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Another useless article on Nairaland. All the under performing MODs should be fired.

Dragonking:
[size=20pt]God bless the Niger Delta. We from the SS are truly blessed and making the country proud..

Haters keep on hating.[/size]

I don't know why mo.rons cap and bold every freaking post just to seek attention. We are not blind you know. If your post is worth commenting on we will. As is, in this case.

nickibarb:
I needed to travel for one day to write a professional exam, but my husband refused to let me take our two little kids (aged 1yr 4 months and aged 3 months) to my parent's house for my mum to take care of them. He said he would care for them himself. (Note that his mother was out of town if not I would have taken them to her). I wanted to make my mother-in-law aware of the situation so that I won't be accused of abandoning my kids for my career (you know how judgmental naija society can be sometimes). I tried to call my mother-in-law, she didn't pick up, I sent her a text explaining the situation and then proceeded to call her again. I was surprised to see that she was talking to my husband about the issue on the line that I just tried calling her on, but she hadn't called me back. My mother-in-law refused to take my calls cause apparently she's of the opinion that couples should keep everything between themselves. My husband went ahead to take away my copy of the house keys. He locked the doors and said whenever I was ready to go, he will let me out, in order to ensure that I don't come back when he is out, to take his kids to my parents' house. I had already assured him that I wasn't going to take them away but I was opposed to leaving without a key, since it will be very inconveniencing for me to go on such an exhausting journey, return and not have immediate access to the house. (My husband's whereabouts is usually very difficult to discern on account of the nature of his job-politician). Again, I tried to get my mother-in-law to intervene and ask him to let me have one of the keys but she still refused to take my calls. I sent her another text. I was running late so I proceeded to take my husband's wallet which he left in one of the rooms. My intention was to use it as an exchange item so I can get the keys from him.

Unfortunately, this got him very mad and in a bid to get the wallet back from me, he pushed me and I hit the back of my head on a glass table resulting in a head injury as revealed by a CT scan. In all of this, my mother-in-law still refused to take my calls even though she could hear me shouting and crying through the phone (recall my husband was intermittently on the phone with her while the fracas was going on). Since that day, I haven't called her again, and she hasn't called me either. Even when my parents informed her about my head injury via text (since she wasn't taking their calls), she still failed to give me call to find out how badly hurt I was. She has come to our home one day since the incident, I was taking a bath, by the time I was done and came to the living room, she was gone. I don't think she asked after me but I didn't ask my husband whether she did. This is someone I have loved and respected as a mother all this time, we have never ever had even one disagreement. By refusing to get involved, she has effectively destroyed our cordial relationship. I cannot honestly say that I feel like she cares whether I live or die as long as we obey the golden rule of keeping everything between ourselves as a couple.
My issue is, I'm not happy about the fact that we've fallen into the category of MIL and DIL that do not get along. My question is, am I right to feel aggrieved, and am I right to have not made any effort to reach out to her for more than a month now, considering that this means that she has not interacted with her grand children all this time? What would you suggest I do?

Feeling aggrieved should be the least of your concerns. Girl, you are in big trouble.

Has Rokiatu commented yet?

morereb10:
And what do you think she is doing?

She's being an ass.

adekennis:
what is touching here

You know what even creeps me out? The way guys use the "aawww" word. Women are supposed to use it because it's more feminine. But no; Americans use it and damn it, so will we.

stephenduru:
More pics

Daayyuummn!!! he has a can am? Badass.

chrisbaba1:
[size=18pt]Am i the only one who rushes to check the names of the culprits? Just wrong.... And i cant deny i let out a sigh of relief if he is not from my tribe, messed up......[/size]

As if the court documents will say they are igbos. They are identified as Nigerians plain and simple. Not being in your tribe is inconsequential.

CountDracula:
... Wat can I say? I make people do unbelievable things

Phew!!! That was scary. I actually thought you were that dumb. Now i see you were joking.

CountDracula:
so ure sayin they aren't someone's cousin? I'm askin if u wud ask dem to kill ur cousin

If it is the law, which it is, and if they delibrately killed innocent people, yes they should be killed according to law. I would seriously distance myself from them in the first place. WTF?


And yes, even if my cousin were part of them. I can't believe i am having this conversation.

CountDracula:
Wat if ur cousin was one of dem?

Wait. Are you seriously asking that question. After due process and they are found guilty, they should be executed. You do realize that those robbers killed innocent people. What if your cousin was one of them?

tolustx:
O ti tan. Since d girl don testify say he no force am do d tin, make dem free d guy na. At least, dr is no law dat stipulates an age bracket for sexual partners. That is how many ladies will in anger, lie dat a man rape dem wen they both agreed to d act. But because d guy has offended d lady, or because he's cheating, they find a way of dealing wit him and choose to use 'rape'. Pathetic.

Women, diaris God oooooo

Spoken like a true peodo.phile.

