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Magnoliaa:
Ohhh. I totally missed that one. I don't get the joke. But asking you to explain the pun ruins it...so I guess I'll just move on from that.

LMAO. We simply said what we have noticed. Maybe if you changed...

Oh, you do bring it to the fore once in a while, trust me.

Magnoliaa:
You see? Anything one or two mouths hath confessed; that is thine truth.

That's established then. We both can't be wrong . You just don't readily and openly bring the bad side to the fore most time.

Outrageous? So you didn't even catch that pun, is that what you're saying?

MufasaLion:
He's not planned for it because it's obvious. And no, I don't know him.

And moreover, why's it that rich or people living very comfortable don't come to make noise about their child delivery? Only poor people come here to get validation for the foolish life decisions they make and still making.

Johnchrix:
What do you do for a living?

Magnoliaa:
Plis, plis, plis, Brat, don't make me fall down here from laughing too much.

Ommmmgggg. It's the soft puns/porns me, lmaooo. You no well, I swear.

Why your mind come dirty pass my own like this? How exactly did you figure out what I had in mind with the asterisks? Are you inside me?

It is the latter I refer to sha, for the record.

That aside, your ways have become more and more impure o. Who is teaching you bad bad things? I don't trust you no more .

Magnoliaa:
This woman, shebi I don tell you say I don cut my pinis off.

Plis, I have switched on my feminine brain now, don't be associating anything with me to that rough, aggressive, *****-dangling gender, abeg.

I'm in a soft mode (for the meantime) lol.

MrBrownJay1:
well as you stated, people in your world always forgive you when you start quarrels, and therefore maybe men who dont "always forgive" (like the OP's husband) must be people who are:

Magnoliaa:
Don't mind that silly boy. And the dude is still casually mentioning me again as if it was just a play-fighting and we're back to being good. In his mind, acting like "do I know you?" was supposed to be a punch to me abi? All just to make it seem like he actually doesn't even... wo. That one has gone, but I certainly wouldn't forget it this time. He should quote me to say shit again...

Ironically, a man has something to do with the Wicked-Sickly Sweet-Caustic-Hyper Mature flips I've been having.

Shey ideally I'm supposed to calm down and be gentle small? But no, my wickedness is directly proportional to much infatuated I am, lol.

But yeah, I agree. It's been healthy and...everything.

2elliot:
Stay one place, guy. Are Nigerian men patriarchy or they are femininised be submissive. They can't be both na, haba.

MrBrownJay1:
to each their own misery... funny how you are quick to dismiss the OP who bore a grudge and was indeed pigheaded/uninvested, but yet would be quick to blame the husband for what is happening. if this aint the definition of double standard, i dont know what is.

Bobbynobobby:
Madam what are you on about. Offending someone or being in the wrong and finding it hard to apologise is a toxic/narcissistic trait

MrBrownJay1:
i guess in your world, you can start yeye childish quarrel with your husband and then ask "him" to forgive you, bwaaaaaaah! wifey did something wrong, SHE should ask for forgiveness.... no two ways about it! whatever the madness that is troubling her could never be fixed unless she accept that SHE is at fault and did something wrong

MrBrownJay1:
i guess your option is better, they should remain the way they are and play tit for tat childish games for decades until one of them decides to let go of this madness (that was started by this very childish/immature woman).

Magnoliaa:
You don't have to have to be salty, cranky or testerical... not as if you're cumstruating by any chance?

I never even attacked you (initially), but that fine line between civil nuances always elude most of you, so no surprises here.

I am glad whatever breaking of ice I ever imagined was happening is back to being in place- this is one perfect reason why people should never let go of grudges.

So you can go have your ass pegged 'till you bleed blood, fking vile troll.

chigoizie7:
Can you even listen to yourself? This man was disrespected by his wife, he became the bigger person despite the disrespect and then called, sent texts, sent voice messages for four whole days to sort things out, what did she do? Cut him off for a whole 9 weeks. You think that while 9weeks he wasn’t trying to reach to her or the kids? And then out of the blue, after 9weeks, she reached out to him over an unrelated matter, bro are you even listening to yourself? And all you could do is try to blame the guy for not being mature? Where is this world sense of equity and fairness? All the time people find means to blame men even on the mistakes of women. Bro men are human beings too with emotions too, he have lives to live too, they shouldn’t always be emotionally blackmailed or abused. They also have the same blood running through their veins. They also have the right to be angry too, they have the right to express their emotions too. Atleast this woman was the one that brought this her problem here, she is reading the responses from others. And instead of correcting her mistakes, help her find solutions to save the marriage she messed up, you are here talking rubbish. I pity men. Alternatively you are telling this woman that what she did was okay that the fault is from the husband for not being mature and man enough. Cut men some slacks, call a spade a spade. Tell the woman that she is wrong and she should find a way to fix it.

