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Flakky26:
I am thinking of starting an eatery on a low budget in my area in abuja. There is nothing like that in the area. The area is busy and has lots of traffic. The place will be a cool place where people can come in and take snacks and drinks. i am thinking of renting and joining 2 shops to achieve this with transparent glass and tv.

I look forward to hearing from you guys. Is it profitable and what are the challenges?

safarigirl:
When men say they want a strong, independent woman, what exactly do they mean?

A) I want a woman who makes her own money and is confident in her abilities?

B) I want a woman who won't ask me for money and is only as confident as I want her to be?

C) I want a woman who will feed me with her money AND be submissive


Will modify as it comes to me.

Plebian:
Are you in lagos? I'll help you intimidate her, probably hex her out of your bros life. Am bored.... and you seem like you need help.

zed7:
She's beautiful but what exactly is this post for? This is supposed to be a faceless forum.

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Noodles

funmisticqueen:
what exactly do women want that men do?

funmisticqueen:
avocado, simply wanted to be classified in the same category as fruit, as opposed to being a fat and oil food.

Idonweak:
I created a thread a long time ago about a girl who was seeking for job. I explained that she had no one to help and she also has issues concerning her school fees.
This is the thread https://www.nairaland.com/5393677/please-come-here

Well she message me this morning that she is going into prostitution. She told me not to look bad of her that she has no choice. Since no job or helper. I was devastated and tried convincing her but her mind was made up already. I really wish i could help her financially or help with something she can do. Our society is really fucke.d up. Now i understand why most girls turn to prostitution. Nobody wants to help without getting something in return. So sad

Eyeness:
You call equal opportunities much? IT IS THE BASICS, THE BASELINE. Equal opportunities are not asking for much at all..


Men and women can never have equal responsibility because their differences are meant to complement.

An apple and an avocado pear are fruits, they both grow from trees, are plucked, process and sent to the market for sale. that is basic,that is equal right. But they are both different in look, feel, taste, what they are eaten with and nutrient composition.

Asking an avocado to do what the apple does is quite a stretch, isn't it?

Do you now understand?

Eyeness:
Answer your question. Your tone implied something else.

Eyeness:
But women are emotional. they listen more to the 80% non verbal communication.

Eyeness:
Well I don't know about feminists, but i do know this, while equal opportunity is possible, and equal expectations at work, equal responsibility is not possible because of biological sex roles.

Eyeness:
Indifferent also, i have learned to truly enjoy my company.

Eyeness:
Indifferent also, i have learned to truly enjoy my company.

Eyeness:
Yes, it implies a different tone to some people.

i guess men are truly from mars and women are truly from venus

Eyeness:
My intention is not to usurp a man's authority especially if you read the thread, but to make women realize their feminine potential. It is quite insightful talking with you

Eyeness:
i think you mistake femininity for cowardice and low self esteem.

Besides you are yet to prove that men are the prize

funmisticqueen:
I can see that arguing with you will take me nowhere. I didn't insult anybody, but here you are calling women thick skinned. I never painted women as calm, as i said in other posts, they have issues too and i said i would trash them in due time. Calling some women thick skinned for giving their all to improve their appearance is uncalled for.

It is like calling men thick skinned for hustling to make money i think i am taking your post personally because this behavior is called gaslighting

Eyeness:
This does not happen often. Majority of men don't think like you.

but calling some women thick skinned was really unnecessary.

While i respect your opinion, i wont try to force them down your throat or belittle them.

It was nice chatting with you

Eyeness:
You should have said you were talking about yourself. People in general dont think the way you do.Remember we have a lot of people with low self esteem walking the earth.

please tell me why exactly men are the prize?

Eyeness:
Good reply.

But the initial response will be to lash out at the woman who rejects him because she is broke, he will call her names because he feels he is entitled to have her and she MUST accept him as broke as he is. If men strive actually to become better,why is it that he always paints his ex in a bad light. "She was this and she was that". Not all men who strive to become better actually become better. Men are 4 times more likely to commit suicide than women

If a man rejects a woman because of her looks, initially she does feel dejected, she doesn't call the man names for calling her ugly. But she then tries to either supplement her ugliness with other things, character traits we commonly call ’inner beauty' or she tries to work on her looks in any way possible, lightening,hair,makeup,nails, weightloss, surgery, just to upgrade her looks. To back it up with real life evidence, a good number of today's female celebrities were not born with the looks they have today. That is how femininity works. When a woman talks about her exes, she talks about his actions, 'Hey did this or did that to me'

Eyeness:
No a woman does not have a dick, but she has a clitoris, which is the female equivalent of a dick(check embryology). A woman does not stand to pee, but she can actually stand to pee, but it is not a convenient position.

Now answer the question i asked.

let me add to it, what does having a dick or standing to pee have to do with being percieved as a failure as a result of continuous rejection from women?

Eyeness:
let me ask you a 2 questions.

What is a man's response when he is rejected by a woman because he is broke?

What is a woman's response when a man tells her that she is ugly and can't date her?

Eyeness:
How exactly does having a dick or standing to pee make you better?

Eyeness:
Good attempt at projection and gas-lighting.

what reality are you talking about?

What exactly are women being rejected for? Asking a man out? ROMANCE LAND is a prime example of guys who cant take rejection well. i don't see women opening threads to bash guys for rejecting them, nor do i see women threatening to expose nudes.

Women have issues yes, which i will eventually trash out. but we do not project our issues or make others feel shitty because our egos are like China. We have issues and thrive inspite of them, we know when and how to seek help, which is more than i can say for some nigerian men. women develop esteem issues FROM relationships.

Ever wondered why we have more suicidal and homicidal men than women even though you claim women have more rejection issues?
MEN FEAR FAILURE, and rejection from women is perverted as failure.

A man moves on to the next one because he is not strong enough to look introspectively.

MissJoy29:
You are 28 & you need a lady above 30? Seriously?
This is refreshingly different.

Gaspardd:
28
AA
Location..Ibeju lekki
Ocupation... 3 Jobs
1.Trash Collector at a Garbage Company
2. Federal Government Job ( NPower)
3. Engineer..I repair wrist watches
What I want is true love so that we can be happy forever and continue our love in heaven.