Shortyy:
#yawns.. #farts.. #walksaway

Naija girls are really classy.

iamrealdeji:
thanks for the awareness sir,we're all here to learn and no one knows it all,he indeed loved his people but eventually became a patriot because he had no option than to surrender and that was when he started APGA party,i'd like you to enlighten me more sir

There's no need to enlighten you further. You realized the errors of your ways and repented. Go and sin no more.

iamrealdeji:
I'm a yoruba guy,but I don't know why I love Ojukwu,maybe it's because of his patriotism,wow,the wife he married before Bianca was also very beautiful,Ojukwu get taste o

Define patriotism, then define secession. Then come back and re-type your post.

kestolove95:
thank God you want to be a soilder not a souldja

Lol. . . .

boluyongp:
And what is bad in backing a government with prayer Who says Japan, Canada, USA won't have been better of than they are today if serious prayers were to back them and who told you prayers are not backing them up sef.. USA motto alone is "God's Own Country", their country was built on the foundation of God thus their success. Its you that needs an education, that prayer is not backing you up doesn't mean prayer should not back Nigeria up.

That's the point, they are better off, even without prayers. So, what does that tell you?

NewNigeriaMind:
Is it only me, each time I see the VP I can't help but smile.

We got it right this time.

Based on the fact that you smile each time you see the VP? You know what? You are so right.

dorox:
If it was Jonathan that was being prayed for he would have knelt down before the so called man of God without any sense of dignity for himself and his office.
The guy has no class. As president, his demeanour and charisma was like that of a village idiot who through good fortune alone became lord of a masion.

Need more proof of the level of stu.pidity of Nigerians. The vice president is being judged on his character based on his inability to Kneel down to another human being. With all the Kneeling Jonathan did, what is the end result?

Sweetguy25:
The problem with Nigeria is that majority of Nigerians think like you. Is it prayers that is backing the governments of Japan, Singapore, Canada, US and other developed countries? You nigerians should get an education!

You've just received six million, nine hundred thousand and fifty likes. Don't waste your breath trying to educate anyone. I keep saying the level of stu.pidity of Nigerians is insurmountable.

fernandoc:
Am beginning to doubt any news without proper source these days.

So you used to believe unverifiable news on Nairaland? Let me clearify; Nairaland is strictly for entertainment purposes alone and should never be taken seriously.

Not being on the top ten does not mean we are not on the list. Imagine, we are rating our country amongst the worst. Not among the best, but among the worst. Unfreaking believable.

pasquare24:
I concur with all of your ideas herein.Most recently,research showed that 20% of the world's natural resources is deposited in Nigeria.This is incredible.Only that corruption and self- aggradizement has taken the lead.However,we are happy people.

20 Percent? you sure say you know math?

ON:

Point 1; Very true. Nigeria's weather is better than most country's.

Point 2; Very true. Nigeria is a land where there is always an opportunity to plunder and pillage with impunity.

Point 3; Really? The flag?

Point 4; Accent? You must be deaf. Listen to the french, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese speak, and come back and tell me about the Nigerian accent again.

Point 5; Very true. The food is on point.

Point 6; Also very true. There is a strong family bond in Nigeria and Africa in general.

Point 7; Nigerians are happy people because ignorance is bliss. Ever watched the matrix? They thought they were living normal lives not knowing they were in bondage.

Point 8; Semi on point. Black women are beautiful in general. I don't know about our women being tasteful though. They are usually tacky. Refer to point 7.

Point 9; Friendly? I don't know about that. We are probably one of the most blood thirsty people on earth. Our amicability is often based on what we can get from the person we are nice to.

Point 10; Intelligence? Have you read some of the comments on Nairaland? Again, refer to point 7.

when a deal sounds too good to be true, it usually is.

lalasticlala:
When two hefty men devour food together. Lol.


http://ink361.com/app/users/ig-290514337/delemomoduovation/photos/ig-982543519208163422_290514337

And most Nigerians would think this is good food. They are eating ham and sausage combined, which is crazy, with eggs and fried potato. Talk about eating unhealthy.

ALISMILE:
I can see an acute comprehension problem here! I ll nt respond to pst made by pple like u!

You just did!!!

jiorhemen:
A terrorist armed with rocket launcher does not need a stop before attacking

A moving target is more difficult to hit than a stationary one. I know this for a fact. Which would you prefer, sit in traffic or keep moving. But that is not the point. Nearly all assassinations are done when the intended target is out of their living quarters.

spongeisback:
He's not Nigerian
He renounced his citizenship
He's wife is white
He's kids are biracial
Stop claiming people that aren't claiming you
Make your own country better❗️❗️❗️❗️

They will never listen.

ALISMILE:
Thank God South Africa is nt a muslim country. Idiotts wud ve attributed d Xenophobic attacks to Islam!

And six mor.ons liked this post. As if xenophobic attacks are the only evil of this world. What about mass beheadings, massacres, kidnappings, bombings, perpetrated all in the name of ISLAM? So, because the xenophobia in south africa is not islam related does not mean so many more evils are not being done in it's name.