MrBrownJay1:
again, the current beef needs to be squashed before they can look within and fix whats wrong with their marriage. SHE created this madness thus SHE should be the one asking for forgiveness! let her cry, crawl on the floor screaming and/or kneel and beg... but until this is sorted, they cant go nowhere.
now it is obvious the husband is taking this tit for tat to another level, so i suggest she start begging asap before this goes WAY TOO FAR!!

Flame77:
If my wife tries 2 percent of what you did to your husband, she will be a gonner. Oh no my wife can't even try it. I don't beat women oh, in fact I will never do it. And I don't cheat on her, in fact i'll never do it. But in my house, I'm in charge 24/7, I call the shots 100%. I'm the king and she's the queen. As a matter of fact, the fact I'm wrong does not even give her the right to misbehave. My wife? Hung up on me? And went on to ghost me? Ah Jesus! God forbid.

AfroKnight:
All these nonsense women who would offend you and find it difficult to say sorry.

You have finally pushed the innocent man to his breaking point. And yet you still don’t want to apologise. Rubbish.

You have no business being married. You should have remained single so nobody would put up with your foolishness. Meteoritey

VTJN:
Lol


You shouldn't have used the word your boy sir!

This is one of the reason feminist are talking about. Even if you have all boys kids or just a kid which is a boy. You shouldn't have put it in such manner

You make it looks like you're only interested in a boy child

No harm intended

Gracias!

LilMissFavvy:
You need to start aplogising through calls, messages, voice notes.....yes you wronged your husband. Unfortunately he is not mature enough to forgive you and let go easily.

Satan is fighting marriages these days seriously , such that you will see so much ego, anger, unforgiveness over minor issues, how much more serious offense.

Your husband seems all out to embarrass you among your family members and let them know there is a problem in the marriage.

This is the disadvantage of long distance marriage.
Appologise with speed.

MrBrownJay1:
no matter how you wanna look at this issue, the woman IS/WAS wrong and she started AND fuelled this madness. as i stated, she needs to look within herself whats bothering her but ultimately something got to give, and by the look of things husband is not letting go after 5months (aka he is better at this childish "silent treatment" game than she is). so that childish woman better open her eyes, give in and hope that husband forgives her childish actions.

victorazy:
As a wife, if you like buy me whole world if you don't respect me, your gone. Like your husband, I can't stand it too.

Fahvvy:
You had an argument with your hubby over the phone...
You hung up on him before he could say his peace...
Avoided his calls consecutively for 4days...
Cut him off completely for 9weeks...

And then out of the blues, you send a completely unrelated message without first trying to resolve the old issue and you expect him to be cool with that?
You expect to just come through for you because you finally reached out to him?
LMAO ...

My dear...
The same way you took the initiative to start this matter is the same way you should take the initiative to end it...

The fact that you felt comfortable cutting your hubby off for 9 full weeks is proof that this is not the first time you have given him the cold shoulder over minor issues such as this and so Oga is fed up ...

MrBrownJay1:
you made a few mistakes (and so did he)...
A) just because you work hard, never assume that others dont (simply because you dont see/feel it)
B) cutting off your husand and giving him the silent treatment for NINE WEEKS is insane. is that not the father of your kids any longer?!?! why such harsh treatment?
C) your husband is as childish as you are and now playing your own game by ignoring you for months... blame y'all childish self, which ultimately will only hurt the children.
D) look within yourself to see what is bothering you so much that you could take such a small statement from your husband, and turn ii into such a big deal... then put your pride aside, get down on your knees and beg him to forgive you (because it is obvious, you aint gonna win at this "childish" game)

Nemesis0147:
May we not be at the wrong place at the wrong time.

And be mindful of the friends you hangout with....having a cultist as a close friend is one of the most dangerous thing to do in this life.

Klass99:

GloriousGbola:
don't worry - its not just limited to women - i also have big behind and back in uni some guys in an adjoining room who were beefing me said the same thing - na shit full him yansh