:

You are 28 & you need a lady above 30? Seriously?
This is refreshingly different.

Gaspardd:
28
AA
Location..Ibeju lekki
Ocupation... 3 Jobs
1.Trash Collector at a Garbage Company
2. Federal Government Job ( NPower)
3. Engineer..I repair wrist watches
What I want is true love so that we can be happy forever and continue our love in heaven.

@bold sentence

Is this in Lagos?

franchasng:
lol I agree though but some courses ehn, students do run mad studying them.


Some courses are not meant for average students cos they will get brain issue studying it. Do you know how many students who drop out of software engineering courses abroad Can you do coding and programming So tomorrow a first class graduate of dentistry or animal science will be looking down on a 2.1 graduate of software engineering

Even in the rating of IQ there is grading, IQ pass IQ even though two individuals may have high IQ but one will have a higher IQ or intelligence quotient than the other.

In my team, I plan the DB design, project structure. I adopt agile methodology to software development. I am currently working with a German firm remotely from Nigeria without a degree in either computer science, computer engineering or your over hyped mechanical engineer.

My appointment letter has the title SENIOR SOFTWARE ENGINEER (Without a degree in engineering)

Have you now seen how rubbish engineering is if you are skillful.

There are first class software engineers in my team, but I design the micro service architecture for them...

I still teach OOP to supposed first class engineers...

Humble yourself chap... I'm a licensed medical practitioner as well as a senior software engineer . Going by your logic, we are not mates and you are way below my status.

First class is first class even if you studied an unknown discipline.

You are no way better than others.

Travel out and see how your first class is rubbished.

Chidorx60:

Its obvious that you are intelligent....

But its quite a shame that you are so damn proud.....learn to contain your ego...that was the exact reason you missed out on a first class..and you still have not learnt your lesson

Very annoying piece of junk.

He will definitely humble himself amongst doctors.

We play the pride game better...

franchasng:
it doesn't matter bra, my anger is being denied my merit, not that result or degree matters to me at all.


Is it easy to have a first class in Mechanical engineering

He is comparing first class in Accounting and Business Admin with 1st class in Mech Engine.


1st class in Accounting is equal to 2nd class in Mech Engine

Young man. Calm down..


There's so much pride and arrogance in you.

Some of us graduated with the equivalence of first class in a discipline where B is the pass grade for certain courses and in some courses if you get a C, you narrowly escaped additional year ..

Imagine failing just one course and having to spend one more year in school..

Some of us studied a course where you can resit at most once...

Take your first class ME to school of medicine or any medical school, You would sit in the back (that's where unintelligent people sit).



I think you finished from Uniben.

If its uniben, then ME is not even top 3.

Medicine
Law
Others ( ME falls in here)

pocohantas:


How does it work?

Age: 35
Location: Earth
Occupation: Employed.
Religion: Freethinker
Genotype: AA
Relationship status: single (i.e) not YET married.
Persons of Romantic Interest: RICH professionals with SENSE. The older the better.
Hobbies: Driving, cooking, playing chess and reading detective thrillers.
What Am I Looking For? RICH responsible man
Dislikes: Man without sense. Just have sense and we are good.

You had your chance and u blew it...

tiffanyfan:



Hmmmm......a girl needs to be careful with the kind of people she call her friend

I can say the same for guys

tiffanyfan:



Ok....can you resent a lady and still be her friend ?

It happens

tiffanyfan:




Can you hold a grudge of 5yrs against a lady

and still be her boyfriend ?...aiye ma le o

Resentment is different from grudge

LolaO:


Lol...Thank you for making me laugh

Hope you didn't lie... That thing dey pain. It will make a guy feel like a fool..

Lie and cheating with a known or mutual friend are unforgivable sins in a relationship.

Anybody can forgive cheating.. But you see that lie... E too dey pain